It’s not often that I come across a book that totally brings together, in one coherent statement, the truth about life and humanity I have realized through nearly a half-century of living. Dr. Caroline Leaf does just that in her recent tome, Think, Learn, Succeed.
Before I explain a bit about this book and why it resonates with me so very much, I must explain my own life. As a former minister, social worker, and now educator, I am very familiar with a wide variety of theories as to why people behave the way they do. Wearing a Protestant Christian hat, I might suggest that one’s relationship with God isn’t right and one is succumbing to whatever the temptation du jour might be, thus denying the Holy Spirit control of one’s life and behavior. As a social worker, I would cite issues in the macro environment that are creating barriers to healthy decision making, perhaps such that the neural pathways in the brain have been altered to cause poor reasoning. And as an educator – especially in today’s trauma-informed education system (another topic for another day), I would look to trauma and lack of safety in the environment as the cause of disruptive and maladaptive behavior…who cares about learning when one is barely surviving?
Are any of those theories necessarily wrong? No…and yes. The issue that I have with each one of them is that they all create victims. However you look poor behavior, lack of success, or overall dissatisfaction in life, the last thing that will help is saying “It’s not your fault – you’re a victim of life, a product of your circumstances – there’s nothing you can really do about it (but feel guilty, pray more, pay for even more therapy, or just settle for less).
Dr. Leaf, a neuroscientist, uses this book, and the mental exercises therein, to help the reader deconstruct victim mentality and take back control over their own mind. This demonstrates just how not only resilient we human beings are, but how fluid, flexible, and moldable our minds are…and how we are absolutely in control of it, not the other way around. In fact, she goes so far as to say that we are 90-99% MIND. We are primarily beings of spirit, not flesh, and how we think determines our actions, which determines the course of our lives. “Our thoughts can improve our peace, health, vision, fitness, strength, and much more. The ability to think, feel, and choose and build thoughts into mindsets is one of the most powerful things in the universe, because this power is the source of all human creativity and imagination…Where your mind goes, your life follows” (p. 38) (emphasis added).
As a Christian, a person who believes in the inspiration of the Bible as the Word of God, I can say that this book of science aligns itself perfectly with the ancient wisdom found in the book of Romans, chapter 12, verse 2: “Be ye transformed by the renewing of your minds.” Regardless of your faith convictions, or lack of them, if you’re up for an intellectual challenge (she is a neuroscientist, remember – there are certainly some LONG WORDS in here!) and are ready to literally transform your life, read this book.