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301 pages, Kindle Edition
First published January 1, 2018
In order to value something, we must engage with it in a way that takes time, effort and practice. Given our finite life spans and limited resources, we cannot devote ourselves to valuing all of the things we see as valuable.
It is important not to confuse a state of distress with a state of inquiry, though both dispose someone to stand still and not do anything.
The learning of a value takes time, and sometimes a decision needs to be made now.
...because ambition [getting better at something one already values] both consumes much of an agent's efforts and does not expand his value horizons, it carries with it the danger of trapping him in what may be an impoverished appreciation of value. (Shades of "explore vs exploit", in the realm of values, from Algorithms to Live By: The Computer Science of Human Decisions!)
There is a distinctive kind of sadness appropriate to losing something you were only starting to try to get to know. (Ah, that one boy from summer camp.)