"Steve and Rhonda Stoppe debunk misleading myths with grace, humor, and candor and leave you with hope that your marriage can become more than the stuff of your dreams." Richard Blackaby, PhD Grow Your Marriage One Step at a Time Imagine if your good friends were a couple dedicated to help you build the marriage you've always dreamed of. Steve and Rhonda are that couple. After three decades of helping couples build no-regrets marriages, the Stoppes have compiled their success secrets into this easy-to-read, fun, and interactive book. It will help you ... Every page feels like a candid conversation with a friend. You will laugh and learn from a biblical perspective the secrets to enjoying a marriage that lasts a lifetime.
Rhonda Stoppe is an accomplished and enthusiastic Christian speaker who has spent more than 20 years in ministry to youth and women. Also a pastor's wife, she and her husband, Steve, minister in Northern California and have four grown children--two sons and two daughters.
The big take-out for me is "Marriage is not the final destination to happiness..." Make God your anchor and focus on pleasing him and finding rest in him and other things will be added unto you.
There are notes from the husband of the author so it gives both a female and male view to various topics for married people and those looking to marry/re-marry.
It may have started slow but picked up in the end. I appreciate books that tell more stories examples than over explaining information previously stated (not to include scripture.) This book is headed in the right direction. It is written primarily for the wife, but includes small summaries for the men written by the husband.
This book is thought-provoking and has some great biblical points about marriage! I am newly married and love reading biblical wisdom from couples! I like that this book has the perspective from the wife as well as the husband, however the husband portion is a LOT shorter than the wife portion and I’m not sure why. Like I said there are some great points in this book that are so important to remember, but there were also a few examples in this book that did not make sense from a biblical perspective or left out biblical contexts.
I am in awe of how many couples reach out to tell us how much they have learned from this book. The book clearly lays out practical principles for husbands and wives. Reading through the pages feels like you’re sitting with the authors having a conversation over coffee with friends.