If you are in a happy marriage/relationship consider reading this book and count your blessings. If you're in one that you consider to to be unhappy or dysfunctional this novel will provide you with a gauge by which to measure. No relationship could be as horrific for one of the participants, plus children, as this novel portrays, could it? No man could be as monstrous towards those he claims to love as the odious Jake, could they? Then you read of men who drive into farm dams thereby drowning their offspring, or those committing suicide, after murdering their children, as a means of 'getting even' and you do wonder. Occasionally here in Tassie you come across mothers and their children who are fleeing from violent relationships on the big island, and you do know that something of what the book is about happens in a world very different to your own. Men like Jake make me ashamed of my gender.
That Evans has written a sequel leaves the reader to hope for a happy ending for Mattie and her kids. I know cruelty in marriage can work both ways, and in some ways Evans makes Mattie come across as a less than resilient, perhaps even compulsive obsessive, character at times, but no woman should have to endure what she did. Reading Evan's website, you soon discover that the author sadly has drawn from her own experience.
For my money the controlling Jake outranks the menfolk of 'The Slap'. He is no bogan but an outwardly privileged denizen of McMansionville. This novel also points the finger at officialdom in the way it deals with such matters, and this is a fine work that will resonate with me for some time.