This book deserves a review more-so than any other book in my collection, simply due to the impact it's had.
The only bad thing about this book is the title. I think it instantly gives someone the wrong impression, which is horrible due to the amazing things this book can open up. I think some people will see the title and think, "well, that's just not my thing". However, there is so much more inside this book than what the title states.
I am deployed in Afghanistan as I write this. I had the feeling that my wife and I needed some way to connect while separated. We've never been great at opening up with each other in regards to speaking of sexually related matters. Not that we're uptight, we just never found a way or reason to discuss it. I guess it's just something we've been conditioned to. You grow up being told what sex is and how you should enjoy it or why you should be ashamed of it. This book changes that.
The questions contained in each section caused my wife and I to discuss things we've never shared or even thought of sharing with one another, which even while separated, has brought us closer together. So much of sex was single-minded, but this book teaches you to rethink all of it. It gives you practices to change the way you give and receive pleasure.
I could go on and explain how each chapter has something to teach, but only if you read it with a willingness to accept the fault of learning about sex from previous people's opinions, instead of learning to find out what you enjoy about it.
I would recommend this book for men as much, if not moreso, as I would for women. Both have so much more to experience in relation to one another. I would say to look past the title, unless it's something that intrigues you. You won't be disappointed that you spent time reading it.