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222 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 1973
The death of William and Clara followed by the birth of Percy Florence had completed a process of Mary's maturation. Her husband was still an emotional adolescent in spite of his brilliance, frequently took refuge in psychosomatic illness, and used imagined incidents as an excuse for his erratic behavior. But Mary achieved life long stability by the time she reached her twenty-third birthday. She had learned to curb the melancholia that she had inherited from her mother. She had claimed a remarkable understanding of human nature, and she had gained enough self control to permit reason to guide her feelings. Her teachers were her father and her husband neither of whom was able to practice what he taught. Godwin stifled his emotions until they took command and forced him to behave irrationally, even stupidly. While Shelly who was so complex that he almost defied analysis released his feelings through regressions that denied the validity of the rule of reason that he preached.It seems like every time Shelly wrote a poem that was about a woman it caused rumors to spread that he was having an extramarital affair. The following excerpt discusses how their relationship dealt with the rumors:
Mary gave into neither of these impulses. She had coped with her father since infancy and her husband's since adolescence. For their sakes she had accepted their prejudices, catered to their whims, and allowed their desires to take precedence over her own. Loving them she had done everything in her power to advance their careers, to enhance their reputations at the expense of her own. Sensitive to their genius she had catered to them allowing their whims to stand in the way of her own progress. She knew that Godwin's ambitions for her were unrealistic and consequently he never praised her. Shelly on the other hand always encouraged her but treated her like a tutor dealing with a pupil. Neither man no matter how loudly he preached the doctrine of equality was willing to admit that she was his peer.
Knowing the limitations of her husband and her father, Mary did not expect the impossible from them. By the time she was twenty-three she had achieved an understanding that not only enabled her to admire their strengths and pity their weaknesses, but demanded from society, if not from them, what she so freely gave to them. She would be forced to overcome a series of crises including the tragic premature death of her husband before she would obtain the freedom and recognition that she deserved. Yet she seemed content to advance one small step at a time.
The significance of the Amelia Viviani episode seen in exclusively personal terms is that Mary sensibly did not allow her husband's sympathy for the girl or the writing of Epipsychidion to influence their marital relationship. It is true that both of the Shelly's sometime suffered from a sense of inadequacy. Shelly apparently feeling that his intellect might be inferior to his wife's, while Mary occasionally believed that she was too undemonstrative for his needs. In the main, however, each felt secure in the other's love. Mary was annoyed now an again by the reactions of outsiders to her husband's relationship with Amelia, but her ire did not include him. And it did not occur to Shelly, who was far less sensible than his wife, that Mary might feel even a twinge of jealousy over the feelings he expressed in the poem that made Amelia Viviani immortal. He and Mary loved over each other in real life, and her understanding gave him the poetic license to indulge in his imaginative fancy in his work.Mary was obviously an intelligent and gifted woman who lived in a social circle that brought her into contact with some of the leading intellectuals of the era. It is also apparent that some her closest intimates had problematic personality quirks. Through it all Mary, as described in this book, comes across in many instances as the only "grown-up" person in the room. It seems like everybody in the book had money problems. Shelly was from a wealthy family and received a regular allowance, but he was always in debt because all his friends needed financial help. Mary played a role in trying to bring this outflow of money under control.