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The New Muslim's Field Guide

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This is not your average "Welcome to Islam!" book. The New Muslim's Field Guide offers a fresh approach to guiding Muslim converts, focused on helping them grow as Muslims while maintaining their identity and love for God.

Drawing on their shared decades of experience, Theresa and Kaighla walk the new Muslim through the hills and the valleys they'll encounter on their journey, helping the newcomer navigate the sometimes slippery cliffs of culture, politics, and interpersonal relationships.

Injected with a healthy dose of humor and candor, The New Muslim's Field Guide discusses some of the deeper meanings behind belief and ritual, clarifies common sticky issues, and tells stories of triumph and failure on the journey of Islam.

218 pages, Paperback

Published January 1, 2018

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Profile Image for Zainab Bint Younus.
393 reviews436 followers
April 30, 2018
As a “born Muslim,” it feels odd to be reviewing a book titled “The New Muslim’s Field Guide” - but at the same time, I deeply appreciate being given the chance to do so. While I may not necessarily be the target audience, I do believe that it is important for “born Muslims” to read material aimed at converts and reverts (and, as the intro helpfully mentions, those who are just beginning to live their lives as practicing Muslims, even if they were born within a Muslim family). We need to understand what kind of literature is being handed out to them, and especially in this case, to hear from actual converts and reverts about their experiences as new Muslims.

The authors of The Field Guide are Theresa Corbin and Kaighla Um Dayo, two American Muslim women who have lived the highs and lows of life after accepting Islam. The first thing that stands out about The Field Guide is its tone - real talk sprinkled with humour, which helps lighten the heavy information that’s shared.

The Field Guide holds no punches and does not shy away from tackling the issues that so many new Muslims face - whether it has to do with recognizing the difference between cultural interpretations of Islam and actual Islamic beliefs, maintaining one’s own personality after conversion, or the pressure to abandon one’s nonMuslim family and friends.

Even in discussions on the pillars of faith and the pillars of Islam, The Field Guide is set apart from the average aimed-at-converts book. Rather than being a dense, often complex collection of religious texts that can be quite confusing for the average new Muslim, Corbin and Um Dayo simplify the basic tenets of Islam in a way that makes it easy to understand for a layperson. Their explanations on the meanings of technical Islamic terms are simplified while still comprehensive, and do not overwhelm the reader.

Corbin and White do a wonderful job of virtually guiding new Muslims through commonly experienced minefields, challenges, and accidental faux pas. They aren’t afraid to talk about the scary stuff (extremism and Islamophobia), awkward stuff (sex), and important stuff (all of it, but especially spiritual self-development as a Muslim).

The New Muslim’s Field Guide is a valuable resource for new Muslims, particularly in a Western (specifically North American) context. It is easy to digest, is not preachy or heavy-handed with too many unexplained Arabic terms or Islamic technicalities, and reads like some solid advice from good friends with life experience - which is, essentially, what it is. As a starting point that can help new Muslims better navigate their journey to understanding Islam, and life as a practising Muslim, I highly recommend The New Muslim’s Field Guide. It should certainly be part of any masjid or Islamic centre’s staple stash of resources for both non-Muslims and new Muslims.
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Author 45 books139 followers
June 23, 2018
The New Muslim's Field Guide by Theresa Corbin and Kaighla Um Dayo is a compelling self-help book of about 218 non-illustrated pages. For a start, it's more than a new Muslim's field guide. It navigates the intricacies of the many shades of Islam due to the plethora of cultural and school of thoughts of its adherents. And hands down, it's a great start to guide the new Muslims understand Islam. Besides, I always felt like there wasn't enough out there or done to help new Muslims with salat and other accommodations such as decent support systems.

Having said all that, The Field Guide will also help people who plan in getting married outside the scope of their race and culture. I say this because had I read such a book seven years ago, many things I learned the hard way could have been avoided. All is not lost though, there is always a reason for our trials and a lesson to be learned. The Field Guide book will definitely help others perusing the thought of intra-cultural marriage.

May Allah also make this guide sadaqah juwayriyah for the authors, aameen.

To continue, the book spans over eighteen insightful chapters covering sensitive topics from reliable Islamic sources, cultural Islam, the real Islam, love, sex, marriage to Islamophobia amongst other subjects. The authors also share some ludicrous anecdotes to help the readers relate and keep them tuned in. It's truly an easy read because Corbin and Um Dayo have a certain humorous pluck even when dealing with delicate and controversial topics in the ummah.

I highly recommend to new Muslims, single & searching folks, and any born Muslim who wants to reconnect with Islam
Profile Image for Ifrah Akhtar.
184 reviews
June 8, 2021
I found this book through the Salam Girl! Podcast. I was born into Islam, but found this book to be educational and enlightening. There are a range of topics that traditional books don’t cover, such as navigating relationships, community values, and more. The authors are funny and provide sources for the religious information they present. Overall, I believe that this book should be read by all Muslims, whether you’re born into Islam or a convert to the faith.
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322 reviews
March 15, 2018
Theresa Corbin and Kaighla Um Dayo have written the book they wish they had when they converted to Islam. Drawing on decades of experience and focusing on practical advice rather than information-dumping, The New Muslim's Field Guide discusses the major issues a new convert to Islam will have to contend with in a fun and friendly way.

Written in a conversational tone, with lots of humor and real talk, this book is for both new brothers and new sisters.

The guide begins in a great place; the first two chapters talk about culture and remind converts that becoming Muslim does not mean that they have to stop being themselves. Islam is something that enhances who you are; becoming Muslim doesn’t mean starting from zero in terms of your life, your experiences, and your personality.

Like the first two chapters, most of the other chapters are practical ones: should you change your name? How should you deal with your non-Muslim family? What do you need to know about hijab, and what should you know about going to the masjid? There are only two information-heavy chapters: one on the six pillars of faith and one on the five pillars of action.

There is also a chapter about sex and marriage and then chapters for sisters and brothers about marriage. An example of the practicality of this book is the fabulous list of deal breakers in this section. Corbin and Um Dayo offer a list of people a new convert should not consider marrying, including someone who “drinks alcohol and parties” or conversely, someone who “is religiously harsh and demands you become perfect overnight.” These are just two examples; the list is long, and warns against pitfalls that many people fall into in an easy-to-navigate list.

Each chapter also includes sections where Um Dayo or Corbin tell a story from their own personal experience. These sections are a fun break in the text and either show their advice in action or demonstrate first hand the importance of that advice.

This book is full of useful information, but it is more interested in being a tool of support and encouragement than necessarily throwing tons of information at new converts. 

Verdict: I intend to buy lots of copies of this book to keep on hand for converts I meet and to stock masjids and community centers. I highly recommend it for converts to Islam and for heritage Muslims who grew up not practicing and want to begin. This is a book that you can feel good about handing to both people you know well and strangers. It is well-written and articulately provides support for those wanting to commit themselves to a moderate Islam.

This review and others about books of interest to Muslim readers can be found here.

Thank you to the authors for providing a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Profile Image for Sarah Jensen.
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January 5, 2025
“The New Muslim’s Field Guide” by Theresa Corbin and Kaighla Um Dayo is a valuable resource aimed at new converts to Islam. Rather than inundating readers with overwhelming information, the book emphasizes practical advice and shares personal experiences that make the guidance relatable and accessible. The authors make it clear that converting to Islam is about enhancing one’s identity rather than necessitating a complete transformation, which is an encouraging message for those on this journey.

Key topics covered in the book include practical issues like name changes, navigating relationships with non-Muslim family members, the significance of the hijab, and the experience of attending the masjid. Additionally, it features an informative chapter on the six pillars of faith and the five pillars of action, which are fundamental concepts for any Muslim. The authors also provide thoughtful marriage advice, including a practical list of deal breakers for potential partners, which adds a layer of realism to the discussion.

The inclusion of personal stories from the authors enriches the narrative, allowing readers to connect with their experiences and find comfort in knowing they are not alone in their challenges. The book focuses on offering support and encouragement for new converts, fostering a sense of community and understanding rather than presenting dense, academic information.

Overall, “The New Muslim’s Field Guide” is highly recommended for both new converts and heritage Muslims seeking to deepen their practice of Islam. Its blend of practical advice, personal anecdotes, and supportive guidance makes it an essential read for anyone looking to navigate their faith journey with confidence and clarity.
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5 reviews3 followers
May 1, 2019
As a Muslim for around 5 years now, this is the book I wish I had had when I first converted! And as a Muslim of 5 years there were still some reminders in this book that benefitted me, even though I'm not necessarily a "new" Muslim anymore.

I love how this book doesn't set out to convince a new Muslim that they made the right decision in converting to Islam, but rather it gives a brand-new Muslim some of the most vital tools and information that they will need to get off on the right foot in transitioning into their new faith.

The tone is very no-nonsense but at the same time kind and understanding, which I love. There was no sugarcoating on the tough issues - the information is laid out in a very straightforward way for the new Muslim on a range of topics from hijab to marriage to prayer. At the same time, this book encourages new Muslims to have compassion and mercy for themselves, to know themselves, and to respect their journey instead of trying to become someone they're not or take on too much at once.

I love that they prioritize learning your new faith and creating a relationship with God before jumping into a thousand external practices (except the prayer, which is very important to learn early) that would just be overwhelming and ultimately empty.

This is seriously a must read for any convert - whether new or more experienced, and even for born Muslims that are looking to support new Muslims in their journeys to Islam! It covers all the bases and gives enough information to foster understanding without overwhelming. Plus, there is a list of resources in the back where you can go for further reading on many of the topics discussed!
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7 reviews3 followers
January 18, 2020
Excellent Read For A New Convert

This book was so easy to understand and was exactly what I was looking for in regards to basic information about Islam and how to even begin scratching the surface of this religion that has so much depth to it that even an entire ocean would shiver with envy.

I adore the writing style which makes me feel like I’m actually having a personal conversation with the authors. The short stories of The Prophets (PBUT) and personal stories shared really penetrated through to my heart further than if I hadn’t found this book, as Islam really is intimidating to someone that has no idea. This book sheds light on major truths that are hidden under judgement and ego, especially in America which is where I’m plopped.

Thanks to this book, my mind has been opened even further to gaining as much knowledge as I can while remaining as humble as possible in regards to Islam and my connection with Allah. Life is really all about balance, and even finding balance within the way we practice religion/our beliefs as this is where I find faults within myself. This book really made me stop and think about what I’m doing wrong and what I can continue to do right to the best of my ability. I try to think twice before my actions and my words so the information in this book will definitely keep me in check when my ego flares up.

So eye opening. Thank you!!
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133 reviews6 followers
April 30, 2023
Find Allah with Smiles

She is such a fun writer. I had myself giggling the entire ride even when she was teaching us about the rougher parts of becoming a practitioner of Islam. Which includes navigating through the false things people of your new founded community will try to teach you. You don't need to change who you are and you don't have to abandon everything! What you need to do is become closer to God A.K.A. Allah. The ways to get closer to Allah is by practicing the Five Pillars which includes charity and ECT. This book guides and informs anybody interested about what a Muslim does, goes through and believes. I read this to defend against people saying nasty things about this community and now I am more armed to defend these kind people. Great place to get an understanding of and a great place to start your Islamic practice! Spread kindness no matter what your beliefs are! A true follower of Muhammad would!
9 reviews
July 2, 2023
I really wanted to like this book but I sadly didn’t. I can tell the writers had a lot of fun writing this book and I am sure they put a lot of effort into it but it wasn’t my cup of tea.

I found the writing too juvenile and frankly a bit annoying at times. There were quite a few instances where I honestly wanted to give up on reading it.
However I didn’t want to waste the money I spent on this book and also wanted to give it a fair chance.
There was valuable information in this book and would probably have liked this book a lot better if it just stayed at that. The jokes and funny lingo just didn’t work for me and some of the language used just was not enjoyable to read in my opinion. I think maybe I’m just the wrong audience for this book.

It was a lighthearted book and although I can’t say I enjoyed it I did think it was an easy read and I did learn things I didn’t know before.
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November 8, 2022
Muslim Field Guide

A well written book with lots of good information. The stories make it make sense, the explanations are relatable and easy to grasp.
Sound advice. As a new Muslim, I have a better understanding and feel less overwhelmed.
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1 review1 follower
August 1, 2023
Read this first if you're converting to Islam.

This gives a great base to start with before converting to Islam. I definitely felt more knowledgeable and had more confidence in my decision after reading this book.
Author 2 books6 followers
June 9, 2024
Super helpful. Covered a lot of questions I had and some I didn't know I should have. It gives a brief overview of a lot of topics which is good so it isn't overwhelming and you can read more on the topics as you want to. It's also very encouraging when the imposter syndrome sets in.
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January 19, 2025
Islam 101, grateful for this!

Thank you for writing such an easy to digest, uncomplicated primer. Grateful for this and such a better understanding of not only the concepts but also the Arabic words used with such frequency.
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38 reviews
February 1, 2020
A bit too humorous at times but contains some solid information for those who might not already have Muslim friends, or who haven't done extensive research on their own. This is really the first book any new Muslim should read or soon-to-be Muslim should read before converting. This book is not an instruction manual on how to pray, fast, or nurture one's belief in God. Before any of that, this book lays out what to expect.
Profile Image for Ryan Dinham.
4 reviews
April 24, 2020
Very informative!

I really appreciate the publishing of this book. Islam for beginners is such a vast confusing world at first, and books such as this clears things up a bit.
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July 30, 2020
Light-hearted but very informative

Thoroughly enjoyed reading the book and learnt a lot from it. It was almost calming to read, as if I wasn't on the journey alone.
Thank you.
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39 reviews2 followers
September 27, 2020
Really enjoyed this book. Guide to spiritual and cultural practices from an American cultural perspective.
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62 reviews
October 13, 2022
An informative read, especially to a non-believer like myself. Suggestions for further reading are also essential.
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April 20, 2024
enjoyed this read so much

This book was extremely helpful. It was very insightful as well as comforting. A great read for Muslim reverts to help along the journey of Islam.
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September 28, 2020
If I were a new convert to Islam I think I would find a lot of comfort and good advice in this book. Even as I am not a new convert, it is a greatly insightful look into the lives of those who are.
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204 reviews1 follower
July 2, 2018
So... First of all I am wondering whether or not I can give a real, un-biased review for the book. I say this because I knew Theresa and Kaighla before they wrote the book through their blogs. Or their INSPIRING blogs, should I say. So the moment I knew they were writing a book I almost knew what would the broad lines revolve about.

And the book did not disappoint me.

I come from a minority Muslim community. An ethnic Muslim community in a majority of Muslims from another ethnicity. So in alot of parts of the book I was able to relate, specially when it comes to the question of Identity. In other areas, though, the book was an eye opener.

The book is perfect for new Muslims. It is the digest of two convert sisters personal experience. It just highlights some road bumps that are coming in the way. It puts you in front of the truth: the road you selected is not easy, but is worth it.

It is also perfect for heritage Muslims. If, as a heritage Muslim, you read it without prejudice, you will learn alot on how to separate your own culture from Islam. You will think twice "or more?" before you start to preach a new convert on what you think is Islam. You will understand how the dynamics of building one's own faith work, and you will pause a second before you interfere.

This is not meant to be a critical review of the book. So do not expect me to say "But!" 😄

In fact, my enthusiasm to this book, which is the first of its kind, makes me not find a flaw of the book when I try to think of one.

I recommend it even if you are not a convert.

Bonne "reading" appetite 😊
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