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Sovereignty: The Battle for the Hearts and Minds of Men
Every man is born with just one his sovereignty—his power to respond to his environment and his circumstances.
Unfortunately, most men have spent much of their lives giving away that sovereignty. Every time a man passes blame or shirks his responsibility, every time he makes excuses for his performance, and every time he trades his unlimited potential for a little perceived safety and security, he willingly submits himself to the mercy of others. Is it any wonder that men, in general, seem to have lost their way? You don’t have to look very far to recognize that men don’t seem to possess the same amount of vigor and purpose they once did. Take one sobering statistic—the rate of suicide in men—and you begin to see how damaging the effects of the voluntary subjugation of men to their families, their businesses, and their governments can be. It’s not hard to understand why we give up control to others—it’s easy and we’re expected to. The Battle for the Hearts and Minds of Men is a call for men to once again rise up and establish themselves as they once were—a revolution if you will. Inside the pages of this book, we’ll uncover the battle each man will inevitably engage in, the external forces fighting against the call to masculinity, and the internal struggle all men must overcome.
But make no mistake, this revolution is not a call for men to go their own way and rally against society. It’s a call for men to become fully the men they are meant to be so they may more adequately take care of themselves and those they are responsible for. Men have always been expected to protect, provide, and preside over themselves, their families, their businesses, and their communities. By embodying the thirteen Sovereign Virtues we detail inside, every man will be more capable of fulfilling his masculine duties and responsibilities. The words in this book go well beyond principle and theory, however, as we build the framework for establishing a battle plan to combat the external and internal threats to our masculine power and give every man the tools, resources, guidance, direction, and ability to reclaim what has always been his sovereignty.
Unfortunately, most men have spent much of their lives giving away that sovereignty. Every time a man passes blame or shirks his responsibility, every time he makes excuses for his performance, and every time he trades his unlimited potential for a little perceived safety and security, he willingly submits himself to the mercy of others. Is it any wonder that men, in general, seem to have lost their way? You don’t have to look very far to recognize that men don’t seem to possess the same amount of vigor and purpose they once did. Take one sobering statistic—the rate of suicide in men—and you begin to see how damaging the effects of the voluntary subjugation of men to their families, their businesses, and their governments can be. It’s not hard to understand why we give up control to others—it’s easy and we’re expected to. The Battle for the Hearts and Minds of Men is a call for men to once again rise up and establish themselves as they once were—a revolution if you will. Inside the pages of this book, we’ll uncover the battle each man will inevitably engage in, the external forces fighting against the call to masculinity, and the internal struggle all men must overcome.
But make no mistake, this revolution is not a call for men to go their own way and rally against society. It’s a call for men to become fully the men they are meant to be so they may more adequately take care of themselves and those they are responsible for. Men have always been expected to protect, provide, and preside over themselves, their families, their businesses, and their communities. By embodying the thirteen Sovereign Virtues we detail inside, every man will be more capable of fulfilling his masculine duties and responsibilities. The words in this book go well beyond principle and theory, however, as we build the framework for establishing a battle plan to combat the external and internal threats to our masculine power and give every man the tools, resources, guidance, direction, and ability to reclaim what has always been his sovereignty.
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Published February 16, 2018
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February 3, 2018
The personal development space is full of gender-neutral content, but recently, we've seen Jocko Willink's Discipline Equals Freedom Field Manual, Jordan Peterson's 12 Rules for Life, and Ryan Michler's Sovereignty hit the market, with a decidedly male tilt to their messages.
The author of the book admits he is not a "writer" in the traditional sense, and his language is colloquial and sounds very much like how he speaks on his podcast. But, while his prose may not be world-class, the message certainly is. Our society, particularly in the West, is diseased, and that's obvious to those paying attention and being honest with themselves. Interestingly, this book comes on the heels of Ryan already creating a movement. It's a retroactive charter for what he is trying to achieve - better society, through building better men, by encouraging virtue, and providing a system of accountability and support so that "just do it" isn't a bland platitude.
The book is divided into 4 parts and is a quick and compelling read. Do yourself or any man in your life who you think needs a friendly kick to do more with his life to pick this up.
On p. 48 he speaks about the "provide" portion of "protect, provide, preside" and while he does make allowance for the stay-at-home dad phenomenon, this is perhaps the only part of the book with which I take issue, as it doesn't recognize the *very* politically incorrect notion that it is in the nature of men to provide and the nature of women to nurture. Whatever strides a man may make in other areas of his life, if he's subject to a wife's income, all that work is being silently (or not so silently) being undermined. Yes, men provide other ways than financially, but if he does not provide financially, not only he, but his entire household is vitiated, and whether that is felt in the short term is irrelevant as in the long term the consequences will be dreadful. No great leader in any age, or even our age, in which we pretend that there are 72 genders and no differences between the sexes, has ever been a stay at home dad. This is not because stay at home dads are not doing hard, necessary work, but because they are acting against their nature, and that has consequences. Worse, their complicity in marrying women who insist on such an arrangement undermines that woman's chance to embrace her true nature as well, which is not in the rough and tumble of the workplace, but that of the home.
The author of the book admits he is not a "writer" in the traditional sense, and his language is colloquial and sounds very much like how he speaks on his podcast. But, while his prose may not be world-class, the message certainly is. Our society, particularly in the West, is diseased, and that's obvious to those paying attention and being honest with themselves. Interestingly, this book comes on the heels of Ryan already creating a movement. It's a retroactive charter for what he is trying to achieve - better society, through building better men, by encouraging virtue, and providing a system of accountability and support so that "just do it" isn't a bland platitude.
The book is divided into 4 parts and is a quick and compelling read. Do yourself or any man in your life who you think needs a friendly kick to do more with his life to pick this up.
On p. 48 he speaks about the "provide" portion of "protect, provide, preside" and while he does make allowance for the stay-at-home dad phenomenon, this is perhaps the only part of the book with which I take issue, as it doesn't recognize the *very* politically incorrect notion that it is in the nature of men to provide and the nature of women to nurture. Whatever strides a man may make in other areas of his life, if he's subject to a wife's income, all that work is being silently (or not so silently) being undermined. Yes, men provide other ways than financially, but if he does not provide financially, not only he, but his entire household is vitiated, and whether that is felt in the short term is irrelevant as in the long term the consequences will be dreadful. No great leader in any age, or even our age, in which we pretend that there are 72 genders and no differences between the sexes, has ever been a stay at home dad. This is not because stay at home dads are not doing hard, necessary work, but because they are acting against their nature, and that has consequences. Worse, their complicity in marrying women who insist on such an arrangement undermines that woman's chance to embrace her true nature as well, which is not in the rough and tumble of the workplace, but that of the home.
February 12, 2018
Sovereignty will upgrade your Internal Operating System (OS) to one that's effective, and empowered. The book is well laid out and each chapter gives you the MINDSET and SKILLSET needed to apply the principles to your life. Sovereignty is about reclaiming your power as a man.
While the book is laid out in 4 parts, I see the book as Framework & foundation principles, then an actual plan you can put to work in your life called the "Battle Plan" a 12 week guide to implement specific tactics into your life and realize the visions you want for yourself.
I've been a long-time listener to Ryan Michler's Order of Man podcast, and am familiar with the tools (and have used them with great success in my life over the past year... I've release 30 pounds of body-fat and gotten in good shape, and made good progress in my relationships and business.
I recommend the book!
While the book is laid out in 4 parts, I see the book as Framework & foundation principles, then an actual plan you can put to work in your life called the "Battle Plan" a 12 week guide to implement specific tactics into your life and realize the visions you want for yourself.
I've been a long-time listener to Ryan Michler's Order of Man podcast, and am familiar with the tools (and have used them with great success in my life over the past year... I've release 30 pounds of body-fat and gotten in good shape, and made good progress in my relationships and business.
I recommend the book!
May 5, 2021
Solid book and a reminder and kick in the butt incentive for men to take ownership of their mistakes and lead at work and at home.
December 21, 2018
Every man should read this book! Ryan Michler has filled the void that is being created by society and its declination of manhood and masculinity. With a focus on a clear mission to protect, provide, and preside, he outlines practical ways in which we can accomplish what we were meant to do as men.
There are some men out there who are searching for something to validate the inherent feelings they are having in regards to what it takes to be a man and gives the permission that some men may be looking for. The principles discussed in this book aren't new concepts when it comes to what it takes to be a man. However, Ryan Michler provides a concentrated resource and clear path to manhood through looking at yourself, your beliefs and how you can and should reclaim your God-given sovereignty.
It will stoke the flames that burn within each of us as men. For some it will reignite that fire in us whose flame has all but burned out. Be proud of that fire inside! It is what has brought us to accomplish great things as men! This book will change your life!
There are some men out there who are searching for something to validate the inherent feelings they are having in regards to what it takes to be a man and gives the permission that some men may be looking for. The principles discussed in this book aren't new concepts when it comes to what it takes to be a man. However, Ryan Michler provides a concentrated resource and clear path to manhood through looking at yourself, your beliefs and how you can and should reclaim your God-given sovereignty.
It will stoke the flames that burn within each of us as men. For some it will reignite that fire in us whose flame has all but burned out. Be proud of that fire inside! It is what has brought us to accomplish great things as men! This book will change your life!
January 30, 2018
For a few years now, I have followed Ryan Michler through his excellent group and podcast, The Order of Man. Ryan is authentic and honest, and it shows through his talks and through the organization he has built with a lot of blood, sweat and tears.
And now he's written a book, and it is excellent. Filled with much of the advice and inspiration for men that has made his podcast and men's group so appealing, Ryan digs even deeper in this book and puts forth a call for men to take back their sovereignty, the power they have to lead themselves, their family, and their business. Ryan does not just fill the book with motivational quotes, fluffy nuggets of wisdom, or generic "manly" maxims like, "Suck it up, and be a man." He offers practical advice for men who want to reclaim their gifts and blessings that make them unique as men.
This is definitely a book every man should read.
And now he's written a book, and it is excellent. Filled with much of the advice and inspiration for men that has made his podcast and men's group so appealing, Ryan digs even deeper in this book and puts forth a call for men to take back their sovereignty, the power they have to lead themselves, their family, and their business. Ryan does not just fill the book with motivational quotes, fluffy nuggets of wisdom, or generic "manly" maxims like, "Suck it up, and be a man." He offers practical advice for men who want to reclaim their gifts and blessings that make them unique as men.
This is definitely a book every man should read.
March 23, 2019
Got this due to a friend's recommendation, but found it to be a fairly generic self-help book.
October 15, 2018
This book was sold as one written specifically for men. I bought it because I wanted to see how it addressed the assault on men and masculinity currently underway in our culture and society. Unfortunately, there was only a very brief mention of that.
The first couple of chapters were decent and encouraging, as the topic of soverignty is lightly addressed and I got the sense that Mr. Michler was going in the right direction. But after those chapters, the book descends into any standard self-help yawner. And unfortunately, it does not have anything to do specifically with men or the idea of winning the hearts and/or minds of them.
I knew nothing of the author before reading this book, but I am happy that he has become successful with his products. This book, however, was almost entirely a waste of time to read. It gets two stars because Mr. Michler is certainly sincere and obviously put a lot of time and thought into the book, and typos and poor grammar were very rare.
The first couple of chapters were decent and encouraging, as the topic of soverignty is lightly addressed and I got the sense that Mr. Michler was going in the right direction. But after those chapters, the book descends into any standard self-help yawner. And unfortunately, it does not have anything to do specifically with men or the idea of winning the hearts and/or minds of them.
I knew nothing of the author before reading this book, but I am happy that he has become successful with his products. This book, however, was almost entirely a waste of time to read. It gets two stars because Mr. Michler is certainly sincere and obviously put a lot of time and thought into the book, and typos and poor grammar were very rare.
November 7, 2018
Real. No B.S. No punches held.
Ryan speaks the truth. The candor with which he shares his own story causes you to reflect honestly on your own. This book will show you where you are weak. But it will also give you the tools to become strong. It will ignite a fire in your bones to live the life you were born to live and become the sovereign of your own destiny.
Ryan speaks the truth. The candor with which he shares his own story causes you to reflect honestly on your own. This book will show you where you are weak. But it will also give you the tools to become strong. It will ignite a fire in your bones to live the life you were born to live and become the sovereign of your own destiny.
January 28, 2019
Outstanding!
April 16, 2020
Actionable advice for creating a more meaningful life, finding greater happiness, and achieving sovereignty.
October 18, 2025
it's fair.
October 24, 2021
Tired old view of men and women. Seeking to take us backwards when we really need a new way forward. 2 stars
December 28, 2018
I first encountered Ryan’s work on Instagram, which led me to Ryan's podcast, which led me to Ryan's first book. Having just finished Sovereignty, I now find myself engaging a more intentional and active lifestyle, that of evolving into a superior, sovereign version of myself.
In an era where almost universally masculinity reflexively gets bemoaned as inherently toxic, Ryan refreshingly encourages men to be men. In doing so, Ryan fills his niche in an ever-crowding self-help space very genuinely. Ryan comes across not as a learned scholar (a la Jordan Peterson in 12 Rules for Life) or some hollow ideologue/influencer (we all know them for their trademark loquaciousness without any citations or credibility) but as that slightly more motivated peer we all know, which makes Ryan all the more relatable and his challenges seem attainable. Ryan is "the man in the arena" (as Teddy Roosevelt would say), authoring his own life on his own terms, all while trying to uplift those around him.
That said, I didn’t give the book five stars because there are some minor inconsistencies, such as Ryan saying he writes 1,000 words a day in Chapter 22, whereas Ryan stated he wrote 2,000 words a day only chapters beforehand. I get the sense that this was simple human oversight as Ryan struggled to maintain his personal life and growing empire, all while authoring a book and trusting his publisher to catch the details (something that Ryan admits he isn’t a huge fan of tracking). However, in an organic way, the rare flashes of messiness almost add to the book’s charm, implicitly reminding the observant reader that aspiring to mastery is a constant battle even for the would-be sensei. Becoming sovereign is messy work, as Ryan says. Also, said flashes represent Ryan just getting started as an author and, to be clear, Sovereignty is a tremendous debut, especially as an audio book (although I hope I can find some visual aids online regarding action items from the later chapters).
Without hesitation, I'd certainly sign on for another book and I’ve already gifted a copy of the book to a friend. I also caught myself today coaching a coworker in regards to the virtues of mastery and ownership, ceasing to think thoughts that do not serve you, what feelings like anxiety actually represent (mere indicators from the body to the mind), and so forth. Clearly, this mentality is contagious and productive. In keeping with that sentiment, I encourage you to digest Sovereignty, which happens to be a quick read, then dive into the most important aspects of what this book discusses as soon as possible: being a man of action.
In an era where almost universally masculinity reflexively gets bemoaned as inherently toxic, Ryan refreshingly encourages men to be men. In doing so, Ryan fills his niche in an ever-crowding self-help space very genuinely. Ryan comes across not as a learned scholar (a la Jordan Peterson in 12 Rules for Life) or some hollow ideologue/influencer (we all know them for their trademark loquaciousness without any citations or credibility) but as that slightly more motivated peer we all know, which makes Ryan all the more relatable and his challenges seem attainable. Ryan is "the man in the arena" (as Teddy Roosevelt would say), authoring his own life on his own terms, all while trying to uplift those around him.
That said, I didn’t give the book five stars because there are some minor inconsistencies, such as Ryan saying he writes 1,000 words a day in Chapter 22, whereas Ryan stated he wrote 2,000 words a day only chapters beforehand. I get the sense that this was simple human oversight as Ryan struggled to maintain his personal life and growing empire, all while authoring a book and trusting his publisher to catch the details (something that Ryan admits he isn’t a huge fan of tracking). However, in an organic way, the rare flashes of messiness almost add to the book’s charm, implicitly reminding the observant reader that aspiring to mastery is a constant battle even for the would-be sensei. Becoming sovereign is messy work, as Ryan says. Also, said flashes represent Ryan just getting started as an author and, to be clear, Sovereignty is a tremendous debut, especially as an audio book (although I hope I can find some visual aids online regarding action items from the later chapters).
Without hesitation, I'd certainly sign on for another book and I’ve already gifted a copy of the book to a friend. I also caught myself today coaching a coworker in regards to the virtues of mastery and ownership, ceasing to think thoughts that do not serve you, what feelings like anxiety actually represent (mere indicators from the body to the mind), and so forth. Clearly, this mentality is contagious and productive. In keeping with that sentiment, I encourage you to digest Sovereignty, which happens to be a quick read, then dive into the most important aspects of what this book discusses as soon as possible: being a man of action.
November 7, 2024
I just finished re-reading this book after reading it for the first time back in lockdown in 2020. Now, 4 years later, it’s amazing to see how much of what is said in this book I’ve implemented not only into my day to day life, but into the core of who I am as a man.
I will not credit this book for where I am now in life. After all, no one did the work but me. But to read it back, and see the notes I wrote, I can’t help but smile at how much I’ve grown.
This book will not change your life. Only you can do that. But it will provide you the tools and guidelines to change your inner dialogue and recognize habits that will propel you to where you want to be. The rest is up to you.
I will not credit this book for where I am now in life. After all, no one did the work but me. But to read it back, and see the notes I wrote, I can’t help but smile at how much I’ve grown.
This book will not change your life. Only you can do that. But it will provide you the tools and guidelines to change your inner dialogue and recognize habits that will propel you to where you want to be. The rest is up to you.
February 9, 2022
A motivating, no-bullshit mix of Seneca, Jocko Willink, and personal epiphanies/theories from the author. If I had to sum it up, the theory would be similar to Jocko's "extreme ownership", but expanded to include more civilian-like scenarios (the logic and theory applies across the board, but Ryan's examples relate more directly). While not demeaning, it's not sugar coated either. There's work to do for all of us. Complacency kills.
January 22, 2023
I learned about the author after joining his Facebook group, Order of Man, which I've followed for several years. I decided it was about time I read his book, and while I can't say I made a lot of new discoveries, his straightforward, get-to-the-point approach on what men should do to take control of their lives was still a breath of fresh air. A reminder of where my head used to be, in my own 20's 30's, and certainly much of my 40's, where everything started to decline.
A major "click" for me had to be when I learned he was a Gulf War 2 veteran. His military training, and the life or death stakes he was up against, reinforced the need to take responsibility, duty, and attentiveness extremely seriously.
The fact that he went through his own "valley of the shadow of death", only to pull out of it and renew his vigor to re-conquer his own world, spoke DEEPLY to me, going through my own struggle to overcome situational depression, resisting the urge to cynically dismiss hope as naive.
Being a moderately liberal guy, I couldn't help but latch onto his maxim that OPEN MINDEDNESS is crucial to being successful; having a closed mind is terribly detrimental to being a complete Man, and seeing success. At the same time, I can well imagine his detractors (of which he vigorously acknowledged as tempting him not to write in the first place, fearing their criticism), accusing him of being just another bossy little man syndrome sufferer, strutting around like some kind of peacock with nothing of substance to justify the bluster and bravado. To this I return to his military and combat experience: he has well EARNED his bona fides, and his adherence to principles are based on real, tangible life lessons.
I enjoyed this. I did not mind that it wasn't super eloquent, in fact its straightforward diction was the shot in the arm that I needed.
A major "click" for me had to be when I learned he was a Gulf War 2 veteran. His military training, and the life or death stakes he was up against, reinforced the need to take responsibility, duty, and attentiveness extremely seriously.
The fact that he went through his own "valley of the shadow of death", only to pull out of it and renew his vigor to re-conquer his own world, spoke DEEPLY to me, going through my own struggle to overcome situational depression, resisting the urge to cynically dismiss hope as naive.
Being a moderately liberal guy, I couldn't help but latch onto his maxim that OPEN MINDEDNESS is crucial to being successful; having a closed mind is terribly detrimental to being a complete Man, and seeing success. At the same time, I can well imagine his detractors (of which he vigorously acknowledged as tempting him not to write in the first place, fearing their criticism), accusing him of being just another bossy little man syndrome sufferer, strutting around like some kind of peacock with nothing of substance to justify the bluster and bravado. To this I return to his military and combat experience: he has well EARNED his bona fides, and his adherence to principles are based on real, tangible life lessons.
I enjoyed this. I did not mind that it wasn't super eloquent, in fact its straightforward diction was the shot in the arm that I needed.
March 20, 2024
Sovereignty is a noble ideal, and I aspire to live a sovereign life, but the concept is somewhat tainted by the fact that its loudest proponents tend to be anarcho-libertarian “sovereign citizen” nutjobs with political views that range from absurd to embarrassing. So I approached this book with caution… and was pleasantly surprised.
This isn’t a book about politics unless you make it one. Ryan Michler uses the concept of sovereignty as a framing device for an unapologetically masculine take on self-help, exploring how men can become better and stronger husbands, fathers, brothers and leaders. To be a sovereign man is not to retreat from the world and answer to no-one - it means accepting your responsibilities to the people around you and performing the role that good men have always played, as a strong, courageous, dependable provider and protector.
On one level this is all pretty derivative. I don’t think Michler is hitting upon anything fundamentally new, but there’s still value in packaging old ideas in ways that will get through to a new audience - in this case, men who are sick of being told that their masculinity is the problem and not a solution.
There’s clearly a huge demand among male audiences for pro-male life advice delivered by authentically masculine role models. We need more books like Sovereignty that promote a healthy and positive vision of masculinity, because it’s either that or Andrew Tate, and I know which one I’d want influencing my sons (or for that matter, my daughters.)
(Unless you think that laughable bollocks like this is a credible alternative, in which case you have my sympathies, because you are stupid. Shove your gender studies degree up your arse.)
At its core, Sovereignty is a fairly generic self-help book. I didn’t learn much new information, but it definitely gave me some motivation - it’s hard to read this and not feel pumped up afterwards. I’m sure this book could do a lot good to a lot of men.
This isn’t a book about politics unless you make it one. Ryan Michler uses the concept of sovereignty as a framing device for an unapologetically masculine take on self-help, exploring how men can become better and stronger husbands, fathers, brothers and leaders. To be a sovereign man is not to retreat from the world and answer to no-one - it means accepting your responsibilities to the people around you and performing the role that good men have always played, as a strong, courageous, dependable provider and protector.
On one level this is all pretty derivative. I don’t think Michler is hitting upon anything fundamentally new, but there’s still value in packaging old ideas in ways that will get through to a new audience - in this case, men who are sick of being told that their masculinity is the problem and not a solution.
There’s clearly a huge demand among male audiences for pro-male life advice delivered by authentically masculine role models. We need more books like Sovereignty that promote a healthy and positive vision of masculinity, because it’s either that or Andrew Tate, and I know which one I’d want influencing my sons (or for that matter, my daughters.)
(Unless you think that laughable bollocks like this is a credible alternative, in which case you have my sympathies, because you are stupid. Shove your gender studies degree up your arse.)
At its core, Sovereignty is a fairly generic self-help book. I didn’t learn much new information, but it definitely gave me some motivation - it’s hard to read this and not feel pumped up afterwards. I’m sure this book could do a lot good to a lot of men.
May 23, 2020
This book just ekes out a 4 from me.
For those familiar with the podcast I’m not sure if it’s really worth reading the book. Honestly, if you listen to a couple episodes you don’t really don’t need to read the book. You get all the same information. Though I wouldn’t listen to current podcast episodes as they’ve gotten overtly political and very echo-chambery.
I think the best audience for this is someone you know who is struggling and would be receptive to the advice in here.
For the most part this book is solid. My major complaint being that it needed a bit more editing. A few grammatical errors and typos sneaked through. Part 3 “the code of conduct” is very ramble and really needed to be simplified. He talks about not having too many tactics but then his code of conduct is way too much. I think this could have been trimmed down and gotten the same point across. It fell like a choir at parts.
The battle plan is good, I’d just not take it so far as to stress yourself out too much. Metrics have been proven not to be all that effective and you don’t wanna project manager your life into being miserable, but it’s still a good template.
It’s an easy and effective read. Again, I’d recommend it to fans of the show’s friend or brother or w/e who is unfamiliar with OXM and would be receptive and probably needs the kick in the pants.
Also this is just personal taste..I find the whole quote at the beginning of the chapter thing super cringy, but that’s probably just me.
For those familiar with the podcast I’m not sure if it’s really worth reading the book. Honestly, if you listen to a couple episodes you don’t really don’t need to read the book. You get all the same information. Though I wouldn’t listen to current podcast episodes as they’ve gotten overtly political and very echo-chambery.
I think the best audience for this is someone you know who is struggling and would be receptive to the advice in here.
For the most part this book is solid. My major complaint being that it needed a bit more editing. A few grammatical errors and typos sneaked through. Part 3 “the code of conduct” is very ramble and really needed to be simplified. He talks about not having too many tactics but then his code of conduct is way too much. I think this could have been trimmed down and gotten the same point across. It fell like a choir at parts.
The battle plan is good, I’d just not take it so far as to stress yourself out too much. Metrics have been proven not to be all that effective and you don’t wanna project manager your life into being miserable, but it’s still a good template.
It’s an easy and effective read. Again, I’d recommend it to fans of the show’s friend or brother or w/e who is unfamiliar with OXM and would be receptive and probably needs the kick in the pants.
Also this is just personal taste..I find the whole quote at the beginning of the chapter thing super cringy, but that’s probably just me.
September 19, 2021
I am a weekly listener to The Order of Man podcast and have been since the beginning. I enjoy Ryan’s interviews and insight on many things that we face as men.
I felt like the beginning of this book was great and was excited to read about Ryan’s thoughts on being a sovereign man. He begins by defining what that means, and briefly stays on the topic. The book quickly turns into a typical self-help book in parts 2 and 3 with lots of repetition to meet the 200 page benchmark. The book does come back together in part 4 with The Battle Plan. I do feel like this is a worthwhile activity to make sure that you aren’t living a wasted life as a man, and you are “walking your talk.”
I heard about The Battle Plan on the podcast and intend to incorporate it into my journey to become a more well-rounded and sovereign man. I am happy that I bought the book and will definitely reference it multiple to create my Battle Plan.
Is it a book worth reading? Absolutely
Does it provide groundbreaking information? Not really
Does it give you a plan to fulfill the stated purpose of the book? Absolutely
Is Ryan Michler a guy worth supporting by buying this book and other OoM merchandise? Most definitely, and I am completely satisfied and happy that I did with the purchase of this book!
I felt like the beginning of this book was great and was excited to read about Ryan’s thoughts on being a sovereign man. He begins by defining what that means, and briefly stays on the topic. The book quickly turns into a typical self-help book in parts 2 and 3 with lots of repetition to meet the 200 page benchmark. The book does come back together in part 4 with The Battle Plan. I do feel like this is a worthwhile activity to make sure that you aren’t living a wasted life as a man, and you are “walking your talk.”
I heard about The Battle Plan on the podcast and intend to incorporate it into my journey to become a more well-rounded and sovereign man. I am happy that I bought the book and will definitely reference it multiple to create my Battle Plan.
Is it a book worth reading? Absolutely
Does it provide groundbreaking information? Not really
Does it give you a plan to fulfill the stated purpose of the book? Absolutely
Is Ryan Michler a guy worth supporting by buying this book and other OoM merchandise? Most definitely, and I am completely satisfied and happy that I did with the purchase of this book!
February 24, 2022
I love the message and the principles that this book stand for. I love its teachings and straightforward manner of relaying messages. I love that Ryan Michler is unashamed to plant his flag and declare his message to the world.
There are a lot of things shared in this book that some would say is exaggerated and hyperbolic, but the author points these things out and explains why he uses the words he does. These book is a great outline for any man who is looking for framework to improve himself and to be engaged in his masculinity, his responsibilities, and his roles in society.
I give the message in this book 5 stars; but I would like to disclose that I think if you listen to the weekly podcast hosted by the author, Order of Man, a lot of this information will be redundant to you. That doesn't make it bad; it just shows you how committed the author is to his convictions.
There are a lot of things shared in this book that some would say is exaggerated and hyperbolic, but the author points these things out and explains why he uses the words he does. These book is a great outline for any man who is looking for framework to improve himself and to be engaged in his masculinity, his responsibilities, and his roles in society.
I give the message in this book 5 stars; but I would like to disclose that I think if you listen to the weekly podcast hosted by the author, Order of Man, a lot of this information will be redundant to you. That doesn't make it bad; it just shows you how committed the author is to his convictions.
August 9, 2022
This book is filled with practical information on how a man can take control of his life. The stated values from the Code of Conduct session are good. The quotes at the beginning of each chapter are almost worth the whole book! The practical implementation of The Battle Plan is well explained, and easy to understand and implement. I would recommend it.
My only qualm about the book is the unnecessary use of bad language. It seems the author feels as though the use of curse words will make the reading man feel more masculine by the use of such words. Perhaps the author is trying to meet the needs of his target audience, but not all men fine it necessary to use bad language. Like many good movies or television shows, the medium would be just as good, if not better, if you left out the bad language. It simply is not necessary, and proves nothing.
My only qualm about the book is the unnecessary use of bad language. It seems the author feels as though the use of curse words will make the reading man feel more masculine by the use of such words. Perhaps the author is trying to meet the needs of his target audience, but not all men fine it necessary to use bad language. Like many good movies or television shows, the medium would be just as good, if not better, if you left out the bad language. It simply is not necessary, and proves nothing.
September 4, 2022
I chose this book based on a high Goodreads rating. Yet it was a hard read.... The author takes you along his journey with all of its ups and downs yet it really isn't very engaging. I couldn't get interested. The writing is mediocre, the content seems highly general and I was hoping that by the end of the book there might be something of value yet for me it fell flat.
Many of the issues presented in the book are framed as conflicts or battles. While this is a choice from the author, I don't feel it helps with understanding the issues and their solutions, some of which are quite simplistic.
I have yet to listen to the authors podcast, but that might be a better starting point than the book.
Many of the issues presented in the book are framed as conflicts or battles. While this is a choice from the author, I don't feel it helps with understanding the issues and their solutions, some of which are quite simplistic.
I have yet to listen to the authors podcast, but that might be a better starting point than the book.
June 23, 2020
As a whole, I was a little disappointed by the writing style in the book, but I thought that Ryan’s message was absolutely SPOT ON! My biggest take away and joy from reading it was sharing the book and it’s lessons in a weekly basis with Mark, my brother, as we seek to define who we are as men, who we see our selves as, and how we can build our lives to become those versions of ourselves. How we show up and protect, provide and provide for those who need us the most. This book and our reading of it, our sharing it’s wisdoms, points, counterpoints and shortcomings brought us together in a way I can only begin to describe as powerful.
April 11, 2018
I’ve had the pleasure of knowing Ryan for a while now and I’ve been looking forward to this book. Having read it, it has surpassed my expectations. I KNOW that I am a better man because of Ryan and his movement; I see it in every aspect of my life (and so has my family). No matter who you are, where you are in life or your views on masculinity, this book is worthy of your time. It is ideal for you, your husband, your sons and brothers (and your wife, daughter and sisters too). Take the time to change your life.
March 2, 2018
If you are interested in how to be a good man or ,as the author quotes Jack Donovan, “how to be good at being a man”, then this is for you!
No nonsense approach to self leadership...this book is as much about doing as it is about reading-if you want to do something in this life-stop dreaming and just try...you will probably suck at first but who cares.
If you are interested in positive masculine ideals mixed with a healthy dose of stoic philosophy, check out this short book.
No nonsense approach to self leadership...this book is as much about doing as it is about reading-if you want to do something in this life-stop dreaming and just try...you will probably suck at first but who cares.
If you are interested in positive masculine ideals mixed with a healthy dose of stoic philosophy, check out this short book.
December 11, 2018
I am a fan of Ryan's Podcast "The Order of Man", so I certainly was looking forward to reading this book. While his podcast and book are tailored toward men, I believe women can benefit from it as well. I agree with Ryan's views on the Sovereign Man as a provider, protector and presider - over his own life, his family and his community. I like his honest style. (I found myself fist pumping several times). I particularly liked the Battle Plan towards the end of the book.
February 14, 2019
Along the lines of Think and Grow Rich, but with the focus on being a “Sovereign Man” than on the “grow rich” idea - unless Sovereign man matches your idea of rich.
Both books have similar ground work and exercises to be used in order to meet your “goals” and to break out of the “normal” work-eat-sleep-repeat routine.
Not necessarily a unique read, but it does do a great job for laying out a set of tools and exercises to use in order to improve your life and to reach your goals.
Both books have similar ground work and exercises to be used in order to meet your “goals” and to break out of the “normal” work-eat-sleep-repeat routine.
Not necessarily a unique read, but it does do a great job for laying out a set of tools and exercises to use in order to improve your life and to reach your goals.
November 3, 2019
Sovereign Men
I can’t express enough on how much this book was meant for me. I fell from a bad relationship recently, and that was my wake up call to be become a man, a true warrior. I thought everything would of been great with the new relationship till it dramatically went down hill. I realized that I wasn’t mentally strong yet, wasn’t decisive, didn’t have that warrior mindset, now I know this will definitely be my battle plan. I recommend this book to all men out there!
I can’t express enough on how much this book was meant for me. I fell from a bad relationship recently, and that was my wake up call to be become a man, a true warrior. I thought everything would of been great with the new relationship till it dramatically went down hill. I realized that I wasn’t mentally strong yet, wasn’t decisive, didn’t have that warrior mindset, now I know this will definitely be my battle plan. I recommend this book to all men out there!
August 15, 2020
Absolutely amazing, a must read for any man who wishes to take control over his life and would highly recommend it to anyone who is starting out in life or needs to regain back his objective in life.
Ryan talks about his life experience including family moments, military moments when he got sent to Iraq, and starting his own financial business later on.
The book combines the building blocks and tactics for any man to regain his life and become the man he always wishes to become.
Ryan talks about his life experience including family moments, military moments when he got sent to Iraq, and starting his own financial business later on.
The book combines the building blocks and tactics for any man to regain his life and become the man he always wishes to become.
February 13, 2021
I'm a follower of Ryan's on social media. I really appreciate the work he does and what he brings to the table. This book did initiate change in me, but it took me a considerable amount of time to read because, to be frank, it's dull at times.
To be fair, Ryan acknowledges he has a long way to go as a writer. The book is valuable, and I don't mean to distract from that. It's just a tough read at times.
To be fair, Ryan acknowledges he has a long way to go as a writer. The book is valuable, and I don't mean to distract from that. It's just a tough read at times.
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