This book started out slowly for me, but I ended up loving it. I know I must be a "Dylanist" too, that is, someone who responds emotionally, because the emotionality of the main character completely pulled me in. Sally also overthinks everything...but in an emotional rather than a logical way. For many years, Sally has been living with a man who really doesn't make her happy. She meets a man who is a union organizer, as is her father. He is curious about her, asks questions, pulls her out of herself. "She was charmed by his questions, flattered. It felt good to be here. Usually he was too anxious, too eager to please. But she appreciated him here, in this calm. She felt cared for." But she questions this relationship as well. She realizes that "her parents were in the thick of life: staying up all night trying to help some very poor people win a raise and a touch of dignity...Her parents were closer to the cutting edge than she was. She was off the history train...and maybe her willingness to leap aboard wasn't a sign of individuality at all, but how her time had deformed her.
As Sally finds fault with her friends life choices (motherhood) or career or a simpering mate, it's reallyThen she criticizes another friend, Caitlin, who has a baby...it's really all about Sally trying to figure what life SHE wants to live, who she wants to be. Her friend Beth was going to law school to make a lot of money. "She had lost her bounce But that was good. Sally's job was to rid the world of lost bounce." Sally is impossible...and she feels utterly real.