I find this book empowering with the theme being: you are in control, you are responsible, you are the author. It also brings accountability to yourself in what relationship is real to you, and what you should tolerate or see as a healthy relationship, as well as, bringing accountability to your partner to do the same. Cause & effect, trust, putting your relationship first, understanding deal breakers, knowing that your life is full of purpose and nothing is coincidental.. Definitely jam packed with goodies, gems, and refreshers. Applicable to all relationships, not just romantic.