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Dancing Over the Hill
The hilarious and poignant new novel from the best selling author of The Kicking the Bucket List.
When a boxset of Broadchurch is more appealing than having sex with your husband, then perhaps it’s time to hide the remote…
Cait and Matt have been married for 30 years. They are rock solid; an inspiration to others; stuck together like glue – aren’t they?
But Cait can’t shake off the feeling that something is missing. They are fit and healthy, if a bit skint – but the whole world should be their oyster now that Matt has retired, giving them the time to do those things that really matter – and more importantly – together. So why is she left wondering if this is all there is? Has Matt always been this annoying and infuriating? And where have those ants-in-her-pants suddenly come from?
It’s not helped by the reappearance in her life of Tom Lewis, the love of her life who broke her heart at university and who, despite the fact she hasn’t she hasn't seen him for decades, is still exerting his magnetic pull.
Her friends are Lorna, who recently lost her husband, and Debs whose husband recently left her. The three women must all question what they want out of the rest of their lives – and how they are going to get it…
448 pages, Paperback
First published December 14, 2017
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January 9, 2018
Cathy Hopkins follows up The Kicking the Bucket List with this humorous and witty look at the dynamics and relationship of a couple, Cait and Matt, now in their early sixties in a 30 year marriage that is fraying at the edges. The children have left home, Matt has been pushed into early retirement and it becomes increasingly obvious that the couple have little in common. Cait is ripe for something new, a little excitement to bring verve back into her life, and this is provided by the entry of an old flame from university who broke her heart, Tom Lewis. Tom gets in touch via Facebook with provocative and complimentary comments, and unsurprisingly Cait is tempted. What should she do? With hilarious help and advice from her friends, Debs and Lorna, Cait has to figure out whether her marriage is worth salvaging or whether it is time to carve a new path with a new relationship. Hopkins greatest strength is her ability to portray the emotional lives of her characters with depth. A fun and entertaining read on how a humdrum marriage is faced with challenges. Many thanks to HarperCollins for an ARC.
January 28, 2018
Needing a break from the same old psychological suspense books I usually gravitate towards, I felt I could do with something fun and lighthearted, giving me a good laugh... Upon discovering this gem on Netgalley, I couldn't wait to tuck in...needless to say, I got far more than I was looking for!
In ' Dancing over the Hill', the author does a fantastic job of capturing the twists and turns of a long term 30 year old marriage, a refreshing topic that is not often written about. With me being witness to my parents going through many of the same challenges, I often found myself identifying with the predicaments Cait and Matt found themselves in.
What is most apparent is that Cait and Matt have to learn to reconnect and rediscover each other after raising children and having consuming careers, essentially living separately under the same roof. When their circumstances unexpectedly change, the question is should they continue down the same habitual path or is it time for a different route altogether? With delightful and very colourful characters added to the mix, often playing devil's advocate, the reader is in for a highly entertaining read!
No matter your age, there is something in this for everyone. It had me eagerly turning the pages to discover the fate of this long time couple, yet once I did, I was sad to have the story come to its conclusion.
Humorous , brutally honest and a breath of fresh air, it is impossible to go wrong with this one!
This is my first read by Cathy Hopkins and I am so looking forward to reading much much more of this authors work.
Many thanks to Netgalley, the author and HarperCollins UK, HarperFiction for the opportunity to read an ARC in exchange for my honest opinion of this book. The pleasure was all mine!
In ' Dancing over the Hill', the author does a fantastic job of capturing the twists and turns of a long term 30 year old marriage, a refreshing topic that is not often written about. With me being witness to my parents going through many of the same challenges, I often found myself identifying with the predicaments Cait and Matt found themselves in.
What is most apparent is that Cait and Matt have to learn to reconnect and rediscover each other after raising children and having consuming careers, essentially living separately under the same roof. When their circumstances unexpectedly change, the question is should they continue down the same habitual path or is it time for a different route altogether? With delightful and very colourful characters added to the mix, often playing devil's advocate, the reader is in for a highly entertaining read!
No matter your age, there is something in this for everyone. It had me eagerly turning the pages to discover the fate of this long time couple, yet once I did, I was sad to have the story come to its conclusion.
Humorous , brutally honest and a breath of fresh air, it is impossible to go wrong with this one!
This is my first read by Cathy Hopkins and I am so looking forward to reading much much more of this authors work.
Many thanks to Netgalley, the author and HarperCollins UK, HarperFiction for the opportunity to read an ARC in exchange for my honest opinion of this book. The pleasure was all mine!
January 3, 2018
I read The Kicking the Bucket List so this was a must. I love it when a book makes me giggle chuckle and laugh and this did all that and more, I am of a similar age to these characters so there was so much of me that I could see in them. There is such a raw honesty about the characters in the story that make them feel so very real. This story very much gives you a slap in the face to waken up and stop just getting through each day and start living them. It is then all wrapped up in humour that just cracked me up but still made the point.
Cait and Matt have been married for years, both now in their early sixties they were still working and have their own friends but when Matt is forced into early retirement and Cait has to leave her maternity cover position, they soon realise that they have nothing in common, not even their social lives. Matt withdraws more as he feels in the way in his own home and Cait soon falls prey to an old flame from her university days. Can Cait and Matt rekindle the fire they once had or are they best to go their own ways while they still have chance of an alternate life? Is Cait's old flame her soul mate or is it time to take off the 'rose coloured spectacles' she has worn all these years about him?
There are betrayals of trust and friendships are pushed to the limits as temperatures rise in more ways than one. What I loved about this story is that there were times when Cait and Matt weren't trying to make things work but there was still the basic chemistry. They bounced off each other but it would take more than a little a sparkle from younger days to keep them together.
I really loved how this story has a very modern feel about it. Being in your sixties doesn't mean that you are ready to be put out to grass, there is certainly a lot of living left in Cait and Matt, they just need to decide if what they have is worth fighting for. You could have knocked me down with a feather when I was made to see situations from a different angle. Like wow, is this how I am sort of moments? It really did make me stop and see myself in Cait. A definite mental note of something to be worked on!
Cait's friends come with their own personal baggage, they are both at different ages and different stages in their lives all facing uncertain futures. It gives a good balance, the sort of grass is always greener sort of balance. This is a brilliant all round read that sort of gives you that nudge to take a look at your own life too.
This is a NetGalley review and all my own opinions
Cait and Matt have been married for years, both now in their early sixties they were still working and have their own friends but when Matt is forced into early retirement and Cait has to leave her maternity cover position, they soon realise that they have nothing in common, not even their social lives. Matt withdraws more as he feels in the way in his own home and Cait soon falls prey to an old flame from her university days. Can Cait and Matt rekindle the fire they once had or are they best to go their own ways while they still have chance of an alternate life? Is Cait's old flame her soul mate or is it time to take off the 'rose coloured spectacles' she has worn all these years about him?
There are betrayals of trust and friendships are pushed to the limits as temperatures rise in more ways than one. What I loved about this story is that there were times when Cait and Matt weren't trying to make things work but there was still the basic chemistry. They bounced off each other but it would take more than a little a sparkle from younger days to keep them together.
I really loved how this story has a very modern feel about it. Being in your sixties doesn't mean that you are ready to be put out to grass, there is certainly a lot of living left in Cait and Matt, they just need to decide if what they have is worth fighting for. You could have knocked me down with a feather when I was made to see situations from a different angle. Like wow, is this how I am sort of moments? It really did make me stop and see myself in Cait. A definite mental note of something to be worked on!
Cait's friends come with their own personal baggage, they are both at different ages and different stages in their lives all facing uncertain futures. It gives a good balance, the sort of grass is always greener sort of balance. This is a brilliant all round read that sort of gives you that nudge to take a look at your own life too.
This is a NetGalley review and all my own opinions
December 27, 2017
"Dancing Over the Hill" is my second Cathy Hopkins's book and oh my word, guys, I just can't wait for more! It was a read filled with fun, laughter and tenderness and it just spoke with me and resonated with me and it was all what I needed at the moment. I was immersed in the story from the very first page, guys, and I really didn't want to put this book down. It was truly fast - paced but not over - done, it was full of brilliant, larger than life characters that the author so incredibly well brought to life, and it just rang a bell or two, it was so relatable. It was also brutally honest and absolutely hilarious, so really, just the best kind of read, evah. I had great expectations for this book, after reading Cathy's previous one, "The Kicking the Bucket List" and I was not disappointed, I probably liked "Dancing Over the Hill" even more.
What I absolutely liked in this story is the fact that the characters are mature ones - people with past, who experienced a lot and they really know what they're talking about. They make mistakes, and oh boy, some really great mistakes, but they are so genuine and honest in all the situations and I just couldn't help and kept everything crossed for them. Cait and Matt have been married for more than 30 years now and they find themselves in a relationship that's, let's say, came to a little standstill. They don't have anything in common anymore, and they just live in one house, next to each other, but as if separate - if you follow me. Probably more out of habit than anything else they're still together. Then, after a whirlwind of events, they find themselves both out of work and the big question, what now, is looming above their heads, and it's not only about their financial situation but also their private lives. Do they want to stay together? It's not so straightforward, as an old flame of Cait suddenly appears on her Facebook, sending her friend request and trying to seduce her again. Then there are also Cait's friends, Lorna and Debs, trying their best to help as best they can, that doesn't always end well, and Matt's brother (oh boy. Guys! Some of the most hilarious scenes I've ever read, please be careful when you decide to talk sex on the phone with your husband!) and Cait's father, and many, many other characters and things. They were open for new stuff and to learn a new lesson or two.
Really guys, there was not a single thing that I didn't enjoy in this novel. It was down to earth and close to life, and with some best one - liners ever. The dialogues were just spot - on, so realistic and genuine, and the situations the characters got themselves into were incredibly hilarious but not too far fetched. There were so many situations that made me laugh out loud, and I fell for all of the characters, that Cathy Hopkins so easily and effortlessly brought to life. She can so well write about feelings and emotions, it was absolutely brilliant. The chapters were just the right length, snappy and kept me glued to the pages.
Cathy Hopkins deserves so much more recognition, and believe me, I'll be shouting about "Dancing Over the Hill" from all the rooftops! This book made me laugh so hard and I couldn't wait to discover what's going to happen. It is this best kind of book when you want to turn the pages as quickly as possible but on the other hand you don't want it to end. It was a brilliant, entertaining story about love, family and finding your priorities, relationships and seeing that grass is not always greener on the other side. It had me emotionally involved and just pushed all the right buttons for me, and I really can't recommend it highly enough! A perfect read!
Copy provided by the publisher in return for an honest review.
January 25, 2018
Cait has lost two very important people in her life and it's made her think about the goals and dreams she still has. She's in her sixties and has been married to Matt for 30 years. Most of those years were happy, but lately Cait has the feeling something is missing. They are living in the same house, but lead separate lives. When Matt involuntarily retires and Cait loses her part time job this becomes even more of a problem, because now they're together constantly, irritating one another. They don't talk, there's friction and they don't feel attracted to each other any longer.
When Tom, Cait's first real love, contacts her again, Cait feels flattered. Especially when Tom makes it clear he'd like to get together again. Cait discusses her relationship problems with her good friends instead of her husband. She shares more with them than she does with Matt. They give her advice on how to solve her problems, but is Cait willing to listen to it? Is there really no way to rescue the relationship between Cait and Matt? Is the magical feeling they had all those years completely gone? Will Cait be happier with Tom? What should she decide and what will Matt do when he finds out his wife is no longer happy with him?
Dancing Over the Hill is a wonderful heartwarming story. Cait is a kindhearted woman with an active social life. She writes, sings, exercises, hangs out with friends and when there's time left she watches television with Matt. Matt is a gentle man, but he isn't very insightful when it comes to feelings. He doesn't see Cait isn't happy until she spells it out for him and then so much has happened already, things that can't easily be fixed. I liked both Cait and Matt a lot, they're amazing people who suddenly have to make many unexpected adjustments and this makes them vulnerable. It was interesting to see where this would lead and Cathy Hopkins tells their story with plenty of empathy and wit.
Dancing Over the Hill is a funny story and I often had to laugh out loud while reading it. Cathy Hopkins has a fantastic sense of humor that combines incredibly well with the subject matter. I like the open and honest way Cathy Hopkins describes what it feels like to retire early unexpectedly. She does this in a great warm way that made my heart melt. The relationship between Matt and Cait is complex, but they have many years of good memories they shouldn't forget and I was anxious to find out if that would save them or not. I loved the ending of the story, the title is fantastic and fitting and I was spellbound from beginning to end. Dancing Over the Hill is an entertaining, energetic, charming story and I absolutely loved this gem of a book.
When Tom, Cait's first real love, contacts her again, Cait feels flattered. Especially when Tom makes it clear he'd like to get together again. Cait discusses her relationship problems with her good friends instead of her husband. She shares more with them than she does with Matt. They give her advice on how to solve her problems, but is Cait willing to listen to it? Is there really no way to rescue the relationship between Cait and Matt? Is the magical feeling they had all those years completely gone? Will Cait be happier with Tom? What should she decide and what will Matt do when he finds out his wife is no longer happy with him?
Dancing Over the Hill is a wonderful heartwarming story. Cait is a kindhearted woman with an active social life. She writes, sings, exercises, hangs out with friends and when there's time left she watches television with Matt. Matt is a gentle man, but he isn't very insightful when it comes to feelings. He doesn't see Cait isn't happy until she spells it out for him and then so much has happened already, things that can't easily be fixed. I liked both Cait and Matt a lot, they're amazing people who suddenly have to make many unexpected adjustments and this makes them vulnerable. It was interesting to see where this would lead and Cathy Hopkins tells their story with plenty of empathy and wit.
Dancing Over the Hill is a funny story and I often had to laugh out loud while reading it. Cathy Hopkins has a fantastic sense of humor that combines incredibly well with the subject matter. I like the open and honest way Cathy Hopkins describes what it feels like to retire early unexpectedly. She does this in a great warm way that made my heart melt. The relationship between Matt and Cait is complex, but they have many years of good memories they shouldn't forget and I was anxious to find out if that would save them or not. I loved the ending of the story, the title is fantastic and fitting and I was spellbound from beginning to end. Dancing Over the Hill is an entertaining, energetic, charming story and I absolutely loved this gem of a book.
May 3, 2019
I've not read any books by this author before and I now want to read more as this book was brilliant so well written and has you hooked straight away and you want to know what will happen. The characters are brilliant and its heartwarming and a warm read while also funny and romantic and friendship. The main character has to learn what it is she wants in life and will she choose the right one.
Cait and Matt have been married for 30 years and always thought they were rock solid but Matt looses his job and is at home all the time and the job Cait has been in has come to an end to. She is busy with different things and she has also lost a close friend and her mum in the last year and she has stayed strong for her dad and family. She has close friends and they all support each other but when Cait gets a friend request from an old flame from years ago called Tom and he wants to meet up and when she sees him she feels a strong pull to him but will she stay with Matt or leave him. She wants to give Matt a chance and they go to counselling but he knows nothing about Tom would he feel different if he did. Which will Cait do and will her friends support her and will things change or not.
A great read worth more than five stars
Cait and Matt have been married for 30 years and always thought they were rock solid but Matt looses his job and is at home all the time and the job Cait has been in has come to an end to. She is busy with different things and she has also lost a close friend and her mum in the last year and she has stayed strong for her dad and family. She has close friends and they all support each other but when Cait gets a friend request from an old flame from years ago called Tom and he wants to meet up and when she sees him she feels a strong pull to him but will she stay with Matt or leave him. She wants to give Matt a chance and they go to counselling but he knows nothing about Tom would he feel different if he did. Which will Cait do and will her friends support her and will things change or not.
A great read worth more than five stars
January 20, 2018
A light hearted look at what happens to a couple who unexpectedly find themselves retired. This is bang up to date with Cait’s old lover returning to her life by a Facebook friend request. Most folk will have taken a Facebook quiz or watched funny animal clips rather than work and will relate to Cait. There were a couple of surprising moments and I like that the story wasn’t always predictable.
My thanks to HarperCollins UK for the copy of Dancing Over the Hill received via NetGalley
My thanks to HarperCollins UK for the copy of Dancing Over the Hill received via NetGalley
December 14, 2017
Dancing over the hill by Cathy Hopkins a funny, laughter filled five-star read. This was one of those books you pick up because you recognise the author and then as soon as you start to think of reading it, wonder what if the author isn’t as good as you remember, I’m glad to say that it was possibly better. I know the book is telling the story of a couple who have been married 30 years, but that’s not everything, its more the relationship between Cait and Matt and their relationships with themselves. No matter what your relationship status or age you will find something in this story that will suck you in and make you laugh so hard you will spit the tea your drinking several times!! So be warned don’t drink and read. Lorna and Debs bring some great comedic moments as well as posing as devil’s advocate and offering advise that may or may not be taken. As we all know you need to follow your own path at times, as if you are already wondering what if, only finding out will settle your brain from asking what if. But what level do you look? Do you scratch the surface or pull all the covers back, that’s what Cait has to figure out when the man who broke her heart in uni comes a knocking? Will you follow Cait on her journey? And give this book a chance? I would suggest that you do it’s well worth a chance.
July 31, 2020
I loved the book!! Hilarious it was, even though it delt with a pretty serious topic. It was for me a big break from the depressing pandemic that's surrounding us all.
I could compare my situation with what Cait and Matt were going through. a very smooth, pleasant, uplifting story. I loved all the characters in the book even the ones who popped in briefly..all of them left a mark in the story. Different dimensions to the story was impressive. Compactly written, no loose ends.
The story is filled with love! Love for animals, love for garden, love between friends, father-daughter, husband-wife, parents-offsprings, and so much more! And where there is love there is respect, care, compassion, support and kindness, and this story was no different. The anger, fear, jealously gave a twist and depth not only to all the positive emotions but also to the story itself. Hurt, pain, grief and loss was depicted remarkably without affecting the humorous nature of the story.
I loved Yoda and his attitude :D
Cait's resentments, Matt's aloofness made the story homely.
Few things that stood out for me:
Everyone of us has a choice irrespective of what the situation is and we have to choose (not choosing is also a choice) and yet not without the consequences.
Very inspiring. And it's never too late to make an effort and improve our situation with whatever we have and right when life seems to be taking a turn for good we have surprises and there is always something to learn from everyone of those!
Above all a happy book and at the same time not a fairly tale!
And the river flows on!!
I would recommend it to anyone who wants a light read to relax and get away from clutter!
Happy reading!!
I could compare my situation with what Cait and Matt were going through. a very smooth, pleasant, uplifting story. I loved all the characters in the book even the ones who popped in briefly..all of them left a mark in the story. Different dimensions to the story was impressive. Compactly written, no loose ends.
The story is filled with love! Love for animals, love for garden, love between friends, father-daughter, husband-wife, parents-offsprings, and so much more! And where there is love there is respect, care, compassion, support and kindness, and this story was no different. The anger, fear, jealously gave a twist and depth not only to all the positive emotions but also to the story itself. Hurt, pain, grief and loss was depicted remarkably without affecting the humorous nature of the story.
I loved Yoda and his attitude :D
Cait's resentments, Matt's aloofness made the story homely.
Few things that stood out for me:
Everyone of us has a choice irrespective of what the situation is and we have to choose (not choosing is also a choice) and yet not without the consequences.
Very inspiring. And it's never too late to make an effort and improve our situation with whatever we have and right when life seems to be taking a turn for good we have surprises and there is always something to learn from everyone of those!
Above all a happy book and at the same time not a fairly tale!
And the river flows on!!
I would recommend it to anyone who wants a light read to relax and get away from clutter!
Happy reading!!
February 15, 2018
3.5 stars.
A warm-hearted look at what love means and how it changes as you get older.
Our main character and her husband are in their sixties, the children have left home and they have somewhat lost their passion. He’s made redundant and it becomes clear how they’ve got into a pattern of behaviour that might not be sustainable. So, what’s the answer?
Good-humoured exploration of romance and how our expectations of relationships shift as we spend time together.
Thankfully, nothing too extreme here. Entertaining and some of the lessons might well be relevant for anyone, of any age.
Thanks to NetGalley for the opportunity to read this in exchange for my thoughts.
A warm-hearted look at what love means and how it changes as you get older.
Our main character and her husband are in their sixties, the children have left home and they have somewhat lost their passion. He’s made redundant and it becomes clear how they’ve got into a pattern of behaviour that might not be sustainable. So, what’s the answer?
Good-humoured exploration of romance and how our expectations of relationships shift as we spend time together.
Thankfully, nothing too extreme here. Entertaining and some of the lessons might well be relevant for anyone, of any age.
Thanks to NetGalley for the opportunity to read this in exchange for my thoughts.
January 17, 2018
Sixty is the new forty.
From the author of Kicking the Bucket List, this hilarious new novel will make you laugh, cry and take stock of your life.
Cait and Matt have been married for thirty years and things have gone stale in their relationship. One day Matt loses his job and, with him at home, things become even more strained. Out of the blue Cait hears from an old flame who wants to rekindle their long-lost love.
Should Cait try a new life with this old flame or should she work on resolving the problems of her long and safe marriage?
This book had me laughing and crying and thinking. Ms Hopkins has written this book in a way that you can not help but compare Cait and Matt’s lives with your own. The lists are just like I write, as are the aches, pains and annoyances of living with someone. This book is spot on. Although I am not quite in my 60s, like the main characters, I am not far behind and can relate to many of the problems and grievances in the story.
Very thought provoking and I have absolutely no criticism at all. I am going to read her other book immediately as I am a new fan on Cathy Hopkins!!!
Shesat
Breakaway Reviewers received a copy of the book to review.
From the author of Kicking the Bucket List, this hilarious new novel will make you laugh, cry and take stock of your life.
Cait and Matt have been married for thirty years and things have gone stale in their relationship. One day Matt loses his job and, with him at home, things become even more strained. Out of the blue Cait hears from an old flame who wants to rekindle their long-lost love.
Should Cait try a new life with this old flame or should she work on resolving the problems of her long and safe marriage?
This book had me laughing and crying and thinking. Ms Hopkins has written this book in a way that you can not help but compare Cait and Matt’s lives with your own. The lists are just like I write, as are the aches, pains and annoyances of living with someone. This book is spot on. Although I am not quite in my 60s, like the main characters, I am not far behind and can relate to many of the problems and grievances in the story.
Very thought provoking and I have absolutely no criticism at all. I am going to read her other book immediately as I am a new fan on Cathy Hopkins!!!
Shesat
Breakaway Reviewers received a copy of the book to review.
April 15, 2018
Fairly standard tale but well handled and some really nice moments
October 7, 2018
Good book for me cause I’ve been married a long time 😂
June 10, 2020
Not a bad little book, easy read & storyline could have been bit more exciting but nevertheless I did enjoy it.
March 19, 2018
laughed out loud at so much of this book really cheered me up
January 15, 2018
This book made me chuckle, made me think and made me reach out and hug my long suffering hubby that little bit tighter. He did ask me if I was cold!!
Cait and Matt are at a bit of a cross roads both newly unemployed and feeling a lack of purpose and , with their children having flown the nest, a lack of feeling needed and loved. They have got into a rut borne of habit and living separate busy lives. The frustrations that they share with us are very real and would resonate with most people of a similar age and experience. These are portrayed with warmth and humour whilst not shying away from how hard it can be to live in this detached way. Both face temptation and with the help of a little counselling (hilariously and movingly described) begin to communicate again. The supporting characters add to this book but never take away from our focus couple which is absolutely right! A really lovely book.
Now to go and book that date night...
Cait and Matt are at a bit of a cross roads both newly unemployed and feeling a lack of purpose and , with their children having flown the nest, a lack of feeling needed and loved. They have got into a rut borne of habit and living separate busy lives. The frustrations that they share with us are very real and would resonate with most people of a similar age and experience. These are portrayed with warmth and humour whilst not shying away from how hard it can be to live in this detached way. Both face temptation and with the help of a little counselling (hilariously and movingly described) begin to communicate again. The supporting characters add to this book but never take away from our focus couple which is absolutely right! A really lovely book.
Now to go and book that date night...
January 26, 2018
I fancied reading something light and humorous after finishing quite a serious book and I thought this was an excellent choice. It made me laugh in places but it was also very interesting in that it was looking at a time of life that is rarely written about.
Cait and Matt have been married for 30 years with two grown up sons who have left home. Matt produces documentary films for a Tv company and Cait works part time in a doctors but fills her days and evenings with friends, hobbies, writing a children,s book in fact anything that gets her out the house! Cait and Matt are like ships that pass in the night. They rarely discuss anything and Cait feels their marriage is stale. Both have turned 60 and Cait yearns for a more exciting way go spend her latter years.
Suddenly Matt is made redundant and is forced into retirement and Cait loses her temporary job. They have to spend more time together at home and neither one of them finds it easy; Matt feels lost and doesn’t get dressed till late in the morning and Kate is sick of seeing him in his dressing gown! Kate misses having time to herself and retreats to her study and the bathroom in order to avoid being bothered by Matt. Things deteriorate rapidly and then Cait hears from an old flame via Facebook. She has not seen him for 40 years and this is the catalyst for her to reassess her situation. What does she really want?
This is a great read and there is something in it for everyone. It is told from Cait’s point of view but we also get first person chapters from Matt which highlights their lack of communication. I felt empathy for both characters who are so well drawn. Cait’s friends Debs and Lorna are also brilliant and Debs in particular injects some real humour into the book.
I raced through this novel eager to find out what the future held for Matt and Cait.
Issues about retirement which are raised in this book resonated with me as I approach that age. I also loved Matt’s lists at the back of the novel which are of things to do in retirement and of people who achieved greatness after the age of 50. Very inspiring.
I shall certainly recommend this book to all my friends and will be looking out for Cathy Hopkin’s other novels. A five star read and perfect for fans of Marian Keyes and Jojo Moyes.
Thanks to NetGalley and the publishers for my arc in exchange for an honest review.
Cait and Matt have been married for 30 years with two grown up sons who have left home. Matt produces documentary films for a Tv company and Cait works part time in a doctors but fills her days and evenings with friends, hobbies, writing a children,s book in fact anything that gets her out the house! Cait and Matt are like ships that pass in the night. They rarely discuss anything and Cait feels their marriage is stale. Both have turned 60 and Cait yearns for a more exciting way go spend her latter years.
Suddenly Matt is made redundant and is forced into retirement and Cait loses her temporary job. They have to spend more time together at home and neither one of them finds it easy; Matt feels lost and doesn’t get dressed till late in the morning and Kate is sick of seeing him in his dressing gown! Kate misses having time to herself and retreats to her study and the bathroom in order to avoid being bothered by Matt. Things deteriorate rapidly and then Cait hears from an old flame via Facebook. She has not seen him for 40 years and this is the catalyst for her to reassess her situation. What does she really want?
This is a great read and there is something in it for everyone. It is told from Cait’s point of view but we also get first person chapters from Matt which highlights their lack of communication. I felt empathy for both characters who are so well drawn. Cait’s friends Debs and Lorna are also brilliant and Debs in particular injects some real humour into the book.
I raced through this novel eager to find out what the future held for Matt and Cait.
Issues about retirement which are raised in this book resonated with me as I approach that age. I also loved Matt’s lists at the back of the novel which are of things to do in retirement and of people who achieved greatness after the age of 50. Very inspiring.
I shall certainly recommend this book to all my friends and will be looking out for Cathy Hopkin’s other novels. A five star read and perfect for fans of Marian Keyes and Jojo Moyes.
Thanks to NetGalley and the publishers for my arc in exchange for an honest review.
February 21, 2018
A fun light-hearted read but with a great underlying story about how the dynamics of a marriage change over the years and as we enter retirement. Add to this, an unexpected redundancy, the death of loved ones, kids leaving home and friends who have been a) widowed and b) left for a younger model, and then a first love reappearing via facebook you have the recipe for an entertaining story. My only complaint was the 60 something main character being given a 20 something name!!
February 20, 2020
If you want try something humorous, fresh or want to get out of that thriller or detective flatness, then this book is for you. This my first read by Cathy Hopkins and literally I want to enjoy more of her work.
It’s a story of an old couple who got retired from their jobs i.e, Cait and Matt. After having a huge successful married life of 30 years, Cait started feeling that something is missing between them. She feels that they have grown apart and eventually she also makes Matt understand that they’re sharing a house not a life. The story is written on the topic which is not often touched. It depicts the story of a couple who is an ideal couple in the society but in reality they’re not sharing the life. They were loyal to each other, they love each other, but the magic or the passion of being together is lost somewhere down the line between their work and responsibilities. They forget that the other one is not a dog who will understand their feelings without any communication. They become more of human-doing rather than human being.
So the story revolves around that how they first understand that they’ve any problem in their marriage and second is to accept it. Because most of the couple don’t consider it as a problem, they think that it’s just a normal scenario that happens with every couple. It depicts that how they determine and make efforts that they want to be together because they love each other, they want to revive that passion, communication and warmness in their relation which was lost in so many years of marriage.
The other thing that I like that they went to a therapist to fix their problem. It’s quite surreal, because we especially talk about Indian culture, an Indian couple will rarely admit that they have communication problem and going to a therapist to fix is might be out of blue moon. So going to a therapist and admit that you have any issue is very courageous and we as a society should always consider it as an easy-peasy thing and shouldn’t put our nose in their issues.
Also, one of my habits that this book revived me is of making to do list for each day. One day at a time. I remember when I was small I used to make a list of things I need to do. I used to write their everything like of study, make-up, shopping, tv, party, painting or anything that I want to do in a day and that had continued with me till years. But today I observed that I left this practice a year ago or something like that.
But today this book again makes me realize that I should start that practice again. Catt and Matt both love to write the things they want to do. Their habits, hobbies, chores, outing place everything. They write the hobbies they want to pursue together. Especially Catt, she daily makes to do list. So I’m again going to revive that practice and urge you also to do that. Because when at night you tick on acts you accomplish, it’ll give you a sense of fulfillment and euphoria.
At last I’ll sum up that the book is filled with all fun, laughter, warmness, goofiness, will fancy you, take your woes and to which you can easily relate to. Read this light work, I bet this won’t disappoint you.
Thanks!
-Maitri Khandelwal
It’s a story of an old couple who got retired from their jobs i.e, Cait and Matt. After having a huge successful married life of 30 years, Cait started feeling that something is missing between them. She feels that they have grown apart and eventually she also makes Matt understand that they’re sharing a house not a life. The story is written on the topic which is not often touched. It depicts the story of a couple who is an ideal couple in the society but in reality they’re not sharing the life. They were loyal to each other, they love each other, but the magic or the passion of being together is lost somewhere down the line between their work and responsibilities. They forget that the other one is not a dog who will understand their feelings without any communication. They become more of human-doing rather than human being.
So the story revolves around that how they first understand that they’ve any problem in their marriage and second is to accept it. Because most of the couple don’t consider it as a problem, they think that it’s just a normal scenario that happens with every couple. It depicts that how they determine and make efforts that they want to be together because they love each other, they want to revive that passion, communication and warmness in their relation which was lost in so many years of marriage.
The other thing that I like that they went to a therapist to fix their problem. It’s quite surreal, because we especially talk about Indian culture, an Indian couple will rarely admit that they have communication problem and going to a therapist to fix is might be out of blue moon. So going to a therapist and admit that you have any issue is very courageous and we as a society should always consider it as an easy-peasy thing and shouldn’t put our nose in their issues.
Also, one of my habits that this book revived me is of making to do list for each day. One day at a time. I remember when I was small I used to make a list of things I need to do. I used to write their everything like of study, make-up, shopping, tv, party, painting or anything that I want to do in a day and that had continued with me till years. But today I observed that I left this practice a year ago or something like that.
But today this book again makes me realize that I should start that practice again. Catt and Matt both love to write the things they want to do. Their habits, hobbies, chores, outing place everything. They write the hobbies they want to pursue together. Especially Catt, she daily makes to do list. So I’m again going to revive that practice and urge you also to do that. Because when at night you tick on acts you accomplish, it’ll give you a sense of fulfillment and euphoria.
At last I’ll sum up that the book is filled with all fun, laughter, warmness, goofiness, will fancy you, take your woes and to which you can easily relate to. Read this light work, I bet this won’t disappoint you.
Thanks!
-Maitri Khandelwal
July 30, 2018
I was looking forward to getting tucked into this one, after the books I’ve been reading lately I decided I needed something a little bit more light-hearted and thought that Dancing Over The Hill would fit the bill.
It certainly ticked the box, I was laughing at most of the senior moments that Cait and was only slightly concerned that I have been known to have some of these moments myself and I’m a way off my sixties, but the story also managed to be a lot more insightful than I expected as well. At the heart of the story is an exploration into relationships, how they change and the effort it takes to make them work.
Whilst Cait and Matt are in their sixties and facing the extra challenge of retirement I felt like I could so relate to the issues they are facing in their relationship. I think every couple has a few moments where they wonder if they’ve fallen into too comfortable a rhythm with each other and the way this was approached in the book was brilliant, I know that I would have been cracking up alongside Cait at some of the things Matt doesn’t do.
Cait was brilliant, I loved that she also sometimes gets a bit carried away with quizzes on Facebook instead of the jobs she thought she should be doing. I really liked that she was a free spirit and was her own person and didn’t settle for just doing everything for the family. I think though what I liked most about her was that she was flawed, she didn’t always do the right thing or behave perfectly but that she was ultimately able to take responsibility for her actions.
It was great that we also got to hear from Matt, it’s so true that sometimes we expect people to be mindreaders so it was good that we got to see his side of the story at points as well and how he perceived Cait. Her friends Lorna and Debs were also great additions, they were both polar opposites and so were great for advice.
The one thing that bothered me a little is that there is a bit of an issue between Cait and Debs at one point and it wasn’t exactly resolved by the end. I can kind of see why because another good few chapters could have been dedicated to it and it still maybe wouldn’t have resolved itself, but I don’t know personally I maybe would have preferred a little bit more of a decisive action instead of it being left so open.
I really enjoyed this book and was delighted that it still had that light-hearted side whilst at the same time being heart-warming and giving me a lot to think about. I will certainly be looking out for more books from Cathy Hopkins in the future.
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It certainly ticked the box, I was laughing at most of the senior moments that Cait and was only slightly concerned that I have been known to have some of these moments myself and I’m a way off my sixties, but the story also managed to be a lot more insightful than I expected as well. At the heart of the story is an exploration into relationships, how they change and the effort it takes to make them work.
Whilst Cait and Matt are in their sixties and facing the extra challenge of retirement I felt like I could so relate to the issues they are facing in their relationship. I think every couple has a few moments where they wonder if they’ve fallen into too comfortable a rhythm with each other and the way this was approached in the book was brilliant, I know that I would have been cracking up alongside Cait at some of the things Matt doesn’t do.
Cait was brilliant, I loved that she also sometimes gets a bit carried away with quizzes on Facebook instead of the jobs she thought she should be doing. I really liked that she was a free spirit and was her own person and didn’t settle for just doing everything for the family. I think though what I liked most about her was that she was flawed, she didn’t always do the right thing or behave perfectly but that she was ultimately able to take responsibility for her actions.
It was great that we also got to hear from Matt, it’s so true that sometimes we expect people to be mindreaders so it was good that we got to see his side of the story at points as well and how he perceived Cait. Her friends Lorna and Debs were also great additions, they were both polar opposites and so were great for advice.
The one thing that bothered me a little is that there is a bit of an issue between Cait and Debs at one point and it wasn’t exactly resolved by the end. I can kind of see why because another good few chapters could have been dedicated to it and it still maybe wouldn’t have resolved itself, but I don’t know personally I maybe would have preferred a little bit more of a decisive action instead of it being left so open.
I really enjoyed this book and was delighted that it still had that light-hearted side whilst at the same time being heart-warming and giving me a lot to think about. I will certainly be looking out for more books from Cathy Hopkins in the future.
Originally posted on everywhere and nowhere
April 11, 2018
Life can begin again at 50.....
"Dancing Over the Hill" charts the lives of a couple, Cait and Matt, as they ease into the second half of their lives. Although happily married, they come to question the direction of their separate and conjoined lives. Readers of a similar age group will no doubt empathise as Cait and Matt find that they face new challenges, not least of which is their marriage. Keen observation and astuteness lie at the heart of this novel. How many times have you forgotten where you put something, searched for hours only to find that it was in front of your eyes, in the usual place, but you blindly somehow didn't see it there? Or got to the top of the stairs and forgotten what you went up for? In Cait's case her glasses go missing and where does she find them? Yes, on her head. I loved Cait's lists, a necessity from 50 on, as forgetfulness appears to creep in. As does complacency. And when confronted with fresh opportunities both Cait and Matt seem to be up for the challenge but in their own separate ways. Both main characters are very realistic, and Cathy Hopkins captures the essential problems besetting couples in this modern age when we can all expect to live longer than our grandparents (on average at least). Matt is effectively "retired" and has to face up to premature retirement. And the financial pressure which often goes with that. He covertly researches past-times to occupy his time whilst Cait faces a slightly different challenge: the reappearance of Tom, an-ex, who she still holds in her affections. As the novel progresses the reader is left to ponder how things will turn out. Will Cait and Matt enter the second half of their lives together or apart? This is a novel for readers of all ages: this is about the ageing process generally as well as specifically.
Permeated by delicate humour and perception this novel makes for a delightful read.
(My review was based on an eBook file provided to me by the publisher. My review is totally independent.)
"Dancing Over the Hill" charts the lives of a couple, Cait and Matt, as they ease into the second half of their lives. Although happily married, they come to question the direction of their separate and conjoined lives. Readers of a similar age group will no doubt empathise as Cait and Matt find that they face new challenges, not least of which is their marriage. Keen observation and astuteness lie at the heart of this novel. How many times have you forgotten where you put something, searched for hours only to find that it was in front of your eyes, in the usual place, but you blindly somehow didn't see it there? Or got to the top of the stairs and forgotten what you went up for? In Cait's case her glasses go missing and where does she find them? Yes, on her head. I loved Cait's lists, a necessity from 50 on, as forgetfulness appears to creep in. As does complacency. And when confronted with fresh opportunities both Cait and Matt seem to be up for the challenge but in their own separate ways. Both main characters are very realistic, and Cathy Hopkins captures the essential problems besetting couples in this modern age when we can all expect to live longer than our grandparents (on average at least). Matt is effectively "retired" and has to face up to premature retirement. And the financial pressure which often goes with that. He covertly researches past-times to occupy his time whilst Cait faces a slightly different challenge: the reappearance of Tom, an-ex, who she still holds in her affections. As the novel progresses the reader is left to ponder how things will turn out. Will Cait and Matt enter the second half of their lives together or apart? This is a novel for readers of all ages: this is about the ageing process generally as well as specifically.
Permeated by delicate humour and perception this novel makes for a delightful read.
(My review was based on an eBook file provided to me by the publisher. My review is totally independent.)
May 3, 2018
I discovered Dancing Over the Hill through a Netgalley email from Harper Collins. I was looking for a change from all the crime fiction and psychological thrillers I'd been reading. All I can say is I am so glad I didn't pass this gem up and I will be purchasing Cathy's previous book ASAP.
What immediately endeared me towards Dancing Over the Hill were the two main characters, Cait and Matt. They weren't young, success hungry go-getters as is typical of this genre. They both are in their 60's and facing retirement while wondering, "Is this all there is?"
Matt has lost his job, the only thing he's ever felt good at. He find's it difficult to fill in his time and feels like a nuisance around the house. Cait, on the other hand is used to her alone time, filling her days with choir practice, yoga and lunches with friends. She finds it difficult to make time for her newly unemployed husband and is completely unimpressed with his lazing about the house in his dressing gown.
I think I loved this book so much because I could really relate to the characters. Like Cait, I love to be organised and I adore a good to-do list. I also saw similar struggles in my own house when my dad lost his job and struggled to find his place in the house as he searched for a new one. All I'll say is Cathy has captured the reality of retirement-the good and the bad!
As for the writing and structure, no complaints there. The characters are well rounded and authentic. Each character (even the secondary ones) felt well researched and developed, like the had a past before the reader opened this particular chapter in their lives.
There are no major twists and turns in Dancing Over the Hill, and that's not a bad thing. The familiarity of the story actually allowed me to get sucked in. This really is a comfort read. That doesn't mean it's dull though. I loved every page of this book and laughed out loud more than once. I genuinely didn't want it to end.
Dancing Over the Hill is a solid, enjoyable 5 star read.
What immediately endeared me towards Dancing Over the Hill were the two main characters, Cait and Matt. They weren't young, success hungry go-getters as is typical of this genre. They both are in their 60's and facing retirement while wondering, "Is this all there is?"
Matt has lost his job, the only thing he's ever felt good at. He find's it difficult to fill in his time and feels like a nuisance around the house. Cait, on the other hand is used to her alone time, filling her days with choir practice, yoga and lunches with friends. She finds it difficult to make time for her newly unemployed husband and is completely unimpressed with his lazing about the house in his dressing gown.
I think I loved this book so much because I could really relate to the characters. Like Cait, I love to be organised and I adore a good to-do list. I also saw similar struggles in my own house when my dad lost his job and struggled to find his place in the house as he searched for a new one. All I'll say is Cathy has captured the reality of retirement-the good and the bad!
As for the writing and structure, no complaints there. The characters are well rounded and authentic. Each character (even the secondary ones) felt well researched and developed, like the had a past before the reader opened this particular chapter in their lives.
There are no major twists and turns in Dancing Over the Hill, and that's not a bad thing. The familiarity of the story actually allowed me to get sucked in. This really is a comfort read. That doesn't mean it's dull though. I loved every page of this book and laughed out loud more than once. I genuinely didn't want it to end.
Dancing Over the Hill is a solid, enjoyable 5 star read.
January 10, 2018
Having enjoyed Cathy Hopkins’ previous novel The Kicking the Bucket List I was eager to read this – and I was not disappointed.
Cait and Matt, married for 30 years are now entering a new stage of their lives one which is easy to identify with if you are 60’ish (or more). They have what appears to be a great marriage. Caitt has a number of outside interests which keeps her active and absorbed and everything is smooth until Matt has to retire. He is now at a loss, not sure what to do with himself and feeling increasingly in the way as Cait continues her busy schedule. Cait is aware of her increasing frustration with Matt and reflects on their relationship. They are well and quite comfortable but it all feels a bit like an old shoe…
Out of the blue she is sent a message via Facebook from Tom Lewis, a man she met at university, who she loved, and lost. Now she is tantalised with what might have been. She confides in Lorna (recently widowed) who as a good friend advises caution, and then she confides in Debs who has separated from her husband and is somewhat of a man-eater.
This is so refreshing. It speaks to women of this age, the doubts of growing older and feeling ‘is this it then?’; the worries of diminishing attractiveness; the feeling of ‘grab it now’. Although this is really funny there is a touch of pathos.
I loved Matt. Poor lamb, just too nice maybe. As for Cait, stop reading Facebook, stop striving to fill every moment. What are you doing? She is likeable but I was on Lorna’s side; appreciate what you have.
This is really well written. A joy to read.
Thank you to the publishers and NetGalley for providing an ARC via my Kindle in return for an honest review.
Cait and Matt, married for 30 years are now entering a new stage of their lives one which is easy to identify with if you are 60’ish (or more). They have what appears to be a great marriage. Caitt has a number of outside interests which keeps her active and absorbed and everything is smooth until Matt has to retire. He is now at a loss, not sure what to do with himself and feeling increasingly in the way as Cait continues her busy schedule. Cait is aware of her increasing frustration with Matt and reflects on their relationship. They are well and quite comfortable but it all feels a bit like an old shoe…
Out of the blue she is sent a message via Facebook from Tom Lewis, a man she met at university, who she loved, and lost. Now she is tantalised with what might have been. She confides in Lorna (recently widowed) who as a good friend advises caution, and then she confides in Debs who has separated from her husband and is somewhat of a man-eater.
This is so refreshing. It speaks to women of this age, the doubts of growing older and feeling ‘is this it then?’; the worries of diminishing attractiveness; the feeling of ‘grab it now’. Although this is really funny there is a touch of pathos.
I loved Matt. Poor lamb, just too nice maybe. As for Cait, stop reading Facebook, stop striving to fill every moment. What are you doing? She is likeable but I was on Lorna’s side; appreciate what you have.
This is really well written. A joy to read.
Thank you to the publishers and NetGalley for providing an ARC via my Kindle in return for an honest review.
January 28, 2018
Having been in a bit of a reading slump I decided I needed a book that would make me chuckle and based on the blurb this was a book that could do that. And it didn’t disappoint.
Cait and Matt have been married for a long time and on the surface have the perfect marriage. It’s only when Matt loses his job that the cracks begin to show. They should have been enjoying retirement however Cait was working temp jobs to pay the bills and Matt was wallowing in self-pity as he felt like he had been put on the scrap heap.
Cait loves her lists… they help her combat her more “senior moments” and had established a routine over the years and now that she had her husband under her feet all the time this was being questioned and she started to resent it and in turn resent him too. She didn’t seem to understand how her once active husband suddenly changed into a permanently dressing gown wearing depressed person. Her reaction to this was to continually push him to do things. Let’s face it if we are honest that sort of reaction never ends well and tends to have the opposite effect, yet we all do it despite this… its human nature. She has a close set of friends that come with their own baggage but are happy to offer advice and support at every opportunity. And when her old college boyfriend gets in touch via Facebook, Cait really starts to question everything. Her reactions to bumping into someone she knew while meeting up with him had me chuckling as they were slightly over the top and not something you would expect someone in their 60’s to do. She is also constantly worrying about her widowed father, trying to convince him to move in with her and Matt, although am not sure the timing was right.
Matt drove me nuts. Losing his job at his age was a big blow to him and he suddenly felt useless. And the pyjama wearing, pity party for one began. He also drove Cait nuts eating everything in sight, making a mess, questioning what she was doing and where she was going but not doing anything to help around the house. Some of this made me smile, not necessarily because it was funny but more because I have lived through some of it. Egged on by his brother there are times that he got himself into situations that would drive the most understanding of wives to a complete meltdown.
The funniest part of the book for me was when Matt hurt his back. Trust me that statement is not as warped as it sounds. The scene that occurs could be straight out of a Carry on film
What is evident throughout is that over the years Cait and Matt have been so busy with their careers and raising kids that they have forgotten how to communicate and essentially they have been living separate lives in the same house. And when all that changes they don’t know how to deal with it. Now I may not be as old as them (although some family and friends may say I look as old as they are) but I have been married nearly as long as them so some of what they were going through did ring true. And for me that was the appeal of the book. Mixed with humour and a refreshing honesty, Dancing Over the Hill is a book that will have you smiling and possibly agreeing with its sentiments throughout.
Cait and Matt have been married for a long time and on the surface have the perfect marriage. It’s only when Matt loses his job that the cracks begin to show. They should have been enjoying retirement however Cait was working temp jobs to pay the bills and Matt was wallowing in self-pity as he felt like he had been put on the scrap heap.
Cait loves her lists… they help her combat her more “senior moments” and had established a routine over the years and now that she had her husband under her feet all the time this was being questioned and she started to resent it and in turn resent him too. She didn’t seem to understand how her once active husband suddenly changed into a permanently dressing gown wearing depressed person. Her reaction to this was to continually push him to do things. Let’s face it if we are honest that sort of reaction never ends well and tends to have the opposite effect, yet we all do it despite this… its human nature. She has a close set of friends that come with their own baggage but are happy to offer advice and support at every opportunity. And when her old college boyfriend gets in touch via Facebook, Cait really starts to question everything. Her reactions to bumping into someone she knew while meeting up with him had me chuckling as they were slightly over the top and not something you would expect someone in their 60’s to do. She is also constantly worrying about her widowed father, trying to convince him to move in with her and Matt, although am not sure the timing was right.
Matt drove me nuts. Losing his job at his age was a big blow to him and he suddenly felt useless. And the pyjama wearing, pity party for one began. He also drove Cait nuts eating everything in sight, making a mess, questioning what she was doing and where she was going but not doing anything to help around the house. Some of this made me smile, not necessarily because it was funny but more because I have lived through some of it. Egged on by his brother there are times that he got himself into situations that would drive the most understanding of wives to a complete meltdown.
The funniest part of the book for me was when Matt hurt his back. Trust me that statement is not as warped as it sounds. The scene that occurs could be straight out of a Carry on film
What is evident throughout is that over the years Cait and Matt have been so busy with their careers and raising kids that they have forgotten how to communicate and essentially they have been living separate lives in the same house. And when all that changes they don’t know how to deal with it. Now I may not be as old as them (although some family and friends may say I look as old as they are) but I have been married nearly as long as them so some of what they were going through did ring true. And for me that was the appeal of the book. Mixed with humour and a refreshing honesty, Dancing Over the Hill is a book that will have you smiling and possibly agreeing with its sentiments throughout.
January 18, 2018
So true to life. If you live my life! Cait and Matt are in their early sixties and their marriage has become a habit. When Matt is made redundant it causes a huge change to their lives. For one, Matt is underfoot all day and Cait doesn't like it. She has her routines, and suddenly Matt is questioning her every move and irritating her like never before. When the love of her life from her student days pops up with a facebook friend request, what will she do? The whole book rang so true with me. When Caitlin wasted time on facebook - check. When she rushed from one activity to another - check. When she made lists - check. When her husband irritated her just by being there - check. When she missed him when he was away - check too! It was refreshing to read a book with the characters at a later stage of life, and showing that life doesn't end when you leave your youth behind. Although this was a lighthearted read, it covered many serious issues and certainly gave me a lot to think about. I loved the sections at the end with the information gathered by Matt in researching his programme (which I'd love to see!!) The fact that Caitlin had close friends and interests to fill her days, while her husband had none was also very true to our situation, and when Matt let his feelings be known at the counselling session it gave me a a reality check too. Some really funny situations, such as when Matt did his back in and when he came in drunk and fell asleep in the hall were so well described I was laughing out loud. Fabulous read!
March 18, 2018
Cait and Matt are a middle aged couple whom for them, life has settled into the mundane same old of work, particular clubs they're involved separately in, children who've flown the nest and moved away and meeting up with friends and family when they can and if they're still actually around to meet up with.
For Cait, she remembers their younger days and wishes for those to be how they are with each other now, if only. So when Lorna and Deb's her two closest friends pick up on Matt's behaviour alike Cait they're all equally surprised to learn of him being made redundant suddenly.
For Cait though, an old flame, first love Tom Lewis shows up on Facebook wanting to friend her and suddenly Cait is torn between her life now or Tom's way of 'adventure calling' life to choose from.
This is a rather push and pull story of how need and want but lack of communication makes a relationship suffer and especially in the case of Cait and Matt and the pair both start getting on top of each other alone in their house together a lot as the story plays out. I was happy however with how the plotline did work out and that their bond did strengthen after what happened and really found myself enjoying this book and felt sad when it ended!
Another great work by Cathy, after reading her all my teen life and now in adulthood too, it's great to see her work in adult fiction is as strong as her teen and children's fiction is too.
Many thanks to the publishers for allowing me to review this book for them!
For Cait, she remembers their younger days and wishes for those to be how they are with each other now, if only. So when Lorna and Deb's her two closest friends pick up on Matt's behaviour alike Cait they're all equally surprised to learn of him being made redundant suddenly.
For Cait though, an old flame, first love Tom Lewis shows up on Facebook wanting to friend her and suddenly Cait is torn between her life now or Tom's way of 'adventure calling' life to choose from.
This is a rather push and pull story of how need and want but lack of communication makes a relationship suffer and especially in the case of Cait and Matt and the pair both start getting on top of each other alone in their house together a lot as the story plays out. I was happy however with how the plotline did work out and that their bond did strengthen after what happened and really found myself enjoying this book and felt sad when it ended!
Another great work by Cathy, after reading her all my teen life and now in adulthood too, it's great to see her work in adult fiction is as strong as her teen and children's fiction is too.
Many thanks to the publishers for allowing me to review this book for them!
January 10, 2018
Many thanks to HarperCollins and Netgalley, yet another great story. It is my pleasure to review this book openly and honestly.
At only 4% and I copied and pasted a quote ‘Cue the mini princess from Frozen singing ‘Let It Go, Let It Go’ in my head. Cue visualization of smashing her in the face with a frying pan’........just had to text this to my best friend. I already want to give copies to ALL my friends.
The jokes, references and problems all apply to my friendship circle, middle class/ish, late middle age/ish ladies and finding these very real problems in a novel really helps.
I started reading after another night with a ‘Snoring husband’ and a ‘nutribullet’ breakfast and continued reading throughout the day until I had finished it. I laughed out loud to the joke ‘How many retirees does it take to change a light bulb? Only one, but it might take all day.’ and immediately told my husband, who was also’ miffed’ as he thought I may be using humour to complain about him taking sooooo long to do anything.
Cathy Hopkins writing style is easy without being too easy and her ability to write humorous passages is ‘ laugh out loud ‘ /able. I could visualise the passage about her cat with the magnetic collar. Couple this with an in depth understanding of emotional upheaval and pragmatic psychology and it becomes more than just a story.
November 10, 2018
A light-hearted look at what can happen when a couple retires or are unexpectedly made redundant at the same time in their lives and are stuck in a relationship rut, with seemingly nothing in common.
Although very funny, moving and thought-provoking, I didn't enjoy this book as much as I thought I would and I preferred The Kicking the Bucket List.
I did manage to be drawn into the characters' world, for the most part, especially Cait and could identify with many of her dilemmas to do the right thing. As with The Kicking the Bucket List, the story was written with humour and a lovely light touch while dealing with love and marriage issues and long-term relationships. I liked that the story has a modern feel and I could identify very much with Cait and her Facebook dilemma when an old flame sends her a friend request, a person who she thought she loved but lost. Her friends, Lorna and Debs, provide some very useful relationship advice, as well as some rather hilarious moments.
I thought the characters of Cait and Matt were very well written and I wanted to continue reading this to find out how their relationship worked out.
This book is funny and charming and it gives you a poignant reminder that you might want to look at your own life, too.
I look forward to your next book, Cathy!
Although very funny, moving and thought-provoking, I didn't enjoy this book as much as I thought I would and I preferred The Kicking the Bucket List.
I did manage to be drawn into the characters' world, for the most part, especially Cait and could identify with many of her dilemmas to do the right thing. As with The Kicking the Bucket List, the story was written with humour and a lovely light touch while dealing with love and marriage issues and long-term relationships. I liked that the story has a modern feel and I could identify very much with Cait and her Facebook dilemma when an old flame sends her a friend request, a person who she thought she loved but lost. Her friends, Lorna and Debs, provide some very useful relationship advice, as well as some rather hilarious moments.
I thought the characters of Cait and Matt were very well written and I wanted to continue reading this to find out how their relationship worked out.
This book is funny and charming and it gives you a poignant reminder that you might want to look at your own life, too.
I look forward to your next book, Cathy!
January 23, 2018
How wonderful to find a book with not only characters that I can relate to, but also situations where I think...mmm, been there, done that, more than earned the T-shirt.
This is the story of Matt, Cait, their family and their friends....plus an unexpected "blast from the past".
Mat and Cait should be enjoying life, but they're not. Matt is shell shocked from losing his job, Cait is restless and annoyed. She hates having Matt at home all day, under her feet, and is wondering if this really is, all there is.
They almost lead separate lives, barely communicate, and don't know what is going on in the other's life.
The author, however, does know how to communicate. Her dialogue is sparkling, making me laugh, giggle, and, sometimes, sniffle.
Her scenes of married life are pitch perfect, and I won't be the only woman to often think..."yes, that!" And I'm sure there are lots of men recognising themselves in Matt, and his reactions to domestic issues.
The story is briskly paced and the plot takes in temptation, betrayal, misunderstanding, and love.
This story was a joy to read.
I voluntarily reviewed an ARC of this book via Netgalley.
This is the story of Matt, Cait, their family and their friends....plus an unexpected "blast from the past".
Mat and Cait should be enjoying life, but they're not. Matt is shell shocked from losing his job, Cait is restless and annoyed. She hates having Matt at home all day, under her feet, and is wondering if this really is, all there is.
They almost lead separate lives, barely communicate, and don't know what is going on in the other's life.
The author, however, does know how to communicate. Her dialogue is sparkling, making me laugh, giggle, and, sometimes, sniffle.
Her scenes of married life are pitch perfect, and I won't be the only woman to often think..."yes, that!" And I'm sure there are lots of men recognising themselves in Matt, and his reactions to domestic issues.
The story is briskly paced and the plot takes in temptation, betrayal, misunderstanding, and love.
This story was a joy to read.
I voluntarily reviewed an ARC of this book via Netgalley.
December 30, 2018
What a great story about a mature marriage, with plenty of humour along the way!
Cait and Matt have survived 30 years of marriage. Matt heads off to work each day while his wife Cait, after many years as a teacher, works only part time to allow her to write the best selling novel she's been dreaming of for a long time. But then things change and suddenly their marriage doesn't seem quite as comfortable.
This is an entertaining read with it's roots firmly in realism. After children grow up and leave home, many couples realise that over the years they have stopped making an effort and are just rolling along out of habit. So how do they recapture the magic - and, do they both want to? I have giggled my way through this one, laughing and nodding my head throughout. My only complaint would be that everything was tied up in a bit of a rush, contrary to the pace of the rest of the novel. Certainly an author to read again, that's for sure. To my shame, this is another which has been stuck at the bottom of my tbr list for far too long, especially considering it's so good!
My thanks to publisher Harper Collins for my copy via NetGalley. This is my honest, original and unbiased review.
Cait and Matt have survived 30 years of marriage. Matt heads off to work each day while his wife Cait, after many years as a teacher, works only part time to allow her to write the best selling novel she's been dreaming of for a long time. But then things change and suddenly their marriage doesn't seem quite as comfortable.
This is an entertaining read with it's roots firmly in realism. After children grow up and leave home, many couples realise that over the years they have stopped making an effort and are just rolling along out of habit. So how do they recapture the magic - and, do they both want to? I have giggled my way through this one, laughing and nodding my head throughout. My only complaint would be that everything was tied up in a bit of a rush, contrary to the pace of the rest of the novel. Certainly an author to read again, that's for sure. To my shame, this is another which has been stuck at the bottom of my tbr list for far too long, especially considering it's so good!
My thanks to publisher Harper Collins for my copy via NetGalley. This is my honest, original and unbiased review.
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