For the women in Changing Course, these words imply much more than something to "get through" or even as a "silent passage" - it's a time for great self-reflection, exciting adventures, and new beginnings.
Compiled by Yitta Halberstam - the author of the multimillion-selling Small Miracles series - Changing Course delivers an entirely new message about menopause and midlife. This superlative work features sixty rich stories from women of diverse backgrounds and experience that capture the laughter and joyous tears of this important time in a woman's life.
This compelling work is divided into four sections:
Don't Look Back... women who find that they must let go of the past Starting the Voyage... women who are experiencing the symptoms of perimenopause or menopause The Meditative Journey... women who share their epiphanies on aging New Directions, New Beginnings... women who have shown great courage as they look to the future
This is no sugar-laden, dime-a-dozen Mid-Age Crisis for Dummies! No - this is the Real Deal. NO HOLDS BARRED…
And what an eye-opener it was for me!
You know, guys, our own mid-life crisis can be bought out, or played-around through SO easily compared to our better half’s side of the deal...
And some guys, ladies - me thankfully included - have curbed their wild broncos while young and - at the risk of seeming Totally Tom-foolish to the rest of the guys - stayed the course while their inner storm raged.
Face it: either you’re a love-and-Duty stay-at-home type dude, or you’re a wilful risk-taker. One true narrow way - or the wide open highway. Face the facts, guys.
But, come right down to it, poor Janis Joplin was dead centre with “freedom’s just another word for nothing left to lose.” Only we don’t often see the reverse side of that coin. Freedom’s empty.
And the reverse side of that last Free Fling could be Old Loser Trashes Everything of Value in his Life. Shakespeare said that “hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.” Because it ‘hath no blues like a woman at mid-age.’
You are Not the be-all and end-all for her. You never were. What she loves is in fact your love, patience and forbearance. Not your inner emptiness.
Men, do YOURSELVES a favour.
Read this rivetingly honest book with your wife -
BEFORE the Soul falls forever outta the empty listless sky of your marriage.