Internal Family Systems is my jam. Going to train for a week with Richard Schwartz soon. I think this kind of therapy could lead the way to a paradigm shift for humanity—the recognition of, and dialoguing with, the parts of ourselves we usually ignore, push away, or even bully.
The idea is to also eventually turn that self-compassion outward to other humans, and to unburden ourselves of legacies (transgenerational trauma, racism, misogyny, etc).
The ultimate goal is to be Self led, and even SELF led. Led by our core self and, if open to it, by god/God/Universal energy/Space…or whatever you want to call the stream of energy we are part of. While keeping the other parts of ourselves, acknowledging, listening, and working with them, giving them other, better jobs than bullying you with judgment and perfectionism, or keeping you frozen in trauma or grief—or whatever it is you struggle with.
Ketamine and psilocybin and MDMA -assisted IFS therapy is another frontier I hope to take part in. These medicines help people create change faster and perhaps more permanently in conjunction with the IFS model. So good for Complex PTSD.
This book is a great place to start. The online and in-person trainings are where it’s at though.