假性亲密关系

by 史秀雄

每个人都身处亲密关系的网络，却鲜有人知道，亲密也有假象。

?你生气，他逃避，你抓狂，他更沉默……明明相爱的你们，为什么会陷入无法沟通的死循环？
?你希望扩大交际圈，让生活更丰富，但面对陌生人群，却有种不自觉的恐惧？
?你渴望与父母亲近，但对于他们的观念和行为方式，你却无力改变，继而失去耐心，烦躁不已？

每一段食之无味的关系背后，都有着难以跨越的情感障碍。是什么，让看似亲密的你们产生隔阂、误会，甚至无休止的伤害？
史秀雄（Steve Shi）在《假性亲密关系》一书中，通过深入探讨与恋人、自我以及父母的关系，详细分析了假性亲密关系的形成原因，并结合自身的成长经历和大量案例，引导那些在情感关系中有困惑却无解的人，走进隐秘的内心世界，正视苦痛的根源，由此揭开假性亲密关系的神秘面纱，洞察自我关系疏离的成因，及背后原生家庭的影响，从而更全面地提升自我认知，让自己身处的亲密关系网络变得更加健康和稳固。

Genres: Psychology

208 pages, Paperback

Published September 1, 2017

Reviews

[OceanStar · Rating 2 out of 5]

kinda disappointed(because of the loose structure), but I do love his podcast.

[YHC · Rating 3 out of 5]

The book pointed out something important.
Your family whom raised you could cause huge influence on you, the interaction between father and mother would became a future imitation for you. But, this is not a dead end, we are able to get rid of the bad or negative influence by standing in a higher perspective to understand this and forgive them.

[P M · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book is about how to build a real intimate relationship without sacrificing one’s own feelings. It is practicable and enlightening.