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How to Love a Powerful Woman
How to Love a Powerful Woman is the Gentleman's guide to establishing a Loving Female Led Relationship (Loving FLR). This comprehensive guide instructs men on being a strong support for Powerful Women who are poised to impact the world.
Men who want to understand their natural desire to serve and be approved by a woman will appreciate this book. Men are taught how to differentiate between an average woman and a Powerful Woman, how to initiate a Loving FLR with a woman who is hesitant, how to prepare to be an asset to a Powerful Woman, how to handle conflicts, and how to create a Loving FLR that is as sacred as a religion among other important lessons.
Women who want a better understanding of why certain men desire to cater to Powerful Women and women who want to explain Loving FLRs to their partners will be satisfied by reading How to Love a Powerful Woman.
How to Love a Powerful Woman explains how a man can satisfy his craving for a Loving FLR with a woman who expresses loving authority.
Men who want to understand their natural desire to serve and be approved by a woman will appreciate this book. Men are taught how to differentiate between an average woman and a Powerful Woman, how to initiate a Loving FLR with a woman who is hesitant, how to prepare to be an asset to a Powerful Woman, how to handle conflicts, and how to create a Loving FLR that is as sacred as a religion among other important lessons.
Women who want a better understanding of why certain men desire to cater to Powerful Women and women who want to explain Loving FLRs to their partners will be satisfied by reading How to Love a Powerful Woman.
How to Love a Powerful Woman explains how a man can satisfy his craving for a Loving FLR with a woman who expresses loving authority.
110 pages, Kindle Edition
Published April 19, 2018
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May 24, 2024
Very much along the lines of Marisa Rudders "Love and Obey" series, Te-Erika has many FLR books, again starting with a book for the woman and this second one is for the man. She uses a similar style of self-reference to her "Loving FLR" path, and pushes reasonably hard for the woman to go on one of her leadership courses. The differences come from avoiding the use of the term "submissive" instead referencing the men as being a "Gentleman". Rudder also used the term "supportive gentleman" as one of the options people used, but was more expansive in her scope to suit people's desires. I would say this book is about the everyday 24/7 lifestyle and is not about the bedroom, kink and definitely not any bdsm content.
Te-Erika herself was led to FLR through initial fascination about being a dominatrix / Femdom, and her first content in this area was ConquerHim.com. She became unsettled at the degredation & abuse element and came upon Female Led Relationships, a softer version of Femdom and more centered on the womans needs (rather than satisfying a man's fantasy in Femdom). She felt that many of the versions of FemDom / FLR did not benefit the women at all and came almost entirely from the wants of a man, which the woman would choose to satisfy if she wanted to stay with him, but with frankly little choice. After initially writing about it on her conquerhim.com blog she recognised "that I needed to provide guidance for a new relationship style that actually benefited women and did not focus on kink or BDSM activities" and created a new website / blog called LovingFLR.com. This is the term repeated throughout along with her definition of what a Powerful Woman is.
The result was dissapointment from many men in her audience, but "all of the disgusting sexual comments and emails disappeared after shifting away from kink and Femdom". She did find however that her relationship eventually increased "this proved there are men who want nothing more than to see the smile on the face of the woman they love. These men are motivated by their desire to serve and be useful to a woman". Considering this was very much my focus in launching on this path with my wife, I should feel more indebted to Te-Erika than I do, and this may change as it could be her books are better ones to get her to read.
I appreciated that cuckolding (only one mention of cuckolding and that is in one of the stories where a man explains he wasn't keen on that), spanking and chastity cages weren't involved (zero mentions of the latter two), but I somewhat missed the sexual perspective that others like Rudder feature heavily as a central way of training the man to meet the womans needs. I wondered if the man can be quite as motivated and geared to serve as eagerly without more focus on the disciplines and controls that this can involve? There was some content in this regard, but she avoids the titalating path, referring instead "To ensure that her sexual needs are taken care of, be certain to remove the thought of your sexual needs from the equation" and "In a Loving Female Led Relationship with a Powerful Woman sex begins when she initiates it or accepts your request and ends when she is satisfied completely". A good indicator of her emphasis overall could be boiled down to her suggestion "Would you like an orgasm today?" is a great question to ask".
Here are some excerpts that I loved:
"Thank you for being emotionally strong enough to place her desires above your own"
"Men are taught that they have to be tough and hard, but with a Powerful Woman you can be softer, romantic and nurturing, which are all natural desires for men. You were created to love women. You were not created to conquer women."
"A Powerful Woman does not want to control you, she wants you to control yourself" (this highlights the issue that can be created in other FLR "methods" where the woman's life becomes MORE onerous in managing / controlling the man instead of easier - which is my purpose).
There is a chapters on female led relationships in the workplace (and only 8 chapters in total) in a non-romantic setting, targetting the championship and raising of all women in this context. There was somewhat over emphasis on this, but I did get some new ideas of making improvements in my own behaviour.
"When you participate in a Loving FLR you are not giving a woman control, you are empowering her"
Part of the problem could be that this book is one of a large series, designed to provide income to this Powerful Woman, so it is probably somewhat inevitable that there is a feeling of "wanting more" at the end. Maybe the best testimony is to ask, would I want to read more of her books? The answer is yes, so overall I must recommend this to those who wish to follow a more tempered (and authentic) female benefitting path.
Te-Erika herself was led to FLR through initial fascination about being a dominatrix / Femdom, and her first content in this area was ConquerHim.com. She became unsettled at the degredation & abuse element and came upon Female Led Relationships, a softer version of Femdom and more centered on the womans needs (rather than satisfying a man's fantasy in Femdom). She felt that many of the versions of FemDom / FLR did not benefit the women at all and came almost entirely from the wants of a man, which the woman would choose to satisfy if she wanted to stay with him, but with frankly little choice. After initially writing about it on her conquerhim.com blog she recognised "that I needed to provide guidance for a new relationship style that actually benefited women and did not focus on kink or BDSM activities" and created a new website / blog called LovingFLR.com. This is the term repeated throughout along with her definition of what a Powerful Woman is.
The result was dissapointment from many men in her audience, but "all of the disgusting sexual comments and emails disappeared after shifting away from kink and Femdom". She did find however that her relationship eventually increased "this proved there are men who want nothing more than to see the smile on the face of the woman they love. These men are motivated by their desire to serve and be useful to a woman". Considering this was very much my focus in launching on this path with my wife, I should feel more indebted to Te-Erika than I do, and this may change as it could be her books are better ones to get her to read.
I appreciated that cuckolding (only one mention of cuckolding and that is in one of the stories where a man explains he wasn't keen on that), spanking and chastity cages weren't involved (zero mentions of the latter two), but I somewhat missed the sexual perspective that others like Rudder feature heavily as a central way of training the man to meet the womans needs. I wondered if the man can be quite as motivated and geared to serve as eagerly without more focus on the disciplines and controls that this can involve? There was some content in this regard, but she avoids the titalating path, referring instead "To ensure that her sexual needs are taken care of, be certain to remove the thought of your sexual needs from the equation" and "In a Loving Female Led Relationship with a Powerful Woman sex begins when she initiates it or accepts your request and ends when she is satisfied completely". A good indicator of her emphasis overall could be boiled down to her suggestion "Would you like an orgasm today?" is a great question to ask".
Here are some excerpts that I loved:
"Thank you for being emotionally strong enough to place her desires above your own"
"Men are taught that they have to be tough and hard, but with a Powerful Woman you can be softer, romantic and nurturing, which are all natural desires for men. You were created to love women. You were not created to conquer women."
"A Powerful Woman does not want to control you, she wants you to control yourself" (this highlights the issue that can be created in other FLR "methods" where the woman's life becomes MORE onerous in managing / controlling the man instead of easier - which is my purpose).
There is a chapters on female led relationships in the workplace (and only 8 chapters in total) in a non-romantic setting, targetting the championship and raising of all women in this context. There was somewhat over emphasis on this, but I did get some new ideas of making improvements in my own behaviour.
"When you participate in a Loving FLR you are not giving a woman control, you are empowering her"
Part of the problem could be that this book is one of a large series, designed to provide income to this Powerful Woman, so it is probably somewhat inevitable that there is a feeling of "wanting more" at the end. Maybe the best testimony is to ask, would I want to read more of her books? The answer is yes, so overall I must recommend this to those who wish to follow a more tempered (and authentic) female benefitting path.
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