The Joy of Later Motherhood: Your Natural Path to Healthy Babies Even in Your 40’s

by Bettina Gordon-Wayne

Did you ever Google “pregnancy after 35” or “getting pregnant at 40” for helpful advice and inspiration on your way to motherhood? Did your excitement and hope turn into disbelief and shock when your search turned up millions of gut wrenching stories on the risks and dangers of later pregnancies and the staggering rise of age related infertility in women? The Joy of Later Motherhood is the much-needed antidote to all the negative hype surrounding motherhood at advanced maternal age (which is 35+). Written by seasoned journalist Bettina Gordon-Wayne—herself a first-time mom at 44 and the third generation of women in her family who did not get the memo that conceiving a baby after 40 is dangerous, if not outright impossible— The Joy of Later Motherhood With love and candor these women tell of heartbreak—like infertility diagnosis and miscarriage—and triumph—from healing diseases to finding their faith. They share their stories in order to empower other women to approach the topic of later motherhood from a position of strength and courage and to show them what’s possible and, in fact, natural. If you are looking for a medical book focused on only the physical aspect of pregnancy, this may not be the right one for you. The Joy of Later Motherhood is written by experts of a different kind. It’s written from the perspective of the women who actually achieved what millions of women are striving naturally conceiving a healthy baby after 35 and, especially, after 40. You’ll learn how to prepare for pregnancy, even if you choose in vitro fertilization or were diagnosed with unexplained infertility or were trying to get pregnant for years. You’ll get advice on how to get pregnant naturally and what natural family planning methods worked for other women. But maybe most importantly, you’ll learn that trying to get pregnant is not just a physical matter, but also a matter of the mind and maybe even your spiritual beliefs as these women attest to. The Joy of Later Motherhood is for you if the following rings Maybe you are worried or are upset. Maybe you doubt that motherhood will ever happen for you. We get it. We’ve been there. With our stories, we want to lovingly see you through this journey as much as we can. We’ve got you.

Genres: Self Help, Parenting

248 pages, Paperback

Published May 1, 2018

Reviews

[Heather S · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book took a weight off my shoulders!

This is a really wonderful book. It is very down to earth and filled with first person accounts of woman who had children later in life. I feel less anxious and more confident after reading it.

[Sarah Jensen]

The Joy of Later Motherhood: Your Natural Path to Healthy Babies Even in Your 40s by Bettina Gordon-Wayne is a comprehensive and empowering guide for women considering motherhood later in life. With an increasing number of women choosing to start families in their 40s, Gordon-Wayne's book offers both reassurance and practical advice to navigate this exciting yet often daunting journey.

The author provides a wealth of information backed by research, addressing common concerns about fertility, pregnancy, and health for older mothers. Gordon-Wayne emphasizes the importance of a healthy lifestyle to enhance fertility and the overall well-being of both mother and baby. She explores various aspects of preconception health, including nutrition, exercise, and stress management, presenting readers with actionable steps to improve their chances of conceiving and having a healthy pregnancy.

One of the standout features of the book is its holistic approach to later motherhood. Gordon-Wayne goes beyond the biological aspects and delves into the emotional and psychological dimensions of becoming a mother at an older age. She acknowledges the unique challenges women may face, such as societal pressures or feelings of isolation, and offers strategies to foster a positive mindset and build a supportive community.

Throughout the book, personal anecdotes and testimonials from other women serve to inspire and relate to readers facing similar situations. These stories highlight not only the struggles but also the joys and successes of later motherhood, helping to normalize the experience and encourage confidence in one’s choices.

The Joy of Later Motherhood also includes practical resources, such as checklists and suggested questions for medical professionals, making it a valuable companion for any woman contemplating this path. Gordon-Wayne’s writing is engaging and accessible, allowing readers to absorb the information without feeling overwhelmed.

Overall, Bettina Gordon-Wayne's book is a thoughtful and encouraging resource for women considering motherhood in their 40s. It provides a realistic yet hopeful perspective on the possibilities of later motherhood, emphasizing that age should not define one’s ability to experience the joys of parenting. This book is a must-read for those looking to embrace this significant life choice with confidence and knowledge.

[Carol · Rating 5 out of 5]

I've been reading slowly for a few months. I've loved all the stories and tips!

[Charissa · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was a Godsend to me... I found it so helpful and encouraging! Covering "body, mind, and spirit" is such a well-rounded way to approach the topic, and the kinds of things that are discussed in regard to these areas can be applied to overall health and life in general. Wonderful!