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242 pages, Paperback
First published June 1, 1983
This highly readable account of an anthropologist’s sojourn in rural Japan is as much a story about friendship transcending cultural differences as it is a description of Japanese rural society. It will appeal to anyone who appreciates the endless variety of ways in which human beings connect with each other.
In 1974, Gail Lee Bernstein went to live with Shōichi and Haruko Utsunomiya in the hamlet of Bessho, Uwa-chō, Higashiuwa-gun (most of which became Seiyo City in 2004), Ehime Prefecture (on Shikoku). Bernstein’s objective was to study the lives of rural farm women in Japan. In this book she tells us what she learned, centering her narrative on the life of Haruko Utsunomiya. Bernstein developed a warm personal relationship with her subject; as a result, her book reads more like a memoir than a scholarly monograph (a fortunate result from the perspective of the general reader).
Bernstein is an astute observer of personalities and relationships, but her material seems to illustrate universal aspects of human nature rather than anything specific to rural Japan. I suppose this shows how social anthropology will inevitably bleed into literature.
The reader senses that Bernstein was up against two cultural divides: one separating East from West and another separating town and country. One is sometimes left wondering if she had ever visited an American farm household before going to Japan. Her decision to “dress down” in the presence of her hosts (thinking she could relate more easily to them if she adopted an earthier persona) betrays a misunderstanding common among city folk who have never stayed overnight on a farm.
Bernstein remained in touch with the Utsuonomiyas for some decades after her initial visit. The later chapters of the book describe the changes in the couple’s lives and in the community at large that she observed over this period. This long-term perspective gives added power to the humane instincts that permeate this thoughtful book.