3.5 / 5 stars rounded up to 4
In this book, Levi Lusko opens up about his own personal struggles and inner demons. He doesn't go too in depth with making himself vulnerable, but he does share several of his mistakes and hardships in life with the intent of humbling one's self, of leading by example. Ultimately, this book is about overcoming the version of "you" that you don't want to be - of course, from the perspective of a Christian. This means laying down our prideful, selfish behavior, turning away from our idols and learning to love God and love People above ourselves. Of course, this, and other things are explored in this multi-faceted book.
To be a little transparent myself, this is something I've been dealing with in recent times, and I suspect I will be dealing with for some time to come. That is, becoming more and more aware of my many flaws that are inherently tied to the human/fleshly nature, and learning that we don't have to live our lives chasing empty desires and meaningless passions. We don't have to live as victims to our emotions; giving in to anger and envy and lust. And as I've noticed these sinful tendencies and shortcomings in my own life, I've been seeking to remedy it. (To briefly clarify, I am not striving for perfection as no one on this earth will ever reach it, but, to simply love and be loved, and to realize that life isn't all about ME).
This book does well in bringing a lot of these common issues to light and examining them in a straight-forward and truthful manner. Some of the more surface level struggles that are delved into (external problems, if you will) include anxiety, addiction, depression, and many others. Of course, these all fall under the umbrella statement of Winning the Battle with Yourself. Isn't this what we want as Christians, (And I think most people, regardless of religion) is to attain the highest quality of life as possible? To experience freedom from the chains of unrestrained emotions and a pessimistic perspective? And one of the most important ways we do this, as the book will more adequately describe, is by our thoughts. Of course, this book is backed up with biblical truths and is just not a self-help guide or motivational work, but there does seem to be some of that as well. I would say it's balanced fairly well, as, in fact, much of our success relies upon OURSELVES, and not just our faith in God. What we do, what we say, how we act... and most importantly, what we think, will largely determine the quality of our life.
The author puts in solid effort in addressing several, common struggles that we (as humans) face. I think just about anyone (non-religious persons included) would find at least a couple of things highly relatable in this book. With the topics in this book, he uses a friendly, intimate and easy to read writing style. He often includes anecdotes and cultural references throughout, and also tends to lean on metaphors a lot. A bit too much, at times, which was a slight negative for me, as reflected in my rating. I think using metaphors can be great to help simplify or illustrate a scenario better, or even make it a bit more entertaining at times - but Lusko does it a tad too often for my tastes. Part of the problem I have with this excessive usage of metaphors (and anecdotes and cultural references, as well) is it too quickly abandons certain subjects and jumps into the next, leaving much to be desired and remaining surface level on some topics. A picture is often presented by the author, but he doesn't always spend enough time studying it and analyzing it with us before moving on to the next. Like a quick stroll through a gallery that's chocked full of meaning and purpose. (See what I did there, Mr. Lusko? Look what you have me doing, lol)
He also is a bit too personal at times for my liking as well. An example of this will be interruptions where the author will go off on a tangent, briefly describing something that happened to him I.R.L. at *this* particular moment in the writing process. Cute. But ultimately distracting and I could have done without such inclusions. This is more of a personal preference, a nitpick, if you will. Some might find this entirely inconsequential. Again, my biggest gripe is the briefly glossing over of some of the topics and not diving deep enough. Less metaphors, and a deeper examination of the ones already used would have been much more impactful, in my opinion.
I will say that this book did help open my eyes to some things and does provide food for thought. I wouldn't necessarily say it was life-changing for me, but I could see how it might be for some. I commend the author for crafting a fairly-well structured book that tackles a subject we can all relate to - if we so choose. It also succeeds in making clear that this book is simply that: a book - and it is ultimately up to us to take up our battle gear and begin making the changes necessary to defeat our alter egos. Levi Lusko just offers some wisdom and instruction on how to go about doing it. And I would say, minor complaints aside, he conveyed his message very effectively.
If you are a Christian still struggling to find some direction and purpose (aren't we all, to some degree?) I would recommend giving this one a read. It didn't quite hit a home run for myself, but it does contain a lot of helpful truths and I think many would benefit from it.