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How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life
Are you dissatisfied with your spiritual life?
Do you feel stuck or stagnant? Are you tired of going through the motions of faith? Do you want to make real progress in your life, but not know where to start? How to Grow is a book for people who want to grow spiritually and help others grow as well.
We often see the gospel as the starting point of the Christian life, rather than the main point of all of life. But the truth is that the gospel is the key to all ongoing growth in our lives. As Galatians 2:14 says, we are called to live our whole lives “in step with the truth of the gospel.” In How to Grow, Darryl Dash will walk you through a practical, habit-based approach to spiritual growth.
Join Darryl as he unpacks the gospel, shows how it applies to every area of your life, and helps you evaluate your current stage of growth so you know what steps to take next. You’ll learn why habits are important, how to build them, and which ones to focus on first. Plus, you’ll discover the roles that joy and desire play in our spiritual growth journey.
Practical without being formulaic, How to Grow offers actionable ideas to facilitate spiritual growth in the lives of regular, messy people—people like you and me.
Do you feel stuck or stagnant? Are you tired of going through the motions of faith? Do you want to make real progress in your life, but not know where to start? How to Grow is a book for people who want to grow spiritually and help others grow as well.
We often see the gospel as the starting point of the Christian life, rather than the main point of all of life. But the truth is that the gospel is the key to all ongoing growth in our lives. As Galatians 2:14 says, we are called to live our whole lives “in step with the truth of the gospel.” In How to Grow, Darryl Dash will walk you through a practical, habit-based approach to spiritual growth.
Join Darryl as he unpacks the gospel, shows how it applies to every area of your life, and helps you evaluate your current stage of growth so you know what steps to take next. You’ll learn why habits are important, how to build them, and which ones to focus on first. Plus, you’ll discover the roles that joy and desire play in our spiritual growth journey.
Practical without being formulaic, How to Grow offers actionable ideas to facilitate spiritual growth in the lives of regular, messy people—people like you and me.
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Published August 7, 2018
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Darryl Dash
4 books38 followersDARRYL DASH is pastor of Liberty Grace Church in Toronto. He is also cofounder of Gospel for Life, and director of Advance Church Planting Institute. He has a Doctor of Ministry degree from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary, and has over 25 years of ministry experience. Darryl is married to Charlene, and has two adult children, Christy and Josiah. You can find Darryl online at www.DashHouse.com.
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June 16, 2018
How To Grow by Darryl Dash
I really enjoyed this spiritually inspiring book because it is written in such a humble, conversational style. The author engaged me to want to grow spiritually and wasn't the least bit preachy or heavy handed. It was appreciated by me that the author who is a pastor writes very practical and easy steps to incorporate growing my spiritual side. My favorite quote from the book was: "We tend to believe nobody's watching, They are. Never give into the lie that you're too invisible to shape the lives of others. You are already influencing people more than you know."
I also liked that he discussed habits. He talks about how to shrink down a new habit you want to form so it is so easy you can manage incorporating it into your life by only doing it for one minute. I found this valuable because we are on auto pilot going through our habits most of the time. I find it appealing to motivate myself to give my self permission to just do a goal for one minute. I know I can succeed for one minute each day until I reach my goal.
Thank you to Net Galley, Darryl Dash and Moody Publishers for providing me with my ARC in exchange for a fair and honest review.
I really enjoyed this spiritually inspiring book because it is written in such a humble, conversational style. The author engaged me to want to grow spiritually and wasn't the least bit preachy or heavy handed. It was appreciated by me that the author who is a pastor writes very practical and easy steps to incorporate growing my spiritual side. My favorite quote from the book was: "We tend to believe nobody's watching, They are. Never give into the lie that you're too invisible to shape the lives of others. You are already influencing people more than you know."
I also liked that he discussed habits. He talks about how to shrink down a new habit you want to form so it is so easy you can manage incorporating it into your life by only doing it for one minute. I found this valuable because we are on auto pilot going through our habits most of the time. I find it appealing to motivate myself to give my self permission to just do a goal for one minute. I know I can succeed for one minute each day until I reach my goal.
Thank you to Net Galley, Darryl Dash and Moody Publishers for providing me with my ARC in exchange for a fair and honest review.
October 3, 2018
Good book. Easy read. Outlines the basic spiritual disciplines within the context of the gospel. Does a good job of showing us how developing habits is truly how growth occurs and yet we have to guard our hearts against legalism. However, neglecting these habits as a means of avoiding legalism is not healthy or helpful. Chapter 7 was my favorite because I’ve read other books that cover the foundation of habits, but his explanation of the 3 core habits is superb.
August 9, 2018
This is not the kind of book that I would usually look for in a bookstore, but as soon as I began to read How To Grow it became clear to me that it was a book I absolutely had to read. As an apologist I am typically concerned with books focusing on hard scientific, philosophical, or historical evidence for Christianity and not with spiritual growth.
Darryl's theologically sound approach to growing in faith is unique in that it is not only practical, but it is also intellectual and rooted in proven, well researched methods. I couldn't recommend this book more. I now approach my own work with greater vigour and with a mind to growing in faith all because I read Darryl's book.
Darryl's theologically sound approach to growing in faith is unique in that it is not only practical, but it is also intellectual and rooted in proven, well researched methods. I couldn't recommend this book more. I now approach my own work with greater vigour and with a mind to growing in faith all because I read Darryl's book.
August 12, 2018
How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life is an excellent book for a new believer starting his or her walk in Christ, and beneficial for someone who has been in the faith for a number of years, because Darryl Dash gives very specific suggestions as to what are some of the best practices that will create habits for maximum spiritual growth. He delineates various practices that are imperative in order to create the conditions for growth in our spiritual lives as individuals and also as members of the community of faith.
He makes it very pellucid that these practices are not ends in themselves, but catalysts to propel us to grow individually in our love for God, that everything that we do needs to be accomplished with the aim to grow closer to God, to have a deeper relationship with Him, and in turn with others. It is not enough to grow individually, but to reach out and help others in need, to mentor others. Otherwise, it's just a selfish endeavor, and there are many exhortations to serve others.
I appreciate his suggested practices of bible reading, praying, worship, and service.
The following are some passages that I found salient:
"Many of our approaches to spiritual growth assume too much about our ability to affect change ourselves. Instead of self-help, our hope rests in the fact that God’s divine power 'has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence' (2 Peter 1:3). Any attempts to grow apart from God are doomed to fail." (46)
"So, go beyond self-help. Don’t be content with seeking information, a new approach, or superficial change. Don’t settle for less than God desires. It’s tragic when we succeed at the wrong goal. Our goal in growth must be nothing less than what God intends for us."(47)
"So often we think the Christian life is just about forgiveness of our sins, losing sight of God’s plan to completely transform us. We settle for an impoverished vision of growth in one or two areas of life, when God’s desire is to reign over every part. We believe growth is up to us, forgetting that the Spirit dwells within us. We think of sanctification in lofty, abstract terms, neglecting to translate it into the rhythms of our moments and days." (48)
"The real goal of growth is that our hearts are changed so that we love God more than anything or anyone else, and love the things that He loves."
"Sometimes the best we have to offer comes from our weaknesses, not our strengths. God allows us to come alongside others who are going through difficulty. Because we’ve been there, or are there, we’re able to understand and help."
"I'm learning that prayer is about coming to God with our helplessness and the mess of our lives. It means telling God exactly what's on our minds and asking for His help. I want to come to God all put together; God wants me to come to Him as I am. Jesus died for the real you, so come to God with the real you. Come with your temptations, struggles, doubts, and anxiety. Come confessing that you don't want to pray. Come as you are."
"Prayer isn't just something we do at a certain time. It's meant to permeate our life, so that we pray repeatedly and often, so much so that we can say it's how we manage our lives."
Darryl Dash's book is very practical. I highly recommend it.
He makes it very pellucid that these practices are not ends in themselves, but catalysts to propel us to grow individually in our love for God, that everything that we do needs to be accomplished with the aim to grow closer to God, to have a deeper relationship with Him, and in turn with others. It is not enough to grow individually, but to reach out and help others in need, to mentor others. Otherwise, it's just a selfish endeavor, and there are many exhortations to serve others.
I appreciate his suggested practices of bible reading, praying, worship, and service.
The following are some passages that I found salient:
"Many of our approaches to spiritual growth assume too much about our ability to affect change ourselves. Instead of self-help, our hope rests in the fact that God’s divine power 'has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence' (2 Peter 1:3). Any attempts to grow apart from God are doomed to fail." (46)
"So, go beyond self-help. Don’t be content with seeking information, a new approach, or superficial change. Don’t settle for less than God desires. It’s tragic when we succeed at the wrong goal. Our goal in growth must be nothing less than what God intends for us."(47)
"So often we think the Christian life is just about forgiveness of our sins, losing sight of God’s plan to completely transform us. We settle for an impoverished vision of growth in one or two areas of life, when God’s desire is to reign over every part. We believe growth is up to us, forgetting that the Spirit dwells within us. We think of sanctification in lofty, abstract terms, neglecting to translate it into the rhythms of our moments and days." (48)
"The real goal of growth is that our hearts are changed so that we love God more than anything or anyone else, and love the things that He loves."
"Sometimes the best we have to offer comes from our weaknesses, not our strengths. God allows us to come alongside others who are going through difficulty. Because we’ve been there, or are there, we’re able to understand and help."
"I'm learning that prayer is about coming to God with our helplessness and the mess of our lives. It means telling God exactly what's on our minds and asking for His help. I want to come to God all put together; God wants me to come to Him as I am. Jesus died for the real you, so come to God with the real you. Come with your temptations, struggles, doubts, and anxiety. Come confessing that you don't want to pray. Come as you are."
"Prayer isn't just something we do at a certain time. It's meant to permeate our life, so that we pray repeatedly and often, so much so that we can say it's how we manage our lives."
Darryl Dash's book is very practical. I highly recommend it.
August 13, 2018
There’s a tree in my yard that is different than the others. It sits in a row of other trees, very similar in type and size. One of the biggest differences is the color. All of the trees are a good, vibrant green, but this one tree different than the rest is a dull brown color. Something happened to this tree, and it is no longer vibrant like the other trees surrounding it. It has stopped receiving the nutrients it needs to thrive in that environment.
Living things grow, but not by accident. Growth does not happen in a vacuum--it is the combination of a number of factors all working together toward the health of something that causes it to grow. Darryl Dash writes this excellent book, How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life, with the intent of helping believers of Jesus Christ grow in their faith.
The Christian faith is not something to tack on to the rest of life but is a complete overhaul and transformation of life by grace through faith in Jesus Christ. Jesus came that we might have life, and life more abundantly.
Our desires, loves, pursuits all change in light of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
But, when we look around at “Christianity,” especially in our Western culture, there is not a whole lot of thriving that takes place. We take growth for granted and don’t pursue it. We take our faith for granted and often buy into the myth that once we are saved we can stop worrying about it, act kind of good and go to church and sometimes give money to the church, and that’s all that is asked of a Christian. But that’s definitely not what the Bible communicates!!
God created life, and He certainly knows a thing or two about creating a thriving environment where we can grow vibrantly and experience life in ways that we never could have imagined. That’s what Jesus came to do. He came to show us life as it was meant to be.
If you find yourself struggling in your faith, uncertain of what it means to be a Christian, stuck in a rut in your faith, or really anywhere in the journey of Christianity, this book is for you. It will be a challenge to those who aren’t growing, and it will be an encouragement and little extra push to those who are growing. Make sure you pick up a copy of this book today and get ready to do something while you read and after you finish! There are a ton of action points in the book, some at the end of every chapter, that takes this from a nice read to a new way of living.
Pick up a copy from Moody Publishers, Amazon, or really wherever you buy books from!
Living things grow, but not by accident. Growth does not happen in a vacuum--it is the combination of a number of factors all working together toward the health of something that causes it to grow. Darryl Dash writes this excellent book, How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life, with the intent of helping believers of Jesus Christ grow in their faith.
The Christian faith is not something to tack on to the rest of life but is a complete overhaul and transformation of life by grace through faith in Jesus Christ. Jesus came that we might have life, and life more abundantly.
Our desires, loves, pursuits all change in light of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
But, when we look around at “Christianity,” especially in our Western culture, there is not a whole lot of thriving that takes place. We take growth for granted and don’t pursue it. We take our faith for granted and often buy into the myth that once we are saved we can stop worrying about it, act kind of good and go to church and sometimes give money to the church, and that’s all that is asked of a Christian. But that’s definitely not what the Bible communicates!!
God created life, and He certainly knows a thing or two about creating a thriving environment where we can grow vibrantly and experience life in ways that we never could have imagined. That’s what Jesus came to do. He came to show us life as it was meant to be.
If you find yourself struggling in your faith, uncertain of what it means to be a Christian, stuck in a rut in your faith, or really anywhere in the journey of Christianity, this book is for you. It will be a challenge to those who aren’t growing, and it will be an encouragement and little extra push to those who are growing. Make sure you pick up a copy of this book today and get ready to do something while you read and after you finish! There are a ton of action points in the book, some at the end of every chapter, that takes this from a nice read to a new way of living.
Pick up a copy from Moody Publishers, Amazon, or really wherever you buy books from!
January 3, 2019
I'm always looking for ways to increase my spiritual growth. I love books that offer plenty of practical help that I can install into my own life. So, when I saw Dash's "How to Grow" I was immediately drawn to read the book.
I must admit, I was skeptical when I saw the title, though. "How to Grow" seemed to me to just be another book on methods that might work for some people, but not for all people. I've read Christian books that offer practical ways to increase your spiritual growth, yet those ways are catered to a select few.
That is not the case with "How to Grow" by Darryl Dash.
This book offers an old, but at the same time fresh, view of growing in the faith. Dash's book begins with a whole chapter dedicated to explaining the glorious news of the gospel. The first chapter serves as a wonderful foundation for the rest of what Dash will say in the following chapters. This would be a chapter any Christian could learn from in order to share the gospel with the lost!
The following chapters build upon the foundation of the gospel. In this way, Dash offers a different way of approaching spiritual growth. Other books on this subject usually dive right into the practical steps to improve the reader's life. "How to Grow" begins with an explanation of the gospel, the Christian's need for growth, and then launches into practical helps for the Christian life.
Overall, this book was an enjoyable read! The best part about this book is that it includes at the end of each chapter, a summary of what was said, questions to reflect on what was said, and very practical steps to put into action what was said in the chapter.
"How to Grow" can be a quick read, but really, it will require return visits to really digest what Darryl Dash has wonderfully written. This is a book that any Christian, at any stage of life or maturity, should read! It would be a great gift for a new believer to learn what the Christian life is all about. But, it's a beautiful reminder and encouragement to the mature believer who is still growing in order to become more and more like Christ.
I will be returning to read this book again and again over the next year, I am sure!
I must admit, I was skeptical when I saw the title, though. "How to Grow" seemed to me to just be another book on methods that might work for some people, but not for all people. I've read Christian books that offer practical ways to increase your spiritual growth, yet those ways are catered to a select few.
That is not the case with "How to Grow" by Darryl Dash.
This book offers an old, but at the same time fresh, view of growing in the faith. Dash's book begins with a whole chapter dedicated to explaining the glorious news of the gospel. The first chapter serves as a wonderful foundation for the rest of what Dash will say in the following chapters. This would be a chapter any Christian could learn from in order to share the gospel with the lost!
The following chapters build upon the foundation of the gospel. In this way, Dash offers a different way of approaching spiritual growth. Other books on this subject usually dive right into the practical steps to improve the reader's life. "How to Grow" begins with an explanation of the gospel, the Christian's need for growth, and then launches into practical helps for the Christian life.
Overall, this book was an enjoyable read! The best part about this book is that it includes at the end of each chapter, a summary of what was said, questions to reflect on what was said, and very practical steps to put into action what was said in the chapter.
"How to Grow" can be a quick read, but really, it will require return visits to really digest what Darryl Dash has wonderfully written. This is a book that any Christian, at any stage of life or maturity, should read! It would be a great gift for a new believer to learn what the Christian life is all about. But, it's a beautiful reminder and encouragement to the mature believer who is still growing in order to become more and more like Christ.
I will be returning to read this book again and again over the next year, I am sure!
August 20, 2018
I thoroughly enjoyed this book for a couple of reasons. The book is good for those who have been Christians all their lives as a refresher of the basics and how to share those with others. And the book is especially good for those who are just starting to question and want to know more about growing in faith in Jesus Christ.
It is easy to read, digest and gives simple basic truths to put into practice. It seeks to help one to enlist habits that lead to a closer walk with God .
I found it very encouraging, you are never left feeling that it's hopeless to try again just because you missed a day or failed. Darryl writes, "I’ve never met anyone who’s encountered God’s grace and who’s practiced these three habits from the heart—reading or listening to the Bible, praying, and pursuing worship and fellowship within a church community—who hasn’t grown" (page 126). "No matter whether we’re practicing the core habits or supporting habits, the fundamentals remain the same: start small; use triggers and rewards; focus on progress, not perfection; keep going, even when you fail; and hack the habits to fit you." (page 131)
Because it's written in such a way that you can use it to help others on the journey, with chapter end notes and questions, it makes for a good quarterly study. So I will likely do that in the near future inviting people I know to journey with me.
How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life
It is easy to read, digest and gives simple basic truths to put into practice. It seeks to help one to enlist habits that lead to a closer walk with God .
I found it very encouraging, you are never left feeling that it's hopeless to try again just because you missed a day or failed. Darryl writes, "I’ve never met anyone who’s encountered God’s grace and who’s practiced these three habits from the heart—reading or listening to the Bible, praying, and pursuing worship and fellowship within a church community—who hasn’t grown" (page 126). "No matter whether we’re practicing the core habits or supporting habits, the fundamentals remain the same: start small; use triggers and rewards; focus on progress, not perfection; keep going, even when you fail; and hack the habits to fit you." (page 131)
Because it's written in such a way that you can use it to help others on the journey, with chapter end notes and questions, it makes for a good quarterly study. So I will likely do that in the near future inviting people I know to journey with me.
How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life
October 7, 2018
We know we are to grow spiritually. We've read the books, gone to the seminars, yet are still frustrated. This book just might have some answers.
So what is different about this book on spiritual growth? Habits. Dash has developed what he calls a habit-based approach to discipleship and spiritual growth. Changing our habits changes our desires. Habits are formative. He has a good strategy for developing the habits that help our being transformed to Christ's image. Another emphasis is that spiritual growth is more than just gaining information or changed behavior. It is a renewing of the whole person, becoming the humans God intended. Dash also reminds us that the foundation for the growth is the gospel. He clarifies why self help books don't work. We can't do it on our own. We need and have the very power of God working in us.
Much of the book is what we would expect to find in a book on spiritual growth. Dash writes of the three core habits of Bible reading and meditation, prayer, and worship, something one would expect. He does take those a bit deeper than I've seen before. He adds six supporting habits we would expect, such as keeping Sabbath, giving, serving, sharing the gospel, and maintaining physical health.
What was new to me was the sixth supporting habit of creating a Rule of Life, “a set of healthy habits that provide direction and growth in our lives.” (p. 142) He has good tips on developing that Rule. (This Rule does not mean a law but rather is from the Latin and means something done regularly.) Samples are provided in an Appendix so we get an idea of what they are like.
There are bullet summaries at the end of each chapter as well as questions for personal reflection or group discussions and some suggestions to help readers think, pray, and get going. Those features would make this a good book to use with a group of trusted friends.
I do recommend this book to Christians who desire a strategy for spiritual growth. There is valuable material in here for new Christians and seasoned ones.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher. My comments are an independent and honest review.
So what is different about this book on spiritual growth? Habits. Dash has developed what he calls a habit-based approach to discipleship and spiritual growth. Changing our habits changes our desires. Habits are formative. He has a good strategy for developing the habits that help our being transformed to Christ's image. Another emphasis is that spiritual growth is more than just gaining information or changed behavior. It is a renewing of the whole person, becoming the humans God intended. Dash also reminds us that the foundation for the growth is the gospel. He clarifies why self help books don't work. We can't do it on our own. We need and have the very power of God working in us.
Much of the book is what we would expect to find in a book on spiritual growth. Dash writes of the three core habits of Bible reading and meditation, prayer, and worship, something one would expect. He does take those a bit deeper than I've seen before. He adds six supporting habits we would expect, such as keeping Sabbath, giving, serving, sharing the gospel, and maintaining physical health.
What was new to me was the sixth supporting habit of creating a Rule of Life, “a set of healthy habits that provide direction and growth in our lives.” (p. 142) He has good tips on developing that Rule. (This Rule does not mean a law but rather is from the Latin and means something done regularly.) Samples are provided in an Appendix so we get an idea of what they are like.
There are bullet summaries at the end of each chapter as well as questions for personal reflection or group discussions and some suggestions to help readers think, pray, and get going. Those features would make this a good book to use with a group of trusted friends.
I do recommend this book to Christians who desire a strategy for spiritual growth. There is valuable material in here for new Christians and seasoned ones.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher. My comments are an independent and honest review.
September 8, 2018
Personal growth books are a dime a dozen and none of them really get to the point. They either fall into the trap of theorizing without practical guidance or they are overly practical and fail to account for the truth of God in his process of growing his children. Then comes "How to Grow" by Darryl Dash.
This book has nothing to do with tapping into a better you. This book is about knowing the truth of God's plan for his people, the work done by Christ in this plan, and how we can best engage in that plan.
Almost every Christian book is going to come with Scripture references. How these references are used in a book is telling. Many times, the Word becomes a commentary on the author's thoughts and ideas or they might use similar language without sharing a similar context. This is not the case with Dash. All the Scripture references check out, and it is clear that the Bible is used as a source and not a citation.
The structure of this book makes it great for personal study or for groups. The subdivisions within the chapters and the reflective content at the end of the chapters make this a great tool that needs no additional workbook.
If you are interested in a study on personal growth but you're tired of how shallow and humanistic the genre can be, "How to Grow" is the book that you have been waiting for! Get it, read it, and buy it for a friend.
*This book was given to me by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
This book has nothing to do with tapping into a better you. This book is about knowing the truth of God's plan for his people, the work done by Christ in this plan, and how we can best engage in that plan.
Almost every Christian book is going to come with Scripture references. How these references are used in a book is telling. Many times, the Word becomes a commentary on the author's thoughts and ideas or they might use similar language without sharing a similar context. This is not the case with Dash. All the Scripture references check out, and it is clear that the Bible is used as a source and not a citation.
The structure of this book makes it great for personal study or for groups. The subdivisions within the chapters and the reflective content at the end of the chapters make this a great tool that needs no additional workbook.
If you are interested in a study on personal growth but you're tired of how shallow and humanistic the genre can be, "How to Grow" is the book that you have been waiting for! Get it, read it, and buy it for a friend.
*This book was given to me by the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
August 14, 2018
Title: How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life
Author: Darryl Dash
Genre: Christian
Rating: 4.5 out of 5
I want to call you to do ordinary things that will make an extraordinary difference, not just in your life but in the lives of others.
This quotation sums up the entire book in one simple sentence. This isn’t a complex book, full of convoluted to-do lists. Instead, the author offers simple, basic tenets of faith—praying, reading the Bible, involvement in a church—to build a foundation on, followed by “extra” things that can be added on after the basics are mastered. (Hint: the basics are never completely mastered.) The conversational tone and examples from the author’s life make this easy to read and apply. I highly recommend it.
(Galley provided by Moody Publishers in exchange for an honest review.)
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Author: Darryl Dash
Genre: Christian
Rating: 4.5 out of 5
I want to call you to do ordinary things that will make an extraordinary difference, not just in your life but in the lives of others.
This quotation sums up the entire book in one simple sentence. This isn’t a complex book, full of convoluted to-do lists. Instead, the author offers simple, basic tenets of faith—praying, reading the Bible, involvement in a church—to build a foundation on, followed by “extra” things that can be added on after the basics are mastered. (Hint: the basics are never completely mastered.) The conversational tone and examples from the author’s life make this easy to read and apply. I highly recommend it.
(Galley provided by Moody Publishers in exchange for an honest review.)
More reviews at Tomorrow is Another Day
August 22, 2018
There were not many reviews available online for this book when I went to read it so I was not sure what to expect, but my expectations were certainly exceeded.
This book is concise, easy to read, and to the point. It's rightly grounded in the gospel (which is what the first part of the book covers), and it uses this as a foundation for the rest of the book. I'd recommend this book for every Christian. It should only take someone 2-4 hours to read which makes it accessible for almost everyone.
I already gave my copy to someone else, so I've ordered another copy to keep on hand.
Highly recommended!
This book is concise, easy to read, and to the point. It's rightly grounded in the gospel (which is what the first part of the book covers), and it uses this as a foundation for the rest of the book. I'd recommend this book for every Christian. It should only take someone 2-4 hours to read which makes it accessible for almost everyone.
I already gave my copy to someone else, so I've ordered another copy to keep on hand.
Highly recommended!
August 14, 2018
I enjoyed reading How to Grow and highly recommend this book whether you are beginning your faith walk or been in it a while. Pastor Dash directs us on setting realistic goals to develop habits by starting small, getting to know and enjoy God and then passing it on to others to help them grow. We need to develop core habits, commit to growing and be intentional about loving others. I gleaned some really good points from this book.
August 15, 2018
This is a great, accessible, and gospel-laden book that offers a fresh and insightful take on how we grow as followers of Christ. Darryl Dash's work is gospel rich, practical in application, and pastoral in its tone. I highly enjoyed it and I'm sure that I'll return to it again and pass it on to others.
September 7, 2018
I so appreciated this simple reminder of the good things God has given us! You won’t find any click baitish, "this-just-in", hyper-sensationalized type answers in Dash’s book - AMEN! Rather, what you'll find is a realistic approach to how we ought to approach our part in sanctification. If you’re looking for a small group study or something to read through with some college or university aged students, "How To Grow" provides easy bite-sized morsels that won't overwhelm Christians who might be timid about an area they've likely neglected. It would be a great choice!
July 9, 2018
Discipleship can often be a forgotten word in the church today. We talk a lot of evangelism, love for Jesus and His church, love for the Bible and all of these are great and very important things to be discussed, however, not at the neglect of discipleship.
It is amazing to see a person come to faith and to see their lives transformed by the Holy Spirit, but how often is that all we talk about? Shouldn’t our celebrating be followed up by a passion to see these new believers grow? This is what God wants for all of His people, not just new believers, whether you’ve been a Christian for 6 minutes, 6 hours, 6 Years or 66 years, are you growing in your faith?
Dash says that “God made us to grow. It’s important to understand what growth is, and the pathway He’s designed for growth.”
This little book gives a very practical, habit-based way for every Christian to grow spiritually. Dash is very direct at saying what spiritual growth is not; it isn’t reaching a new level spirituality in a kind of ‘levelling up’ way, but it means to constantly return to the ABC’s of the gospel and grow in them and their applications. Spiritual growth is not something that we can muster up by ourselves, it’s not a form of self-help but it is an utter dependence and reliance on God and His grace.
“Any attempts to grow apart from God are doomed to fail.”
Often when it comes to things like discipleship Christians tend to focus on the individual, but spiritual growth is not about the individual rather it is about God. As we grow we become more like Christ, we grow in our love for God and our love for others, spiritual growth is God-centred.
One of my favourite quotes from How to Grow is…
“Spiritual maturity isn’t about white-knuckling it to sainthood. It’s about becoming a person who is fully alive. It means enjoying God and life in deeper and more abundant ways even in the middle of difficulty. It transforms our desires rather than denying them. Spiritual growth is the pursuit of God, and the pursuit of joy.”
So spiritual growth is not about us, but it also doesn’t only affect us, people are watching us and we can either be an example for people, or we can be a hindrance. As we grow in our faith and in our maturity, shouldn’t our desire be to live godly lives for those around us?
So, how do we grow spiritually? What is the magic formula?
Well, there isn’t one but Dash gives some really good practical habit-based steps that can help us all grow. Books on discipleship can often aim their practical steps either too high or too low for the average joe, which can result in them feeling disappointed and worthless. But Dash encourages you to shrink down a new habit until you are confident that you can do it every day.
This book is helpful and honest, it’s written by a man who has a pastor’s heart and he shows that in this book. In this world where we want everything now, where we almost live our lives on auto pilot, take time to read this book that will give you sound and biblical steps to grow. If you want to grow, or want to help other grow pick up this book and read it, maybe even read it as a group and grow together.
It is amazing to see a person come to faith and to see their lives transformed by the Holy Spirit, but how often is that all we talk about? Shouldn’t our celebrating be followed up by a passion to see these new believers grow? This is what God wants for all of His people, not just new believers, whether you’ve been a Christian for 6 minutes, 6 hours, 6 Years or 66 years, are you growing in your faith?
Dash says that “God made us to grow. It’s important to understand what growth is, and the pathway He’s designed for growth.”
This little book gives a very practical, habit-based way for every Christian to grow spiritually. Dash is very direct at saying what spiritual growth is not; it isn’t reaching a new level spirituality in a kind of ‘levelling up’ way, but it means to constantly return to the ABC’s of the gospel and grow in them and their applications. Spiritual growth is not something that we can muster up by ourselves, it’s not a form of self-help but it is an utter dependence and reliance on God and His grace.
“Any attempts to grow apart from God are doomed to fail.”
Often when it comes to things like discipleship Christians tend to focus on the individual, but spiritual growth is not about the individual rather it is about God. As we grow we become more like Christ, we grow in our love for God and our love for others, spiritual growth is God-centred.
One of my favourite quotes from How to Grow is…
“Spiritual maturity isn’t about white-knuckling it to sainthood. It’s about becoming a person who is fully alive. It means enjoying God and life in deeper and more abundant ways even in the middle of difficulty. It transforms our desires rather than denying them. Spiritual growth is the pursuit of God, and the pursuit of joy.”
So spiritual growth is not about us, but it also doesn’t only affect us, people are watching us and we can either be an example for people, or we can be a hindrance. As we grow in our faith and in our maturity, shouldn’t our desire be to live godly lives for those around us?
So, how do we grow spiritually? What is the magic formula?
Well, there isn’t one but Dash gives some really good practical habit-based steps that can help us all grow. Books on discipleship can often aim their practical steps either too high or too low for the average joe, which can result in them feeling disappointed and worthless. But Dash encourages you to shrink down a new habit until you are confident that you can do it every day.
This book is helpful and honest, it’s written by a man who has a pastor’s heart and he shows that in this book. In this world where we want everything now, where we almost live our lives on auto pilot, take time to read this book that will give you sound and biblical steps to grow. If you want to grow, or want to help other grow pick up this book and read it, maybe even read it as a group and grow together.
July 21, 2018
How To Grow is a great book to that tells you all about how to get a deeper relationship with CHRIST. If you are feeling like you want to get closer, deeper in your relationship or even start one with CHRIST this is the book for you. We have forgotten, in the church, about discipleship. We are so excited about the birth of a relationship with CHRIST but do we follow up with them to help them grow in CHRIST - to be a disciple in CHRIST? Do we yearn and ache to be a disciple in CHRIST? The author states, “God made us to grow. It’s important to understand what growth is, and the pathway He’s designed for growth.” Isn't that the truth. Do you grow daily or are you stagnate? This is definitely one fantastic book to read for all believers - new or old. I received a copy of this book from the Publisher and Netgalley; all of the opinions expressed in this review are all my own.
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April 7, 2021
Fortunately, How to Grow has a more holistic view of spiritual maturity than most books in this genre of devotional literature. However, it does not quite have the depth or insight of the works of Richard Foster (Celebration of Discipline) or Dallas Willard (The Spirit of the Disciplines: Understanding How God Changes Lives). Yet, it is probably simpler for some believers to digest.
The thesis of the How to Grow approach is: “Many of our approaches to spiritual growth assume too much about our ability to affect change ourselves.” (p. 46) It is not a “self-help” book. Rather, How to Grow is firmly based on calling the reader(s) to re-build the relationship between oneself and God by asking God for help and responding to that faith request by becoming obedient in concrete ways. “We miss out if we settle for merely acting differently, if it’s not flowing from inner transformation. God wants to accomplish much more in us.” (p. 47)
Early on, Darryl Dash establishes three (3) erroneous ideas about spiritual growth that he calls a “white-knuckling” approach:
“1. Spiritual growth is about becoming less human.
2. Spiritual growth involves becoming more serious.
3. Spiritual growth involves denying my desires.” (p. 54)
I particularly liked it when he wrote: “Our views of growth are often too small. We think about learning more and changing our behavior. Growth isn’t less than that, but it’s much more. God wants to restore us and to give us joy.” (p. 64) But how does one accomplish this? Dash, after insisting quite rightly that spiritual growth is never linear (p. 70), discusses the stages of spiritual growth, presented in a diagram which he repeats in one of his appendices to the book. He does so to demonstrate that growth is a life-long process. “Jesus is far too spectacular for us to follow Him like we’d follow a football team. We need to surrender to Him and follow Him with all of our broken, imperfect lives.” (p. 75).
After discussing the stages of 1) Pre-Questioning, 2) Questioning, 3) Believing, 4) Growing, 5) Mentoring, 6) Maturity (pp. 71-77), Dash perceptively observes: “Mature Christians, therefore, don’t feel spiritually mature. They increasingly grasp the magnitude of God’s holiness, their sinfulness, and the grace of the cross. Maturity and humility go together.” (p. 77) It is worthwhile to note that while Dash does give possible steps for growth throughout the book, they are always presented organically and not as a recipe where one follows the steps and ends up with the desired research. Dash knows that life is imperfect and messy, but he shares what he has observed and experienced in a practical way to get a handle on the mess.
One of the big emphases in the book is on participating in the church as community. This is not exclusive of a daily prayer and scripture-reading discipline, but as an extension of it. His suggestions for integrating community into one’s spiritual growth read:
“• When reading Scripture, default to reading the collective “y’all” rather than the individual “you.”
• Look for ways to practice the “one another” commands of Scripture. Lean into activities that allow you to form deeper relationships with other Christians.
• Lean into the mess. When community gets messy, frustrating, and ugly, it’s usually a good sign, not a bad one. Stick with it. People are messy, including us.
• Integrate community as a regular part of your life. Look for activities you can do with others: eating together, shopping together, working together, and more. Create rhythms of relationship.” (pp. 91-92)
There is much that is positive in How to Grow, but just as the “way of the negative” is sometimes useful in trying to understand something difficult, it is sometimes useful to consider attitudes which may be unhelpful. So, Dash lists some of the wrong ways to grow: 1) Seeking new information in the assumption that knowledge alone will change us (p. 96); 2) Setting “big goals” that may distract us from the smaller goals that, once achieved, move us toward the “big goals” we cannot attain all at once (p. 97); and 3) Relying upon willpower (p. 97). As for the latter: “willpower can help us, but it can’t create the consistent, sustainable change we want in our lives.” (p. 97)
Dash enumerates five steps from the “Tiny Habits” program (1. Start small (p. 101), 2. Shape your environment for success (p. 102), 3. Establish triggers and rewards for specific behaviors (p. 103), 4) Focus on the progress (not the gap to the goal – p. 104), and 5) Be persistent and don’t give up and 6) Know yourself enough to tailor your program (p. 105)) and, perhaps resonating the most with me—gamify the desirable habits (p. 106).
Dash specifically addresses some matters I’ve tried to tell my church members from time-to-time, but I haven’t expressed very well. One of those issues is a criticism that one doesn’t need to harp on the basics. Dash writes, “I’ve noticed that some complain that the core habits are too basic. Usually, when I press them, I discover that they don’t practice them consistently. They would like to move on to something more advanced without mastering—or being mastered by—the basics.” (pp. 114-115) The other issue was spending time with and meditating upon the Bible: “A study in Canada found that self-identified Christians did not read or engage with the Bible much more than Canadians in general. Only one in five Christians reflect on the meaning of the Bible for their lives a few times a week.” (p. 115)
Another practical issue that Dash addresses is how to find a church. He cites the following, telling readers to seek out a fellowship that: “…incarnates ’the biblical message in the relationships, vibe, feel, tone, values, priorities, aroma, honesty, freedom, gentleness, humility, cheerfulness—indeed, the total human reality of a church defined and sweetened by the gospel.’” (citing Ray Ortlund, p. 123) Dash also expresses the importance of simply “showing up” for worship, fellowship, and service on the same page.
How to Grow is rich in basics. For long-time believers, it can serve as the equivalent of a spring clean-up where a gardener makes ready for a new season. For new believers, it offers the potential for establishing positive patterns in Christian living before settling into a less satisfying relationship with God. How to Grow serves both as a potentially useful resource for small groups, as well as a very practical volume to offer to new Christians or those who aren’t satisfied with what they are experiencing with God in their present lives.
The thesis of the How to Grow approach is: “Many of our approaches to spiritual growth assume too much about our ability to affect change ourselves.” (p. 46) It is not a “self-help” book. Rather, How to Grow is firmly based on calling the reader(s) to re-build the relationship between oneself and God by asking God for help and responding to that faith request by becoming obedient in concrete ways. “We miss out if we settle for merely acting differently, if it’s not flowing from inner transformation. God wants to accomplish much more in us.” (p. 47)
Early on, Darryl Dash establishes three (3) erroneous ideas about spiritual growth that he calls a “white-knuckling” approach:
“1. Spiritual growth is about becoming less human.
2. Spiritual growth involves becoming more serious.
3. Spiritual growth involves denying my desires.” (p. 54)
I particularly liked it when he wrote: “Our views of growth are often too small. We think about learning more and changing our behavior. Growth isn’t less than that, but it’s much more. God wants to restore us and to give us joy.” (p. 64) But how does one accomplish this? Dash, after insisting quite rightly that spiritual growth is never linear (p. 70), discusses the stages of spiritual growth, presented in a diagram which he repeats in one of his appendices to the book. He does so to demonstrate that growth is a life-long process. “Jesus is far too spectacular for us to follow Him like we’d follow a football team. We need to surrender to Him and follow Him with all of our broken, imperfect lives.” (p. 75).
After discussing the stages of 1) Pre-Questioning, 2) Questioning, 3) Believing, 4) Growing, 5) Mentoring, 6) Maturity (pp. 71-77), Dash perceptively observes: “Mature Christians, therefore, don’t feel spiritually mature. They increasingly grasp the magnitude of God’s holiness, their sinfulness, and the grace of the cross. Maturity and humility go together.” (p. 77) It is worthwhile to note that while Dash does give possible steps for growth throughout the book, they are always presented organically and not as a recipe where one follows the steps and ends up with the desired research. Dash knows that life is imperfect and messy, but he shares what he has observed and experienced in a practical way to get a handle on the mess.
One of the big emphases in the book is on participating in the church as community. This is not exclusive of a daily prayer and scripture-reading discipline, but as an extension of it. His suggestions for integrating community into one’s spiritual growth read:
“• When reading Scripture, default to reading the collective “y’all” rather than the individual “you.”
• Look for ways to practice the “one another” commands of Scripture. Lean into activities that allow you to form deeper relationships with other Christians.
• Lean into the mess. When community gets messy, frustrating, and ugly, it’s usually a good sign, not a bad one. Stick with it. People are messy, including us.
• Integrate community as a regular part of your life. Look for activities you can do with others: eating together, shopping together, working together, and more. Create rhythms of relationship.” (pp. 91-92)
There is much that is positive in How to Grow, but just as the “way of the negative” is sometimes useful in trying to understand something difficult, it is sometimes useful to consider attitudes which may be unhelpful. So, Dash lists some of the wrong ways to grow: 1) Seeking new information in the assumption that knowledge alone will change us (p. 96); 2) Setting “big goals” that may distract us from the smaller goals that, once achieved, move us toward the “big goals” we cannot attain all at once (p. 97); and 3) Relying upon willpower (p. 97). As for the latter: “willpower can help us, but it can’t create the consistent, sustainable change we want in our lives.” (p. 97)
Dash enumerates five steps from the “Tiny Habits” program (1. Start small (p. 101), 2. Shape your environment for success (p. 102), 3. Establish triggers and rewards for specific behaviors (p. 103), 4) Focus on the progress (not the gap to the goal – p. 104), and 5) Be persistent and don’t give up and 6) Know yourself enough to tailor your program (p. 105)) and, perhaps resonating the most with me—gamify the desirable habits (p. 106).
Dash specifically addresses some matters I’ve tried to tell my church members from time-to-time, but I haven’t expressed very well. One of those issues is a criticism that one doesn’t need to harp on the basics. Dash writes, “I’ve noticed that some complain that the core habits are too basic. Usually, when I press them, I discover that they don’t practice them consistently. They would like to move on to something more advanced without mastering—or being mastered by—the basics.” (pp. 114-115) The other issue was spending time with and meditating upon the Bible: “A study in Canada found that self-identified Christians did not read or engage with the Bible much more than Canadians in general. Only one in five Christians reflect on the meaning of the Bible for their lives a few times a week.” (p. 115)
Another practical issue that Dash addresses is how to find a church. He cites the following, telling readers to seek out a fellowship that: “…incarnates ’the biblical message in the relationships, vibe, feel, tone, values, priorities, aroma, honesty, freedom, gentleness, humility, cheerfulness—indeed, the total human reality of a church defined and sweetened by the gospel.’” (citing Ray Ortlund, p. 123) Dash also expresses the importance of simply “showing up” for worship, fellowship, and service on the same page.
How to Grow is rich in basics. For long-time believers, it can serve as the equivalent of a spring clean-up where a gardener makes ready for a new season. For new believers, it offers the potential for establishing positive patterns in Christian living before settling into a less satisfying relationship with God. How to Grow serves both as a potentially useful resource for small groups, as well as a very practical volume to offer to new Christians or those who aren’t satisfied with what they are experiencing with God in their present lives.
January 17, 2019
If you’ve ever resolved to read the Bible more or pray more but soon found yourself back to your old ways, you’re not alone. Many of us struggle to be consistent in the spiritual disciplines that bring growth in grace into our lives. This is where How to Grow comes in. Part theology, part habit science, this book lays out a doable plan for any Christian who wants to grow in their faith. I heartily recommend it!
January 30, 2020
Just finished going through this book again with another teen. Seriously, I don't know that there is a more helpful, focused, accessible book to help guide students (and anyone) who wants to grow in their faith in, understanding of, or obedience to the Lord. I've been able to watch this book catapult tons of our students out of apathy or a stall and into intentional, thoughtful and prayerful growth.
June 26, 2021
Una guía fácil para implementar el evangelio a la vida diaria con hábitos potenciales para desarrollar el crecimiento de cada cristiano. Sin duda está entre los mejores que he leído sobre madurez espiritual.
October 19, 2018
Review by Richard Campeau
Darryl Dash served us well by writing How to Grow. This is the sort of book I like to place in the hands of people. It is both user-friendly and gospel-centered,
By user-friendly, I mean not only clear writing and well-organised material but also a layout that is helpful to people who might not read much, if they read at all. I particularly like how each chapter ends with three short sections: a thorough but succinct Chapter Summary, listing (in bullet-point form) all the main points of the chapter; a list of Questions for Personal Reflection or Group Discussion (i.e. a built-in study-guide); and another list of ideas for life application - What Do I Do Now? (These features at the end of each chapter are very helpful particularly because, in a small group setting, someone who didn't read the chapter can still get the gist in a few minutes and profitably take part in the discussion - not that I recommend this!)
By gospel-centered, I mean that the book begins with the gospel and stays there throughout. The gospel, which "meets the desperate need of the world and of every human heart", is defined narrowly as the good news of "what God has done for us in Jesus", particularly in the life, death, and resurrection of Christ.
Christian growth is differentiated from self-help or mere behaviour modification. It is the transformation of the whole of life by the Spirit and through the gospel. The path to such growth (and it is a lifelong path) is a path of transformed desires and new habits. On the subject of desires, Darryl focuses on the pursuit of joy, particularly joy in God. "The Christian life is about an increase of desire for and delight in God."
Much of the rest of the book is occupied by the cultivation of new habits. To a large extent, we are our habits. The shape of our habits is the shape of our lives. But habits themselves are not the point. The point is the pursuit of God and habits are the means of that pursuit. (On both desires and habits, the influence of James K.A. Smith's book You Are What You Love is evident and acknowledged).
Darryl helpfully differentiates Core Habits from supporting habits. The core habits are 1) Bible Reading (or Listening); 2) Prayer; and 3) Participation in the Church for Worship and Fellowship (much attention is given to the church as a blessing of the gospel and a means of Christian growth). Darryl observes (and it is my observation as well) that "I've never met anyone who's encountered God's grace and who's practiced these three habits from the heart - reading or listening to the Bible, praying, and pursuing worship and fellowship within a church community - who hasn't grown. Conversely, I've never met a single person who's grown spiritually who hasn't engaged in these three core habits."
The supporting habits are Sabbath, generous giving, serving others, sharing the gospel, and taking care of your body (food, exercise, sleep, etc. A needed but often neglected discipline). Other practices could be added to this list. In our insanely noisy world, I would have liked to see the spiritual discipline of silence discussed (including fasting from media).
While spiritual growth is the work of the Spirit, human discipline is also required to form and maintain such desires and habits, and so Darryl suggests writing a Rule of Life laying out both the what disciplines will be embraced and how.. There is a helpful appendix on developing one's own Rule of Life, including several good examples.
The book ends with a call to all growing believers to help someone else along the journey.
All this may seem like a lot. But the author recognises people's limits and urges us to take small steps. It's all of grace!
I wish all such books had a scripture index. Why not? Surely a computer could compile one instantly.
I look forward to using this book in community with an individual or a small group.
(Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book from Moody Press and was asked for an honest review)
Darryl Dash served us well by writing How to Grow. This is the sort of book I like to place in the hands of people. It is both user-friendly and gospel-centered,
By user-friendly, I mean not only clear writing and well-organised material but also a layout that is helpful to people who might not read much, if they read at all. I particularly like how each chapter ends with three short sections: a thorough but succinct Chapter Summary, listing (in bullet-point form) all the main points of the chapter; a list of Questions for Personal Reflection or Group Discussion (i.e. a built-in study-guide); and another list of ideas for life application - What Do I Do Now? (These features at the end of each chapter are very helpful particularly because, in a small group setting, someone who didn't read the chapter can still get the gist in a few minutes and profitably take part in the discussion - not that I recommend this!)
By gospel-centered, I mean that the book begins with the gospel and stays there throughout. The gospel, which "meets the desperate need of the world and of every human heart", is defined narrowly as the good news of "what God has done for us in Jesus", particularly in the life, death, and resurrection of Christ.
Christian growth is differentiated from self-help or mere behaviour modification. It is the transformation of the whole of life by the Spirit and through the gospel. The path to such growth (and it is a lifelong path) is a path of transformed desires and new habits. On the subject of desires, Darryl focuses on the pursuit of joy, particularly joy in God. "The Christian life is about an increase of desire for and delight in God."
Much of the rest of the book is occupied by the cultivation of new habits. To a large extent, we are our habits. The shape of our habits is the shape of our lives. But habits themselves are not the point. The point is the pursuit of God and habits are the means of that pursuit. (On both desires and habits, the influence of James K.A. Smith's book You Are What You Love is evident and acknowledged).
Darryl helpfully differentiates Core Habits from supporting habits. The core habits are 1) Bible Reading (or Listening); 2) Prayer; and 3) Participation in the Church for Worship and Fellowship (much attention is given to the church as a blessing of the gospel and a means of Christian growth). Darryl observes (and it is my observation as well) that "I've never met anyone who's encountered God's grace and who's practiced these three habits from the heart - reading or listening to the Bible, praying, and pursuing worship and fellowship within a church community - who hasn't grown. Conversely, I've never met a single person who's grown spiritually who hasn't engaged in these three core habits."
The supporting habits are Sabbath, generous giving, serving others, sharing the gospel, and taking care of your body (food, exercise, sleep, etc. A needed but often neglected discipline). Other practices could be added to this list. In our insanely noisy world, I would have liked to see the spiritual discipline of silence discussed (including fasting from media).
While spiritual growth is the work of the Spirit, human discipline is also required to form and maintain such desires and habits, and so Darryl suggests writing a Rule of Life laying out both the what disciplines will be embraced and how.. There is a helpful appendix on developing one's own Rule of Life, including several good examples.
The book ends with a call to all growing believers to help someone else along the journey.
All this may seem like a lot. But the author recognises people's limits and urges us to take small steps. It's all of grace!
I wish all such books had a scripture index. Why not? Surely a computer could compile one instantly.
I look forward to using this book in community with an individual or a small group.
(Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book from Moody Press and was asked for an honest review)
February 14, 2019
Habits can be life-changing, either for good or for bad. When habits are formed that help you to grow spiritually, the results will pay off exponentially in every other area of your life, as well. A new book from Moody Publishers written by Darryl Dash is entitled “How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life”, and is filled with practical ideas for forming life-giving habits that incorporate Bible-reading, prayer, and other spiritual practices into our everyday life.
“How to Grow” is written in a very accessible, easy-to-understand style that makes it a good read for both new and mature Christians. Some of it was a little dry and repetitive, but other parts more than made up for it as the author gave awesome suggestions to help readers form habits that will, over time, add up to incredible growth. I especially loved his ideas about making prayer a core habit of our life, and growing in the mindset of seeing prayer as a way to manage our lives, by shaping our hearts, work, family, etc. through bringing them to our heavenly Father in prayer. It is important to note that the author does not say that habits are the only way to grow as a Christian - on the contrary he reminds us that relationship with, obedience to, and love for God is the only way we can become more like His Son. Habits are merely a tool we can use to help us achieve this.
While “How to Grow” may at first come across as a simplistic little book for new believers, it is actually much more than that. It holds keys to help us unlock different habits of growth in our lives. This is the type of book you will want to bookmark, underline, and take notes from, so I plan to find an accessible place for it and re-read my favorite portions whenever I need a bit of inspiration in my daily habit-forming. If you want to grow, this book is a great starting point!
I received this book courtesy of Moody Publishers in exchange for an honest review. All opinions expressed are my own.
“How to Grow” is written in a very accessible, easy-to-understand style that makes it a good read for both new and mature Christians. Some of it was a little dry and repetitive, but other parts more than made up for it as the author gave awesome suggestions to help readers form habits that will, over time, add up to incredible growth. I especially loved his ideas about making prayer a core habit of our life, and growing in the mindset of seeing prayer as a way to manage our lives, by shaping our hearts, work, family, etc. through bringing them to our heavenly Father in prayer. It is important to note that the author does not say that habits are the only way to grow as a Christian - on the contrary he reminds us that relationship with, obedience to, and love for God is the only way we can become more like His Son. Habits are merely a tool we can use to help us achieve this.
While “How to Grow” may at first come across as a simplistic little book for new believers, it is actually much more than that. It holds keys to help us unlock different habits of growth in our lives. This is the type of book you will want to bookmark, underline, and take notes from, so I plan to find an accessible place for it and re-read my favorite portions whenever I need a bit of inspiration in my daily habit-forming. If you want to grow, this book is a great starting point!
I received this book courtesy of Moody Publishers in exchange for an honest review. All opinions expressed are my own.
September 2, 2018
What is the gospel? For many people, the gospel is the message by which one gets to heaven. But the Bible presents a much fuller concept of good news. It is a gospel that is supposed to affect our entire existence.
Darryl Dash, thankfully presents to us a vision of how the gospel can help us grow as both humans and as followers of Jesus in his book, How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life.
Dash presents the following as the essentials of the gospel:
God if holy.
Humanity is sinful.
God is rescuing His people and creation through the perfect work of Jesus Christ.
This goes far beyond just getting us tickets to heaven. It transforms our lifestyle, relationships and the way we do church.
Dash presents a clear picture of what discipleship is supposed to look like. It includes an intellectual aspect but is a much deeper work. It is more than just self-help tips, it is the work of God in our lives as we act on biblical principles.
I found How to Grow to be helpful, both as an individual follower of Jesus and as a pastor. The book is full of principles that are theologically grounded and also immensely practical. Dash is able to find a excellent balance. I really appreciated the illustrations from his own walk with Jesus.
If I had one criticism, it is the relationship between this book's principles and traditional self-help books. Dash is quite critical of self-help books, and yet a non-Christian who followed his principles here, would also experience benefits aside from the supernatural work of God. I understand the difference that Dash holds, and I agree with him, but the lines can get somewhat fuzzy.
But that is a minor quibble and it in no way gets in the way of the value of How to Grow. This is a book that I expect to go back to again and again.
Darryl Dash, thankfully presents to us a vision of how the gospel can help us grow as both humans and as followers of Jesus in his book, How to Grow: Applying the Gospel to All of Your Life.
Dash presents the following as the essentials of the gospel:
God if holy.
Humanity is sinful.
God is rescuing His people and creation through the perfect work of Jesus Christ.
This goes far beyond just getting us tickets to heaven. It transforms our lifestyle, relationships and the way we do church.
Dash presents a clear picture of what discipleship is supposed to look like. It includes an intellectual aspect but is a much deeper work. It is more than just self-help tips, it is the work of God in our lives as we act on biblical principles.
I found How to Grow to be helpful, both as an individual follower of Jesus and as a pastor. The book is full of principles that are theologically grounded and also immensely practical. Dash is able to find a excellent balance. I really appreciated the illustrations from his own walk with Jesus.
If I had one criticism, it is the relationship between this book's principles and traditional self-help books. Dash is quite critical of self-help books, and yet a non-Christian who followed his principles here, would also experience benefits aside from the supernatural work of God. I understand the difference that Dash holds, and I agree with him, but the lines can get somewhat fuzzy.
But that is a minor quibble and it in no way gets in the way of the value of How to Grow. This is a book that I expect to go back to again and again.
February 13, 2019
This was the best book on spiritual growth that I have read to date. It is very relevant and addresses many topics on spiritual life and growth. The author includes discussion questions and sections labeled, “What do I do now?” at the end of each chapter to give ideas on how to apply what is taught in each section. That makes this not just another book where you read it and forget about it, but one that encourages you to continually take action based on what is being taught.
The most helpful sections for me were those that talked about the six stages of growth in a Christian’s life and the section that discussed Sabbath rest.
The six stages of growth that Dash went through was very helpful with personal assessment, as well as a valuable tool for discipleship. It is very helpful knowing which stage a person is in their growth as a Christian so that we know how to be more effective in ministering to them and being patient with the current stage they are in.
The section that talked about the Sabbath provided some valuable insights for me because I have struggled for a while with knowing how to rest well on the Sabbath. This is because what a lot of people define as “rest” can simply mean binge-watching netflix or similar activities. Dash defines these activities as “pseudo-rest,” which are activities that we think are resting when they are actually just distractions that do not leave us feeling rested. We need to instead engage in activities on the Sabbath that make us feel renewed and alive. Taking this advice, I had the most renewing Sabbath day I think I’ve ever had.
There are many other life-changing insights this book has to offer, and I therefore recommend it to any Christian who desires to grow and desires to disciple others.
The most helpful sections for me were those that talked about the six stages of growth in a Christian’s life and the section that discussed Sabbath rest.
The six stages of growth that Dash went through was very helpful with personal assessment, as well as a valuable tool for discipleship. It is very helpful knowing which stage a person is in their growth as a Christian so that we know how to be more effective in ministering to them and being patient with the current stage they are in.
The section that talked about the Sabbath provided some valuable insights for me because I have struggled for a while with knowing how to rest well on the Sabbath. This is because what a lot of people define as “rest” can simply mean binge-watching netflix or similar activities. Dash defines these activities as “pseudo-rest,” which are activities that we think are resting when they are actually just distractions that do not leave us feeling rested. We need to instead engage in activities on the Sabbath that make us feel renewed and alive. Taking this advice, I had the most renewing Sabbath day I think I’ve ever had.
There are many other life-changing insights this book has to offer, and I therefore recommend it to any Christian who desires to grow and desires to disciple others.
November 12, 2018
*Disclaimer: I was give a free copy of this book by Moody Publishers in exchange for an honest review.
Dr. Darryl Dash, pastor of Liberty Grace Church in Toronto and cofound of Gospel for Life, shares in his introduction that we all desire to grow, but what we really need to know is how to grow in the midst of our chaotic, messy lives. He then proceeds to spend the rest of the book guiding the reader through that process using easy to understand language and examples.
At the end of each chapter he provides a chapter summary to refresh your memory of the key points of the chapter, a few questions for reflection or group discussion, and then some ideas for putting what you just read into action. This is a book that can be ready cover to cover in a short period of time, but to really grow you need to take the time to read one chapter and then think about it and put it into action before moving on to the next chapter. Or, as I plan on doing, you can read the book cover to cover, and then go back through it chapter by chapter and apply it as you go. It is a book you will want to reread multiple times as you grow in Christ.
I highly recommend this book for all who are believers or even exploring what Christianity is. Darryl takes you beyond just imparting information or helping you set goals to helping you create and keep new habits that will transform the way you live. Multiple times throughout his book though, he emphasizes that the key to growing is keeping your eye on why you’re growing. That reason is to get closer to God. Invest in this book and you’ll be investing in a lifetime resource for spiritual growth.
Dr. Darryl Dash, pastor of Liberty Grace Church in Toronto and cofound of Gospel for Life, shares in his introduction that we all desire to grow, but what we really need to know is how to grow in the midst of our chaotic, messy lives. He then proceeds to spend the rest of the book guiding the reader through that process using easy to understand language and examples.
At the end of each chapter he provides a chapter summary to refresh your memory of the key points of the chapter, a few questions for reflection or group discussion, and then some ideas for putting what you just read into action. This is a book that can be ready cover to cover in a short period of time, but to really grow you need to take the time to read one chapter and then think about it and put it into action before moving on to the next chapter. Or, as I plan on doing, you can read the book cover to cover, and then go back through it chapter by chapter and apply it as you go. It is a book you will want to reread multiple times as you grow in Christ.
I highly recommend this book for all who are believers or even exploring what Christianity is. Darryl takes you beyond just imparting information or helping you set goals to helping you create and keep new habits that will transform the way you live. Multiple times throughout his book though, he emphasizes that the key to growing is keeping your eye on why you’re growing. That reason is to get closer to God. Invest in this book and you’ll be investing in a lifetime resource for spiritual growth.
September 6, 2018
I really appreciate Darryl's approach to focus on the basics and fundamentals of growing in faith. In distilling the process to prayer, reading Scripture, and living life together in the context of a church community, he points back to the essential habits that we never outgrow and can lead to establishing a foundation for growth in our walk with Christ.
As simple as it sounds, the depth of the book is in the intentionality and focus on encountering God through these core elements and being transformed to live a life of worship and faithful obedience. In addition, the author points to important relationships and supporting practices that create space for faith to flourish.
I especially appreciate the honesty and challenges he shares in living life simply toward growth and it's evident that Darryl is a sharing a lived-out faith and approach. It's great that the author wraps up with pointing to the outward nature of impacting others in their discipleship as part of growth as well. "Maturity is not only becoming a better and healthier person, helping others to grow." p.157
It's an easy, concise, and impactful read and a helpful resource and guide for individuals, groups, and churches to become disciples and multiply in making disciples. It'll be one of the books I turn to when considering how to grow in our church's community!
As simple as it sounds, the depth of the book is in the intentionality and focus on encountering God through these core elements and being transformed to live a life of worship and faithful obedience. In addition, the author points to important relationships and supporting practices that create space for faith to flourish.
I especially appreciate the honesty and challenges he shares in living life simply toward growth and it's evident that Darryl is a sharing a lived-out faith and approach. It's great that the author wraps up with pointing to the outward nature of impacting others in their discipleship as part of growth as well. "Maturity is not only becoming a better and healthier person, helping others to grow." p.157
It's an easy, concise, and impactful read and a helpful resource and guide for individuals, groups, and churches to become disciples and multiply in making disciples. It'll be one of the books I turn to when considering how to grow in our church's community!
January 31, 2019
For a lot of people, spiritual growth means learning more about God or trying to do better. Darryl Dash says that growth in our Christian life is more than this. He shares about putting the gospel to work in all areas of your life in How to Grow.
The book gives practical tips for growing in your faith. Far from being hard, the steps in the book are down to earth and simple to understand. They help form a foundation that will give you a firm base to grow in your spiritual walk. Each chapter is well written and provides examples from the Bible and personal experience.
I have spent many years trying to grow spiritually by just learning more and keeping a close eye on how I behaved. In fact, it seems like many books on spiritual growth point in this direction. How to Grow takes a different direction. Darryl Dash points out that learning more of God's word and working on our habits are only part of growing, not the sum total of it. This is one of the few books that I've read that doesn't say that spiritual growth is something you initiate in yourself. The book would be a good one for any Christian to read, no matter your age or how long you've been a Christian.
I received a free copy of this book from Moody Publishers in exchange for an honest review.
The book gives practical tips for growing in your faith. Far from being hard, the steps in the book are down to earth and simple to understand. They help form a foundation that will give you a firm base to grow in your spiritual walk. Each chapter is well written and provides examples from the Bible and personal experience.
I have spent many years trying to grow spiritually by just learning more and keeping a close eye on how I behaved. In fact, it seems like many books on spiritual growth point in this direction. How to Grow takes a different direction. Darryl Dash points out that learning more of God's word and working on our habits are only part of growing, not the sum total of it. This is one of the few books that I've read that doesn't say that spiritual growth is something you initiate in yourself. The book would be a good one for any Christian to read, no matter your age or how long you've been a Christian.
I received a free copy of this book from Moody Publishers in exchange for an honest review.
September 10, 2018
In How To Grow, author Darryl Dash invites the reader to enter into a personal process of vocational discernment within the Christian Faith. Many of us self identify as Christian and may even be part of a Christian church or community, but have we ever stopped to consider what spiritual growth in our own lives looks like? The integrity of this text is a result of the author's authentic desire for the reader to know God, to experience an inspired prayer and worship life, and to ultimately enjoy the immense blessings of the Christian faith. Where to start? With many of the most meaningful aspects of life, what you put into this book will be what you take away from it. Dash invites us to make the commitment to our selves and God to explore our Christian habits, to reflect on the places where our theological beliefs intersect with our lives and to experience the joy of living our lives in Christ's footsteps.
As an Anglican priest and pastor I recommend this book for either personal or group study. I look forward to sharing it within my own faith community.
As an Anglican priest and pastor I recommend this book for either personal or group study. I look forward to sharing it within my own faith community.
September 6, 2018
I started reading "How to Grow" in bed around at midnight but after the first few pages I had to get out of bed and bring it to my desk to start underlining and making notes. The language used is deeply simple and nothing out of the ordinary. Simple gospel truths that we need to be reminded of daily. I appreciate how this book includes chapter summaries, questions for personal reflection or group discussion, and questions for implementation, resulting in a book that is a biblical, gospel-centred resource that can be used for personal growth as well as for discipleship with others. Although the book is helpfully practical, it doesn't miss the point of "WHY". Behind every tip and practice, the author points to a gospel-motivation and a necessary desire to pursue Christ joyfully. This is definitely a book to come back to when we forget the significance and the power of the gospel to change.
January 19, 2019
How to Grow is about making progress in your spiritual life. Darryl explains how there are different stages in our spiritual journey and the ways you can work on moving from one to another, instead of staying stagnant at one of them.
At the end of each chapter is a summary, questions for reflection and discussion and what do I do now?
The book overall is good, with helpful information. The reason it’s 3 stars instead of 4 or 5 is because I think the book needs a little order fixing. I found the first chapter or two a little boring and basic but luckily I held out and it got better from there. I think the book would be better without the first chapter.
If you feel you are stuck in your spiritual life, I recommend the book. If you consider yourself a Christian but don’t know what to do now, the book is for you. The author includes step by step instructions to move forward and explains the why behind it.
At the end of each chapter is a summary, questions for reflection and discussion and what do I do now?
The book overall is good, with helpful information. The reason it’s 3 stars instead of 4 or 5 is because I think the book needs a little order fixing. I found the first chapter or two a little boring and basic but luckily I held out and it got better from there. I think the book would be better without the first chapter.
If you feel you are stuck in your spiritual life, I recommend the book. If you consider yourself a Christian but don’t know what to do now, the book is for you. The author includes step by step instructions to move forward and explains the why behind it.
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