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What They Don't Know
Three secrets. One decision. A friendship that will change everything.
Mellie has always been the reliable friend, the good student, the doting daughter. But when an unspeakable act leads her to withdraw from everyone she loves, she is faced with a life-altering choice―a choice she must face alone.
Lise stands up―and speaks out―for what she believes in. And when she notices Mellie acting strangely, she gets caught up in trying to save her...all while trying to protect her own secret. One that might be the key to helping Mellie.
Told through Mellie and Lise's journal entries, this powerful, emotional novel chronicles Mellie's struggle to decide what is right for her and the unbreakable bond formed by the two girls on their journey.
Mellie has always been the reliable friend, the good student, the doting daughter. But when an unspeakable act leads her to withdraw from everyone she loves, she is faced with a life-altering choice―a choice she must face alone.
Lise stands up―and speaks out―for what she believes in. And when she notices Mellie acting strangely, she gets caught up in trying to save her...all while trying to protect her own secret. One that might be the key to helping Mellie.
Told through Mellie and Lise's journal entries, this powerful, emotional novel chronicles Mellie's struggle to decide what is right for her and the unbreakable bond formed by the two girls on their journey.
348 pages, Paperback
First published October 2, 2018
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About the author
Nicole Maggi
10 books265 followersNicole was born in the suburban farm country of upstate New York, and began writing at a very early age. Of course, her early works consisted mainly of poems about rainbows and unicorns, although one of them was good enough to win honorable mention in a national poetry contest! (Perhaps one of the judges was a ten-year-old girl.) Throughout high school, her creative writing was always nurtured and encouraged.
Nicole attended Emerson College as an acting major, and graduated cum laude with a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree. Post-college, she worked as an actress in New York City for over a decade, focusing mainly on Shakespeare and the classics.
Now living in Los Angeles, Nicole balances writing full-time with motherhood. WINTER FALLS, the first in her TWIN WILLOWS TRILOGY (Medallion Press, 2014) is her debut novel. She has a stand-alone novel, HEARTLINES, coming out in February 2015 with SourceBooks Fire, as well as the second and third novels in the TWIN WILLOWS TRILOGY in 2015 and 2016.
Nicole attended Emerson College as an acting major, and graduated cum laude with a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree. Post-college, she worked as an actress in New York City for over a decade, focusing mainly on Shakespeare and the classics.
Now living in Los Angeles, Nicole balances writing full-time with motherhood. WINTER FALLS, the first in her TWIN WILLOWS TRILOGY (Medallion Press, 2014) is her debut novel. She has a stand-alone novel, HEARTLINES, coming out in February 2015 with SourceBooks Fire, as well as the second and third novels in the TWIN WILLOWS TRILOGY in 2015 and 2016.
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September 18, 2018
WOW. I was definitely NOT prepared for this. Oh my gosh was this novel sad and brutal.
I'm going to say right off the bat that this novel delves into some very deep core issues that revolve around rape, pregnancy, abortion, friendship, men vs women gender roles, religion, and safety.
Nicole Maggi explores a coming of age story about sixteen year old Mellie who becomes pregnant from being raped. Mellie comes from a strong fundamentalist family... and she thinks that she will ultimately be blamed for her choices and the pregnancy.
Mellie's classmate Lise thinks that she can help Mellie with her situation. The story is told from alternating POV through diary/journal entries that are written to their English teacher. I really liked the journal aspect to the novel.. I felt that it added more depth and strength to the novel.
What I didn't enjoy about this novel was how deep Maggi went into TOO many emotional/deep topics. I think if she would have focused solely on a few topics I would have been able to connect on a deeper level to this novel. I just felt it was a tad bit depressing that I lost some of the interest in the novel.
I also felt like the author was pretty much beating a dead horse with the continued same messages throughout the entire novel specifically about feminism, abortion, and pro-choice.
What They Don't Know was an enjoyable novel but it was nothing that stood out or memorable for me.
3 stars for me on this one.
Thank you so much to Sourcebooks Fire and Netgalley for the opportunity to read this in exchange for my honest thoughts.
Publication date: 10/1/18
Published to GR: 9/17/18
I'm going to say right off the bat that this novel delves into some very deep core issues that revolve around rape, pregnancy, abortion, friendship, men vs women gender roles, religion, and safety.
Nicole Maggi explores a coming of age story about sixteen year old Mellie who becomes pregnant from being raped. Mellie comes from a strong fundamentalist family... and she thinks that she will ultimately be blamed for her choices and the pregnancy.
Mellie's classmate Lise thinks that she can help Mellie with her situation. The story is told from alternating POV through diary/journal entries that are written to their English teacher. I really liked the journal aspect to the novel.. I felt that it added more depth and strength to the novel.
What I didn't enjoy about this novel was how deep Maggi went into TOO many emotional/deep topics. I think if she would have focused solely on a few topics I would have been able to connect on a deeper level to this novel. I just felt it was a tad bit depressing that I lost some of the interest in the novel.
I also felt like the author was pretty much beating a dead horse with the continued same messages throughout the entire novel specifically about feminism, abortion, and pro-choice.
What They Don't Know was an enjoyable novel but it was nothing that stood out or memorable for me.
3 stars for me on this one.
Thank you so much to Sourcebooks Fire and Netgalley for the opportunity to read this in exchange for my honest thoughts.
Publication date: 10/1/18
Published to GR: 9/17/18
June 8, 2018
Abortion is an issue about which many have diametrically opposed opinions. Passions often run high; understandably so as the life of a child is at the center of the debate. Nicole Maggi's young adult novel is most definitely in the pro-choice camp. It tells the story of Mellie, a sixteen-year-old girl raised in a fundamentalist Christian household who becomes pregnant as the result of a rape. She keeps both the rape and the pregnancy a secret, slowly divulging the details through journal entries for her high school English class. Lise, a fellow classmate, and feminist crusader notices something amiss and becomes Mellie's friend and advocate.
Without exception every single Christian character in the book is portrayed in a negative light. Mellie's family and long time friends treat her horribly. The Christian pregnancy crisis clinic she visits is run by unfeeling staff members who shame her and use lies to dissuade her from having an abortion. On the other hand, the abortion clinic where Lise's mother is the head doctor, is full of a kind, supportive staff who treat Mellie with the utmost gentleness and respect. Lise and her mother come to bat for Mellie time and time again.
When Mellie's secret is eventually brought to light her family reacts by blaming and shaming. They go so far as to disown her when she decides to go through with the abortion. At the end of the novel Lise and her mother are driven out of town by Mellie's father, a politician with "friends" in all the right places. Mellie and her older sister, Hannah, move into their own place, relieved to be free of their repressive parents. (Oh, by the way, it was Hannah's fiancé, son of their pastor, who raped her.) Lise and Mellie remain friends. Mellie has no regrets whatsoever about the abortion, never once wondering about the child that might have been.
What was so maddening about this book was the firm black and white stance it took. Mellie's Christian family fit every single stereotype in the book; her father even hunted! With the sole exception of Lise's teenage boyfriend, every male in the book was a jerk. No nuances, no shades of gray here. And therein lies the problem. A person's stance on abortion does not determine his or her character. Not all Christian's are narrow minded. It would have made for a much more compelling novel had Mellie's parents struggled with the issue; having once thought themselves staunch opponents of abortion only to waver when it came to their own daughter. Instead, What They Don't Know comes off as sanctimonious and hypocritical. Attempting to portray the "good" characters as open-minded, kind, compassionate, and supportive and the "bad" characters without any redeeming qualities.
Unfortunately, impressionable teens reading this are given only one side of the issue. Pity for the book is actually well written and quite engaging.
Without exception every single Christian character in the book is portrayed in a negative light. Mellie's family and long time friends treat her horribly. The Christian pregnancy crisis clinic she visits is run by unfeeling staff members who shame her and use lies to dissuade her from having an abortion. On the other hand, the abortion clinic where Lise's mother is the head doctor, is full of a kind, supportive staff who treat Mellie with the utmost gentleness and respect. Lise and her mother come to bat for Mellie time and time again.
When Mellie's secret is eventually brought to light her family reacts by blaming and shaming. They go so far as to disown her when she decides to go through with the abortion. At the end of the novel Lise and her mother are driven out of town by Mellie's father, a politician with "friends" in all the right places. Mellie and her older sister, Hannah, move into their own place, relieved to be free of their repressive parents. (Oh, by the way, it was Hannah's fiancé, son of their pastor, who raped her.) Lise and Mellie remain friends. Mellie has no regrets whatsoever about the abortion, never once wondering about the child that might have been.
What was so maddening about this book was the firm black and white stance it took. Mellie's Christian family fit every single stereotype in the book; her father even hunted! With the sole exception of Lise's teenage boyfriend, every male in the book was a jerk. No nuances, no shades of gray here. And therein lies the problem. A person's stance on abortion does not determine his or her character. Not all Christian's are narrow minded. It would have made for a much more compelling novel had Mellie's parents struggled with the issue; having once thought themselves staunch opponents of abortion only to waver when it came to their own daughter. Instead, What They Don't Know comes off as sanctimonious and hypocritical. Attempting to portray the "good" characters as open-minded, kind, compassionate, and supportive and the "bad" characters without any redeeming qualities.
Unfortunately, impressionable teens reading this are given only one side of the issue. Pity for the book is actually well written and quite engaging.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
July 10, 2018
Oh my god. I was so NOT prepared for that. This is one of the most emotional books I have ever read and I feel like it discusses SUCH an important issue. Definitely a must read for everyone. I am speechless. Thank you to the publisher for giving me the opportunity to read this book!
I’m going to cry a little more now 😶
I’m going to cry a little more now 😶
October 3, 2018
What They Don't Know, is a story told from the point of view of two 16 year old girls. They are set an assignment to write a day to day journal as part of one of their grades in school.
Mellie comes from a church going family, her father being Mayor of their town. Mellie, is raped and as a result of that rape becomes pregnant. She must make the decision of what to do about her pregnancy.
Lise, volunteers at a woman's clinic that along with women's health procedures, also carries out abortion.
The two girls are bought together and a bond becomes forged that is unbreakable.
This book hooked me from the start. It's hard to believe that still in this day and age the argument between Pro-life and Pro-choice still so much of a devide. Very well written book.
"Apart, we shine, but together, we're so much brighter"
Mellie comes from a church going family, her father being Mayor of their town. Mellie, is raped and as a result of that rape becomes pregnant. She must make the decision of what to do about her pregnancy.
Lise, volunteers at a woman's clinic that along with women's health procedures, also carries out abortion.
The two girls are bought together and a bond becomes forged that is unbreakable.
This book hooked me from the start. It's hard to believe that still in this day and age the argument between Pro-life and Pro-choice still so much of a devide. Very well written book.
"Apart, we shine, but together, we're so much brighter"
July 31, 2018
This book takes a good, hard look at what it is like for someone to go through the tough decision to have an abortion, with the added trauma of the pregnancy being a result of a rape. The story is told in diary entries between Mellie, the uber-conservative mayor-running-for-senate's daughter, and Lise, her old girl scout friend who is intuitive to her old friend's sadness.
June 29, 2018
***Thanks to NetGalley for providing me a complimentary copy of WHAT THEY DON’T KNOW by Nicole Maggi in exchange for my honest review.***
5 STARS
GRADE: A+
Pregnant by rape, sixteen-year-old Mellie knows her zealously fundamentalist family will blame her for the attack and take away her choices. Lise, her classmate, senses she can help. Told in letters/journal entries to their English teacher the young women develop a deep, trusting friendship.
I knew I was reading something special a few pages into WHAT THEY DON’T KNOW, I had no idea how significant Nicole Maggi’s would be. She created sympathetic characters, Lise strong, empowered all her life by her mom and Mellie, raised in a home where women and girls were dominated by boys and men.
Despite rape, abortion and choice being a central theme, WHAT THEY DON’T KNOW is a sex positive book. Mellie thought she’d be a virgin until marriage, Lise assumed she’d have sex, but isn’t ready. Mellie’s family views sex as sinful, Lise’s mom is all about making wise choices. Mellie’s choice is taken away from her, Lise chooses not yet.
Other themes include: and unconditional friendships, women supporting women and sisterly bonds, judgment, bullying, toxic masculinity, religion and safety.
#WhatTheyDontKnow gets my highest recommendation.
5 STARS
GRADE: A+
Pregnant by rape, sixteen-year-old Mellie knows her zealously fundamentalist family will blame her for the attack and take away her choices. Lise, her classmate, senses she can help. Told in letters/journal entries to their English teacher the young women develop a deep, trusting friendship.
I knew I was reading something special a few pages into WHAT THEY DON’T KNOW, I had no idea how significant Nicole Maggi’s would be. She created sympathetic characters, Lise strong, empowered all her life by her mom and Mellie, raised in a home where women and girls were dominated by boys and men.
Despite rape, abortion and choice being a central theme, WHAT THEY DON’T KNOW is a sex positive book. Mellie thought she’d be a virgin until marriage, Lise assumed she’d have sex, but isn’t ready. Mellie’s family views sex as sinful, Lise’s mom is all about making wise choices. Mellie’s choice is taken away from her, Lise chooses not yet.
Other themes include: and unconditional friendships, women supporting women and sisterly bonds, judgment, bullying, toxic masculinity, religion and safety.
#WhatTheyDontKnow gets my highest recommendation.
October 2, 2018
*4.25 Stars*
I was provided an ARC via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
I have to admit it. I judged this book by its cover. I was certain it was a mystery & thriller.
Turns out, it wasn't. This was a contemporary novel about equality, abortion and girl power.
Mellie was raised in a very religious family, is anti-choice and wears a chastity ring. But she really starts questioning everything when she gets pregnant after being raped.
Lise is hiding a secret from everyone and can tell something is wrong with Mellie. She'll do everything she can to help her.
This story is mostly told through journal entries, both Lise's and Mellie. They're addressed to their teacher who made the journal an assignment. We also get to read some notes and letters between Mellie and Lise.
I really liked the format. It made for short chapters of sort and that's always good!
The story itself was captivating and I couldn't put the book down.
I loved Lise and I felt for Mellie.
It made me feel a lot.
I found the characters layered and deep. The relationship between Mellie and Lise was very interesting and their relationships to their families too.
I saw the last twist coming but I didn't mind all that much...
I thought the whole abortion subject was well brought up and the entire thing was well constructed.
All in all, an important and captivating book.
I was provided an ARC via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
I have to admit it. I judged this book by its cover. I was certain it was a mystery & thriller.
Turns out, it wasn't. This was a contemporary novel about equality, abortion and girl power.
Mellie was raised in a very religious family, is anti-choice and wears a chastity ring. But she really starts questioning everything when she gets pregnant after being raped.
Lise is hiding a secret from everyone and can tell something is wrong with Mellie. She'll do everything she can to help her.
This story is mostly told through journal entries, both Lise's and Mellie. They're addressed to their teacher who made the journal an assignment. We also get to read some notes and letters between Mellie and Lise.
I really liked the format. It made for short chapters of sort and that's always good!
The story itself was captivating and I couldn't put the book down.
I loved Lise and I felt for Mellie.
It made me feel a lot.
I found the characters layered and deep. The relationship between Mellie and Lise was very interesting and their relationships to their families too.
I saw the last twist coming but I didn't mind all that much...
I thought the whole abortion subject was well brought up and the entire thing was well constructed.
All in all, an important and captivating book.
October 7, 2018
My thanks to Netgalley, Sourcebooks Fire and Nicole Maggi for an ARC in exchange for an honest review. My opinions are 100% my own and independent of receiving an advanced copy.
Boy, this is going to be a tough one. First, this is very sensitive subject matter. The book brings up several issues that will hopefully open the door to many worthwhile conversations, but its main focus is on abortion. I find that it will be really hard to keep my personal feelings on the subject separate from reviewing the book. I will be very interested in reading what everyone has to say on this because of the subject matter it is dealing with. Also, this is a rough one to recommend to students. Because of people’s religious affiliations, I don’t believe it is appropriate for a teacher to introduce material that might go against a family’s belief system. On the other hand, open and honest discussion of the right to choose can be the only source of information some teenagers will have access to. I think it should be made available for students to be able to come to on their own, because I think that it is an amazing read.
So I’m going to tell you where I stand on this issue. I believe it is the only honest way, for me, to discuss this because how I feel influences how I read the book. I believe that it is a woman’s right to choose - no matter what the circumstances. Younger or older, through violence or consensual sex, no one should have to bear a child if that is not what the woman wants. And she deserves to have a safe, sterile, supported place to be able to abort the fetus, if that is what she chooses to do. Because my views lined up with the book’s, that allowed for me to enjoy it. I’m not sure if I was on the other side, or if the book was purporting the same ideology as Mellie’s parents, I would enjoy it in the same way.
Let me recap the story in order to offer some context. This is a book that deals with, among other things, rape and abortion. The style is done in the format of journal entries, alternating between the two main characters, Mellie and Lise. A teacher has assigned them a project of keeping a journal for the school year. This is a brilliant choice on the author’s part because we are privy not only to the events of that time, but to both girls’ deepest thoughts and feelings as they go through something very traumatic. Life changing, for both of them, although Mellie is the one who is pregnant and must decide what her options are. By using the teenagers’ voices, it allows an entry point for kids reading this book to engage in this subject in an open and honest way. Obviously, it is a little unbelievable to think these girls would be this forthcoming in a school assignment, but I was happy to suspend my disbelief because it worked so well. Also, for those that kids that are not the strongest of readers, or people who are just short on time, these small bites of daily entries are doable and will allow access for a larger reading audience. Interestingly enough, we never get to know who this teacher is. I was completely engaged, from beginning to end and found it truthful, honest, emotional, very powerful and even gut-wenching at times.
Mellie comes from a strong religious family, with a father who is running for Mayor on a pro-life platform, with a campaign promise to get rid of the last few legal abortion clinics in his town. He works hand in hand with the pastor. The pastor’s son Brandon happens to be engaged to Mellie’s sister Hannah. Brandon also happens to be Mellie’s rapist. Mellie is now pregnant and feels like she has nowhere to turn. She doesn’t feel like her family will believe her and knows that they will force her to have the baby. Although friends when they were younger, Lise and Mellie are not close anymore. But Lise knows enough to know that something is very wrong with Mellie and she wants to help.
There is so much more to the story. It’s complex and multi layered. It is really well written. I did find some of the characters nuanced and multi dimensional, however, there were some that were one-dimensional. Characters that were flat - either all bad or all good. The book has a clear slant and I think that it needs to be acknowledged. I’m not sure if students reading it will be able to tell, because although both ideologies are presented, it is clear one is bad and one is right. I also think that by having Mellie get pregnant through rape, it is a much easier way to create sympathy for Mellie to have the abortion. There are many pro-lifers who believe that rape is the exception to their rule.
The rape really isn’t explored in detail, it takes a much gentler approach. It is a great story about friendship, reaching out to help someone, and what happens when the beliefs that you have grown up with are challenged. It also touches on issues of bullying and losing your virginity. There is only one positive male in the whole story, Lise’s boyfriend, I wish there had been more. Even the minor male characters were rotten. It also did a great job of showing how difficult a decision to have an abortion is and no matter what anyone decides, no one comes to this conclusion easily or light-heartedly. It also highlights the positive role that Planned Parenthood has in society. It is not just for abortions, but provides much needed health care to women who can’t otherwise afford it. I did think it did an excellent job in portraying how alone Mellie felt. Teenagers often feel alone and that no one will understand what they are going through. On a side note, I was sad that there wasn’t one adult that Mellie felt she could turn to, or came to Mellie’s rescue.
I highly recommend this book, both for young adults and for adults. It is sad and beautiful but at its core it is heart-warming, having people who care and help in extraordinary ways and that you can survive something traumatic and come out the other side stronger.
Boy, this is going to be a tough one. First, this is very sensitive subject matter. The book brings up several issues that will hopefully open the door to many worthwhile conversations, but its main focus is on abortion. I find that it will be really hard to keep my personal feelings on the subject separate from reviewing the book. I will be very interested in reading what everyone has to say on this because of the subject matter it is dealing with. Also, this is a rough one to recommend to students. Because of people’s religious affiliations, I don’t believe it is appropriate for a teacher to introduce material that might go against a family’s belief system. On the other hand, open and honest discussion of the right to choose can be the only source of information some teenagers will have access to. I think it should be made available for students to be able to come to on their own, because I think that it is an amazing read.
So I’m going to tell you where I stand on this issue. I believe it is the only honest way, for me, to discuss this because how I feel influences how I read the book. I believe that it is a woman’s right to choose - no matter what the circumstances. Younger or older, through violence or consensual sex, no one should have to bear a child if that is not what the woman wants. And she deserves to have a safe, sterile, supported place to be able to abort the fetus, if that is what she chooses to do. Because my views lined up with the book’s, that allowed for me to enjoy it. I’m not sure if I was on the other side, or if the book was purporting the same ideology as Mellie’s parents, I would enjoy it in the same way.
Let me recap the story in order to offer some context. This is a book that deals with, among other things, rape and abortion. The style is done in the format of journal entries, alternating between the two main characters, Mellie and Lise. A teacher has assigned them a project of keeping a journal for the school year. This is a brilliant choice on the author’s part because we are privy not only to the events of that time, but to both girls’ deepest thoughts and feelings as they go through something very traumatic. Life changing, for both of them, although Mellie is the one who is pregnant and must decide what her options are. By using the teenagers’ voices, it allows an entry point for kids reading this book to engage in this subject in an open and honest way. Obviously, it is a little unbelievable to think these girls would be this forthcoming in a school assignment, but I was happy to suspend my disbelief because it worked so well. Also, for those that kids that are not the strongest of readers, or people who are just short on time, these small bites of daily entries are doable and will allow access for a larger reading audience. Interestingly enough, we never get to know who this teacher is. I was completely engaged, from beginning to end and found it truthful, honest, emotional, very powerful and even gut-wenching at times.
Mellie comes from a strong religious family, with a father who is running for Mayor on a pro-life platform, with a campaign promise to get rid of the last few legal abortion clinics in his town. He works hand in hand with the pastor. The pastor’s son Brandon happens to be engaged to Mellie’s sister Hannah. Brandon also happens to be Mellie’s rapist. Mellie is now pregnant and feels like she has nowhere to turn. She doesn’t feel like her family will believe her and knows that they will force her to have the baby. Although friends when they were younger, Lise and Mellie are not close anymore. But Lise knows enough to know that something is very wrong with Mellie and she wants to help.
There is so much more to the story. It’s complex and multi layered. It is really well written. I did find some of the characters nuanced and multi dimensional, however, there were some that were one-dimensional. Characters that were flat - either all bad or all good. The book has a clear slant and I think that it needs to be acknowledged. I’m not sure if students reading it will be able to tell, because although both ideologies are presented, it is clear one is bad and one is right. I also think that by having Mellie get pregnant through rape, it is a much easier way to create sympathy for Mellie to have the abortion. There are many pro-lifers who believe that rape is the exception to their rule.
The rape really isn’t explored in detail, it takes a much gentler approach. It is a great story about friendship, reaching out to help someone, and what happens when the beliefs that you have grown up with are challenged. It also touches on issues of bullying and losing your virginity. There is only one positive male in the whole story, Lise’s boyfriend, I wish there had been more. Even the minor male characters were rotten. It also did a great job of showing how difficult a decision to have an abortion is and no matter what anyone decides, no one comes to this conclusion easily or light-heartedly. It also highlights the positive role that Planned Parenthood has in society. It is not just for abortions, but provides much needed health care to women who can’t otherwise afford it. I did think it did an excellent job in portraying how alone Mellie felt. Teenagers often feel alone and that no one will understand what they are going through. On a side note, I was sad that there wasn’t one adult that Mellie felt she could turn to, or came to Mellie’s rescue.
I highly recommend this book, both for young adults and for adults. It is sad and beautiful but at its core it is heart-warming, having people who care and help in extraordinary ways and that you can survive something traumatic and come out the other side stronger.
July 30, 2018
You can find this review and others on my blog SleepySamReads!
Special thanks to NetGalley and Sourcebooks Fire for providing an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
TRIGGER WARNINGS: rape, rape resulting in pregnancy, abortion
I believe the message in the book is an important one, but I don't know that I agree with the execution all that much. Everything in the book seems to be so black and white. Which is kind of ironic because one of the things in the book that Mellie realizes is how many shades of grey there are in pro-life vs. pro-choice argument.
Mellie's family are devout Christians and are about as cliche as you can get, where Lise's family is the exact opposite. Mellie's family is painted as the bad guys, Lise's the good. As someone who is a huge supporter of the pro-choice movement, as well as an atheist, it surprises me how annoyed I got at how religion is portrayed. It shows the absolute worse parts of Christianity without showing any of the good parts. I wouldn't mind seeing the bad stuff, if it was just balanced out a bit.
I did feel reallly bad for Mellie and it pains me to know that her story does happen all the time. I did appreciate seeing how Mellie grows throughout the book. I enjoyed how compassionate Lise was.
The format of the novel was pretty neat too. It's framed as a school assignment. A journal assigned for an English class.
I probably wouldn't recommend this book to anyone. I'm sure there's better books out there that deal with the subject matter in a better way.
Special thanks to NetGalley and Sourcebooks Fire for providing an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
TRIGGER WARNINGS: rape, rape resulting in pregnancy, abortion
I believe the message in the book is an important one, but I don't know that I agree with the execution all that much. Everything in the book seems to be so black and white. Which is kind of ironic because one of the things in the book that Mellie realizes is how many shades of grey there are in pro-life vs. pro-choice argument.
Mellie's family are devout Christians and are about as cliche as you can get, where Lise's family is the exact opposite. Mellie's family is painted as the bad guys, Lise's the good. As someone who is a huge supporter of the pro-choice movement, as well as an atheist, it surprises me how annoyed I got at how religion is portrayed. It shows the absolute worse parts of Christianity without showing any of the good parts. I wouldn't mind seeing the bad stuff, if it was just balanced out a bit.
I did feel reallly bad for Mellie and it pains me to know that her story does happen all the time. I did appreciate seeing how Mellie grows throughout the book. I enjoyed how compassionate Lise was.
The format of the novel was pretty neat too. It's framed as a school assignment. A journal assigned for an English class.
I probably wouldn't recommend this book to anyone. I'm sure there's better books out there that deal with the subject matter in a better way.
October 2, 2018
This was a very well written novel about a young girl who becomes pregnant after being raped and the decisions she makes as a result of living in an ultra conservative home. It is an epistolary novel, which I love. Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for giving me an opportunity to be an early reader in exchange for my honest review.
October 3, 2018
I want to thank to SOURCEBOOKS Fire and NetGalley for providing me with this copy in exchange for an honest review.
OMG this book is really powerful, I feel it was more than I expected and that's great. It's a book about abortion, it focuses entirely on that issue and although it touches other ones as well, I think it's necessary for you to know that's what you will find with. It's such a delicate subject to be touched in a book and even so, the author has done it in an excellent way, I'm really impressed.
4/5 Stars
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The book follows the perspective of two girls, Lise and Mellie, and although they used to be friends, they have separated from each other over time. Today their teacher has given them the work of writing a journal telling to her everything they're going through, so the book is entirely written in the form of letters from the girls to their teacher. Mellie has gone through a horrible moment since she has been raped and she doesn't dare to talk to anyone about it for fear they don't believe her or that people believe that it was her fault in some way, she belongs to a very religious and strict family so this also stops her from speaking. Lise's a very mature girl for her age, she's always ready to fight for what she really wants and together they'll start a very hard journey full of emotions, revelations and teachings
I don't believe that there's a correct way of judging this book or talking about it, because I honestly feel that the feelings and emotions that it produces when you read it, is what really matters. So I'll do what I can with this review, I feel very sensitive after finishing it, it's a very powerful emotional journey.
I really liked the writing style, I feel that although it touches a very serious subject the author has known to add very sweet and funny moments as well, in a way that fits perfectly and makes it easier to continue reading. There are times when it becomes very difficult though and this is not because it was bad, at all, but because of all the meaning behind the book as far as abortion is concerned. See Mellie going through a situation as frightening as a rape, and then this pregnancy product of it, was really very hard, she was very lonely going through the whole situation and that broke my heart, even though I know that these things sadly happen in the world, it's still difficult to read about them, it's heartbreaking.
I loved and I could see clearly the message that the book wants to give and I appreciate it very much how the author talks at the end and share her own story with us, this makes it a thousand times more special the fact that she wrote this book.
The main idea was that these two girls write all their feelings and their experiences to her teacher through letters, and although I love the idea and enjoyed it a lot, I feel it's unrealistic. I don't think that anyone really opens up in this way to a teacher that I feel they hardly know, right?. Even so, although this may have been unbelievable, the rest of the book and everything that both girls have to go through seemed very realistic to me, in fact the ending was really great. It was bittersweet but very real, I can really see this story ending as it did, and in some way, I liked that it wasn't the typical perfect ending
I loved the main characters both Lise and Millie, they're completely opposite but being into both heads was equally interesting for me, especially because at first they have completely different thoughts from each other and I always enjoy hearing diversity of opinions, even when I already have my own, you know?. I think Lise is my animal spirit, I love her, she's wild and daring, but all in the best way. She has always something smart to say, and in addition to all this, what I liked the most is the way in which she supports other women and her feminist espitiru made me love her, she's also a great friend and once her path intersects with Mellie's, the way in which Lise acts is great, I feel that I admire her strength on many occasions. Mellie's a very sweet girl, she has so many doubts and questions and that makes her a super innocent character, after what she has gone through at her young age I feel that she's the character who grows the most and I really liked going through all that under her point of view. She's the daughter of extremely religious parents, they never pay attention to her and also her father's determined to make clear in his campaign that he wants to close all the abortion centers (I speak of legal places, of course) and all this is obviously heartbreaking for Mellie and she doesn't know what to do, even though sometimes it was so difficult, I think it's a very interesting experience to read this book, I've even cried with her and right now I want all her happiness.
As I said before, reading this book has been a great experience, especially since I have found it quite informative on the topic of abortion and everything that surrounds it. I think I would have liked to see a little more diversity of opinions on the subject, but even so it's quite clear to where the book wants to go to
The plot twist was very good, I liked it even when I saw it coming and that's a good thing, I hate that nothing else happened with it, I think I would have liked some kind of consequence, but as I said before, happy endings not always are a thing.
It's difficult to talk about this issue for me because only a few months ago the abortion legalization issue was all that was spoken in my country and was finally denied, which's a great retrospective for all that women have fought for. I really hope that if in your country is a fact and abortion is legal, then you should be grateful. Even when you don't agree with, you should remember that all women have rights over our body and this should be another of them as well. I will not try to convince anyone who doesn't agree, because obviously I'm very respectful towards the beliefs of others but I wanted to highlight that situation, since it touches me closely, in the place where I live
I recommend this book? YES!, I think it's a very delicate and difficult toppic to touch but still we need more authors who are encouraged and try with it, is very important because of the knowledge that gives you and all the families situations, as the book touches it, It's super interesting to read. If you're looking for a light reading honestly I don't think this is the book for you, and I don't agree with the fact that it's classified as a mystery, I think it doesn't have much of that happening. So if you feel like reading a book that has a meaning and leaves you thinking, then this is a great option
April 1, 2024
“it is literally impossible to be a woman”
this was definitely a hard read due to the topic matter but it is extremely important in times like these where our rights are being taken away by men everyday.
mellie and lise may come from two very different families but they soon realize that their friendship will be the most important thing in each others lives.
very fast read especially because it is written in journal entries. it makes a very complicated topic easier to understand which makes it the perfect coming of age story.
this was definitely a hard read due to the topic matter but it is extremely important in times like these where our rights are being taken away by men everyday.
mellie and lise may come from two very different families but they soon realize that their friendship will be the most important thing in each others lives.
very fast read especially because it is written in journal entries. it makes a very complicated topic easier to understand which makes it the perfect coming of age story.
October 4, 2018
This review originally appeared on Novel Ink.
I received this book for free in exchange for an honest review. This does not affect my opinion of the book or the content of my review.
Content warnings: rape, sexual assault, rape resulting in pregnancy, pregnancy, talk of miscarrying, abortion, description of abortion, victim-blaming, unsafe home environment, misogyny (challenged), homophobic behavior (challenged), anti-abortion rhetoric (challenged), religion, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, grief, threats of violence
What They Don’t Know might appear, on the surface, to be an “issue book” focusing solely on a main character’s experience with teen pregnancy, rape, and abortion. And while these kinds of stories are undoubtedly important, What They Don’t Know feels to me, at its core, to be a friendship story above all else.
This book is told exclusively through diary entries from two different girls connected only by the fact that they were childhood friends, then grew apart. They each write these journals to their English teacher as part of a class assignment, and the journals quickly become the only place the two can confide their secrets. Mellie is the daughter of the uber-conservative mayor of their small Colorado town who’s hiding a huge secret, while Lise is an outspoken feminist with a heart of gold. One day, Lise sees Mellie crying in the school bathroom and quickly realizes she needs help, and that Lise herself is in a unique position to help Mellie.
Some might think of this as a spoiler, because the blurb is quite vague, but I think it’s important to know what you’re getting into when you go into a book, so I’ll say it anyway: Mellie is raped in her own basement by someone close to her family and her church, and this rape results in her becoming pregnant. It’s a traumatic situation for anyone, let alone someone who is constantly having to deal with anti-choice, victim-blaming rhetoric in her home and her church. Something I think What They Don’t Know conveys wonderfully is that you truly never know what decision you might make in a certain situation until you are in that situation. And, although Mellie does ultimately decide abortion is the only viable choice for her, this book emphasizes above all else a woman’s right to make her own choices about her body. It in no way glorifies abortion or presents it as the right choice for everyone. Additionally, despite the traumatic sexual assault, it’s a very sex-positive book! We see Lise and Mellie coming to vastly different conclusions about sex and working out where they stand on it without pressuring the other girl to change her own mind.
The subject matter was heartbreakingly timely, what with a woman’s right to choose constantly under siege from (cis male, ahem) lawmakers. And it’s heavy, undoubtedly. Mellie agonizes over her decision, and above all lives in constant fear of her parents finding out about her pregnancy or her plan to terminate it. What makes it all the more gut wrenching is the knowledge that, for many young women, growing up in hostile home environments like Mellie’s is reality. It so often seemed like there was no clear path, no right answer for Mellie.
This brings me to the friendship at the center of the story, which provided the hope such a bleak narrative needed. Lise is an incredibly caring, supportive friend who never gives up on Mellie. And she’s not just there to function as Mellie’s support; she is a character with hopes and dreams and opinions and thoughts of her own that I so enjoyed reading about through her journal entries. Lise’s mom, boyfriend, and friends were also all total angels and I loved how supportive they were of one another– not just of Mellie, although of course that was great and much-needed! But it’s also wonderful to see characters who support each other in small ways as well as big ways.
Overall, I think What They Don’t Know did an excellent job of approaching such sensitive subject matter carefully and thoughtfully. Plus, the epistolary format was effective and helped the reader really get inside each character’s head. The friendship is one I’ll remember for a long time, and this was an excellent example of the importance of having and finding a support system. If you can handle the subject matter, I highly recommend giving this a try!
I received this book for free in exchange for an honest review. This does not affect my opinion of the book or the content of my review.
Content warnings: rape, sexual assault, rape resulting in pregnancy, pregnancy, talk of miscarrying, abortion, description of abortion, victim-blaming, unsafe home environment, misogyny (challenged), homophobic behavior (challenged), anti-abortion rhetoric (challenged), religion, emotional abuse, verbal abuse, grief, threats of violence
What They Don’t Know might appear, on the surface, to be an “issue book” focusing solely on a main character’s experience with teen pregnancy, rape, and abortion. And while these kinds of stories are undoubtedly important, What They Don’t Know feels to me, at its core, to be a friendship story above all else.
This book is told exclusively through diary entries from two different girls connected only by the fact that they were childhood friends, then grew apart. They each write these journals to their English teacher as part of a class assignment, and the journals quickly become the only place the two can confide their secrets. Mellie is the daughter of the uber-conservative mayor of their small Colorado town who’s hiding a huge secret, while Lise is an outspoken feminist with a heart of gold. One day, Lise sees Mellie crying in the school bathroom and quickly realizes she needs help, and that Lise herself is in a unique position to help Mellie.
Some might think of this as a spoiler, because the blurb is quite vague, but I think it’s important to know what you’re getting into when you go into a book, so I’ll say it anyway: Mellie is raped in her own basement by someone close to her family and her church, and this rape results in her becoming pregnant. It’s a traumatic situation for anyone, let alone someone who is constantly having to deal with anti-choice, victim-blaming rhetoric in her home and her church. Something I think What They Don’t Know conveys wonderfully is that you truly never know what decision you might make in a certain situation until you are in that situation. And, although Mellie does ultimately decide abortion is the only viable choice for her, this book emphasizes above all else a woman’s right to make her own choices about her body. It in no way glorifies abortion or presents it as the right choice for everyone. Additionally, despite the traumatic sexual assault, it’s a very sex-positive book! We see Lise and Mellie coming to vastly different conclusions about sex and working out where they stand on it without pressuring the other girl to change her own mind.
The subject matter was heartbreakingly timely, what with a woman’s right to choose constantly under siege from (cis male, ahem) lawmakers. And it’s heavy, undoubtedly. Mellie agonizes over her decision, and above all lives in constant fear of her parents finding out about her pregnancy or her plan to terminate it. What makes it all the more gut wrenching is the knowledge that, for many young women, growing up in hostile home environments like Mellie’s is reality. It so often seemed like there was no clear path, no right answer for Mellie.
This brings me to the friendship at the center of the story, which provided the hope such a bleak narrative needed. Lise is an incredibly caring, supportive friend who never gives up on Mellie. And she’s not just there to function as Mellie’s support; she is a character with hopes and dreams and opinions and thoughts of her own that I so enjoyed reading about through her journal entries. Lise’s mom, boyfriend, and friends were also all total angels and I loved how supportive they were of one another– not just of Mellie, although of course that was great and much-needed! But it’s also wonderful to see characters who support each other in small ways as well as big ways.
Overall, I think What They Don’t Know did an excellent job of approaching such sensitive subject matter carefully and thoughtfully. Plus, the epistolary format was effective and helped the reader really get inside each character’s head. The friendship is one I’ll remember for a long time, and this was an excellent example of the importance of having and finding a support system. If you can handle the subject matter, I highly recommend giving this a try!
September 20, 2018
*Review copy received from the publisher
This story covers a vital topic and a message that will resonate with a target audience. But the storyline is very one dimensional which I think reduces the impact on the reader.
This story covers a vital topic and a message that will resonate with a target audience. But the storyline is very one dimensional which I think reduces the impact on the reader.
May 20, 2018
Maggi, Nicole. What They Don't Know. Sourcebooks Fire, 2018.
Mellie's family is very conservative, so when she discovers that she is pregnant, she isn't sure what she should do. She has always believed that abortion is wrong in all circumstances, but she is certain that she doesn't want to carry this baby, even to give it up for adoption. Lise used to be friends with Mellie before Mellie's family took her out of Girl Scouts. They are still classmates, but their lives couldn't be more different. When Lise hears Mellie crying in the bathroom, she wonders if she can do something to help her childhood friend.
This story is told from both Mellie's and Lise's perspectives, in the form of journal entries they complete for their English class. Mellie's family rings true for the most part, although I have questions about some things, particularly Mellie's reference to the Apocrypha being like an addition to the Bible. From my fundamentalist Christian upbringing, which seems to mirror Mellie's, the Apocrypha was not considered to be Scripture, nor was it anything we ever read or studied. Lise and Mellie also sounded very similar in their journal entries. I was reading a digital ARC, so I am hoping the publisher will use a different typeface or something for each girl, as it was occasionally difficult to remember who was telling the story. The story itself was also a bit didactic and afterschool special-esque at times, which I found grating when the topic itself is so important. Nonetheless, I could see the teens at my library thoroughly enjoying this story and wanting to read and discuss it. Recommended.
Recommended for: teens
Red Flags: discussion of rape, verbal abuse, threats of violence, description of an abortion
Overall Rating: 4/5 stars
Read-Alikes: Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson; Quiver by Julia Watts; Hush by Eishes Chayil
I received a complimentary copy of this book through Edelweiss for the purpose of review.
Mellie's family is very conservative, so when she discovers that she is pregnant, she isn't sure what she should do. She has always believed that abortion is wrong in all circumstances, but she is certain that she doesn't want to carry this baby, even to give it up for adoption. Lise used to be friends with Mellie before Mellie's family took her out of Girl Scouts. They are still classmates, but their lives couldn't be more different. When Lise hears Mellie crying in the bathroom, she wonders if she can do something to help her childhood friend.
This story is told from both Mellie's and Lise's perspectives, in the form of journal entries they complete for their English class. Mellie's family rings true for the most part, although I have questions about some things, particularly Mellie's reference to the Apocrypha being like an addition to the Bible. From my fundamentalist Christian upbringing, which seems to mirror Mellie's, the Apocrypha was not considered to be Scripture, nor was it anything we ever read or studied. Lise and Mellie also sounded very similar in their journal entries. I was reading a digital ARC, so I am hoping the publisher will use a different typeface or something for each girl, as it was occasionally difficult to remember who was telling the story. The story itself was also a bit didactic and afterschool special-esque at times, which I found grating when the topic itself is so important. Nonetheless, I could see the teens at my library thoroughly enjoying this story and wanting to read and discuss it. Recommended.
Recommended for: teens
Red Flags: discussion of rape, verbal abuse, threats of violence, description of an abortion
Overall Rating: 4/5 stars
Read-Alikes: Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson; Quiver by Julia Watts; Hush by Eishes Chayil
I received a complimentary copy of this book through Edelweiss for the purpose of review.
October 18, 2018
I really loved this book. It’s emotional, yes. It’s difficult to read, yes, but it’s an important read. It’s been on my mind since finishing; hitting me close to home in more than one way.
Highly recommend.
See my full review on my blog, Vivacious Bibliophile
Highly recommend.
See my full review on my blog, Vivacious Bibliophile
October 1, 2018
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*I was provided with an ARC of this book through Netgalley, in exchange for my honest opinion.
This book is definitely one that will catch you off guard, I was not expecting what I just experienced at all. The very first chapter had me gripped, and I stayed that way throughout the whole book. This was a very easy read, in terms of flying through it, but not in the subject matter. I struggled in reading some parts, as they were just so sad and raw. The author definitely didn’t hold back and I’m glad that she didn’t, because the women that go through these things aren’t coddled, or spared the grizzly details. Bravely, the author tackled heavy issues such as; abortion, rape, religion, dysfunctional families and Misogyny. Nicole Maggi did not pull any punches when delving into these subjects and so the reader should be prepared when they pick up this book, for some harrowing scenes. I would of liked a little warning myself, so please make sure you’re in the right frame of mind to pick up this book. I haven’t personally experienced what the characters have been through, but it was difficult for me to read at times and because it’s such a realistic and honest depiction, it could be triggering for some people.
I’m not sure what is considered as a spoiler for this book and what isn’t, because something that I thought was a spoiler has been openly discussed on many reviews, so I’m assuming it’s safe territory. Mellie is raped in the family basement by someone she knows and we basically see her dealing with the aftermath of that. The physical details aren’t discussed in a way that’s too graphic about how it happened, but enough to make you shudder. To convey just how much of a terrifying phantom this man has become to Mellie, anytime he is referred to, it is with a bold and sometimes capitalised, him, he and his. This was powerful indeed, as it almost felt like those words were him, leering at you from the page in their boldness, it also showed how she can’t block him out, how he’s become (to her) the defining thing about her life. As a result of this rape, Mellie falls pregnant and hearing her thoughts on the pregnancy was unsettling to say the least, but I completely understand why she felt this way.
It was fantastic that all of the options that a women has, if she becomes pregnant were highlighted, and how some of these aren’t real options for some women. Mellie is from a strict, Christian household that is pro-life, and so she experiences huge inner turmoil with what to do about her unwanted pregnancy. She considers all of her ‘options’, but they all could have dire consequences for her. If she keeps the baby she feels that it would be a constant reminder of her rapist, if she gives it up for adoption she’ll always wonder if she’d pass them on the street in later life, or they might seek her out and she’ll have to explain who their father is. She even worries that it could turn out like it’s father, and having an abortion would go against her religion and her parents would never forgive her. Mellie has to deal with this all alone, as she knows that her parents would force her to have the baby and blame her for her rape, if they even believe her, which is heartbreaking. Mellie does some pretty troubling things to try and get rid of this baby, although uncomfortable to read, this is probably what some girls do in their desperation.
The thread of hope throughout this book, was Lise, I absolutely adored her! She was such a positive light, good, to the core of her being. It was really inspiring to see her push for women’s rights, whilst actually wanting to help all women, she championed the idea of girls supporting girls and practiced what she preached. Lise and Mellie’s friendship was the best part about What They Don’t Know, it showed just how powerful female friendships can be and how important it is to be there for each other, with as little judgement as possible. Their love for each other was so heart warming, and in an ideal world, every women in Mellie’s position would have a Lise by their side. They both learnt so much from their friendship, Mellie learnt to look past people’s religion, or lack there of, she even started questioning all the values and beliefs that her parents had bestowed upon her and Lise learnt more about what she wants in life through Mellie. The diary entry form and alternating chapters were brilliant, as we got to see events through both of the girls perspectives, it beautifully highlighted how you can never know what someone is going through unless you’re in their shoes.
Overall this book was written impeccably, it was despairing most of the time, but this meant that it was probably a very accurate portrayal of life after rape. However, what was vital is that it displayed that you can reclaim your life after rape, that you don’t have to be like your family and that help can come from the most unlikely of places. People may not agree with how far the author went with the issues raised, but stories that don’t sugarcoat are necessary in sparking emotion and consequently change. This book is important! It didn’t shy away from difficult topics, educating about women having agency over their bodies and minds, consensual consent (even in relationships), rape and abortion. I’m so impressed that a YA contemporary is dissecting such relevant issues. For example, as I was writing this review a notification came up, saying that a man had been sentenced to up to 10 years in prison for sexual assault, this is as relevant as it gets, but unfortunately most cases don’t end up with a man behind bars. I strongly recommend this book to anyone who feels emotionally ready to go on this difficult journey with these two heroines.
*I was provided with an ARC of this book through Netgalley, in exchange for my honest opinion.
This book is definitely one that will catch you off guard, I was not expecting what I just experienced at all. The very first chapter had me gripped, and I stayed that way throughout the whole book. This was a very easy read, in terms of flying through it, but not in the subject matter. I struggled in reading some parts, as they were just so sad and raw. The author definitely didn’t hold back and I’m glad that she didn’t, because the women that go through these things aren’t coddled, or spared the grizzly details. Bravely, the author tackled heavy issues such as; abortion, rape, religion, dysfunctional families and Misogyny. Nicole Maggi did not pull any punches when delving into these subjects and so the reader should be prepared when they pick up this book, for some harrowing scenes. I would of liked a little warning myself, so please make sure you’re in the right frame of mind to pick up this book. I haven’t personally experienced what the characters have been through, but it was difficult for me to read at times and because it’s such a realistic and honest depiction, it could be triggering for some people.
I’m not sure what is considered as a spoiler for this book and what isn’t, because something that I thought was a spoiler has been openly discussed on many reviews, so I’m assuming it’s safe territory. Mellie is raped in the family basement by someone she knows and we basically see her dealing with the aftermath of that. The physical details aren’t discussed in a way that’s too graphic about how it happened, but enough to make you shudder. To convey just how much of a terrifying phantom this man has become to Mellie, anytime he is referred to, it is with a bold and sometimes capitalised, him, he and his. This was powerful indeed, as it almost felt like those words were him, leering at you from the page in their boldness, it also showed how she can’t block him out, how he’s become (to her) the defining thing about her life. As a result of this rape, Mellie falls pregnant and hearing her thoughts on the pregnancy was unsettling to say the least, but I completely understand why she felt this way.
It was fantastic that all of the options that a women has, if she becomes pregnant were highlighted, and how some of these aren’t real options for some women. Mellie is from a strict, Christian household that is pro-life, and so she experiences huge inner turmoil with what to do about her unwanted pregnancy. She considers all of her ‘options’, but they all could have dire consequences for her. If she keeps the baby she feels that it would be a constant reminder of her rapist, if she gives it up for adoption she’ll always wonder if she’d pass them on the street in later life, or they might seek her out and she’ll have to explain who their father is. She even worries that it could turn out like it’s father, and having an abortion would go against her religion and her parents would never forgive her. Mellie has to deal with this all alone, as she knows that her parents would force her to have the baby and blame her for her rape, if they even believe her, which is heartbreaking. Mellie does some pretty troubling things to try and get rid of this baby, although uncomfortable to read, this is probably what some girls do in their desperation.
The thread of hope throughout this book, was Lise, I absolutely adored her! She was such a positive light, good, to the core of her being. It was really inspiring to see her push for women’s rights, whilst actually wanting to help all women, she championed the idea of girls supporting girls and practiced what she preached. Lise and Mellie’s friendship was the best part about What They Don’t Know, it showed just how powerful female friendships can be and how important it is to be there for each other, with as little judgement as possible. Their love for each other was so heart warming, and in an ideal world, every women in Mellie’s position would have a Lise by their side. They both learnt so much from their friendship, Mellie learnt to look past people’s religion, or lack there of, she even started questioning all the values and beliefs that her parents had bestowed upon her and Lise learnt more about what she wants in life through Mellie. The diary entry form and alternating chapters were brilliant, as we got to see events through both of the girls perspectives, it beautifully highlighted how you can never know what someone is going through unless you’re in their shoes.
Overall this book was written impeccably, it was despairing most of the time, but this meant that it was probably a very accurate portrayal of life after rape. However, what was vital is that it displayed that you can reclaim your life after rape, that you don’t have to be like your family and that help can come from the most unlikely of places. People may not agree with how far the author went with the issues raised, but stories that don’t sugarcoat are necessary in sparking emotion and consequently change. This book is important! It didn’t shy away from difficult topics, educating about women having agency over their bodies and minds, consensual consent (even in relationships), rape and abortion. I’m so impressed that a YA contemporary is dissecting such relevant issues. For example, as I was writing this review a notification came up, saying that a man had been sentenced to up to 10 years in prison for sexual assault, this is as relevant as it gets, but unfortunately most cases don’t end up with a man behind bars. I strongly recommend this book to anyone who feels emotionally ready to go on this difficult journey with these two heroines.
September 30, 2018
The journal writing was supposed to be just a school assignment. But for two months, it became a sort of Mellie’s confidante and Lise’s sound-board. In Mellie’s first journal entry, she revealed that she was raped and...wait...I think I’ve said too much already. I have to stop giving any background ‘coz it’s much better to dive blind into this book. Fortunately the Goodreads synopsis is very vague, so I will also try to be vague as much as I can to avoid spoiling anything.
The synopsis hinted at some secrets surrounding our characters. One such secret is that Mellie was raped. As a daughter of the mayor with tight moral values, Mellie cannot bring herself to tell anyone about it. So, she used journal-writing as her emotional outlet. Through this journaling style, the book was able to play out effective stunts of dramatic irony. As a reader, I am privy to these info and secrets before some characters do and I read in anticipation on how these characters will react when these things unfold upon them. Like, I know before Mellie and Lise know themselves that their paths SHOULD cross and they SHOULD become friends. Highlight, emphasis and all-caps for SHOULD because this friendship is simply PERFECTION. After a slow-burn build-up to their relationship, I felt rewarded for waiting for their friendship to blossom. Also, the rapist’s identity is heavily hinted at pretty early that at 11% of the book, I am pretty much sure of who he is. But the longer his identity was held unknown to the other characters, the longer the tension is for the impending family confrontation. When Mellie finally reveals it to her family, it was a glorious moment of release for me as a very invested reader.
Let’s talk about Lise, who is a dynamic character in her own way. Lise’s experiences in the book lead to her journey of self-discovery about what career she wants to pursue in the future. She is the source of a much needed comic relief and woke wisdom. Her first journal entry is a gripe about the school board that turned down her petition for a gender-neutral dress code. She is the organizer of a Women’s Day Fair in school. Being a youth activist is part of her personality. But she has her own secret which holds her back from fully helping Mellie. She became more endearing as a character when she decided to take the risk of revealing this secret just to be a real friend to Mellie. Basically, I have a big space in my heart for both girls in this book.
The most important thing about “What They Don’t Know” is how it showed me a perspective that challenged my own prejudices. The book pointed out to me that I have never ever been in Mellie’s situation before so I have no right to judge her. Yes I have my own set of beliefs, one of which is that I am a Christian. But being religious does not give me any excuse to condemn anyone for making a choice about a horrible experience that never happened to me. The overarching theme of the book is choice. Not a few times did Mellie end her journal entry with a heart-wrenching, “I don’t have a choice. Do I?” I teared up for all those times when Mellie felt ashamed, alone, isolated, and out of options. I walked into this book with a set of opinions prescribed by the social norms and walked out shookt, confused and asking: Why should us women feel awful when deciding for our own bodies?
The synopsis hinted at some secrets surrounding our characters. One such secret is that Mellie was raped. As a daughter of the mayor with tight moral values, Mellie cannot bring herself to tell anyone about it. So, she used journal-writing as her emotional outlet. Through this journaling style, the book was able to play out effective stunts of dramatic irony. As a reader, I am privy to these info and secrets before some characters do and I read in anticipation on how these characters will react when these things unfold upon them. Like, I know before Mellie and Lise know themselves that their paths SHOULD cross and they SHOULD become friends. Highlight, emphasis and all-caps for SHOULD because this friendship is simply PERFECTION. After a slow-burn build-up to their relationship, I felt rewarded for waiting for their friendship to blossom. Also, the rapist’s identity is heavily hinted at pretty early that at 11% of the book, I am pretty much sure of who he is. But the longer his identity was held unknown to the other characters, the longer the tension is for the impending family confrontation. When Mellie finally reveals it to her family, it was a glorious moment of release for me as a very invested reader.
Let’s talk about Lise, who is a dynamic character in her own way. Lise’s experiences in the book lead to her journey of self-discovery about what career she wants to pursue in the future. She is the source of a much needed comic relief and woke wisdom. Her first journal entry is a gripe about the school board that turned down her petition for a gender-neutral dress code. She is the organizer of a Women’s Day Fair in school. Being a youth activist is part of her personality. But she has her own secret which holds her back from fully helping Mellie. She became more endearing as a character when she decided to take the risk of revealing this secret just to be a real friend to Mellie. Basically, I have a big space in my heart for both girls in this book.
The most important thing about “What They Don’t Know” is how it showed me a perspective that challenged my own prejudices. The book pointed out to me that I have never ever been in Mellie’s situation before so I have no right to judge her. Yes I have my own set of beliefs, one of which is that I am a Christian. But being religious does not give me any excuse to condemn anyone for making a choice about a horrible experience that never happened to me. The overarching theme of the book is choice. Not a few times did Mellie end her journal entry with a heart-wrenching, “I don’t have a choice. Do I?” I teared up for all those times when Mellie felt ashamed, alone, isolated, and out of options. I walked into this book with a set of opinions prescribed by the social norms and walked out shookt, confused and asking: Why should us women feel awful when deciding for our own bodies?
September 12, 2018
This review is based on an ARC of What They Don't Know which I received courtesy of NetGalley and the publisher (Sourcebooks Fire).
What They Don't Know is a story of two high school girls, two unlikely friends, told through alternating journal entries as a part of Ms. Tilson's English assignment. The synopsis says something about "three big secrets", but really there's just one of any significance, and that is Mellie's. (Since I don't want to spoil anything I'll leave it at that, but the secret is revealed to the reader in the first chapter.)
I am all for feminism and the featured topics (rape, abortion, pro-choice, etc.) and how they are handled in this book. However, the author was really beating a dead horse with the same message over and over and over. Yes, women should have a choice regarding their own bodies. Yes, many people are confused, close-minded, sexist, or just simply don't understand their stance on the matter. Pro-choice is an important thing that needs to be discussed, but not with the exact same lecture every other chapter. It was tedious.
I do admit that this is an intensely modern coming-of-age, which I really enjoyed. The writing was so-so, nothing special to me. I do think I would recommend this novel, depending on the reader. What I kept thinking while I read What They Don't Know is that it is a novel-version of something Ellen Hopkins would write. Imagine Burned meets Crank but written as a full novel (rather than in verse poetry) and you basically have What They Don't Know.
What They Don't Know is enjoyable for what it is, but certainly not a very memorable or a favorite book for me.
You probably think you know who I am, but I'm here to tell you that you don't.
What They Don't Know is a story of two high school girls, two unlikely friends, told through alternating journal entries as a part of Ms. Tilson's English assignment. The synopsis says something about "three big secrets", but really there's just one of any significance, and that is Mellie's. (Since I don't want to spoil anything I'll leave it at that, but the secret is revealed to the reader in the first chapter.)
I'm still just a girl, but I'm starting to feel how hard it is to be a woman in this world.
I am all for feminism and the featured topics (rape, abortion, pro-choice, etc.) and how they are handled in this book. However, the author was really beating a dead horse with the same message over and over and over. Yes, women should have a choice regarding their own bodies. Yes, many people are confused, close-minded, sexist, or just simply don't understand their stance on the matter. Pro-choice is an important thing that needs to be discussed, but not with the exact same lecture every other chapter. It was tedious.
I know some people will say things happen for a reason or are fated, but I think we all have a choice. This is your life. You have a say in how you want to live it.
I do admit that this is an intensely modern coming-of-age, which I really enjoyed. The writing was so-so, nothing special to me. I do think I would recommend this novel, depending on the reader. What I kept thinking while I read What They Don't Know is that it is a novel-version of something Ellen Hopkins would write. Imagine Burned meets Crank but written as a full novel (rather than in verse poetry) and you basically have What They Don't Know.
What They Don't Know is enjoyable for what it is, but certainly not a very memorable or a favorite book for me.
July 12, 2020
What They Don't Know by Nicole Maggi is one of the most difficult books I have ever read. Don't get me wrong. The language used is easy to understand - in fact a little too easy. It is written from the perspectives of two sixteen year old girls, however, so I did not expect extensive vocabularies. What made this book so difficult to read was the subject matter.
This book tells the story of a young girl who is raped and subsequently becomes pregnant. She then struggles with the ultimate pro-life/pro-choice decision. A decision that a sixteen year old girl should never have to make, especially if she didn't make the choice to have sex in the first place, but Mellie is raised by a very traditional Christian family that believes abortion is the ultimate sin. Luckily, Ms. Maggi does not go into much detail about the incident itself but focuses more on Mellie's inner turmoil.
I enjoyed this book for the most part, however, I felt it was a bit drawn out at times and at other times redundant. Mellie seemed to go in circles with her decisions for awhile which was incredibly frustrating. I felt there were a few chapters that were irrelevant and should have been left out completely. This book is meant for a younger audience than myself, so I tried not to judge the writing style so much and simply focused on the story itself.
Overall I would say this book is worth reading. Even though it was frustrating to see Mellie run in circles and meet with several obstacles, the ending is beyond satisfying and definitely worth sitting through all of the rest.
Mellie's story is heartbreaking and there are times where I was moved to tears. I believe hers is a story that deserves to be told.
This book tells the story of a young girl who is raped and subsequently becomes pregnant. She then struggles with the ultimate pro-life/pro-choice decision. A decision that a sixteen year old girl should never have to make, especially if she didn't make the choice to have sex in the first place, but Mellie is raised by a very traditional Christian family that believes abortion is the ultimate sin. Luckily, Ms. Maggi does not go into much detail about the incident itself but focuses more on Mellie's inner turmoil.
I enjoyed this book for the most part, however, I felt it was a bit drawn out at times and at other times redundant. Mellie seemed to go in circles with her decisions for awhile which was incredibly frustrating. I felt there were a few chapters that were irrelevant and should have been left out completely. This book is meant for a younger audience than myself, so I tried not to judge the writing style so much and simply focused on the story itself.
Overall I would say this book is worth reading. Even though it was frustrating to see Mellie run in circles and meet with several obstacles, the ending is beyond satisfying and definitely worth sitting through all of the rest.
Mellie's story is heartbreaking and there are times where I was moved to tears. I believe hers is a story that deserves to be told.
October 6, 2018
**I received a free copy of this book to read and review for Wicked Reads.**
This is one of the most emotionally raw books I've read recently. I wasn't expecting for a book geared toward teen to have the subject matter to be so deep and hold you until the end.
Mellie finds herself pregnant, a product of rape. Her family is extremely conservative. She's been taught and believes abortion is wrong. She knows she doesn't want the baby. Mellie carrying until adoption would have her reliving the rape constantly. She's not prepared to do that. Mellie feels alone and lost.
Lise and Mellie are in the same class. When Lise starts noticing Mellie pulling back and acting out of the ordinary, she feels like she has something to offer to help her. Lise has her own secret and while wanting to help Mellie, it may be exposed.
What They Don't Know is definitely a deep read while discussing rape, abortion, religion. All subjects that are up for debate, depending on your beliefs. The author goes into some detail readers may find hard to read but has you asking what would you do in that situation. Overall I did enjoy the read.
This is one of the most emotionally raw books I've read recently. I wasn't expecting for a book geared toward teen to have the subject matter to be so deep and hold you until the end.
Mellie finds herself pregnant, a product of rape. Her family is extremely conservative. She's been taught and believes abortion is wrong. She knows she doesn't want the baby. Mellie carrying until adoption would have her reliving the rape constantly. She's not prepared to do that. Mellie feels alone and lost.
Lise and Mellie are in the same class. When Lise starts noticing Mellie pulling back and acting out of the ordinary, she feels like she has something to offer to help her. Lise has her own secret and while wanting to help Mellie, it may be exposed.
What They Don't Know is definitely a deep read while discussing rape, abortion, religion. All subjects that are up for debate, depending on your beliefs. The author goes into some detail readers may find hard to read but has you asking what would you do in that situation. Overall I did enjoy the read.
July 17, 2018
Rating: 4.5/5
I was given this book by Edelweiss for an honest review.
This book was so powerful and I was very emotional, especially towards the end. I'm in a sorority and our national philanthropy is RAINN (Rape Abuse Incent National Network) and we do a lot of fundraising and spread awareness for sexual assault on campus so since this organization was mentioned in this book, it hit close to home.
Sadly, many women go through the things that the main character, Mellie, went through. She's raped and ends up being pregnant. She's also in a very religious and political family, who's very against abortion. I appreciated how this book mentioned pro-life and pro-choice. I think it's so relevant in the world today and it's not mentioned as much as it should be.
This book is written in journal entries by 2 girls, Mellie and Lise (who's badass and a feminist, and is someone I aspire to be honestly). I think this had a more powerful way of telling the story since we're listening to the real thoughts of these 2 girls who have different beliefs when it comes to love, sex, religion, etc. but it also showed how much they have in common.
When this book comes out, I definitely recommend it. It's absolutely heart wrenching and beautiful.
I was given this book by Edelweiss for an honest review.
This book was so powerful and I was very emotional, especially towards the end. I'm in a sorority and our national philanthropy is RAINN (Rape Abuse Incent National Network) and we do a lot of fundraising and spread awareness for sexual assault on campus so since this organization was mentioned in this book, it hit close to home.
Sadly, many women go through the things that the main character, Mellie, went through. She's raped and ends up being pregnant. She's also in a very religious and political family, who's very against abortion. I appreciated how this book mentioned pro-life and pro-choice. I think it's so relevant in the world today and it's not mentioned as much as it should be.
This book is written in journal entries by 2 girls, Mellie and Lise (who's badass and a feminist, and is someone I aspire to be honestly). I think this had a more powerful way of telling the story since we're listening to the real thoughts of these 2 girls who have different beliefs when it comes to love, sex, religion, etc. but it also showed how much they have in common.
When this book comes out, I definitely recommend it. It's absolutely heart wrenching and beautiful.
July 1, 2018
Well, it’s a hot-topic book, and there will be some polarized views, no doubt it, but I think that’s a good thing -something to get readers seeing multiple points of view on a complex topic. The journal entry format gives the two protagonists ample opportunity to confide their deepest, most private thoughts (Maggi and her deft pen must have a direct line to the teenage girl mindset). Also, we see Mellie’s (the victim of rape from a non-stranger) complete change -crumpling and folding inward- as she internalizes her agonizing struggle and wrestles with the choices of abortion or not, coming from her hard core Christian values background. The consequences of her rape and her choices are hard, and change her forever. I’d give this thought provoking and intelligent book to the right teenage girl to read. I think it would help with discussion and ideas of great importance for that reader group. It’s an entirely sensitive and thoughtful book about a serious topic. In the end it’s a book of survival and strength.
April 22, 2020
This was one of the hardest book, content wise, that I ever got through. The writing was amazing and the unique format was a wonderful way to showcase the two entirely different teen girls. It was a sensitive theme, and I needed to stop after awhile to comprehend and take a break. I know the stories, and I know that what happened could be based off the author’s personal experience, or even someone else’s. It hurt me on the inside, making me ache and scream in anguish during the book, which is good because the author did such an incredible job portraying the challenge the characters had to face, the faults of the challenge, and the truth coming out from everyone, about what they thought they believed. It was incredible. That’s all.
April 24, 2025
Note to Reader: this is one of the most liberal books I’ve ever read. It literally shits on everything conservative the author could possibly think of. Just so you’re aware if that’s not your cup of tea. If it is, you’ll probably love it.
I hated it. I hate the idea of my teenage daughter reading about how abortions save lives and glorifying it. I get that they made it seem like it was just so sad because she was raped, but overall, every other case in the book just seemed like “oh well, I got pregnant and it would ruin my life.” So ridiculous. I felt bad for the main characters situation and I honestly think it could have been written better so as not to just seem so ridiculously liberal.
I hated it. I hate the idea of my teenage daughter reading about how abortions save lives and glorifying it. I get that they made it seem like it was just so sad because she was raped, but overall, every other case in the book just seemed like “oh well, I got pregnant and it would ruin my life.” So ridiculous. I felt bad for the main characters situation and I honestly think it could have been written better so as not to just seem so ridiculously liberal.
May 2, 2019
This message gave me new perspective on pro-life movement and I appreciated the author’s ability to come at a difficult topic.
While it tried to come at the topic from two POV’s, ultimately it was very one-sided with a LOT of anger around MANY topics, not just abortion. It could be difficult to power through at times, and really did a lot of generalization in both abortion and Christian viewpoints for the sake of the storyline. While I know portions and accounts in the book were true, I do feel that it was a bit dramatized to add to the plot, which I didn’t enjoy for those not well educated on the discussion.
Book Riot Challenge #3 - read a book about a current social/political issue
While it tried to come at the topic from two POV’s, ultimately it was very one-sided with a LOT of anger around MANY topics, not just abortion. It could be difficult to power through at times, and really did a lot of generalization in both abortion and Christian viewpoints for the sake of the storyline. While I know portions and accounts in the book were true, I do feel that it was a bit dramatized to add to the plot, which I didn’t enjoy for those not well educated on the discussion.
Book Riot Challenge #3 - read a book about a current social/political issue
February 9, 2025
I really wish Goodreads had an option to rate books with half a star because this book would be getting a 3.5. It's crazy the reality of this story and how it's still such a huge debate going on in the world. I was not emotionally ready for reading what happened to Mellie but it's okay because there was some benefit from it, one being I'm more prepared/acknowledging of what my view point is.
March 14, 2024
this book had me in shambles at the end. it is so unbelievably heartbreaking but so insightful. I loved how it was written in journal entries, it made it such a quick read. Amazing book about friendship, choices, coming of age, and other difficult topics/issues that we have going on in the world.
January 14, 2022
Warnings: on-page abortion, off-page rape, teenage pregnancy, explorations of misogyny, Christian extremism, intimate partner abuse, coercive control
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