“Water Under Bridges (Pink Bean #5)” is another audiobook I’m returning because of terrible quality, regardless of the story. Get with it narrators, authors and Audible.com. I’m done paying for crappy squeaks and other bad noises. I send badly cooked food back at restaurants and I’m sending badly recorded audiobooks back too.
As with many of the “Pink Bean” topics, Harper Bliss presents us with a difficult one here. Intensive bullying. What causes a person to bully? What short and long-term effects does bullying have on the bullied….and on the bully? Can a person change, or is “true personality” baked-in after a certain point? Is anything unforgivable? The passage of time often reduces pain, but does it also mitigate acts that caused pain?
I struggled, as I’m sure Harper intended, with these issues.
MCs Lou and the not-the-same-person-that-she-was version of MC Mia are both wonderful people, and Harper writes a delightful romance for them. The other Pink Bean characters we’ve gotten to know are really terrific in this 5th book, and play real roles throughout the book. The new characters, bookstore owners Annie and her wife Jane also play great roles with helping Lou and Mia develop trust, mutual respect and love. But, I must say that it makes no sense whatsoever that Annie did not know of Lou and Mia’s history, given that Annie has known Lou since she was a child, and would surely have known of the bullying by Mia, and she has known Mia for years. 2+2, Annie, 2+2.
I enjoyed the optimistic tone of “Water Under Bridges”, and I generally prefer forgiveness to harboring anger. But…in a world where victims of bullying commit suicide, I felt that the impact of bullying was glossed over despite Lou’s speech to Mia. Many of Lou’s friends said that after 15 years, it’s time to forgive. The news is filled today with rich and powerful people expecting forgiveness for sexual harassment, and even forgiveness for abuse and rape because the events occurred a decade ago. Did the passing of time make their actions less heinous?
Lou became a strong person despite her terrible experiences being bullied. Had she succumbed to her depression and committed suicide in high school, would we still be expected to forgive Mia for her bullying? Is forgiveness for an action dependent on the results of an action? It often is, of course - we sentence attempted murderers to less time in prison than successful murderers, so the result of two identical actions can and do differ dependent upon the results of those actions.
But, I struggle with accepting that it’s ok years later to forgive the heinous actions of Mia. I want to forgive her, and I accept that Lou does, but it just feels too crammed down our throats. Especially because Harper gives us a but-my-dad-was-a-bad-influence on me excuse for Mia. At 7yo kids often do and say bad things because of their parents. I can forgive a 7yo bully who changes. At 17yo one is responsible enough to to take ownership for bullying behavior, and it’s more difficult to forgive. Mia does take ownership, though, and that goes a long way toward my accepting Lou’s forgiveness for Mia’s bullying.
Well, I’ve rambled on about the theme without saying a whole lot about the book. I like that it made me think about things for which there can be great pain, but there are no easy answers. I like that in “Water Under Bridges” Mia truly hates who she was, and has become a person I’d like to meet. And I like that Lou won’t carry anger and bitterness and hatred in her heart for the rest of her life. Would that we all could let go of hurts and move forward into a happier and loving future. 4* for “Water Under Bridges”. Harper Bliss wrote a terrific story with terrific characters. Angela Dawe did a good job with voicing the book, but a terrible job with the recording. Or, perhaps, post-production by an audio engineer introduced defects into her recording….I guess I don’t know the origin, but I was very annoyed with what Audible.com is selling us.