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Tanztee: Das neue geheime Tagebuch des Hendrik Groen, 85 Jahre
Nach dem großen Erfolg von "Eierlikörtage" folgt mit "Tanztee" nun der zweite Streich des liebenswürdigsten und humorvollsten Rentners der westlichen Hemisphäre: Der Alt-aber-nicht-tot-Club von Hendrik Groen und seinen Freunden ist zwar noch ein bisschen älter geworden, aber auch im neuen Jahr sind sie voller Energie – und gewillt, sich die Zeit im Altersheim Amsterdam-Nord so angenehm wie möglich zu machen. Hendrik nimmt den Rentneralltag zwischen Arztbesuchen und Bingoabenden aufs Korn, beschwört die Kraft der Liebe und Freundschaft und findet immer wieder die passenden Worte für unsere verrückte und manchmal schreckliche Welt, der ein bisschen mehr Altersweisheit, Humor und Selbstironie verdammt gut tun würde.
479 pages, Kindle Edition
First published January 27, 2016
About the author
Hendrik Groen
13 books578 followersHendrik Groen, pseudonym of Peter de Smet, is a Dutch writer. He is the author of the book Pogingen iets van het leven te maken: Het geheime dagboek van Hendrik Groen, 83¼ jaar (The Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen, 83¼ Years Old) published in 2014. That book was awarded in 2016 with the Audience Award for the Dutch Book. The sequel Zolang er leven is: het tweede geheime dagboek van Hendrik Groen, 85 jaar (On the Bright Side: The New Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen) appeared in 2016.
For years it was unknown who was hiding behind the pseudonym. This led to speculation about who it could be. Names from Sylvia Witteman to Arnon Grunberg were mentioned. Both De Volkskrant and NRC Handelsblad revealed almost simultaneously in 2016 that Peter de Smet was 62-year-old. De Smet responded with the words that 'he is not waiting for publicity' and 'has no sense in the fuss about fame'.
The Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen, 83¼ Years Old in 2016 won the Audience Award for the Dutch Book. This prize was not personally collected by the author.
In 2017, the books were filmed and broadcasted by Omroep MAX as the television series Hendrik Groen's Secret Diary. Screenwriter Martin van Waardenberg once again confirmed that De Smet was the man behind the pseudonym. In 2017, a stage adaptation was also brought to the stage under the direction of Gijs de Lange. Beau Schneider played the role of Hendrik Groen.
For years it was unknown who was hiding behind the pseudonym. This led to speculation about who it could be. Names from Sylvia Witteman to Arnon Grunberg were mentioned. Both De Volkskrant and NRC Handelsblad revealed almost simultaneously in 2016 that Peter de Smet was 62-year-old. De Smet responded with the words that 'he is not waiting for publicity' and 'has no sense in the fuss about fame'.
The Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen, 83¼ Years Old in 2016 won the Audience Award for the Dutch Book. This prize was not personally collected by the author.
In 2017, the books were filmed and broadcasted by Omroep MAX as the television series Hendrik Groen's Secret Diary. Screenwriter Martin van Waardenberg once again confirmed that De Smet was the man behind the pseudonym. In 2017, a stage adaptation was also brought to the stage under the direction of Gijs de Lange. Beau Schneider played the role of Hendrik Groen.
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November 12, 2017
Book 2 in the Hendrik Groen Secret Diary series, and this octogenarian doesn't let age deter him from keeping his diary up to date - and making plans for the future, not to mention having great fun along the way.
For those of you not familiar with Hendrik, he's now 85 years old and lives in a care home in Amsterdam, where he's one of the founding members of the Old But Not Dead Club! They're a determined bunch, arranging day trips and sampling fine dining at various themed restaurants, amongst other things. They also cause mayhem within their care home, resulting in some hilarious moments. Hendrik and his friend Evert are akin to a pair of naughty schoolboys - the proverbial pain in the posterior of the care home manager. Evert doesn't care what others think of him, and comes out with the most outrageous ( though amusing ) comments. Hendrik on the other hand has a more gentle, caring side, and displays a charm that's something of a rarity today. He's made a pledge to be more assertive but he remains a thoughtful, giving person and he and Evert complement each other perfectly.
It's only natural that a book about octogenarians will have its share of sad and moving moments, but the main message it conveys is that however limited life expectancy is, the Old But Not Dead Club will do its utmost to enjoy it!
It's been a priviledge to share another year in Hendrik's life, and I've experienced a whole range of emotions with him, from the laugh out loud outrageous escapades, to the inevitable sad farewells along the way. Hendrik possesses a level of humility and dignity that brings a lump to my throat, and he makes the invisibility of old age a little less so. Bravo Hendrik!!
*Thank you to Netgalley and Penguin UK - Michael Joseph for my ARC in exchange for an honest review*
For those of you not familiar with Hendrik, he's now 85 years old and lives in a care home in Amsterdam, where he's one of the founding members of the Old But Not Dead Club! They're a determined bunch, arranging day trips and sampling fine dining at various themed restaurants, amongst other things. They also cause mayhem within their care home, resulting in some hilarious moments. Hendrik and his friend Evert are akin to a pair of naughty schoolboys - the proverbial pain in the posterior of the care home manager. Evert doesn't care what others think of him, and comes out with the most outrageous ( though amusing ) comments. Hendrik on the other hand has a more gentle, caring side, and displays a charm that's something of a rarity today. He's made a pledge to be more assertive but he remains a thoughtful, giving person and he and Evert complement each other perfectly.
It's only natural that a book about octogenarians will have its share of sad and moving moments, but the main message it conveys is that however limited life expectancy is, the Old But Not Dead Club will do its utmost to enjoy it!
It's been a priviledge to share another year in Hendrik's life, and I've experienced a whole range of emotions with him, from the laugh out loud outrageous escapades, to the inevitable sad farewells along the way. Hendrik possesses a level of humility and dignity that brings a lump to my throat, and he makes the invisibility of old age a little less so. Bravo Hendrik!!
*Thank you to Netgalley and Penguin UK - Michael Joseph for my ARC in exchange for an honest review*
December 29, 2017
It is a huge pleasure to return to the endearing company of 85 year old Hendrik and his coterie of friends and companions at the Amsterdam care home for their second outing. We learn through Hendrik's diary that the Old But Not Yet Dead club is in rude health and it's comforting to find that our elderly cohorts are hellbent on enjoying life no matter what. They go on enlivening day trips, visits to restaurants and more. Evert, Hendrik's best friend continues to shock, and there is mischief and mayhem involving the two friends. Hendrik remains a charismatic and thoughtful character imbued with depth. The travails of old age hit harder than before with declining health, infirmity, cancer, and the ever looming presence of death, rendering this book a darker, and more sorrowful read whilst highlighting the strength that friendships provide. The care home itself is under threat and global contemporary issues such as the harrowing refugee crisis are raised.
On the Bright Side continues to raise the profile of a sector of the population that is often considered invisible and does it with humour, verve and wit. The realities of getting older cannot be escaped in their inevitability and are represented with authenticity and the accompanying sadness and grief that ensues. This is an engaging, moving and emotionally touching read with a strong sense of joie de vivre. Hendrik continues to provide a strong role model on how to live life as you get older. Long live Hendrik! Many thanks to Penguin Michael Joseph for an ARC.
On the Bright Side continues to raise the profile of a sector of the population that is often considered invisible and does it with humour, verve and wit. The realities of getting older cannot be escaped in their inevitability and are represented with authenticity and the accompanying sadness and grief that ensues. This is an engaging, moving and emotionally touching read with a strong sense of joie de vivre. Hendrik continues to provide a strong role model on how to live life as you get older. Long live Hendrik! Many thanks to Penguin Michael Joseph for an ARC.
January 15, 2019
On the Bright Side - The new Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen, 85 years old, is the follow up to the super funny first diary of Hendrik Groen aged 83 1/4 years old.
Readers of the first book will be relieved to hear that a second book means the sweet and funny Hendrik is still around.
We also get to find out what the other loveable characters are up to, and whether life has changed for the residents of the care home.
Although this is the second book in the series, I don't think it's imperative that you need to read the first book to read the second. Hendrik starts his diary with a catch up of the characters from the first book, which brings old readers up to date and brings new readers into the loop.
It's really difficult to say too much about the story without giving much away; it's written in a funny, yet touching and moving way. It is insightful into the life of many elderly people, and although I'm quite a long way off retirement, it does make you ponder slightly about your future care and of your parents/grandparents.
There are funny anecdotes galore; from pieces of fruit turning up in peculiar locations; a mysterious apple in the aquarium, a tangerine in the lift, a pineapple in the "gym", to Mrs Schansleh's creative proverbs.
Hendrik is such a warm and genuine character - you do really feel for him. I can only hope there is a third diary; you do begin to care for Hendrik and hope he has many more tales to tell and adventures to go on.
Many thanks to NetGalley and Penguin U.K - Michael Joseph for the opportunity to read this ARC, in return for an honest and unbiased review.
Readers of the first book will be relieved to hear that a second book means the sweet and funny Hendrik is still around.
We also get to find out what the other loveable characters are up to, and whether life has changed for the residents of the care home.
Although this is the second book in the series, I don't think it's imperative that you need to read the first book to read the second. Hendrik starts his diary with a catch up of the characters from the first book, which brings old readers up to date and brings new readers into the loop.
It's really difficult to say too much about the story without giving much away; it's written in a funny, yet touching and moving way. It is insightful into the life of many elderly people, and although I'm quite a long way off retirement, it does make you ponder slightly about your future care and of your parents/grandparents.
There are funny anecdotes galore; from pieces of fruit turning up in peculiar locations; a mysterious apple in the aquarium, a tangerine in the lift, a pineapple in the "gym", to Mrs Schansleh's creative proverbs.
Hendrik is such a warm and genuine character - you do really feel for him. I can only hope there is a third diary; you do begin to care for Hendrik and hope he has many more tales to tell and adventures to go on.
Many thanks to NetGalley and Penguin U.K - Michael Joseph for the opportunity to read this ARC, in return for an honest and unbiased review.
December 28, 2017
This is the sequel to Hendrik Groen 83 and a quarter years old. Hendrik keeps a diary. He is determined to grow old with dignity and to rise up against the care homes director. He dreams of escaping the confines of his care home.
Hendrik Groen is a marvellous character. He is like a naughty schoolboy. There are some very funny parts in this book but it is also very touching. I could actually see some of the events playing out in my head as I was reading some of the antics Hendrik and the members of the Old-But-Not-Dead club got up to.
I would like to thank NetGalley, Penguin UK, Micheal Joseph and the author Hendrik Groen for my ARC in exchange for an honest review.
Hendrik Groen is a marvellous character. He is like a naughty schoolboy. There are some very funny parts in this book but it is also very touching. I could actually see some of the events playing out in my head as I was reading some of the antics Hendrik and the members of the Old-But-Not-Dead club got up to.
I would like to thank NetGalley, Penguin UK, Micheal Joseph and the author Hendrik Groen for my ARC in exchange for an honest review.
December 29, 2017
It is a huge pleasure to return to the endearing company of 85 year old Hendrik and his coterie of friends and companions at the Amsterdam care home for their second outing. We learn through Hendrik's diary that the Old But Not Yet Dead club is in rude health and it's comforting to find that our elderly cohorts are hellbent on enjoying life no matter what. They go on enlivening day trips, visits to restaurants and more. Evert, Hendrik's best friend continues to shock, and there is mischief and mayhem involving the two friends. Hendrik remains a charismatic and thoughtful character imbued with depth. The travails of old age hit harder than before with declining health, infirmity, cancer, and the ever looming presence of death, rendering this book a darker, and more sorrowful read whilst highlighting the strength that friendships provide. The care home itself is under threat and global contemporary issues such as the harrowing refugee crisis are raised.
On the Bright Side continues to raise the profile of a sector of the population that is often considered invisible and does it with humour, verve and wit. The realities of getting older cannot be escaped in their inevitability and are represented with authenticity and the accompanying sadness and grief that ensues. This is an engaging, moving and emotionally touching read with a strong sense of joie de vivre. Hendrik continues to provide a strong role model on how to live life as you get older. Long live Hendrik! Many thanks to Penguin Michael Joseph for an ARC.
On the Bright Side continues to raise the profile of a sector of the population that is often considered invisible and does it with humour, verve and wit. The realities of getting older cannot be escaped in their inevitability and are represented with authenticity and the accompanying sadness and grief that ensues. This is an engaging, moving and emotionally touching read with a strong sense of joie de vivre. Hendrik continues to provide a strong role model on how to live life as you get older. Long live Hendrik! Many thanks to Penguin Michael Joseph for an ARC.
October 5, 2017
Hendrik Groen is 85 years of age in this, his second episode of life in the slow lane, living in the care home in Amsterdam and writing in his diary daily with his various exploits. The Old-But-Not-Dead Club is still going strong, although one or two members have left – a couple of new things have also been added to their agenda. Going to different restaurants every three weeks for a culture change; and the planning of a trip away, where the eight elderly members will stay overnight in a hotel for two nights.
Hendrik and his best friend Evert continue to get up to mischief – their stirring of trouble delights the group. Well something has to brighten their day, doesn’t it! With death getting closer to them all, a lot of the residents spend time going to funerals. But Hendrik no longer goes – he’ll be at his own soon enough he thinks!
Light-hearted and humourous as well as sad and sometimes depressing, Hendrik shows everyone that age is only a number – live each day to the fullest (then rest the next day to catch up before starting all over again) On the Bright Side is an entertaining and enjoyable follow-up to The Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen, 83¼ Years Old which I recommend.
With thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for my digital ARC to read and review.
Hendrik and his best friend Evert continue to get up to mischief – their stirring of trouble delights the group. Well something has to brighten their day, doesn’t it! With death getting closer to them all, a lot of the residents spend time going to funerals. But Hendrik no longer goes – he’ll be at his own soon enough he thinks!
Light-hearted and humourous as well as sad and sometimes depressing, Hendrik shows everyone that age is only a number – live each day to the fullest (then rest the next day to catch up before starting all over again) On the Bright Side is an entertaining and enjoyable follow-up to The Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen, 83¼ Years Old which I recommend.
With thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for my digital ARC to read and review.
May 3, 2019
On the Bright Side by Hendrik Groen
Well, this was an unexpectedly awesome book! I got roped into it and was fully involved before I realized this was #2 in the series – the first is The Secret Diary of Hendrick Groen. I’ve been introduced through diary entries to Hendrik’s experiences throughout one year to his stay in an old folks home in the Netherlands, and the sweet members of the Old But Not Dead Club. Readers get to know his good friend, Everett, Leonie and all the others. There were a number of laugh-out-loud moments! And serious considerations of euthanasia. . . .having been a caregiver for both of my parents, long-term, I know how often they thought of it as a viable option.
I loved this book. I did think of my parents, and all the elderly people I have loved and who are now gone. Makes me smile to think of them. And how very close I am to that time myself. Who’da thunk?
A Favorite Quote from On the Bright Side:
Because, as you know, once you’ve whipped the egg you can’t unwhip it!
Well, this was an unexpectedly awesome book! I got roped into it and was fully involved before I realized this was #2 in the series – the first is The Secret Diary of Hendrick Groen. I’ve been introduced through diary entries to Hendrik’s experiences throughout one year to his stay in an old folks home in the Netherlands, and the sweet members of the Old But Not Dead Club. Readers get to know his good friend, Everett, Leonie and all the others. There were a number of laugh-out-loud moments! And serious considerations of euthanasia. . . .having been a caregiver for both of my parents, long-term, I know how often they thought of it as a viable option.
I loved this book. I did think of my parents, and all the elderly people I have loved and who are now gone. Makes me smile to think of them. And how very close I am to that time myself. Who’da thunk?
A Favorite Quote from On the Bright Side:
Because, as you know, once you’ve whipped the egg you can’t unwhip it!
October 15, 2017
This is the 2nd book in the Hendrik Groen series following the octogenarian as he records his escapades throughout the year. After reading and enjoying the 1st book in the series I was always going to read this one. These books are certainly different from the normal books I read and they bring on lots of different emotions while reading, mainly joy but also a touch of sadness.
Hendrik records the goings on inside the care home and also his thoughts on the world outside. Hendrik is a lovable old man who has a streak of devilry and his writing gave me many laugh out loud moments as he recounts his exploits with the aptly named group of residents called 'Old-But-Not-Dead Club'. This book is at times sad as he writes about the autumn years of him and his friends but it is often hilarious as he encounters new adventures.
This book is so well written and although its subject is perhaps difficult to imaging being so entertaining and witty, the author brings it to life with charm.
I would like to thank both Net Galley and Penguin UK for supplying a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Hendrik records the goings on inside the care home and also his thoughts on the world outside. Hendrik is a lovable old man who has a streak of devilry and his writing gave me many laugh out loud moments as he recounts his exploits with the aptly named group of residents called 'Old-But-Not-Dead Club'. This book is at times sad as he writes about the autumn years of him and his friends but it is often hilarious as he encounters new adventures.
This book is so well written and although its subject is perhaps difficult to imaging being so entertaining and witty, the author brings it to life with charm.
I would like to thank both Net Galley and Penguin UK for supplying a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
November 22, 2017
The New Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen, 85 Years Old is his diary for 2015 detailing his life in a care home in Amsterdam. This book follows on from The Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen, 83 ¼ Years Old, which was his 2013 diary. Hendrik did NOT publish a diary for 2014. This book can be read as a stand-alone and covers similar ground to the first book.
I found On the Bright Side an easy book to read. There is some humour about life around the care home and I particularly liked the saga of the appearing fruit. I can imagine what havoc some fruit appearing at random would cause in my father’s care home in Cardiff.
I liked how things were put into perspective by how Hendrik swapped his daily entries from pressing global and international issues to the very parochial trivia that consumed the residents of his care home. The joviality of the first book was still there in places but the overall take I got from this book was of a sadness brought about by coping with declining health, death of residents and a negative outlook on old age. The optimism of the first book has gone and I felt like the residents were just hanging around waiting to die.
A lot has changed for Hendrik in those 2 years. He still tells a good tale but this is not a comfortable and cosy read. The first book was quite bright and happy but this book although realistic is a shade depressing. Hendrik is clearly not enjoying his old age as much in 2015 as he did in 2013.
I found On the Bright Side to be a GOOD read and pleased that I have read it. I liked Hendrik’s world view of things and how different generations react to everyday life. However, I did not enjoy it anywhere near as much as I did the first book. I read for pleasure and On the Bright Side gave a rather negative view of old age. It makes you think that although life expectancy is increasing, what little have we to look forward to as our health declines and we may be awaiting our death. On the Bright Side does leave some fond memories but all the sadness including the pet dog made this a GOOD yet 4 star read for me.
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher Penguin Random House UK for giving me a copy of this book on the understanding that I provide an honest review.
I found On the Bright Side an easy book to read. There is some humour about life around the care home and I particularly liked the saga of the appearing fruit. I can imagine what havoc some fruit appearing at random would cause in my father’s care home in Cardiff.
I liked how things were put into perspective by how Hendrik swapped his daily entries from pressing global and international issues to the very parochial trivia that consumed the residents of his care home. The joviality of the first book was still there in places but the overall take I got from this book was of a sadness brought about by coping with declining health, death of residents and a negative outlook on old age. The optimism of the first book has gone and I felt like the residents were just hanging around waiting to die.
A lot has changed for Hendrik in those 2 years. He still tells a good tale but this is not a comfortable and cosy read. The first book was quite bright and happy but this book although realistic is a shade depressing. Hendrik is clearly not enjoying his old age as much in 2015 as he did in 2013.
I found On the Bright Side to be a GOOD read and pleased that I have read it. I liked Hendrik’s world view of things and how different generations react to everyday life. However, I did not enjoy it anywhere near as much as I did the first book. I read for pleasure and On the Bright Side gave a rather negative view of old age. It makes you think that although life expectancy is increasing, what little have we to look forward to as our health declines and we may be awaiting our death. On the Bright Side does leave some fond memories but all the sadness including the pet dog made this a GOOD yet 4 star read for me.
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher Penguin Random House UK for giving me a copy of this book on the understanding that I provide an honest review.
February 24, 2018
The first Hendrik Groen book was a joy, but this one felt like it would never end. It’s way too long, by at least a third. Did we really need an entry for every single day of 2015? The format means that readers hear about the planning for an event, the immediate preparations for it, and then how it went – so instead of one entry every occasion gets three. With that sort of pattern, the content is bound to start feeling repetitive. Hendrik and his Old-But-Not-Dead club of Amsterdam nursing home buddies keep up a regular schedule of visits to ethnic restaurants and even manage a trip to Belgium, but one member’s terminal illness inevitably puts a damper on the fun. They’re also worried by their home’s change in management and the increasing number of empty rooms – could there be a secret plan to close the place?
Once again there are some amusing little incidents involving the other residents, such as the designation of one cafeteria table as an “ailment-free zone” for conversations, but these seemed like feeble attempts to rehash the original. I don’t remember laughing much, if at all. Despite Hendrik’s attempts at dark humor (e.g. “Stoically waiting for death whilst enjoying a nice cup of tea”), this is a bleak picture of old age. Perhaps if I hadn’t read the first book and wasn’t constantly comparing this one to it in my mind, it wouldn’t have felt like a letdown.
Once again there are some amusing little incidents involving the other residents, such as the designation of one cafeteria table as an “ailment-free zone” for conversations, but these seemed like feeble attempts to rehash the original. I don’t remember laughing much, if at all. Despite Hendrik’s attempts at dark humor (e.g. “Stoically waiting for death whilst enjoying a nice cup of tea”), this is a bleak picture of old age. Perhaps if I hadn’t read the first book and wasn’t constantly comparing this one to it in my mind, it wouldn’t have felt like a letdown.
August 24, 2024
Kolejny tom okazał się znacznie bardziej melancholijny niż jego poprzednik - jak najbardziej na plus! Do tego porządna dawka iście groenowskiego humoru, parę prztyczków w biurokracyjny nochal i... Nad czym się tu rozwodzić, jestem kontent.
January 6, 2016
Lieve Hendrik, wil je mijn bonus-opa zijn? Wat een mooi,puur, ontroerend, verdrietig, krachtig maar vooral betoverend boek! Ik heb genoten, met een lach en een traan.
September 3, 2017
Dit is een boek wat je in 1 zitting uit kan lezen, en in die zitting een hele mix van emoties kan beleven.
Verdrietig om de kwaaltjes die komen bij het ouder worden, verontwaardigd om de ouderenzorg hier in Nederland, gelukzalig door de verhalen van de OMANIDO club en vooral geamuseerd door de droge humor van Hendrik en niet te vergeten Evert! ❤️
Verdrietig om de kwaaltjes die komen bij het ouder worden, verontwaardigd om de ouderenzorg hier in Nederland, gelukzalig door de verhalen van de OMANIDO club en vooral geamuseerd door de droge humor van Hendrik en niet te vergeten Evert! ❤️
December 2, 2017
Review copy courtesy of Penguin UK, Michael Joseph via NetGalley, many thanks.
When I was given the opportunity to read this sequel to The Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen, 83¼ Years Old I hurried to read the first book before I embarked on the second. Wondering now whether the second would work as a stand-alone I am inclined to think it would but a great deal of the poignancy of Hendrik’s story would suffer. When On the Bright Side opens, one of his friends has died and one is suffering from dementia and has been moved to a different part of the home. His friendships with both continue to be very important to him and that doesn’t quite come across in the sequel. Nor do the experiences he has already shared with the other members of the Old But Not Dead club. Read the first one first is my advice.
Hendrik and his friends are still keen to have as much fun as they can manage given their advanced years and infirmity, and I found their camaraderie and exploits endearing. “Stop spending so much time studying life’s instruction manual. Just do it!! Yes, you may fall down a few times, but so long as you get up again, you’ll be ahead of where you were.” Hendrik writes with humour, insight and charm about often painful subjects - quite an achievement - and hints that his next project is to be a novel, I can’t wait for its publication.
I think I enjoyed this book more than the first, though it is considerably darker in tone - the future of the home is insecure for one thing and that uncertainty affects the residents deeply. Hendrik also writes more about political issues, internal Netherlands preoccupations (especially where care of the elderly is concerned) interspersed with tragic overseas events, the refugee crisis in particular. I’d recommend it highly, though for readers of retirement age (as I am) the situation it describes might be just a little too accurate for comfort.
When I was given the opportunity to read this sequel to The Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen, 83¼ Years Old I hurried to read the first book before I embarked on the second. Wondering now whether the second would work as a stand-alone I am inclined to think it would but a great deal of the poignancy of Hendrik’s story would suffer. When On the Bright Side opens, one of his friends has died and one is suffering from dementia and has been moved to a different part of the home. His friendships with both continue to be very important to him and that doesn’t quite come across in the sequel. Nor do the experiences he has already shared with the other members of the Old But Not Dead club. Read the first one first is my advice.
Hendrik and his friends are still keen to have as much fun as they can manage given their advanced years and infirmity, and I found their camaraderie and exploits endearing. “Stop spending so much time studying life’s instruction manual. Just do it!! Yes, you may fall down a few times, but so long as you get up again, you’ll be ahead of where you were.” Hendrik writes with humour, insight and charm about often painful subjects - quite an achievement - and hints that his next project is to be a novel, I can’t wait for its publication.
I think I enjoyed this book more than the first, though it is considerably darker in tone - the future of the home is insecure for one thing and that uncertainty affects the residents deeply. Hendrik also writes more about political issues, internal Netherlands preoccupations (especially where care of the elderly is concerned) interspersed with tragic overseas events, the refugee crisis in particular. I’d recommend it highly, though for readers of retirement age (as I am) the situation it describes might be just a little too accurate for comfort.
July 22, 2022
Yup, another geriatric fiction novel for me. We will just ignore the implications of this recent genre-love.
Here’s what you need to know about Hendrick Groen, he is perfectly NOT QUITE a curmudgeon whose ramblings are poignant, perceptive and sometimes hilarious. This is a year in the life book, which muses & hobbles along authentically. This is NOT an action packed plot driven adventure, but really, who’s 85th year is?
Hendrick is often charming, always likable but frustrated and eventually heartbroken. He is exceptional. SUCH a worthy read.
Here’s what you need to know about Hendrick Groen, he is perfectly NOT QUITE a curmudgeon whose ramblings are poignant, perceptive and sometimes hilarious. This is a year in the life book, which muses & hobbles along authentically. This is NOT an action packed plot driven adventure, but really, who’s 85th year is?
Hendrick is often charming, always likable but frustrated and eventually heartbroken. He is exceptional. SUCH a worthy read.
March 8, 2018
On The Bright Side is the second instalment of The Secret Diary of Hendrik Groen, written by Dutch Care Facility resident, Hendrik Groen, alias Dutch librarian, Peter de Smet. Hendrik is now eighty-five and, after a year’s hiatus due to grief over the passing of his good friend, Eefje Brand, he has once again decided to note down the year’s events, starting in January 2015.
The Old But Not Dead Club gets back into swing, with two new members replacing one deceased, and one now in the dementia ward. In addition to their usual outings, they resolve to enjoy ethnic dinners on a regular basis, and make another International foray. Despite Director Stelwagen’s efforts to minimise all pleasure while maximising her control over all residents, Henk and his cronies manage to stage an almost-complete coup of the Residents’ Committee.
As well as events of note in his daily life, Groen also remarks on current affairs, including the antics of politicians, the salaries of executives, elections, corruption, the King, the Middle East, and news in the sphere of care facilities. Sometimes the anecdotes are probably funnier if the reader is familiar with Dutch personages, but often the commentary is applicable universally: just change the names.
Of course, one hazard of living to a ripe old age like 85 (apart from the organ recital, in which those around you detail their ailing organs) is that friends and acquaintances begin to drop off the perch. Not unexpectedly a member of the Old But Not Dead club gets an adverse diagnosis. But perhaps most worrying for the club and the Residents Committee are the empty rooms, usually filled post-haste, but now unoccupied. Do these spell the closure and demolition of their abode?
Amongst the spate of books about the elderly in care facilities that are meant to amuse or divert, (Catharina Ingelman-Sundberg’s The Little Old Lady Who… , Jonas Jonasson’s Hundred-Year-Old Man Who…) this one requires the least suspension of disbelief. It is realistic and funny without being far-fetched, making it the best of that bunch. Flawlessly translated from the original Dutch by Hester Velmans, this moving sequel again has humour, heartache and plenty to think about.
The Old But Not Dead Club gets back into swing, with two new members replacing one deceased, and one now in the dementia ward. In addition to their usual outings, they resolve to enjoy ethnic dinners on a regular basis, and make another International foray. Despite Director Stelwagen’s efforts to minimise all pleasure while maximising her control over all residents, Henk and his cronies manage to stage an almost-complete coup of the Residents’ Committee.
As well as events of note in his daily life, Groen also remarks on current affairs, including the antics of politicians, the salaries of executives, elections, corruption, the King, the Middle East, and news in the sphere of care facilities. Sometimes the anecdotes are probably funnier if the reader is familiar with Dutch personages, but often the commentary is applicable universally: just change the names.
Of course, one hazard of living to a ripe old age like 85 (apart from the organ recital, in which those around you detail their ailing organs) is that friends and acquaintances begin to drop off the perch. Not unexpectedly a member of the Old But Not Dead club gets an adverse diagnosis. But perhaps most worrying for the club and the Residents Committee are the empty rooms, usually filled post-haste, but now unoccupied. Do these spell the closure and demolition of their abode?
Amongst the spate of books about the elderly in care facilities that are meant to amuse or divert, (Catharina Ingelman-Sundberg’s The Little Old Lady Who… , Jonas Jonasson’s Hundred-Year-Old Man Who…) this one requires the least suspension of disbelief. It is realistic and funny without being far-fetched, making it the best of that bunch. Flawlessly translated from the original Dutch by Hester Velmans, this moving sequel again has humour, heartache and plenty to think about.
December 19, 2017
On the Brightside is the 2nd book in the Hendrik Groen Series. I have read the first one and I enjoyed it immensely, so I was looking forward to reading this one.
Hendrik is now 85 years old set in 2015 and it tells of the life in a Care home in Amsterdam, and as a founding member of the Old-but-Not-Dead-Club. It tells of the outings they go on and also the fine dining restaurants and the relationships he has with the other members of the club and the other people in the Care home. They still try and have fun and live life to the fullest the best way they can. But Hendrik finds out that his best mate Evert has Cancer, an another of the residents has dementia. Not only that, they think that home future is unstable and maybe one day close.
Like the first book I enjoyed very much but this was a bit more serious than the first one. It was very emotional as well, sometimes funny and then sad, especially when Hendrik finds out about Evert and how he deals with it.
Thank you Penguin Michael Joseph for and ARC of this book.
Hendrik is now 85 years old set in 2015 and it tells of the life in a Care home in Amsterdam, and as a founding member of the Old-but-Not-Dead-Club. It tells of the outings they go on and also the fine dining restaurants and the relationships he has with the other members of the club and the other people in the Care home. They still try and have fun and live life to the fullest the best way they can. But Hendrik finds out that his best mate Evert has Cancer, an another of the residents has dementia. Not only that, they think that home future is unstable and maybe one day close.
Like the first book I enjoyed very much but this was a bit more serious than the first one. It was very emotional as well, sometimes funny and then sad, especially when Hendrik finds out about Evert and how he deals with it.
Thank you Penguin Michael Joseph for and ARC of this book.
July 11, 2019
Grappig en ontroerend boek. Nog meer dan deel 1.
Zou haast willen dat ik de personages zou kunnen bezoeken voor een dagje plezier.
Zou haast willen dat ik de personages zou kunnen bezoeken voor een dagje plezier.
March 14, 2019
Disclaimer: ARC via Netgalley, courtesy of the publisher.
The second installment of the later life of Hendrik Groen finds everyone’s favorite Dutch hairy-eared Dutch pensioner returning to his diary after taking some time off. He is now 85.
The Old But Not Dead club is still going strong, even after the closing events of the first book. In fact, a new member Leonie, fits right in. She even makes Evert blush. The residents of the home are still a bit of odd bunch. There is still also a slightly merry war between the director of the home and certain residents. There is also a performance artist who moves into the home. The home itself might be facing some type of restructuring. And like the first book, there is the potential of a death in Groen’s ad hoc family.
So, to say that there is some repetition in plot points from the first book would be a fair criticism. But it would also be fair to point out that you don’t really notice until the end of the book, and then you don’t really care.
This is partly due to the emotional connection that one feels to the characters. It is just Hendrik that one feels connected to, it’s Leonie, Ria, Antoine, Graeme, and everyone else – even those in the home who are spiteful biddies. There is an interest in the life that exists in this novel. There is also the relationship between the members of the Old but Not Dead club. It isn’t a romantic relationship (except between the married couple) but true friendship even though they all come from relatively different backgrounds. It is also hard to not swear to be like the members of the club now and in future, even if you are not anywhere near the age of being a member.
The book is also a little more nuanced in character than the first one. More is hinted at about the director, so she becomes something more than just a “no” party pooper. Hendrik himself finds a new friend that reveals new facets about his person as he shows the reader that it is possible to never stop growing as a person.
Another charming facet of the book is the reactions of Hendrick and his home mates to the various new events of 2015, when the diary is being written. There is the reaction to the new king of the Netherlands and the changes made to certain traditions. There are the residents verily reactions to the attacks in Paris, which include a redesigning of the Dutch flag. There are comments about tourists. An analysis of the Tour de France. Football talk. The comments about the various governments spying on each other is quite amusing. Hendrik’s reflections about the refugees arriving in Europe are biting.
The book works because it is so achily human. It charms readers of all ages.
The second installment of the later life of Hendrik Groen finds everyone’s favorite Dutch hairy-eared Dutch pensioner returning to his diary after taking some time off. He is now 85.
The Old But Not Dead club is still going strong, even after the closing events of the first book. In fact, a new member Leonie, fits right in. She even makes Evert blush. The residents of the home are still a bit of odd bunch. There is still also a slightly merry war between the director of the home and certain residents. There is also a performance artist who moves into the home. The home itself might be facing some type of restructuring. And like the first book, there is the potential of a death in Groen’s ad hoc family.
So, to say that there is some repetition in plot points from the first book would be a fair criticism. But it would also be fair to point out that you don’t really notice until the end of the book, and then you don’t really care.
This is partly due to the emotional connection that one feels to the characters. It is just Hendrik that one feels connected to, it’s Leonie, Ria, Antoine, Graeme, and everyone else – even those in the home who are spiteful biddies. There is an interest in the life that exists in this novel. There is also the relationship between the members of the Old but Not Dead club. It isn’t a romantic relationship (except between the married couple) but true friendship even though they all come from relatively different backgrounds. It is also hard to not swear to be like the members of the club now and in future, even if you are not anywhere near the age of being a member.
The book is also a little more nuanced in character than the first one. More is hinted at about the director, so she becomes something more than just a “no” party pooper. Hendrik himself finds a new friend that reveals new facets about his person as he shows the reader that it is possible to never stop growing as a person.
Another charming facet of the book is the reactions of Hendrick and his home mates to the various new events of 2015, when the diary is being written. There is the reaction to the new king of the Netherlands and the changes made to certain traditions. There are the residents verily reactions to the attacks in Paris, which include a redesigning of the Dutch flag. There are comments about tourists. An analysis of the Tour de France. Football talk. The comments about the various governments spying on each other is quite amusing. Hendrik’s reflections about the refugees arriving in Europe are biting.
The book works because it is so achily human. It charms readers of all ages.
June 17, 2018
What strikes me is that I see so many lovely reviews from people who are not living in the Netherlands. This means that the book is really an eye-opener for people of old (and not so old) age all around the world.
Living in the Netherlands myself, I see how elderly people are treated here; as if they have no right to live anymore, as if they have nothing left to share, no value. Every day, there is some 'news' in the papers about the horrible influence of there living so many old people people in this country.
Reading this wonderful book made me laugh and cry at the same time, and strangely enough gave me somewhat more hope for the (near) future... After all, I'm not much younger than Hendrik.
I hope this second book will be made into a television series as the first.
Living in the Netherlands myself, I see how elderly people are treated here; as if they have no right to live anymore, as if they have nothing left to share, no value. Every day, there is some 'news' in the papers about the horrible influence of there living so many old people people in this country.
Reading this wonderful book made me laugh and cry at the same time, and strangely enough gave me somewhat more hope for the (near) future... After all, I'm not much younger than Hendrik.
I hope this second book will be made into a television series as the first.
February 17, 2016
Bij vlagen ontroerend maar vooral vol droge humor. Weer een pareltje van Hendrik Groen. Naar mijn mening nog net iets beter dan het eerste deel, een derde deel zou ik dan ook zeker met open armen ontvangen. Ik heb begrepen uit dit tweede deel dat er een roman aankomt, ook niet vervelend! ;)
April 10, 2018
Oh neid pisaraid, mida ma lugedes valasin...
August 24, 2022
Baví ma tento dôchodcovský pomalý, ostrovtipný, láskavý, bystrý svet a pohľad na život.
January 5, 2018
I thoroughly enjoyed Hendrik’s first diary so I was incredibly excited to be asked to review the follow-up and it’s every bit as special.
A year after events from his previous diary, Hendrik Groen once again picks up his pen. After losing Eefje, he hadn’t felt like writing but now the time has come to get back into the swing of things, exercise his brain and fill us in on happenings at the care home and the adventures of the Old-But-Not-Dead Club.
I must say, I’ve never been one for clubs but if I’m fortunate enough to get to the ripe old age of 86 or thereabouts, I would absolutely jump at the chance to join the Old-But-Not-Dead Club. Their sheer determination to keep living life to the fullest does really prove that age is nothing but a number as they keep broadening their horizons, stay active as best as they can, laugh and have a good time.
New members are joining the fold. They will dine out on numerous occasions, try new things and even go on little trips. I adore the friendships between these members but the one that will always hold a special place in my heart, is the one between Hendrik and Evert. We should all be so lucky as to have a wonderful friend like them in our lives.
As in Hendrik’s previous diary, his entries are often moving and rather emotional. As is to be expected in this environment, some residents won’t make it to the end of the book. But Hendrik’s diary is also inspiring, uplifting and funny with many moments where I found myself chuckling. The inclusion of world news and statistics is often thought-provoking. Especially when talking about the closure of care homes and the amount of elderly people who never receive visitors and spend way too much time on their own.
Hendrik remains one of the most fantastic characters I’ve had the pleasure of meeting. He’s intelligent, thoughtful, still rather sharp witted for his age, a fabulous grandfather figure and an even more brilliant friend to have in your corner. I do so hope there will be a third diary as I am convinced there are plenty more stories to tell and I would really love to spend more time with the Old-But-Not-Dead Club again in future.
A year after events from his previous diary, Hendrik Groen once again picks up his pen. After losing Eefje, he hadn’t felt like writing but now the time has come to get back into the swing of things, exercise his brain and fill us in on happenings at the care home and the adventures of the Old-But-Not-Dead Club.
I must say, I’ve never been one for clubs but if I’m fortunate enough to get to the ripe old age of 86 or thereabouts, I would absolutely jump at the chance to join the Old-But-Not-Dead Club. Their sheer determination to keep living life to the fullest does really prove that age is nothing but a number as they keep broadening their horizons, stay active as best as they can, laugh and have a good time.
New members are joining the fold. They will dine out on numerous occasions, try new things and even go on little trips. I adore the friendships between these members but the one that will always hold a special place in my heart, is the one between Hendrik and Evert. We should all be so lucky as to have a wonderful friend like them in our lives.
As in Hendrik’s previous diary, his entries are often moving and rather emotional. As is to be expected in this environment, some residents won’t make it to the end of the book. But Hendrik’s diary is also inspiring, uplifting and funny with many moments where I found myself chuckling. The inclusion of world news and statistics is often thought-provoking. Especially when talking about the closure of care homes and the amount of elderly people who never receive visitors and spend way too much time on their own.
Hendrik remains one of the most fantastic characters I’ve had the pleasure of meeting. He’s intelligent, thoughtful, still rather sharp witted for his age, a fabulous grandfather figure and an even more brilliant friend to have in your corner. I do so hope there will be a third diary as I am convinced there are plenty more stories to tell and I would really love to spend more time with the Old-But-Not-Dead Club again in future.
January 14, 2025
I thoroughly enjoyed the first book of this series, but this one not so much. Henk is still an engaging narrator, but it seemed a rehash of the first book but with more gloom and doom. There’s lots of Dutch political stuff that I didn’t follow, and the overall trajectory was grim—-not only for public events but also the downward spiral of this group of friends. On the last page Henk says look on the bright side but—-spoilers—-only because his anti-depressants have kicked in. I hope Groen doesn’t pen a third.
July 24, 2017
Voor mij was het tweede boek wat minder goed dan het eerste. Het was misschien iets te veel van hetzelfde, al heb ik toch genoten van het dagelijkse reilen en zeilen. Misschien iets minder hard gelachen met boek 2, ook hier weer wat tranen gelaten. Al bij al een goed boek, maar 't heeft een mindere indruk nagelaten dan het eerste boek.
October 11, 2018
I loved this even more than the first book! So many lovely moments and funny ones in a life that is having rather a nice time of it most of the time in the little world he lives in. Definitely a glass half full is better to swill from. Hendrik's simple reflections on the day' s activities and controversies gives you lots to reflect on and laugh at, and a few might bring some tears. Lovely.
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January 11, 2017
Wat een geslaagd tweede deel! Met moment grappig, maar even goed moment voor een traantje te laten.
❤❤ voor Hendrik en ook voor Evert!
❤❤ voor Hendrik en ook voor Evert!
May 5, 2017
Rezension | Tanztee von Hendrik Groen Beschreibung
Der rüstige Rentner Hendrik Groen erzählte in seinem ersten Tagebuch „Eierlikörtage“ von seinem Dasein als Rentner in einem Amsterdamer Altersheim, seinen Freunden, und wie er gemeinsam mit ihnen den Alt-aber-nicht-tot-Club (Alanito) gründete. Hendrik und Co. sind nun etwas älter geworden, strahlen aber noch immer jede Menge Lebensfreude aus und so schildert Hendrik in „Tanztee“ die neusten Ereignisse und Veränderungen aus seinem Rentneralltag, erzählt von den Unternehmungen des Alanito Clubs und lässt ganz nebenbei seine Sicht auf die Welt einfließen.
Meine Meinung
Nach dem Erfolg von Hendrik Groen’s Tagebuch „Eierlikörtage“ folgt nun mit „Tanztee“ eine weitere Veröffentlichung eines Tagebuchs aus der Feder des niederländischen Rentners. Für ein rundes Gesamtbild ist es von Vorteil den Vorgängerband gelesen zu haben, es ist allerdings nicht unbedingt erforderlich da sich die Tagebucheinträge mit gegenwärtigen Ereignissen beschäftigen und der Fokus nur selten in die Vergangenheit geschwenkt wird.
Mit lebhafter und (selbst)ironischer Stimme betrachtet Hendrik seinen Alltag im Altersheim, von Arztbesuchen über Tischgespräche hin zu der ungewissen Zukunft des Altersheim selbst. Innen- und Außenpolitische Ereignisse sowie das Königshaus bleiben von Hendriks treffender Beobachtungsgabe nicht verschont. Im Vordergrund steht aber die Freundschaft zu anderen Senioren in seinem Umfeld und die gemeinsamen Unternehmungen des Alt-aber-nicht-tot-Clubs der frischen Wind in das Altersheim bringt.
"Und obwohl mir mein Vater das wunderbare Lebensmotto »Nicht ärgern, nur wundern« mitgegeben hat, kann ich einfach nicht aus meiner Haut und ärgere mich dumm und dämlich." (Seite 367)
Ich mag die Erzählungen des Rentners, der nichts weniger leiden kann als Gemecker und ewige Schwarzseherei unglaublich gerne. Gerade weil Hendrik Groen seine Erlebnisse so klar, authentisch und selbstkritisch darstellt, bekommt der Roman eine gewisse Tiefe und Emotionalität der man sich nicht entziehen kann. Die Palette reicht von ulkigen und fröhlichen Begebenheiten über ganz normale Probleme älterer Senioren bis zu traurigen, aber unausweichlichen, Ereignissen. Im Anbetracht dessen, dass Hendrik und seine Freunde am Ende ihres Lebens angekommen sind, und ein Todesfall nichts seltenes sondern etwas unausweichliches darstellt, kann man Hendriks positive Lebenseinstellung nur befürworten. Realistischerweise bekommt man nicht nur das Bild des rüstigen Rentners präsentiert, sondern auch das mögliche Schicksal der Demenzerkrankung wird angerissen sowie einige kleinere Unannehmlichkeiten und Zipperlein die das Alter so mit sich bringen.
„Tanztee“ ist ein Roman der nicht durch eine besondere Spannung lebt, sondern durch facettenreiche Alltagssituationen aus Hendriks außergewöhnlicher Sichtweise an Reiz gewinnen.
Fazit
Eine gelungener Folgeband voller Alltagskomik, Sarkasmus und Ironie.
Der rüstige Rentner Hendrik Groen erzählte in seinem ersten Tagebuch „Eierlikörtage“ von seinem Dasein als Rentner in einem Amsterdamer Altersheim, seinen Freunden, und wie er gemeinsam mit ihnen den Alt-aber-nicht-tot-Club (Alanito) gründete. Hendrik und Co. sind nun etwas älter geworden, strahlen aber noch immer jede Menge Lebensfreude aus und so schildert Hendrik in „Tanztee“ die neusten Ereignisse und Veränderungen aus seinem Rentneralltag, erzählt von den Unternehmungen des Alanito Clubs und lässt ganz nebenbei seine Sicht auf die Welt einfließen.
Meine Meinung
Nach dem Erfolg von Hendrik Groen’s Tagebuch „Eierlikörtage“ folgt nun mit „Tanztee“ eine weitere Veröffentlichung eines Tagebuchs aus der Feder des niederländischen Rentners. Für ein rundes Gesamtbild ist es von Vorteil den Vorgängerband gelesen zu haben, es ist allerdings nicht unbedingt erforderlich da sich die Tagebucheinträge mit gegenwärtigen Ereignissen beschäftigen und der Fokus nur selten in die Vergangenheit geschwenkt wird.
Mit lebhafter und (selbst)ironischer Stimme betrachtet Hendrik seinen Alltag im Altersheim, von Arztbesuchen über Tischgespräche hin zu der ungewissen Zukunft des Altersheim selbst. Innen- und Außenpolitische Ereignisse sowie das Königshaus bleiben von Hendriks treffender Beobachtungsgabe nicht verschont. Im Vordergrund steht aber die Freundschaft zu anderen Senioren in seinem Umfeld und die gemeinsamen Unternehmungen des Alt-aber-nicht-tot-Clubs der frischen Wind in das Altersheim bringt.
"Und obwohl mir mein Vater das wunderbare Lebensmotto »Nicht ärgern, nur wundern« mitgegeben hat, kann ich einfach nicht aus meiner Haut und ärgere mich dumm und dämlich." (Seite 367)
Ich mag die Erzählungen des Rentners, der nichts weniger leiden kann als Gemecker und ewige Schwarzseherei unglaublich gerne. Gerade weil Hendrik Groen seine Erlebnisse so klar, authentisch und selbstkritisch darstellt, bekommt der Roman eine gewisse Tiefe und Emotionalität der man sich nicht entziehen kann. Die Palette reicht von ulkigen und fröhlichen Begebenheiten über ganz normale Probleme älterer Senioren bis zu traurigen, aber unausweichlichen, Ereignissen. Im Anbetracht dessen, dass Hendrik und seine Freunde am Ende ihres Lebens angekommen sind, und ein Todesfall nichts seltenes sondern etwas unausweichliches darstellt, kann man Hendriks positive Lebenseinstellung nur befürworten. Realistischerweise bekommt man nicht nur das Bild des rüstigen Rentners präsentiert, sondern auch das mögliche Schicksal der Demenzerkrankung wird angerissen sowie einige kleinere Unannehmlichkeiten und Zipperlein die das Alter so mit sich bringen.
„Tanztee“ ist ein Roman der nicht durch eine besondere Spannung lebt, sondern durch facettenreiche Alltagssituationen aus Hendriks außergewöhnlicher Sichtweise an Reiz gewinnen.
Fazit
Eine gelungener Folgeband voller Alltagskomik, Sarkasmus und Ironie.
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