I wanted so badly to like this book. I didn't get anything helpful out of this, just perhaps the sense that the author was to some extent exorcising her own demons by writing it. There was a lot of emphasis on denouncing aspirational psychics/mediums, and umbrella statements about what you supposedly almost certainly will feel regarding your own abilities. I have been terrified, especially as a little girl, yes, but I have never once hated or wished these aspects of myself gone. And I don't believe I have the license to size up anyone else who reports experiencing phenomena either (I got enough of that from family and "friends," thanks). Also, and most importantly - we all have the option to some degree to develop abilities. And wouldn't that be a marvelous thing? Everyone taking a deep dive into their hearts and psyches? I'll take that over gatekeeping any day.