Retirement is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to be yourself and do what you want to do. It offers new possibilities for personal growth through learning, retraining, travelling and friendship. But it is also one of the biggest transitions we face, and brings huge psychological and emotional challenges. It's not surprising that many people struggle with the adjustment to a different pace of life.
Not Fade Away guides the reader through these dealing with the loss of status and routine, reinventing relationships, managing money, and above all, finding new meaning and purpose. It brings together expert advice and insights from people retiring now, who speak from the heart about the lessons they've learned and the new sources of fulfilment they've discovered. By cutting a clear path through the maze of choices on offer for people retiring today – which may or may not involve giving up work completely – Not Fade Away inspires you to make up your own mind and take control of your future. And that, experts agree, is the key to a good retirement.
My friend bought me this as a retirement gift and I’m glad she did. I’ve waited four months after retiring to read it and many of the chapters seem relevant and a lot of the feelings people talk about chime with how I’ve been feeling myself. There are lots of useful hints and tips and links to organisations to help with topics such as health, money, loneliness, moving house, grandchildren, and many more. It’s made me think about some things more deeply, like moving house, and I think I will do some things differently now I’ve read the book.
Accessible, readable, and full of useful info, my only reservation is that it feels more like a long newspaper article than a book. I'm one of those who needs to understand the underpinning knowledge and theory, not just be told what to do and that's probably why I feel like that.
Despite which, there's lots of good stuff here, and having recently retired myself I recognise a lot of what Celia writes about, and can relate to the people she has interviewed. That said, I would have preferred more data as opposed to anecdote and more about the psychology of retirement - it's one of the biggest changes many people experience and more could be said about letting go and finding a new self.
Still, I enjoyed it, found much of use and would recommend it to anyone thinking about retirement
Married baby boomer with grand children, about to retire in the UK, is the target audience. Such limited scope to this book, repetitive and prejudiced. I expected more. Little discussion of later stages of retirement, how to deal with declining health and mobility, social media and technology.
The gist of the message is that retirement is something you have to work at, and a great opportunity for positive change. No one says at the end of their life "I wish I had spent more time at work".
As someon about to semi-retire I was given this book from one of the residents in the job I am about to leave - quite entertaining and did make me think!