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The Single Mums' Mansion
When your husband moves out, move your best friends in...
Amanda Wilkie unexpectedly finds herself alone with her three children in a rambling Victorian house in London. Her husband leaves them, claiming he's just 'lost the love', like one might carelessly lose a glove.
A few months later, Amanda's heavily pregnant friend, Ali, crashes into her kitchen announcing her husband is also leaving. So, after Ali's baby Grace is born, they both move into Amanda's attic. And when Jacqui, a long-lost friend and fellow single mum, starts dropping by daily, the household is complete.
Getting divorced is no walk in the park, but the three friends refuse to be defined by it. And, as they slowly emerge out of the wreckage like a trio of sequin-clad Gloria Gaynors singing 'I Will Survive', they realise that anything is possible. Even loving again... Based on Janet's true story, The Single Mums' Mansion is a laugh-out-loud tour de force which will make you laugh, cry and treasure your best friends even more than before.
Perfect for fans of Marian Keyes, Gill Sims and Tracy Bloom.
450 pages, Kindle Edition
First published June 1, 2018
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May 1, 2018
This is my first book by this author and although it was quite slow to start with once it got going it was really good and funny but so true to life as well. Full of friendship and supporting each other through hard times also romance and finding yourself again and finding you can live with out your husband. Shows how you have to cope with difficulties and how you can in the end she how far you have come.
Amanda suddenly finds herself single and living in a big house and how will she cope with her three children but over time she comes friends with two other people who are also going through the same thing. Amanda tells her new friend Ali who is pregnant to move in with her and they soon support each other and help each other to cope. The children are so strong for the parents and make you laugh with how they tell their mum she should find someone else so she can be happy. Amanda does find someone else and really isn't sure it's right but she finds herself pregnant but it all goes wrong and she realises it's for the best. She then meets Chris and can she be happy or does she still feel the love for her ex who is with someone else and had a baby how will she cope with that and can she move forward or does one of the children encourage her forward as well.
A great funny read once you get into it.
Amanda suddenly finds herself single and living in a big house and how will she cope with her three children but over time she comes friends with two other people who are also going through the same thing. Amanda tells her new friend Ali who is pregnant to move in with her and they soon support each other and help each other to cope. The children are so strong for the parents and make you laugh with how they tell their mum she should find someone else so she can be happy. Amanda does find someone else and really isn't sure it's right but she finds herself pregnant but it all goes wrong and she realises it's for the best. She then meets Chris and can she be happy or does she still feel the love for her ex who is with someone else and had a baby how will she cope with that and can she move forward or does one of the children encourage her forward as well.
A great funny read once you get into it.
August 3, 2018
The idea of the story is good.
Spoiler Alert
The drug use turned me off.
Spoiler Alert
The drug use turned me off.
August 5, 2020
(3.5 stars)
Amanda has just divorced, and is living in her big mansion with her three kids. When her friend Ali also gets divorced and has nowhere to live, she and her little daughter Grace move in with Amanda. Her friend Jacqui, a newly divorced herself, also stays in the house a lot. This is the story of how the three of them overcame the divorce.
I liked the story of the three woman and how they helped each other rebuild their lives. However, I was a little put off by two things: the "witchy" stuff, and the excessive use of drugs and alcohol.
Amanda has just divorced, and is living in her big mansion with her three kids. When her friend Ali also gets divorced and has nowhere to live, she and her little daughter Grace move in with Amanda. Her friend Jacqui, a newly divorced herself, also stays in the house a lot. This is the story of how the three of them overcame the divorce.
I liked the story of the three woman and how they helped each other rebuild their lives. However, I was a little put off by two things: the "witchy" stuff, and the excessive use of drugs and alcohol.
December 15, 2018
Although the author at times accurately captured the difficulties of being a single mother, and the painful feelings of betrayal that many men leave in their wake, this felt like a bit of a rushed, early draft. The golden rule of writing is "Show, don't tell," but in too many places the author jumped ahead, then "told" us about something else that had happened rather than giving us the scene as it played out. Also there were too many bit part characters which made it confusing at times, too many names who didn't make a huge difference to the story. The ending fizzled out and was a bit of a disappointment. It felt like this needed another couple of drafts, reducing the number of minor characters and giving them more of a stake in the story (eg Ursula going to the wedding? Who cares? Make it Ali, or Amy, or Jacqui, therefore more of a betrayal... ) Also, make it clear who is speaking, the dialogue was hard to follow. It's a pity, with a bit more work this could be a lot more successful.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
June 20, 2018
This is the first book that I have read by Janet Hoggarth but rest assured that judging by how much I loved reading ‘The Single Mums’ Mansion’, it certainly won’t be the last one I read. I absolutely LOVED no make that ADORED reading it but more about that in a bit.
The main character in this book is called Amanda Wilkie. She is the proud mother of three healthy children and she thought that she was happily married- well until her husband upped and left her that is. Poor Amanda then sort of falls apart because not only has she had the rug pulled out from under her feet, she is the main carer of three children under 5 years old, her husband appears to be having an early midlife crisis and she is stuck with the hammer house of horrors. By that I mean that she lives in a house that was billed as being a renovation project and it is that and so much more. The house is a wreck and needs so much work doing to it. I really felt for Amanda and there were so many times when I wanted to jump into the pages of this book and give Amanda a hug or to have a bitching session with her about men and I also wanted to slap her so called husband a few dozen times across the face with a wet fish for how he treated Amanda, how he deceived her, how he is still not telling her the full truth and basically for being a pig. Ooh that man makes me feel so mad. It isn’t all bad news for Amanda though because her support network has just got that bit closer and each member of the network is there for whichever member needed extra support. Two of her friends, who are also single mothers move into her house and they have so much fun, lots to drink and lots of laughs. They had so much fun that I wanted to move in before remembering I have no children (I could always babysit) and this is fiction so not real (bah humbug).
I was immediately intrigued by the synopsis of this book. It sounded like an interesting read with a few laughs along the way so I opened the front cover and began to read. Oh my is so much more than that because yes it has its serious parts but it also carries a serious message in that you find out who your friends are when you are having a crap time and that things really can get better even when you think that they can’t. I became addicted to reading this book from the moment I started reading this book and it wasn’t long until the page numbers and the chapters were flying past in a blur. It didn’t take me that long to finish reading this book and before I knew what was happening, I had finished the book, which I was so disappointed about. I was enjoying the author’s writing style, the story and the characters so much that I just wanted the book to continue. The characters were so well written that they almost came to life and I began to think of them (apart from the cheating spouses that is) as friends. This is one of those books that is like an emotional rollercoaster- there are highs, there are lows and there are moments that leave you slightly stunned.
In short I absolutely ADORED reading ‘The Single Mums’ Mansion’ and I would definitely recommend it to other readers. I can’t wait to read what comes next from Janet Hoggarth. The score on the Ginger Book Geek board is a well deserved 5* out of 5*.
The main character in this book is called Amanda Wilkie. She is the proud mother of three healthy children and she thought that she was happily married- well until her husband upped and left her that is. Poor Amanda then sort of falls apart because not only has she had the rug pulled out from under her feet, she is the main carer of three children under 5 years old, her husband appears to be having an early midlife crisis and she is stuck with the hammer house of horrors. By that I mean that she lives in a house that was billed as being a renovation project and it is that and so much more. The house is a wreck and needs so much work doing to it. I really felt for Amanda and there were so many times when I wanted to jump into the pages of this book and give Amanda a hug or to have a bitching session with her about men and I also wanted to slap her so called husband a few dozen times across the face with a wet fish for how he treated Amanda, how he deceived her, how he is still not telling her the full truth and basically for being a pig. Ooh that man makes me feel so mad. It isn’t all bad news for Amanda though because her support network has just got that bit closer and each member of the network is there for whichever member needed extra support. Two of her friends, who are also single mothers move into her house and they have so much fun, lots to drink and lots of laughs. They had so much fun that I wanted to move in before remembering I have no children (I could always babysit) and this is fiction so not real (bah humbug).
I was immediately intrigued by the synopsis of this book. It sounded like an interesting read with a few laughs along the way so I opened the front cover and began to read. Oh my is so much more than that because yes it has its serious parts but it also carries a serious message in that you find out who your friends are when you are having a crap time and that things really can get better even when you think that they can’t. I became addicted to reading this book from the moment I started reading this book and it wasn’t long until the page numbers and the chapters were flying past in a blur. It didn’t take me that long to finish reading this book and before I knew what was happening, I had finished the book, which I was so disappointed about. I was enjoying the author’s writing style, the story and the characters so much that I just wanted the book to continue. The characters were so well written that they almost came to life and I began to think of them (apart from the cheating spouses that is) as friends. This is one of those books that is like an emotional rollercoaster- there are highs, there are lows and there are moments that leave you slightly stunned.
In short I absolutely ADORED reading ‘The Single Mums’ Mansion’ and I would definitely recommend it to other readers. I can’t wait to read what comes next from Janet Hoggarth. The score on the Ginger Book Geek board is a well deserved 5* out of 5*.
July 27, 2018
Amanda, mum of 3 under 5’s has just had the worst happen: her husband has up sticks and moved out leaving her in their “forever home” that was (and is) in need of renovation and restoration. With her youngest just over a year old, she’s constantly juggling kiddos, dodging lego and sharp-toy landmines and trying, not always well, to keep it all together. Amanda’s best friends Ali and Mel are solidly supportive, even with their own issues. And a new ‘friend” from a Mommy & Me class, Jacqui joins the gang. See, Ali is pregnant with her first (a not welcome surprise for her husband) and Jacqui is a divorced mum of two. So at different stages of their lives and relationships, not to mention everyone struggling with ‘parenting’ as we all do – the story has a sense of “yes – I remember that” to all mums.
And then, from a reasonably slow start that let Amanda’s character develop and present itself as someone wanting, worrying and ignoring all those things we all do – it’s Ali and her daughter into the attic rooms in the house, and Jacqui in with her two – she’s there always anyway. Combining cash flow, support, sitting, childcare and even a stand in for hangover time (screaming toddlers are even less tolerable when hungover) the women start to put their lives on paths unexpected before marriage and children changed their plans.
Lovely for the honesty, support and friendships that these three have come to rely on, not to mention the ever-present struggle of dealing with self-absorbed, self-centered and often selfish spouses more than willing to be “the fun parent” with little to no regard for the realities of parenthood. Sure, the first words may be less than savory - and requests that little pitchers leave those embarrassing and difficult questions for “Daddy Time”, add a subtle hint of spread the torture about to those who deserve it most.
An intriguing and fun read, purely delightful for those looking for a story that shows how support, friendship and a bit of mayhem in your life may be just what is needed.
I received an eArc copy of the title from the publisher via NetGalley for purpose of honest review. I was not compensated for this review: all conclusions are my own responsibility.
Review first appeared at I am, Indeed
And then, from a reasonably slow start that let Amanda’s character develop and present itself as someone wanting, worrying and ignoring all those things we all do – it’s Ali and her daughter into the attic rooms in the house, and Jacqui in with her two – she’s there always anyway. Combining cash flow, support, sitting, childcare and even a stand in for hangover time (screaming toddlers are even less tolerable when hungover) the women start to put their lives on paths unexpected before marriage and children changed their plans.
Lovely for the honesty, support and friendships that these three have come to rely on, not to mention the ever-present struggle of dealing with self-absorbed, self-centered and often selfish spouses more than willing to be “the fun parent” with little to no regard for the realities of parenthood. Sure, the first words may be less than savory - and requests that little pitchers leave those embarrassing and difficult questions for “Daddy Time”, add a subtle hint of spread the torture about to those who deserve it most.
An intriguing and fun read, purely delightful for those looking for a story that shows how support, friendship and a bit of mayhem in your life may be just what is needed.
I received an eArc copy of the title from the publisher via NetGalley for purpose of honest review. I was not compensated for this review: all conclusions are my own responsibility.
Review first appeared at I am, Indeed
May 14, 2018
Very enjoyable book about how three women with children who were divorced or separated from their partners ended up sharing a house to help each other out, emotionally and with the childcare.
Amanda is the main character and the owner of the big house that the story revolves around. Her husband has recently left her and they have 3 small children. Ali is her pregnant friend (the baby arrives near the start of the story) and after her partner dumps her and the baby she ends up moving into Amanda's attic room. Then there is Jacqui who lives nearby, also divorced, with 2 children, but who may as well live in the house too as she's always there!
I really liked the way they all helped each other out with childcare and it really worked. Although they were all really bitter about the divorces/separations for quite a while, and the children did suffer emotionally because of the splits (Amanda's mostly), especially as they were all fairly small and didn't understand what was going on. The ex's were all completely self-centred and only seemed to think of themselves, once they left they were on to their new lives and partners and didn't seem to think an awful lot about their old families, apart from occasional visitation, or if they could use their children to get at their ex-partners.
There were some sad moments, and some funny moments and although I did find it fairly slow to start it picked up as it went along and I definitely got more into the story and was hoping for a good outcome for all of them, once they'd managed to get past the hurt and anger of being rejected.
A couple of things did detract from the story for me a bit though. There was a fair bit of swearing in it and whilst that doesn't usually bother me the c-word was used a fair bit and that is just one word I really hate, so that did put me off a bit. There was also recreational drug-taking going on a fair bit too, which just didn't sit right with me since they all had young children and were supposed to be the adults looking after them. I'm sure it happens, and each to their own, but it just annoyed me reading about it!
So all in all a very enjoyable read, but if the swearing and drug taking had been toned down it would have rated higher for me.
Amanda is the main character and the owner of the big house that the story revolves around. Her husband has recently left her and they have 3 small children. Ali is her pregnant friend (the baby arrives near the start of the story) and after her partner dumps her and the baby she ends up moving into Amanda's attic room. Then there is Jacqui who lives nearby, also divorced, with 2 children, but who may as well live in the house too as she's always there!
I really liked the way they all helped each other out with childcare and it really worked. Although they were all really bitter about the divorces/separations for quite a while, and the children did suffer emotionally because of the splits (Amanda's mostly), especially as they were all fairly small and didn't understand what was going on. The ex's were all completely self-centred and only seemed to think of themselves, once they left they were on to their new lives and partners and didn't seem to think an awful lot about their old families, apart from occasional visitation, or if they could use their children to get at their ex-partners.
There were some sad moments, and some funny moments and although I did find it fairly slow to start it picked up as it went along and I definitely got more into the story and was hoping for a good outcome for all of them, once they'd managed to get past the hurt and anger of being rejected.
A couple of things did detract from the story for me a bit though. There was a fair bit of swearing in it and whilst that doesn't usually bother me the c-word was used a fair bit and that is just one word I really hate, so that did put me off a bit. There was also recreational drug-taking going on a fair bit too, which just didn't sit right with me since they all had young children and were supposed to be the adults looking after them. I'm sure it happens, and each to their own, but it just annoyed me reading about it!
So all in all a very enjoyable read, but if the swearing and drug taking had been toned down it would have rated higher for me.
January 28, 2020
Voila!Finally I finished it. What a pleasure reading it was!This book unfolds with it journey of a mother from an unhappy divorcee to a strong self dependent woman. Parenting in itself is a laborious task which needs a lots of patience and determination. But if parents themselves are unsorted, it makes parenting harder.This book is an honest attempt to depict how emotional turmoil post-divorce outspreads in a mother's life.How she copes with the unpleasant situations.
Amanda, the protagonist, along with her three kids struggles to sort herself out after her epic marriage shreds into pieces. It is a beautiful journey of dealing with heartbreak and strongly attempting to put pieces together when everything is falling from its place.
Ali, Jacqui and Amanda together build this Single Mum's Mansion, nourishing it with their ups and downs in life and persevering courageously while their ex-husbands have moved on in their life. Together they introspect and drastically change their personality with reasoning, further bringing out bold, strong and single mothers embedded in them.
Also Chris is such a sweetheart in this book.(It is a blessing when such personality do exist in real world.)
Lesson to me: Changes can be painful and ugly.You are not coward if you accept that you are broken. Once you accept that you are vulnerable and broken , it is only then you can work on how to fix it.
In Short : Don't run , just face it however ugly it is..
Amanda, the protagonist, along with her three kids struggles to sort herself out after her epic marriage shreds into pieces. It is a beautiful journey of dealing with heartbreak and strongly attempting to put pieces together when everything is falling from its place.
Ali, Jacqui and Amanda together build this Single Mum's Mansion, nourishing it with their ups and downs in life and persevering courageously while their ex-husbands have moved on in their life. Together they introspect and drastically change their personality with reasoning, further bringing out bold, strong and single mothers embedded in them.
Also Chris is such a sweetheart in this book.(It is a blessing when such personality do exist in real world.)
Lesson to me: Changes can be painful and ugly.You are not coward if you accept that you are broken. Once you accept that you are vulnerable and broken , it is only then you can work on how to fix it.
In Short : Don't run , just face it however ugly it is..
March 3, 2019
Such a lovely book. The characterisation of the three main women really capture modern day life for single parents, the struggle of break ups and how to rehabilitate yourself when suddenly going from two to one. I was so chuffed with every sharp turn this book made - I can’t wait for the book about Ali in the summer!
April 2, 2023
I read this to get it off my tbr, but that doesn't mean that I didn't have hope for the book when I was buying it. But characters and plot were SO annoying, I can't believe this is a book about 40 year old mothers ffs. The book managed to disappoint even with my expectations set low.
P.S. the audiobook narrator was horrendous in particular.
P.S. the audiobook narrator was horrendous in particular.
January 24, 2019
A sometimes humorous, sometimes emotional insight into the aftermath of separation and divorce. Overall a good easy read.
September 23, 2022
I liked the book, but one of things that annoyed me was that this forty something women behaved like they were in their twenties and without children.
Regardless of that I will read the next books in the collection.
Regardless of that I will read the next books in the collection.
March 1, 2021
This book was verging on being too "Beardy Weirdy" for me but I will remember it particularly for that very phrase and also for the author's version of the Modern Reiki Principles:
Just for today, I will not be angry
Just for today, I will not worry
Just for today, I will be grateful
Just for today, I will do my work honestly
Just for today, I will be kind to every living thing.
Can't argue with that really.
Pass me the next in the series...
Just for today, I will not be angry
Just for today, I will not worry
Just for today, I will be grateful
Just for today, I will do my work honestly
Just for today, I will be kind to every living thing.
Can't argue with that really.
Pass me the next in the series...
August 21, 2020
I had brought the second book in this series first , so glad that I realized as it would have been a bit confusing and I feel I would have missed out on learning more about the the three main ladies ,Amanda, Ali, and Jacqui , there highs and lows throughout the book . Yes the book was slow to start but once you got through the first chapter it flew threw and caught you out with what each woman was going through , changing their thoughts and feelings on life , love and where they want to be. I have got the series so will be seeing what the next saga brings and if the books continue to make me smile and ponder on life .
August 6, 2018
Didn't like any of the characters.
June 21, 2018
I love the premise behind this book and the overarching storyline was fun. It is also incredibly feminist and involves very strong women as the song goes 'sisters doing it for themselves'. I enjoyed getting to know main character Amanda and her three children. Her friend Ali and her daughter Grace and their other friend Jacqui. There are also a whole host of other supporting characters, some of whom were hard to keep track of because I didn't quite know how they fitted into the lives of our main characters or because they had similar names.
There are definitely parts of this novel that show the darker side of divorce and being a single parent and we live through a whole host of emotions that Amanda lives through. There are trigger warnings here for miscarriage and also unwanted pregnancies so just be warned of that before going in. As I say I enjoyed the overarching storyline about women sticking together and supporting each other in times of trouble. Amanda also gets into alternative healing as the book progresses and here's where I had some issues. Some of the things that she goes in for just seemed a little out of character for her and she and her friends refer to the books and the therapies that she uses as 'beardy weirdy' which I also thought was out of character for her and could also cause offense to others. I thought that this side of the novel felt a little detached from the rest of it.
As well as getting to see the highs and lows of living the single parent life and going through a divorce, we also get to see what happens when mums let their hair down. There is quite a bit of drinking and drug use in the novel which did shock me a little and again seems a little out of character for some of the mums in this book. There are hangovers galore and the emotional roller coasters that go with 'the morning after'. I did enjoy the premise behind this book and what it does to promote strong women supporting each other. I enjoyed the fact that it revolves around three amazing mums holding their own in the big bad world, but I did have a few issues with it.
There are definitely parts of this novel that show the darker side of divorce and being a single parent and we live through a whole host of emotions that Amanda lives through. There are trigger warnings here for miscarriage and also unwanted pregnancies so just be warned of that before going in. As I say I enjoyed the overarching storyline about women sticking together and supporting each other in times of trouble. Amanda also gets into alternative healing as the book progresses and here's where I had some issues. Some of the things that she goes in for just seemed a little out of character for her and she and her friends refer to the books and the therapies that she uses as 'beardy weirdy' which I also thought was out of character for her and could also cause offense to others. I thought that this side of the novel felt a little detached from the rest of it.
As well as getting to see the highs and lows of living the single parent life and going through a divorce, we also get to see what happens when mums let their hair down. There is quite a bit of drinking and drug use in the novel which did shock me a little and again seems a little out of character for some of the mums in this book. There are hangovers galore and the emotional roller coasters that go with 'the morning after'. I did enjoy the premise behind this book and what it does to promote strong women supporting each other. I enjoyed the fact that it revolves around three amazing mums holding their own in the big bad world, but I did have a few issues with it.
June 7, 2018
The Single Mum’s Mansion by Janet Hoggarth is a book which explores the deep bond between women. Three newly single mum’s share this bond in this book as they navigate life after divorces and watch their ex-partners move on with their lives.
Amanda, owner of a large Victorian mansion which becomes the Single Mum’s, has recently been left by husband Sam for a younger tv chef Carrie and she not coping well. With three young kids everything gets out of control and the four of them spend most of the time crying or yelling at each other. So, when best friend Ali announces she’s pregnant and things with partner Jim are not great Amanda offers her the loft in her home to live in. It’s not long before Ali and baby daughter Grace are fully installed with Amanda and when Amanda bumps into an old friend from toddler group newly single Jacqui the trio are complete. What follows is a hilarious ride working through their anger, frustrations and trials of being a single mum until maybe one day they can all move on and forgive their selfish exes for ruining their lives.
One of the most enjoyable things about this book is how real the three main characters and particularly Amanda felt. They are not perfect by a long way and that made me love them. They are women that are not afraid to cry uncontrollable and shout at their children even when deep down they know they should just hug them instead, they feel overwhelming jealously towards their ex’s new partners which leads to some crazy actions and probably too much alcohol and drug consumption, but overall, they’re incredibly local to their friends and protective of anyone else hurting their children. All of this leads to some incredibly funny scenes, my favourite involving sponges, wedding dresses and dry humping.
One of my favourite characters in this book was young Isla, she may only be young but that girl has a very astute way of looking at life. I loved the way she instead Amanda should get a new boyfriend because they needed a “Space Man” in the house, so cute.
There were a couple of places where I felt the story started to drag a little and that’s why I’ve only awarded four stars. The Single Mum’s Mansion is an enjoyable read which will make you laugh, make you cry and make you very thankful you have female friends.
Thank you so much to Aria for sending me a copy to review and for inviting me to be part of this blog tour.
Amanda, owner of a large Victorian mansion which becomes the Single Mum’s, has recently been left by husband Sam for a younger tv chef Carrie and she not coping well. With three young kids everything gets out of control and the four of them spend most of the time crying or yelling at each other. So, when best friend Ali announces she’s pregnant and things with partner Jim are not great Amanda offers her the loft in her home to live in. It’s not long before Ali and baby daughter Grace are fully installed with Amanda and when Amanda bumps into an old friend from toddler group newly single Jacqui the trio are complete. What follows is a hilarious ride working through their anger, frustrations and trials of being a single mum until maybe one day they can all move on and forgive their selfish exes for ruining their lives.
One of the most enjoyable things about this book is how real the three main characters and particularly Amanda felt. They are not perfect by a long way and that made me love them. They are women that are not afraid to cry uncontrollable and shout at their children even when deep down they know they should just hug them instead, they feel overwhelming jealously towards their ex’s new partners which leads to some crazy actions and probably too much alcohol and drug consumption, but overall, they’re incredibly local to their friends and protective of anyone else hurting their children. All of this leads to some incredibly funny scenes, my favourite involving sponges, wedding dresses and dry humping.
One of my favourite characters in this book was young Isla, she may only be young but that girl has a very astute way of looking at life. I loved the way she instead Amanda should get a new boyfriend because they needed a “Space Man” in the house, so cute.
There were a couple of places where I felt the story started to drag a little and that’s why I’ve only awarded four stars. The Single Mum’s Mansion is an enjoyable read which will make you laugh, make you cry and make you very thankful you have female friends.
Thank you so much to Aria for sending me a copy to review and for inviting me to be part of this blog tour.
July 31, 2018
I took a chance on a discounted book on BookBub and won the lottery!
This is my first book from this author and I wasn’t sure what to expect. But I fell into the book from the very first page and barely came up for air.
I LOVED Amanda, Allison, Jacqui, and all the friends that made divorce and single motherhood so bloody bearable. The book is about a group of friends whose significant other left them within the same period of time and how coming together helped them cope through the worst of it.
Sam, the asshole, left Mandy for a celebrity chef. He was cheating with her while lying to Mandy’s face. He and the twat kept it under wraps because she had a new tv show scheduled to air and she didn’t want bad publicity. So they lied and then smashed Mandy’s eleven year marriage and the asshole left his three kids for the twat.
Ali decided to have a relationship with a man who cheated on his wife with her and was surprised when, after she had a daughter for him, he walked out on her for someone else. This jerk off kicked her out of the home they bought together with their newborn child. She moved in with Mandy and formed a family unit when they both needed it most.
They met Jacqui who just moved in down the street. She was also reeling from a husband who walked out on her and her two kids. She was alone and bottling it all up, until she met Ali and Mandy.
To survive the hell of dealing with their husbands abandonment of them and their kids, they turned to mysticism, booze and sometimes a bit of drugs to make life just a little more bearable. It works sometimes, but sometimes you just have to let it all out in whatever way you can.
This is a book about survival, making bad choices, making good decisions, and getting rid of your negative to make room for the positive to enter your life. It was a beautiful written book. I cried, I laughed, I got angry, I cussed at fictional characters with a desire to decimate them.
It was AWESOME! :D
This is my first book from this author and I wasn’t sure what to expect. But I fell into the book from the very first page and barely came up for air.
I LOVED Amanda, Allison, Jacqui, and all the friends that made divorce and single motherhood so bloody bearable. The book is about a group of friends whose significant other left them within the same period of time and how coming together helped them cope through the worst of it.
Sam, the asshole, left Mandy for a celebrity chef. He was cheating with her while lying to Mandy’s face. He and the twat kept it under wraps because she had a new tv show scheduled to air and she didn’t want bad publicity. So they lied and then smashed Mandy’s eleven year marriage and the asshole left his three kids for the twat.
Ali decided to have a relationship with a man who cheated on his wife with her and was surprised when, after she had a daughter for him, he walked out on her for someone else. This jerk off kicked her out of the home they bought together with their newborn child. She moved in with Mandy and formed a family unit when they both needed it most.
They met Jacqui who just moved in down the street. She was also reeling from a husband who walked out on her and her two kids. She was alone and bottling it all up, until she met Ali and Mandy.
To survive the hell of dealing with their husbands abandonment of them and their kids, they turned to mysticism, booze and sometimes a bit of drugs to make life just a little more bearable. It works sometimes, but sometimes you just have to let it all out in whatever way you can.
This is a book about survival, making bad choices, making good decisions, and getting rid of your negative to make room for the positive to enter your life. It was a beautiful written book. I cried, I laughed, I got angry, I cussed at fictional characters with a desire to decimate them.
It was AWESOME! :D
February 24, 2020
I really liked the premise of "The Single Mums' Mansion". Finding herself alone with 3 kids and a broken heart, Amanda invites her close friend Ali, who's also going through a tough separation with a newborn in tow, to live with her in her big Victorian house in South London. I liked the idea because when I got divorced, I jokingly told 2 of my friends we should get a big house in the Provence countryside and raise all our kids together. The Universe had other - wonderful - plans for me, but I still think it could have been fun!
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I expected this book to be light and fun. It wasn't. Ultimately it tells Amanda's journey through grief and it never is an easy process. Even though I didn't get divorced for the same reasons and I was the one who left, I went through pretty much the same feelings, anger, disbelief, pain...Just like "Ordinary People" (by Diana Evans) struck a little too close to home regarding my experience as a young mother, "The Single Mums' Mansion" spoke to my life as a coparent - let's just say it's a bumpy road and involves a lot of frustration sometimes.
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All in all I loved the book - so much so I'll probably give the follow-up a chance. But the truth is, I also got endlessly frustrated by the amount of booze every character drinks at any time of day and how that reckless behavior sometimes spells disaster for them. It made me want to drop the book at times, deeming Amanda a lost cause.
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I didn't though, because of another similarity I share with the character: she turns to the spiritual and the esoteric to help her grieve and feel better. She learns Reiki, as I did, and she asks the Universe for help, as I often do. I'm more into Tarot now as a way to help me tap into my intuition, but the book made me want to do Reiki more, so that's a good thing - and maybe a sign, who knows? 😉
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I expected this book to be light and fun. It wasn't. Ultimately it tells Amanda's journey through grief and it never is an easy process. Even though I didn't get divorced for the same reasons and I was the one who left, I went through pretty much the same feelings, anger, disbelief, pain...Just like "Ordinary People" (by Diana Evans) struck a little too close to home regarding my experience as a young mother, "The Single Mums' Mansion" spoke to my life as a coparent - let's just say it's a bumpy road and involves a lot of frustration sometimes.
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All in all I loved the book - so much so I'll probably give the follow-up a chance. But the truth is, I also got endlessly frustrated by the amount of booze every character drinks at any time of day and how that reckless behavior sometimes spells disaster for them. It made me want to drop the book at times, deeming Amanda a lost cause.
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I didn't though, because of another similarity I share with the character: she turns to the spiritual and the esoteric to help her grieve and feel better. She learns Reiki, as I did, and she asks the Universe for help, as I often do. I'm more into Tarot now as a way to help me tap into my intuition, but the book made me want to do Reiki more, so that's a good thing - and maybe a sign, who knows? 😉
June 8, 2018
Insightful and so honest, this is a must read for any woman facing divorce - and especially if it's not of your choosing!
Amanda and her husband Sam bought a rambling Victorian mansion in the UK capital, knowing it was a renovation project. Three children later - in under five years - and with the 'project' still ongoing, Sam leaves, leaving Amanda to pick up the pieces, cope with the children, a broken heart and an unfinished home. When her friend Ali's husband doesn't want to be married any more - despite his wife being in the advance stages of pregnancy, Amanda offers her a home. Into their lives comes an old friend and another single mum, Jacqui, also abandoned by her husband. With her new house - which doesn't feel like home - nearby, she is more often to be found visiting Amanda and Ali, all pitching in with the kids.
The honesty in this novel is mind-boggling. Facing life with young children on your own (been there, done that) makes you realise how important friends are. The isolation, the financial worry and the ability to cope with the smallest things on a daily basis crumbles around you and it's so much easier with someone else to share things with! Dealing with kids who have suddenly lost a parent to a new home - and often a new partner, is hard and Janet Hoggarth has hit the nail on the head with all the details. Not only true to life, this is funny and entertaining and covers the good, crazy times as well as the 'cry me a river' occasions. It's rewarding watching these women grow in confidence and ability, and I have so enjoyed reading all about them. Such a terrific book deserves no less than a full five stars.
My thanks to publishers Aria for approving my request via NetGalley. This is my honest, original and unbiased review.
Amanda and her husband Sam bought a rambling Victorian mansion in the UK capital, knowing it was a renovation project. Three children later - in under five years - and with the 'project' still ongoing, Sam leaves, leaving Amanda to pick up the pieces, cope with the children, a broken heart and an unfinished home. When her friend Ali's husband doesn't want to be married any more - despite his wife being in the advance stages of pregnancy, Amanda offers her a home. Into their lives comes an old friend and another single mum, Jacqui, also abandoned by her husband. With her new house - which doesn't feel like home - nearby, she is more often to be found visiting Amanda and Ali, all pitching in with the kids.
The honesty in this novel is mind-boggling. Facing life with young children on your own (been there, done that) makes you realise how important friends are. The isolation, the financial worry and the ability to cope with the smallest things on a daily basis crumbles around you and it's so much easier with someone else to share things with! Dealing with kids who have suddenly lost a parent to a new home - and often a new partner, is hard and Janet Hoggarth has hit the nail on the head with all the details. Not only true to life, this is funny and entertaining and covers the good, crazy times as well as the 'cry me a river' occasions. It's rewarding watching these women grow in confidence and ability, and I have so enjoyed reading all about them. Such a terrific book deserves no less than a full five stars.
My thanks to publishers Aria for approving my request via NetGalley. This is my honest, original and unbiased review.
June 4, 2018
Amanda and her husband Sam live with their three children under five in a large Victorian house in London which is in need to love and attention, but it would seem that the house is not the only thing in need of a bit of TLC, when Sam declares he’s “lost the love” and walks out.
A few months later, while Amanda is nursing her broken heart, her heavily pregnant friend Abi crashes into the kitchen saying that her husband is about to do the same. Once the baby is born, and with no where to live, Ali moves into Amanda’s attic with baby Grace.
When long lost friend Jacqui appears back on the scene, also a single mum, she pops in daily for updates and chats and now the house is complete.
I had never read a book by Janet Hoggarth before, and I was hooked initially, relating to the story as I too was once a single mum, so I felt I’d easily identify with the characters, but I didn’t. Although this is a story about friendship and support you get from friends in difficult situation on occasions, I just wanted to shout “Pull yourself together if not for you, but for your kids!”
I didn’t get the whole Reiki story-line, and if I’m brutally honest, I couldn’t understand why it was there. I would have loved if the Greek holiday storyline had been expanded because I really loved it when they headed off for some sun.
I sound like I didn’t like this book, but I really did – I’m just turning into a harsh, old critic! There are so really lovely fun bit, and certain bits that I could relate to, I just didn’t enjoy the wallowing in misery bits!
I received a free advanced copy of this in return for an honest and open review.
A few months later, while Amanda is nursing her broken heart, her heavily pregnant friend Abi crashes into the kitchen saying that her husband is about to do the same. Once the baby is born, and with no where to live, Ali moves into Amanda’s attic with baby Grace.
When long lost friend Jacqui appears back on the scene, also a single mum, she pops in daily for updates and chats and now the house is complete.
I had never read a book by Janet Hoggarth before, and I was hooked initially, relating to the story as I too was once a single mum, so I felt I’d easily identify with the characters, but I didn’t. Although this is a story about friendship and support you get from friends in difficult situation on occasions, I just wanted to shout “Pull yourself together if not for you, but for your kids!”
I didn’t get the whole Reiki story-line, and if I’m brutally honest, I couldn’t understand why it was there. I would have loved if the Greek holiday storyline had been expanded because I really loved it when they headed off for some sun.
I sound like I didn’t like this book, but I really did – I’m just turning into a harsh, old critic! There are so really lovely fun bit, and certain bits that I could relate to, I just didn’t enjoy the wallowing in misery bits!
I received a free advanced copy of this in return for an honest and open review.
June 5, 2018
The first thing that strikes me about this story is its authenticity and honesty. Numerous comic moments provide much-needed light relief amidst the despair and sadness these single mum's experience at the destruction of their perfect family dreams.
The inspiration for this story is the author's blog, and the story reads like a journal of her feelings and experiences, as the main character Amanda, comes to terms with life after her husband walks out and leaves her with three kids under five.
Realistic, flawed characters underpin a fast-paced, intricate plot, which shares Amanda. Ali and Jacqui's experiences of being a single mum. What stands out is the camaraderie between the three women. Despite the sad events this story has many laugh-out-loud moments which make it a worthwhile read.
The language is uncensored, but it isn't gratuitous, merely an illustration of the characters' personality and stress experienced. There are also episodes of drunkenness and drug taking, which I didn't like, especially when the children were present. Again it gives the story authenticity, but the casual attitude took the edge off the enjoyment of the story.
If you enjoy your stories with no filters, crammed full of laughter and poignancy, this is the book for you.
I received a copy of this book from Aria Fiction via NetGalley in return for an honest review.
The inspiration for this story is the author's blog, and the story reads like a journal of her feelings and experiences, as the main character Amanda, comes to terms with life after her husband walks out and leaves her with three kids under five.
Realistic, flawed characters underpin a fast-paced, intricate plot, which shares Amanda. Ali and Jacqui's experiences of being a single mum. What stands out is the camaraderie between the three women. Despite the sad events this story has many laugh-out-loud moments which make it a worthwhile read.
The language is uncensored, but it isn't gratuitous, merely an illustration of the characters' personality and stress experienced. There are also episodes of drunkenness and drug taking, which I didn't like, especially when the children were present. Again it gives the story authenticity, but the casual attitude took the edge off the enjoyment of the story.
If you enjoy your stories with no filters, crammed full of laughter and poignancy, this is the book for you.
I received a copy of this book from Aria Fiction via NetGalley in return for an honest review.
September 8, 2018
The Single Mum’s Mansion
by Janet Hoggarth
Amanda’s husband Sam has walked out of their huge house he’d promised they could turn into a family home. He’s found himself ‘out of love’ and even though they have three children he doesn’t want to be married anymore, to her! Then he meets Carrie, a tv chef.
Shattered and broken beyond all repair, Amanda doesn’t pick herself up, she just drags herself through the days. Then her best friend is also suddenly alone with a child after her husband wants to be free as well. So Ali moves into the attic of the mansion and together the mum’s make it through each day. Amanda meets Jacquie who’s husband has to her shock, made her homeless with two children to care for! Another single mum saved by the mansion!
This book is very good as the women learn how to face life again as single mum’s, learning to stand on their own feet. Facing new hurdles such as divorce, ex husband’s remarrying. Making new careers for themselves. Dealing with unreasonable expectations of ex husbands. Facing the tantrums of children without their fathers. They handle this and a lot more with the support of each other. I saw the cover of this book, felt promised a good read and I wasn’t disappointed. I bought this book and the review is entirely my own. It is never ever boring, and I really enjoyed it.
by Janet Hoggarth
Amanda’s husband Sam has walked out of their huge house he’d promised they could turn into a family home. He’s found himself ‘out of love’ and even though they have three children he doesn’t want to be married anymore, to her! Then he meets Carrie, a tv chef.
Shattered and broken beyond all repair, Amanda doesn’t pick herself up, she just drags herself through the days. Then her best friend is also suddenly alone with a child after her husband wants to be free as well. So Ali moves into the attic of the mansion and together the mum’s make it through each day. Amanda meets Jacquie who’s husband has to her shock, made her homeless with two children to care for! Another single mum saved by the mansion!
This book is very good as the women learn how to face life again as single mum’s, learning to stand on their own feet. Facing new hurdles such as divorce, ex husband’s remarrying. Making new careers for themselves. Dealing with unreasonable expectations of ex husbands. Facing the tantrums of children without their fathers. They handle this and a lot more with the support of each other. I saw the cover of this book, felt promised a good read and I wasn’t disappointed. I bought this book and the review is entirely my own. It is never ever boring, and I really enjoyed it.
June 5, 2018
Amanda and Sam were in love and living in a huge house in south east London with their 3 young kids. Life was great. Until he decides he's all "out of love" and things end betwen them. Her friend Ali who is pregnant and has nowhere to go, moves in with Amanda. Jacqui, another friend of Amanda's spends much of her time there. She ends up moving in, too.
The book follows the women as they chat about life love and dreams as they support each other towards moving on and getting their lives back together with the help of wine, Reiki and good friendship. I loved the Greek holiday and it was so visual and detailed. It ended to soon though and I felt it could have been longer. There's a lot of focus on the children and the effects everything has on them too and how they also help the women in their own ways.
The plot was fast-moving and realistic and so were the characters. The book is about learning to trust again and fighting for what you want no matter the ups and downs in life and there are quite a lot of good and bad times in this book.
Thanks to Janet Hoggarth and Aria, Head of Zeus for my ARC in exchange for an honest and voluntary review as well as the opportunity to participate in the blog tour for this title.
The book follows the women as they chat about life love and dreams as they support each other towards moving on and getting their lives back together with the help of wine, Reiki and good friendship. I loved the Greek holiday and it was so visual and detailed. It ended to soon though and I felt it could have been longer. There's a lot of focus on the children and the effects everything has on them too and how they also help the women in their own ways.
The plot was fast-moving and realistic and so were the characters. The book is about learning to trust again and fighting for what you want no matter the ups and downs in life and there are quite a lot of good and bad times in this book.
Thanks to Janet Hoggarth and Aria, Head of Zeus for my ARC in exchange for an honest and voluntary review as well as the opportunity to participate in the blog tour for this title.
May 25, 2019
Originally reviewed at Novel Escapes
I quite enjoyed this book but it wasn't what I was expecting. Far from light-hearted it actually had some quite serious situations in it that had me questioning the genre I thought I was reading. It's entirely possible that I'm a bit far removed from the situation of single parenting and dating with children!
I liked Amanda and her attitude towards her children and her friends. Despite being in a quite precarious position she does tend to just get on with things while still questioning everything she's doing. I would be the same I think. Her ex is a most confusing character and he's not exactly helpful about his intentions. Her mum friends each come with baggage of their own which was realistic and well plotted to enhance the story.
The book definitely takes on all the emotions from the heartbreak (for me it was particularly hard for Amanda's children) to the chaos and laughs of trying to find a new normal.
My only issue was that the partying evenings seemed a bit out of place with the rest of the feel of the story and the characters.
All opinions are our own.
I quite enjoyed this book but it wasn't what I was expecting. Far from light-hearted it actually had some quite serious situations in it that had me questioning the genre I thought I was reading. It's entirely possible that I'm a bit far removed from the situation of single parenting and dating with children!
I liked Amanda and her attitude towards her children and her friends. Despite being in a quite precarious position she does tend to just get on with things while still questioning everything she's doing. I would be the same I think. Her ex is a most confusing character and he's not exactly helpful about his intentions. Her mum friends each come with baggage of their own which was realistic and well plotted to enhance the story.
The book definitely takes on all the emotions from the heartbreak (for me it was particularly hard for Amanda's children) to the chaos and laughs of trying to find a new normal.
My only issue was that the partying evenings seemed a bit out of place with the rest of the feel of the story and the characters.
All opinions are our own.
July 13, 2019
*SPOILERS*
This got off to a promising start, but quickly became a book for slagging off men and felt very poorly written after a few chapters. Such a shame, as the sponge-throwing scene early on had me laughing out loud on the beach. I was put off the book by all the self-pitying wallowing, excessive swearing (far too many C and F bombs, which lost their humour after the first few swears), and the characters’ use of several Class A drugs. I had absolutely no sympathy for the main characters and just about had the willpower to finish it, if only because of the holiday to Kefalonia and the fact I hate abandoning books! I also felt like there were wasted opportunities to go into more depth, such as the middle child’s play therapy, the single mothers’ addictions (wine at 11:30am? E because you have a babysitter?), emotionally controlling partners, and supporting the children with huge adjustments. Overall, a good idea with a good start, but could have been far better written and lots of the topics touched upon could have been tackled much better and more sensitively.
This got off to a promising start, but quickly became a book for slagging off men and felt very poorly written after a few chapters. Such a shame, as the sponge-throwing scene early on had me laughing out loud on the beach. I was put off the book by all the self-pitying wallowing, excessive swearing (far too many C and F bombs, which lost their humour after the first few swears), and the characters’ use of several Class A drugs. I had absolutely no sympathy for the main characters and just about had the willpower to finish it, if only because of the holiday to Kefalonia and the fact I hate abandoning books! I also felt like there were wasted opportunities to go into more depth, such as the middle child’s play therapy, the single mothers’ addictions (wine at 11:30am? E because you have a babysitter?), emotionally controlling partners, and supporting the children with huge adjustments. Overall, a good idea with a good start, but could have been far better written and lots of the topics touched upon could have been tackled much better and more sensitively.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
January 13, 2019
Really struggling to know what to make of this. I liked the basic premise - three single mums helping each other through tough times - and I did read to the end, so it must have engaged me enough. However, I found the drug use really off-putting - do responsible middle-class single mums really do that? I also found the whole Weirdy Beardy thing a bit - weirdy beardy. It seemed to appear from nowhere and didn’t really seem to fit in with the main character at all, though I got used to it as the book went on. Finally, I found myself confused by the huge number of secondary characters who seemed to be really important yet barely there - especially the whole calamity over Ursula going to the wedding, as I had no idea who Ursula was! Or Mel, or Amy, or Rob, come to that.
I think with fewer characters, no drugs and a bit of editing this could have been a really enjoyable novel but as I said, although I did make it to the end it was a struggle.
I think with fewer characters, no drugs and a bit of editing this could have been a really enjoyable novel but as I said, although I did make it to the end it was a struggle.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
May 16, 2019
Amanda Wilkie is your typical mum of three, married and doing up her forever home with her husband Sam. Until he behaves like a total wanker, marries and impregnates his mistress and is just a bit of an arse. Excuse my language.
I could feel Amanda’s pain. And I loved going through her journey with her. It was real. And her imperfections and heartbreak is what made it really resonate with me. Janet Hoggarth has written her exceptionally well.
It’s also heartwarming to read about her two friends lives as well as they go through the exact same situation, each with their own awful traumatic experiences, navigating the journey together.
It really is a fantastic read that gets you to reflect on your own life and to remember to live in the moment. Only you can make you happy in life, you’ve gotta do it for yourself and that’s the message of this book. 10/10 would recommend and I am eagerly awaiting another release from this author!!
I could feel Amanda’s pain. And I loved going through her journey with her. It was real. And her imperfections and heartbreak is what made it really resonate with me. Janet Hoggarth has written her exceptionally well.
It’s also heartwarming to read about her two friends lives as well as they go through the exact same situation, each with their own awful traumatic experiences, navigating the journey together.
It really is a fantastic read that gets you to reflect on your own life and to remember to live in the moment. Only you can make you happy in life, you’ve gotta do it for yourself and that’s the message of this book. 10/10 would recommend and I am eagerly awaiting another release from this author!!
January 11, 2019
There's potentially a good story here - and something you could certainly see being adapted for the big screen. However, I found the writing really poor. It lacked structure, editing, character development and generally just felt far too raw - like the author had simply poured her own true life experiences out onto the pages, rather than adapting and editing the stories to make them suitable for a book, and developing a proper narrative. It was also a good five or six chapters longer than it needed to be, didn't flow very well and none of the characters were likeable nor very distinguished - it was hard to tell the difference between them at times. While I think there is potential for a second book, its success will depend on the help of a proper editor who can be a bit more cut throat and make more professional decisions regarding what copy makes the final pages.
January 22, 2019
Life after failed marriage - how to survive it in London SE.
Although I'm not of an age to be comfortable with the idea of mothers of small children drinking to much and taking recreational drugs, and although the protagonists all enjoy comfortable middle class lives in suburban London, and although I can't take talk of angels and reiki seriously, still... Still I found much to appreciate in this book. The message that marriage, especially if you have children, should be understood as a serious commitment is well illustrated. As is the hurt of being replaced by another in a partner's affections. It's a good read, the language isn't clunky, it wasn't impossible to keep up with the growing cast of characters and the outcomes weren't overly sentimental.
Still not comfortable with the boozing...
Although I'm not of an age to be comfortable with the idea of mothers of small children drinking to much and taking recreational drugs, and although the protagonists all enjoy comfortable middle class lives in suburban London, and although I can't take talk of angels and reiki seriously, still... Still I found much to appreciate in this book. The message that marriage, especially if you have children, should be understood as a serious commitment is well illustrated. As is the hurt of being replaced by another in a partner's affections. It's a good read, the language isn't clunky, it wasn't impossible to keep up with the growing cast of characters and the outcomes weren't overly sentimental.
Still not comfortable with the boozing...
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