Bill Clinton has always been a mystery to me. This book made more sense in explaining him than anything else I have yet read. It was so engrossing that after listening to it I had to go back and read it. Here are a few highlights from it:
John Gartner, who is a Psychology Professor at John Hopkins University Medical School, begins his psychological study of Bill Clinton’s life by saying: “Bill Clinton is a psychological puzzle.” Or as Clinton’s former aide George Stephanopoulos puts it:
“How could a president so intelligent, so compassionate, and so public-spirited, and so conscious of his place in history, act in such a stupid, selfish, and self-destructive manner?” David Gergen, one of Clinton’s adviser’s, said that Clinton is “a mass of contradictions … he is one of the smartest men ever elected president and he has done some of the dumbest things.” (1)
Gartner begins by suggesting that Clinton has a hypomanic temperament. That is, someone who “is filled with a high degree of energy and is very active … They need little sleep, less than six hours. They are restless and impatient. They are quick thinking - thoughts race through their heads, and they jump from idea to idea. They can be distracted, attending to too many things at once. They are creative and unconventional … both thinking and living ‘outside the box.’ They talk fast, talk a lot, and tend to dominate conversations. …” (3) and on Gartner goes for a couple more pages. But he emphasizes how impulsive hypomaniacs are whether its outbursts of anger, overeating or sexual escapades. Gartner also says that Clinton’s “hypomanic mood makes him sunny, optimistic, and infectiously exuberant. People regularly describe becoming euphoric in his presence, as if he were a drug. … ‘He’s like the Pied Piper.’” (6)
Gartner next demonstrates how Clinton’s family uniquely set him up to be the way he is. “From the time he was born, Clinton has been torn between two women who jealously competed for his affections, and he has been unconsciously replicating this family drama ever since. His grandmother, Edith, who essentially raised him for the first five years of his life, was aggressive, smart, ambitious, rigid, suspicious, and fiercely protective - a personality much like that of Hillary. While most boys marry their mother, I argue that Clinton married his grandmother, who was his de facto mother in his earlier years.
Here lies one of the secrets to understanding the Clinton marriage. Edith was not a warm people person - just the opposite. She was a powerfully intimidating presence, but nonetheless a reassuring one for Bill, whom she guided and protected. … Hillary structures his life, as his grandmother once did, and she has also been his protector, fighting his enemies with the ferocity of a mother lion guarding her cubs.” (9)
“Clinton is not as enigmatic as he might appear. Much of his behavior can be accounted for by the simplest and most comprehensive psychological explanation of all: He takes after his mother. (17)
Virginia was intensely gregarious. She ‘never met a stranger … and she always managed to be the center of attention in any room. … Virginia was a tireless extravert who commanded attention. … Virginia, ‘If there are one hundred people in a room and ninety-nine of them love us and one doesn’t, we’ll spend all night trying to figure out why that one hasn’t been enlightened.’” (18)
Like Bill, Virginia had a long string of adulterous affairs that till now have been undisclosed. Her liaisons, including her five marriages (she had four husbands, but married Roger Clinton twice), were often impulsive, and usually showed poor judgment. … And, of course, when confronted about her sexual liaisons - she lied.” (19)
“Just as there had been a thinly disguised, erotic, oedipal component in Virginia’s relationship with her own father, she now created a similarly inappropriate cross-generational bond with her oldest son. ‘Bill then took the place of his mother’s husband.
Virginia shifted her needy affection to her boy,’ wrote Gail Sheehy … Psychologist Jerome Levin, who wrote The Clinton Syndrome about Clinton’s sexual addiction, said, ‘I think his mother was very seductive with him.’” (112)
Gartner makes a strong case that Bill Clinton was the product of an “affair.” He argues that his biological father was Dr. George Wright. (71-83) For example, “Bill Clinton’s astounding intelligence had made me suspect that a rumor about his father being a doctor made sense, at least genetically, since intelligence is largely inheritable. Clinton’s IQ is off the map, higher really than we can measure. … Bill Clinton has been a voracious reader from a very early age. ‘I was reading little books when I was three,’ Clinton said. … As an adult he is always reading at least three books at any one time, and with what is often described as a photographic memory, he seems to retain virtually everything he reads. Hillary Clinton has said that there is ‘hardly ever’ a moment when Bill is not reading: ‘If he could get away with it he’d read when he drove. He’d read all the time.’ …” (81-82)
“’He is insatiably curious about everything,’ said Hillary.
His omnivorous curiosity leads Clinton to read everything. … he never stops reading. … He never read enough! He always had three or four books going - always! … William Coleman, one of Clinton’s law school roommates, noticed that Clinton never seemed to sleep, but instead, each night read through a rather eclectic selection of books. ‘I would go to bed, get up at six, and find him on the same couch reading a completely different book - a murder mystery, Schopenhauer, a Thomas Wolfe novel, or a book on foreign policy.' (86)
“Because Clinton has both a photographic memory and an immense interest in people, he remembers virtually every person he has met.” (99)
“Marla Crider had a romantic relationship with Bill Clinton in 1974, when he was a twenty-seven-year-old congressional candidate and she was a twenty-year-old college student working on his campaign. When Marla became involved with Bill, he was not yet married to Hillary … though she knew they were seriously considering marriage. … Hillary was in Washington working for the Watergate committee while Bill was in Arkansas running for congress. What Crider told me about the relationships among the three of them illustrates how Clinton’s childhood love triangle manifested itself in adulthood. …
Bill asked Marla to retrieve something from his desk at home where, consciously or unconsciously, he had left a letter from Hillary in plain sight on the desk. Of course, Marla could not resist reading it: ‘I still do not understand why you do the things you do to hurt me,’ it read. ‘I know all your little girls are around there, if that’s what it is, you will outgrow this.. They will not be with you when you need them. They are not the ones who can help you achieve your goals. If this is about your feelings for Marla, this too shall pass. Let me remind you, it always does. …’ (43)
Bill and Hillary love each other, and they always have. …”
“One night when they were together, Marla asked him what it was about Hillary that made him love her. … ‘She challenges me every moment of the day. She makes me a better person. She gets me started, kicks my butt, and makes me do the things I’ve got to do.’ … it’s a very apt description of the role Edith played in Bill’s life. Edith was the taskmaster. … (44-45)
Veteran Clinton campaigner Carol Willis regarding Hillary: “No matter how tough you think she is, you’ve underestimated her.” (45)
“When the world learned of the relationship between Monica and Bill the question on everyone’s mind was: ‘How could he have done something so stupid?’ … we’ve already reviewed some of the reasons. Because he was a hypomanic, a sexual addict, the child of a serial adulterer, and a powerful man who could. … But why now? Was there any precipitant that could have triggered the behavoir?
One possibility was the death of Virginia. … More than once Clinton would tell Monica that she reminded him of Virginia.” (307)
“Dick Morris told me he thought there were two Bill Clinton: ‘Saturday night Bill,’ who as an adult enjoyed illicit sex … and, ‘Sunday morning Bill,’ the clean-cut, church-going idealist.” (114)
"Early every Sunday morning, eight-year-old Bill Clinton got himself up bathed, put on a jacket and tie, picked up his large Bible, and walked a mile down the hill to Park Place Baptist Church. 'When I was a kid I walked alone a mile or so to my church every Sunday. It wasn't something my parents did, but somehow I felt the need." (102)
"Clinton read the Bible cover to cover many times. Patty Criner recalled that when he was govenor he had fifteen Bibles ... 'In every one of them there were handwritten notes, page after page after page.' Other staffers told me that Clinton had filled up all the space in the margins of his Bibles. ... Carol Willis described him as 'a biblical scholar ... He can quote you chapter and verse.'"
(105-106)
“Who is the real Bill Clinton? The adulterer or the family man? The genius or the person who does incomprehensibly stupid things? The humanitarian overflowing with compassion or the self-centered narcissist who explodes with rage? They are all him, of course.” (12)