I'd been wanting to read this book for ages. I finally picked it up from the library, and I wasn't disappointed- at least not in the writing. Eileen McNamara, a former Boston Globe columnist, did a great job of telling Eunice's story. McNamara spent many hours researching, interviewing and it shows.
What struck me in a negative way wasn't the writing so much as it was Eunice herself- and the whole Kennedy clan. From the beginning, it was clear how incredibly privileged they all were. Patriarch Joseph Sr. was a rich, powerful man who basically bought his children's way into private schools, clubs, and politics. The Kennedys didn't have to ever budget money, or think twice about any activity involving spending money. Their lives centered around extravagant trips to Europe, boating in Hyannisport, parties and galas and fundraisers and the like. In comes Eunice, with NO experience with lower income families, poverty or crime, - and she wants to spearhead programs to minimize juvenile delinquency. Yes. That was what she started with. Eunice, who spent her time 'messing about in boats'. It was rather extraordinary, really. 24- 25 years old and next thing you know she's in Washington, trying to network, come up with programs and plans to deal with delinquency. It was so ironic it was almost laughable.
Much later she starts Special Olympics. That seemed much more of a genuine cause for her, largely because of her sister Rosemary. Eunice was driven, smart and ambitious. She was great at enlisting celebrities, college student volunteers, reluctant politicians and wealthy benefactors to fund and run Special Olympics. It was remarkable to read how it started out small- in her own yard and pool. She and her children ran summer camps. Taught kids how to swim, how to ride a horse. And Eunice would get right in the pool herself.
She was also very active in her brothers' political campaigns. Constant travel, meetings, parties. And all during these years she is physically unhealthy. I never knew how sick she and JFK were. In and out of hospitals. Mysterious stomach problems, headaches, weakness. Eunice was constantly battling her weight. She was underweight most of her life. It never stopped her. McNamara describes how Eunice would work from her bed. She'd make calls, write letters, make demands.
Oh, and her personality!! That was interesting to read about. Eunice was a very devout Catholic and at one point had wanted to become a nun. She was fiercely competitive, and was described as the best athlete among her siblings. They'd had sailing races and she was clearly the best of them.
Eunice was also very demanding, impatient, brusque and apparently a real pill to work for. She went through multiple assistants and staff throughout the years. People found her to be difficult to please. And as a mother, she was distant and unsympathetic. There was no crying in the house. No discussion of grief or sadness. Her brothers' assassinations were never discussed. Her way of dealing with it all was to work. And travel. And that's what she did.
Sarge, her husband, was the most understanding of the couple, according to Maria. From my reading of this book, it sure seems like Eunice was the dominant force and Sarge just went along. He didn't pursue his own political aspirations- to make room for Eunice's brothers. It was bothersome to see him play second fiddle.
I did enjoy reading about Eunice's growing up years, her schooling and her relationships.. And I admire her tenaciousness. She was a hard worker and a caring, strong and effective advocate for the developmentally disabled. But I couldn't get over my feeling of disgust with the whole privilege and money and power thing. It's sad to see just how all of these things make life so much easier for a select few.
Overall, I did like this book. And I recommend it to anyone who's interested in Eunice Kennedy. The book is full of *lots* of details, many which I can't get into here. So if you're a reader who enjoys details, you'll like this biography.