Reading through an advanced copy of Live to Forgive I can't help remembering Paul Tripp telling us relationships are messy.
In a way that no longer is the norm, my new internet friend @Jason Romano pens with raw transparent candor how the path to forgiveness can take us through so many valleys, but more than ever on the other side, how through God's grip of grace, He can bring peace, hope, and perseverance where we only see dispair.
He writes, "my father- a man who loved his family and wanted to give his sons a special experience, yet a man who interrupted those memories with his alcohol abuse".
"Sadness and grief are essential in bringing awareness to the depth of the wound."
"When evaluating past trauma and pain, our suffering savior is there to guide us and enter into our wounds with us."
During this time of year we so often are reminded of a relationship that we thought would/should bring us security, normality, and joy. But now we are constant reminded it is full of pain and disappointment- Do we forgive? Can we forgive?