BDSM: The Ultimate Handbook for the Dom and Sub: Training for Pleasure

by Richard Welps

Have you ever thought about indulging in BDSM, but don’t know where to start? Have you ever wanted to pleasure your partner while assuming dominance over them, but didn't know where to begin? Are you someone who’s been curious about exploring kink, but don’t know where to begin? Well, you’re in luck, for this book will tell you everything that you need to know to have a basic understanding of BDSM. With this book, you’ll be able to understand BDSM for what it is, not just as something that’s been discussed in 50 shades of grey, but realistic, actual understanding of this subject. There are a lot of misconceptions surrounding BDSM and kink culture, and sometimes, it’s hard to find the truth, and what you should and shouldn’t be doing. But, you’re in luck, for this book will tell you everything you need to know about BDSM, and how to pleasure your partner.

83 pages, Kindle Edition

Published May 30, 2018

Reviews

[Lilian · Rating 2 out of 5]

The book has some useful information, but could've been edited better.

[Henry · Rating 3 out of 5]

It was ok...

Needs to be edited better, lots of typos. Quick and easy read though. I recommend it to people just starting out, if you want more instruction though you may want to check out different titles.

[Megan · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great overview

Great overview for intro to BDSM. Straightforward and good general information. Definitely recommend if you're curious and beginning your kink journey.

[Lauren Peters · Rating 2 out of 5]

Good for a general gist, bad for detailed information

This book is not well edited. There were hundreds of typos, grammatical errors, and even times where the word Dom and Sub have been switched. I also thought the book had gender stereotypes. Often it would use masculine pronouns when talking about the Dom, assuming that the Dom is going to be a man, which is often not the case. I also think some of the tips for women were sexists.

As a person just starting out in BDSM, I did learn some helpful things from this book. There is still some value in reading it. However I would suggest that others use additional resources when learning about BDSM. This book is like an introduction pamphlet, good for getting the general word out, but doesn't have a lot of hard information.

[Kimberly Doolin · Rating 4 out of 5]

Good for the very basics.

This is good for people who are just getting into BDSM. It covers the very basics. Not exactly for anyone who has experience unless they need a refresher due to incorrect learning/training. I took a star away because the editing makes some sentences hard to read.

[Nikomoran · Rating 2 out of 5]

mixed feelings.

This is very beginning entry information, i read it more so from curiosity and the intention of readying the subsequent books. For such an entry level book i find it odd and a little unsafe how it’s introducing edgeplay already when they are plenty of more beginner appropriate activities that couldve been covered.

[Helen · Rating 4 out of 5]

Informative

Interesting, informative and an ideal refresher. The author has broken BDSM down into easy steps. Some valuable reading. Unfortunately, there are a few grammatical and spelling errors.

[Dale L Mallow · Rating 3 out of 5]

Better than the last one

Good, easy read. Lots of information, clean explanations. In to the next one to learn some more and just enough to get into trouble.

[Mrs DJ Peake · Rating 3 out of 5]

Yum

Good advice on being safe, how it's not simply about sex, but a way of life that can be used to enhance not just bedroom life, but life outside too.

[Rachelle Bell Wright · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great

Excellent well written straight to the point and very up to date. Truly well thought out and educational. I would read it again