A travel narrative published in 1964 by a comedy writer who worked with some of the top comedians of the day--Jack Paar, Bob Hope, etc. Jack was 48, his Japanese wife Reiko 27 (she was an entertainer in her own right), and their son Bobby, a.k.a. Huckleberry Hashimoto, 17 months old.
I found this by chance at the public library and as I love travel narratives, particularly those about Japan, I thought it would be interesting. It was in some spots, but those are overwhelmed by pop-culture based humor of the period that was incomprehensible to me, and a lot of cringey attitudes that reflect the norms of the time. There are derogatory jokes about homosexuality and African Americans, and a lot of focus on exploiting women (he fixates on topless women a lot). So this is as much a travelogue of a period of time and attitudes as it is of a place.
The first half of the book is about their time on a cruise ship and visit to Tahiti, with stops at Bora Bora and Hawaii. The second half is focused on visiting Reiko's family in Japan. Reiko's family lived in Hiroshima, and her father had the foresight to recognize it would be a target due to the heavy military presence and moved his family to Kanazawa just days before the bombing. They visit there, and Douglas includes a description of what it was like twenty years later that was interesting. There's also some interesting insights into Tokyo and the daily life of a middle-class suburban Japanese family of the time, including having to go to the nearby candy shop to make phone calls and bathing in a massive ancient bath tub with a fire underneath to heat the water.
The parenting attitudes seem completely foreign. On the cruise ship, they seem to leave their baby son alone in his crib while they go out, and while in Tahiti and Kanazawa, they just let him roam freely with no adult supervision. Again, he's 17-months-old. At one point, he falls out a train window while they're stopped at a station, at another he cracks his head on some concrete steps. He's often wandering alone near large bodies of water. Amazing that he survived.
He also seems immensely spoiled, and has a habit of taking the toys away from local children and throwing tantrums when he doesn't get his way which his parents resolve by letting him have his own way. At one point, in a shop he takes a toy plane from a local child. The docile little boy doesn't object, though Douglas recognizes his quiet distress. When it's time to leave the shop, Bobby pitches a fit at having to return the plane, so the other boy's mother snaps the plane in half, satisfying both children. Douglas muses that this family likely had to do without to buy that toy, probably the only one the kid owned. But he doesn't offer to compensate them or buy another or even apologize for his son's behavior, they just leave with half of this kid's only toy and it's never mentioned again.
Douglas also seems keen to exploit women. He notes that despite the perceived reputation, Tahitian women are actually very conservative and modest. Nevertheless, he takes his camera to a place where some of the local women bathe and is frustrated when he can't get any photos or videos of them naked.
A good portion of this book is rather dull, and being unfamiliar with a lot of the contemporary references, it's hard to tell what is accurate and what is humor--even outrageous humor. For example, he notes that many think Kyoto wasn't bombed during the war due to it's significance as a sacred place, but a more likely theory he heard was that it was because MacArthur's mother lived there. I'm not sure if this is fact, or a lie so outrageous that it's funny. (I didn't really find any of the humor funny.)
Probably the most remarkable aspect of this book is that this copy has survived in the library collection since it was published in 1964 (there's a stamp in the back, opposite the card catalog pocket).