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A CHiP on my Shoulder: How to Love and Support Your Cop

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THE award-winning* go-to book for spouses of law enforcement officers based on the input of over 1000 police families, updated research, and the author's experience of 30 years of marriage to a California Highway Patrolman. Support, encouragement, proven tips and positive perspectives that support both the home and the law enforcement career. This third edition is completely updated with an updated title and cover, new publisher, and the addition of 30K words. Better than ever! *This book was awarded First Place by the Public Safety Writer's Association in the Published Nonfiction category.

218 pages, Paperback

First published January 1, 2011

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Victoria M. Newman

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August 9, 2018
Wonderful read. Full of great insight and wisdom from a leo wife of 30 years. Highly recommend to any cop wife or military spouse. It covers a very wide range of topics...everything from PTSD to finances.
Well worth the read!
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December 27, 2025
Someone who knows what it’s like to be married to law enforcement! What a great book! I would recommend this to anyone who is new to the force and the seasoned LEO wives. It’s hard being married, it is even harder being married to someone who has pledged their allegiance to serve and protect.
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June 30, 2019
I really appreciated her insight in to LEOW life. There were many things she mentioned that I had not been aware of before.
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April 4, 2013
If you're a police wife, RUN to get this book. I wish I had this at the start of my marriage. It wouldn've saved so much heartache. As a ten-year LEOW, I've seen most of the pitfalls of being married to a cop. Please, save yourself the trouble and invest in this book. You'll be thankful later.
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June 11, 2012
(Great book for anyone married to a law enforcement officer, it is filled with a ton of advice on how to keep your marriage at its best).
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May 27, 2021
A must read for anyone that has a law enforcement officer in their life.
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