Moss Side, Manchester during the 1960s and 70s as seen through the eyes of an Irish Traveller child. A community rich with diverse cultures, humour and warmth; but behind closed doors, mopping up her Mother’s blood became a gruesome task all too familiar in a world of domestic violence, oppression and neglect. A story of alcohol fuelled domestic abuse, of secret lives beyond the windows veiled by the pristine white net curtains; which proudly proclaimed a women’s worth as much as a black eye marked her not as a victim, but as a man’s property. Though amidst the stark reality of a bygone era, there is also an affectionate account of love and family bonds on a street that often echoed with the sounds of children’s laughter.
I thought this book would be interesting as I imagined it would talk about traditional gypsy ways and lifestyle. However it wasn’t about the gypsy life at all really, mainly about domestic violence and abuse and growing up in old terraces houses in Manchester . I still enjoyed the book although they were some spelling and grammar errors throughout.
I found this a very well written account of a young girls family life. I am a traveller but was brought up in Brick mixing with two breads of people. Travellers and Gorgis. Good and bad in both. Sometimes hard to work out whom I was. My parents taught me there ways but also allowing me to progress with education and to find a happy medium to both Traveller and Gorgy ways. I am proud to be who I am just like the girl in this story.
Listened to to the audiobook; the reader was delightful! 😊 Made a “just okay” story worth finishing. The author says she is (or was) an Irish Traveler, but from her writing it seems her family didn’t actually live that lifestyle as she was growing up. It’s a short book that focuses more on the dysfunction of her family than the uniqueness of the Traveler life.
An insight into the quite secret life of Travellers instead of the ridiculous image portrayed in Big Fat Gypsy Weddings. Shows also the change in society for all minorities. Liked how we got to find out how life panned out for them
Would love to read more in depth about Margaret Marys life moving on into adult hood. Domestic violence bred in the home but now the circle is broken as she works with other victims
I was disappointed with this book personally. I thought it would be more of an insight into traveller life but although her family background is travellers I don't feel she really had that type of life.