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Thrive in Retirement: Simple Secrets for Being Happy for the Rest of Your Life
Discover the three secrets to happiness--and much more--in the later years of life.
Never before in human history have so many people lived for decades beyond their working years. 10,000 Americans turn 65 each day, and their average life expectancy is another 20 years--and many will live longer. But will they just live or have a meaningful life? The truth is that many--if not most--people approaching the latter years do not have a plan, much less a strategy to thrive instead of just survive. Packed with information based on research as well as common-sense wisdom, here are some examples of what readers will discover:
- How retiring at the wrong time increases the likelihood of dying 89%.
- What can delay Alzheimer's onset an average of 9 years.
- How everything that makes you happy comes in just 3 forms.
- Which partner is most likely to initiate divorce after decades of marriage and why.
Never before in human history have so many people lived for decades beyond their working years. 10,000 Americans turn 65 each day, and their average life expectancy is another 20 years--and many will live longer. But will they just live or have a meaningful life? The truth is that many--if not most--people approaching the latter years do not have a plan, much less a strategy to thrive instead of just survive. Packed with information based on research as well as common-sense wisdom, here are some examples of what readers will discover:
- How retiring at the wrong time increases the likelihood of dying 89%.
- What can delay Alzheimer's onset an average of 9 years.
- How everything that makes you happy comes in just 3 forms.
- Which partner is most likely to initiate divorce after decades of marriage and why.
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First published February 25, 2019
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March 30, 2019
This was a pretty basic book about retirement and an easy read.
I appreciate that the author states up front that he's no expert, just someone who is interested in thriving. So, I read the book from that perspective, like I was just talking to someone whose hobby was "living in retirement". What the author has to offer is various points worth considering in your post 50 years.
I had two major quibbles with the author. One, not everyone who quits working a paid job at 50 is going to drop dead. Some people are quite content doing other things, I don't think the author thinks that is a possibility. Two, white Jesus Christianity is not the only way to have a meaningful spiritual life. I happen to follow along in that tradition, but I think it is limiting to think that is the only way to experience God in a meaningful way.
I had some other minor differences of opinion, but even with the critiques I had of the book, I found it to be an interesting read.
I appreciate that the author states up front that he's no expert, just someone who is interested in thriving. So, I read the book from that perspective, like I was just talking to someone whose hobby was "living in retirement". What the author has to offer is various points worth considering in your post 50 years.
I had two major quibbles with the author. One, not everyone who quits working a paid job at 50 is going to drop dead. Some people are quite content doing other things, I don't think the author thinks that is a possibility. Two, white Jesus Christianity is not the only way to have a meaningful spiritual life. I happen to follow along in that tradition, but I think it is limiting to think that is the only way to experience God in a meaningful way.
I had some other minor differences of opinion, but even with the critiques I had of the book, I found it to be an interesting read.
January 18, 2019
Are you getting close to retirement? Are you amazed that the years have gone by so fast? Many people are shocked that their work life or busy home life has suddenly jolted to a slower pace. Some people are thrilled with the thought of being on “vacation” for the rest of their lives, and other folks are bored or anxious.
As Author Eric Thurman notes, we are really not children for all that long- childhood through college and early adulthood is about one-third of our lives. Our busy and productive years, which may include marriage, career, and raising a family comprise the second third of our lives. And then, one day you get the “gold watch” or the last child moves out…and you have another whole third of your life to live!
Author Thurman has written a friendly and companionable guide to “thriving in retirement.” I enjoyed reading it now, but I wish I had been able to read it forty years ago! I could have used his great advice back when I was setting up my life! But, there’s still time for me-and you- to put his principles to work.
First, we are given an overview of the Life’s Five Vital Parts- Mind, Body, Relationships, Soul, Fitness. We want to thrive in each of these areas. We also want to be happy and the author recommends that we figure out what gives us Pleasure, Purpose, and Peace.
You may already know that you should work on your relationships, friendships and your health and fitness to have a happier life. But, did you know that you should also consider the fitness of your soul?
Mr. Thurman give plenty of real-life examples and also uses humor to guide us. He shares some of his experiences and also gives us examples from history, such as the life of Victor Frankl. I liked this quote from George Burns. “You can’t help getting older, but you don’t have to get old.”
At the end of the book, the author has included an appendix with helpful forms to help you plan your death. And he leaves us with this thought. We don’t know when we will die, so we should strive to live each day to the fullest and write a great concluding chapter to our lives. And let’s hope we all live to be at least 100!
I recommend this book. I was delighted to receive and review it. I received this book from the publisher through their book launch program. @WaterBrookMultnomah #Partner
This is my honest review.
As Author Eric Thurman notes, we are really not children for all that long- childhood through college and early adulthood is about one-third of our lives. Our busy and productive years, which may include marriage, career, and raising a family comprise the second third of our lives. And then, one day you get the “gold watch” or the last child moves out…and you have another whole third of your life to live!
Author Thurman has written a friendly and companionable guide to “thriving in retirement.” I enjoyed reading it now, but I wish I had been able to read it forty years ago! I could have used his great advice back when I was setting up my life! But, there’s still time for me-and you- to put his principles to work.
First, we are given an overview of the Life’s Five Vital Parts- Mind, Body, Relationships, Soul, Fitness. We want to thrive in each of these areas. We also want to be happy and the author recommends that we figure out what gives us Pleasure, Purpose, and Peace.
You may already know that you should work on your relationships, friendships and your health and fitness to have a happier life. But, did you know that you should also consider the fitness of your soul?
Mr. Thurman give plenty of real-life examples and also uses humor to guide us. He shares some of his experiences and also gives us examples from history, such as the life of Victor Frankl. I liked this quote from George Burns. “You can’t help getting older, but you don’t have to get old.”
At the end of the book, the author has included an appendix with helpful forms to help you plan your death. And he leaves us with this thought. We don’t know when we will die, so we should strive to live each day to the fullest and write a great concluding chapter to our lives. And let’s hope we all live to be at least 100!
I recommend this book. I was delighted to receive and review it. I received this book from the publisher through their book launch program. @WaterBrookMultnomah #Partner
This is my honest review.
February 28, 2019
Thrive in Retirement, Simple Secrets for Being Happy for the Rest of Your Life, by Eric Thurman, was not my typical first choice in reading. Give me a good murder mystery of sci-fi type story any day of the week, but how to be happy in retirement? Come on.
First, I don’t plan on retiring, at least not in the typical sense. Of course, I am getting older and have slowed down. I fully expect to turn over my duties as the Senior Pastor to a younger man as I move along in years. Retire means to put out of service, and that is not on my horizon or bucket list. Fortunately, the author and I agree. Completely. At age 62 I needed this book. So, do you, regardless of your age. If for no other reason than the materials in the Appendix, the book is worth reading. If you are over age 50, it is a must, and if under 50 buy a copy for everyone you know who is older.
By the time you reach my age or older, you will have probably walked through the death of a loved one, parent, spouse, or someone else close to you. Like most of us, we do not take the reality of death serious enough. Unlike taxes that everyone includes in those things that do not change, death will hit every one of us. We may avoid taxes, we will not escape death. Period. Never. Everyone. (I know the Lord may come back and whisk us away, but I have been hearing that since I was 16. I hope He does return, but I am planning on dying and so should you.)
The author’s premise is that we are living longer and most are woefully unprepared for this last stage of our life. Our minds typically turn to money, but there is far more involved than simply having enough cash to live out our days.
Each of us needs to think deeply about the three aspects of happiness – Purpose, Pleasure, and Peace. Mr. Thurman makes an excellent case for using these three as a grid to view our lives and activities. The pursuit of these three will lead to happiness whereas their neglect will produce something far less.
I love to include pull quotes in reviews, so here are some of my favorites in this delightful book:
Your life will blossom, but only if you cultivate it.
Having purpose is the leading factor that will determine whether you will thrive throughout the remainder of your life.
What takes place in your mind makes a big difference to your health.
Authentic forgiveness frees your mind.
Your real age is the condition of your body and your mindset and outlook on life, rather than simply how many years you’ve been alive.
Contemplating death is good for your life.
It is hard to be happy if you’re starving for good relationships.
There are many more nuggets of wisdom scattered throughout the book. The author has included excellent quotes from others to make his points, and again, those jewels alone are worth the price of the book.
Mr. Thurman has done an excellent job in addressing aging, dying, and being prepared for both. This book was provided to me in an early release format from Waterbrook Multnomah for which I am grateful.
Dr. Jeffrey A. Klick.
First, I don’t plan on retiring, at least not in the typical sense. Of course, I am getting older and have slowed down. I fully expect to turn over my duties as the Senior Pastor to a younger man as I move along in years. Retire means to put out of service, and that is not on my horizon or bucket list. Fortunately, the author and I agree. Completely. At age 62 I needed this book. So, do you, regardless of your age. If for no other reason than the materials in the Appendix, the book is worth reading. If you are over age 50, it is a must, and if under 50 buy a copy for everyone you know who is older.
By the time you reach my age or older, you will have probably walked through the death of a loved one, parent, spouse, or someone else close to you. Like most of us, we do not take the reality of death serious enough. Unlike taxes that everyone includes in those things that do not change, death will hit every one of us. We may avoid taxes, we will not escape death. Period. Never. Everyone. (I know the Lord may come back and whisk us away, but I have been hearing that since I was 16. I hope He does return, but I am planning on dying and so should you.)
The author’s premise is that we are living longer and most are woefully unprepared for this last stage of our life. Our minds typically turn to money, but there is far more involved than simply having enough cash to live out our days.
Each of us needs to think deeply about the three aspects of happiness – Purpose, Pleasure, and Peace. Mr. Thurman makes an excellent case for using these three as a grid to view our lives and activities. The pursuit of these three will lead to happiness whereas their neglect will produce something far less.
I love to include pull quotes in reviews, so here are some of my favorites in this delightful book:
Your life will blossom, but only if you cultivate it.
Having purpose is the leading factor that will determine whether you will thrive throughout the remainder of your life.
What takes place in your mind makes a big difference to your health.
Authentic forgiveness frees your mind.
Your real age is the condition of your body and your mindset and outlook on life, rather than simply how many years you’ve been alive.
Contemplating death is good for your life.
It is hard to be happy if you’re starving for good relationships.
There are many more nuggets of wisdom scattered throughout the book. The author has included excellent quotes from others to make his points, and again, those jewels alone are worth the price of the book.
Mr. Thurman has done an excellent job in addressing aging, dying, and being prepared for both. This book was provided to me in an early release format from Waterbrook Multnomah for which I am grateful.
Dr. Jeffrey A. Klick.
February 6, 2019
People are living longer and facing unknown territory. The person turning 65 can generally expect another two decades of life. Will those be happy years? Thurman says they can be and identifies several critical factors and gives many tip, ideas that just might make all the difference.
Thurman shares his ideas within the context of his own experience of his wife dying and his quitting his job. He knew he had to understand happiness and how he could have it in his remaining years. While some of our wellbeing depends upon genetics and life time medical care, he found that some 60% of it is up to us and the choices we make. He writes about five areas: mind, body, relationships, soul, and finances. He explores purpose, pleasure, and peace in each of those areas.
Thurman has some good suggestions. I liked his purpose pyramid, identifying levels of activity with giving to others at the top and the most rewarding. There were some surprises, like the value of getting in touch with your inner artist and practicing mindfulness. He deals with serious issues like depression. His chapter on dying was sobering but full of valuable information.
He has included much valuable information in Appendixes. I learned how to inform others upon my death how to deal with my personal requests, finances, insurance, will, and much more. He includes forms I can fill out or at least use as templates. Every senior should have this information to make it much easier for others after our death.
I recommend this book to those who are entering into that third time of life and want to maintain or increase happiness as the years go by. You'll find good information and practical suggestions. This book will help you be intentional about the quality of your life as you grow older.
I received a complimentary an advanced uncorrected proof of this book from the publisher. My comments are an independent and honest review.
Thurman shares his ideas within the context of his own experience of his wife dying and his quitting his job. He knew he had to understand happiness and how he could have it in his remaining years. While some of our wellbeing depends upon genetics and life time medical care, he found that some 60% of it is up to us and the choices we make. He writes about five areas: mind, body, relationships, soul, and finances. He explores purpose, pleasure, and peace in each of those areas.
Thurman has some good suggestions. I liked his purpose pyramid, identifying levels of activity with giving to others at the top and the most rewarding. There were some surprises, like the value of getting in touch with your inner artist and practicing mindfulness. He deals with serious issues like depression. His chapter on dying was sobering but full of valuable information.
He has included much valuable information in Appendixes. I learned how to inform others upon my death how to deal with my personal requests, finances, insurance, will, and much more. He includes forms I can fill out or at least use as templates. Every senior should have this information to make it much easier for others after our death.
I recommend this book to those who are entering into that third time of life and want to maintain or increase happiness as the years go by. You'll find good information and practical suggestions. This book will help you be intentional about the quality of your life as you grow older.
I received a complimentary an advanced uncorrected proof of this book from the publisher. My comments are an independent and honest review.
January 12, 2019
In Thrive in Retirement, Eric Thurman shares what he has learned about living well in the "third season" of life. The material is presented with a light, encouraging touch, simple stories and quotes from famous people. In the matter of maximizing happiness, people in every stage of life could benefit from Thurman's research.
Thurman adds some depth through summaries of findings from many studies on aging, happiness, health, relationships, cognition, and more. He refutes two major stereotypes of this stage in life: that a happy retirement looks like a never ending vacation, and that people fade away when they get old.
Each chapter summarizes ways to find purpose, pleasure and peace (three key aspects of happiness) in one of the five principle aspects of life: body, mind, relationships, soul, and finances. The studies affirming the health and financial benefits of involvement in a faith community were particularly interesting to me.
The notes section of the book offers articles, web sites and books for further reading. The appendix provides guidance and checklists to plan care and distribution of resources at the end of life.
Favorite quotes:
"A thriving life of delight and meaning isn't going to come as a streak of good luck. It will happen as the result of deliberate choices and actions."
"The most important conversations you will ever have are conversations you have with yourself."
I was provided a free ARC for my review.
#PRHpartner #sponsored
Thurman adds some depth through summaries of findings from many studies on aging, happiness, health, relationships, cognition, and more. He refutes two major stereotypes of this stage in life: that a happy retirement looks like a never ending vacation, and that people fade away when they get old.
Each chapter summarizes ways to find purpose, pleasure and peace (three key aspects of happiness) in one of the five principle aspects of life: body, mind, relationships, soul, and finances. The studies affirming the health and financial benefits of involvement in a faith community were particularly interesting to me.
The notes section of the book offers articles, web sites and books for further reading. The appendix provides guidance and checklists to plan care and distribution of resources at the end of life.
Favorite quotes:
"A thriving life of delight and meaning isn't going to come as a streak of good luck. It will happen as the result of deliberate choices and actions."
"The most important conversations you will ever have are conversations you have with yourself."
I was provided a free ARC for my review.
#PRHpartner #sponsored
February 3, 2019
Thrive in Retirement may be the best self-help book ever written. Ever. The title suggests its audience is limited to those facing or in retirement, but even a young whipper-snapper facing the job market for the first time should become familiar with the concepts addressed in Eric Thurman’s book. Not only easy to read, Thrive in Retirement is fun to read. Filled with wit, wisdom, inspiration, and encouragement, Eric Thurman’s book explains the necessity of balancing life with purpose, pleasure, and peace. Contained within its pages and the appendices following its chapters are resource materials, research, and references that overwhelmingly support Thurman’s premise. Retirement is misnamed. Retirement is not an end to life or a dropping off point. Happiness can and should prevail through an individual’s third phase of life. With all its profundity, Thrive in Retirement boils down its lofty principles with easy to use practical pointers. I look forward to release of this book so I can purchase it to give copies to my friends transitioning to the next phase of their lives. It is the phase of life I learned from Thrive in Retirement should be anything but “retiring.”
Thank you to Netgalley and the publishers of Thrive in Retirement for an advance copy of this brilliant book.
Thank you to Netgalley and the publishers of Thrive in Retirement for an advance copy of this brilliant book.
May 19, 2019
Interesting read for the over 50 set that focuses on five categories to measure well-being and the three “P’s” of happiness. The real gem for me was the appendix checklists for getting your affairs in order.
February 5, 2019
I work in the retirement industry so when I come across books about retirement and planning for retirement, I'm usually interested in reading them.
The author is in his early seventies and in the third and final season of his life (ie retirement) after working for international charities as CEO, so it's obvious he has a big heart. The other two "primary seasons", by the way, are childhood and adulthood. He doesn't claim to be a professional ... he's just offering advice as a friend.
This book doesn't cover anything financial ... retirement plans, government plans, investing, etc. The goal is to show you how to be happy in retirement since for most of us, it is a big change in our lives.
The chapters include:
1. A surprising new stage of life
2. Life's five vital parts - mind, body, relationships, soul and finances
3. Three secrets of happiness - purpose, pleasure and peace
4. The best secret
5. Set your mind free
6. Strengthen your mind
7. More than looking good
8. The best ending possible
9. Never be lonely
10. The mystery and power of soul - the importance of religion
11. Make peace with money
12. Live happily ever after
There are appendices to help organize you to clarify your final personal wishes and leave good memories for the people you love.
For the most part, I liked this book. There were lots of interesting stats, inspiring quotes, websites to check out and stories about real people who did amazing things when they were older. What I wasn't into was the religious parts. I'm sure many find comfort and have an interest in this information but I skipped over chapter 10 and most references to God, etc. that were throughout the book (it started about a quarter of the way into the book). It's fine that the author is into religion but that part wasn't for me.
Blog review post: http://www.teenaintoronto.com/2019/02...
The author is in his early seventies and in the third and final season of his life (ie retirement) after working for international charities as CEO, so it's obvious he has a big heart. The other two "primary seasons", by the way, are childhood and adulthood. He doesn't claim to be a professional ... he's just offering advice as a friend.
This book doesn't cover anything financial ... retirement plans, government plans, investing, etc. The goal is to show you how to be happy in retirement since for most of us, it is a big change in our lives.
The chapters include:
1. A surprising new stage of life
2. Life's five vital parts - mind, body, relationships, soul and finances
3. Three secrets of happiness - purpose, pleasure and peace
4. The best secret
5. Set your mind free
6. Strengthen your mind
7. More than looking good
8. The best ending possible
9. Never be lonely
10. The mystery and power of soul - the importance of religion
11. Make peace with money
12. Live happily ever after
There are appendices to help organize you to clarify your final personal wishes and leave good memories for the people you love.
For the most part, I liked this book. There were lots of interesting stats, inspiring quotes, websites to check out and stories about real people who did amazing things when they were older. What I wasn't into was the religious parts. I'm sure many find comfort and have an interest in this information but I skipped over chapter 10 and most references to God, etc. that were throughout the book (it started about a quarter of the way into the book). It's fine that the author is into religion but that part wasn't for me.
Blog review post: http://www.teenaintoronto.com/2019/02...
January 24, 2019
This was my first time reading a book on retirement. I must admit, retirement always seemed so far off to me growing up, even now; despite my current age. Thrive In Retirement by author Eric Thurman was very informative to me. The title is perfect! The book is twelve chapters, 240 pages long, that include so much great material to read. The author talks about his life, shares stories of friends, and of family. He also includes stories on famous people in history, quotes, verses, diagrams, and logical advice.
The author digs into some of the deeper issues when it comes to growing older and life in general. There are chapters that discuss mental- physical health, your faith, money, marriage-divorce, and death. Yes, these are all things to think about when it comes to retirement. This book is filled with some very insightful information, questions to reflect on, and information that will help guide you along the way. At the end of the book in the appendix section, there are important lists and legal documents to help you in retirement and in planning for your eventual death.
This book will make you reflect on your past, current situation, and how you want your future to be. It is like a self assessment of your five vital signs. The five top parts of your life aka vital signs are: mind, body, relationships, soul, and finances. The most important conversations you will ever have, are conversations you have with yourself. If you pay attention and take care of all these aspects in your life: you will succeed in finding, pleasure, purpose, and peace. Do you want your life to have meaning until the very end? This book will encourage to act on it and be a lifelong learner. Also the author encourages you to explore your creativity and get involved with your community. When you get involved helping with others be a sincere giver. You want to make the most of every opportunity thrown your way.
You see more of my review over on my blog. Thanks!
* I received an advanced readers copy of Thrive In Retirement for this review thanks to Waterbrook Multnomah. All book review opinions are strictly my own and have not been influenced in any manner. Your opinion may vary from that of my own. Thank you to Waterbrook Multnomah, once again for the opportunity to be apart of the special Waterbrook Creatives team. *
The author digs into some of the deeper issues when it comes to growing older and life in general. There are chapters that discuss mental- physical health, your faith, money, marriage-divorce, and death. Yes, these are all things to think about when it comes to retirement. This book is filled with some very insightful information, questions to reflect on, and information that will help guide you along the way. At the end of the book in the appendix section, there are important lists and legal documents to help you in retirement and in planning for your eventual death.
This book will make you reflect on your past, current situation, and how you want your future to be. It is like a self assessment of your five vital signs. The five top parts of your life aka vital signs are: mind, body, relationships, soul, and finances. The most important conversations you will ever have, are conversations you have with yourself. If you pay attention and take care of all these aspects in your life: you will succeed in finding, pleasure, purpose, and peace. Do you want your life to have meaning until the very end? This book will encourage to act on it and be a lifelong learner. Also the author encourages you to explore your creativity and get involved with your community. When you get involved helping with others be a sincere giver. You want to make the most of every opportunity thrown your way.
You see more of my review over on my blog. Thanks!
* I received an advanced readers copy of Thrive In Retirement for this review thanks to Waterbrook Multnomah. All book review opinions are strictly my own and have not been influenced in any manner. Your opinion may vary from that of my own. Thank you to Waterbrook Multnomah, once again for the opportunity to be apart of the special Waterbrook Creatives team. *
January 23, 2023
This book covers a lot of territory, but what it comes up short on is the topic of retirement. It should have been titled "Thrive in Old Age" because it is essentially a book on aging. And on the occasions when Thurman is actually focusing on retirement, his message comes through loud and clear: avoid it! He quotes studies and offers plenty of examples of how retiring completely from work can lead to an early death. Have I convinced you to read the book yet? LOL!
Thurman has written a book on aging marketed as a book on retirement, probably because most people are more interested in the latter topic than the former. He argues that the key to real contentment in the final chapters of life is finding fulfillment through purpose, which probably means work. His case is strongest when he points out the expanded life expectancy of the average American now as opposed to when the Social Security Administration was established, which was about 58 years of age at that time. If we truly want to live longer, we have to remain active mentally and physically, and working is the best way to achieve that goal according to Thurman.
I don't think the author reveals any big secrets. Actually, most of his advice is basic common sense. He really doesn't provide readers with much in the way of activities for our years after full-time employment. He spends a great deal of time on how to find meaning in senior living, including a substantial section on religion and the "soul" (Thurman appears to hold strong Christian beliefs). Surprisingly, he also devotes considerable attention to dying and uses the death of his first wife as case in point of a "good death." Who in the hell would expect to read so much about the end of life (and even the afterlife) in a book on retirement?
Perhaps another alternate title for this book could be "Thrive Until You Die." How strange that the word retirement is in the title, but near the end of the book, the author openly admits he doesn't even like the word. The book is not poorly written by any means, and I admit there were parts of it that I found useful, but largely from a philosophical perspective than a practical one. For readers looking for a book giving advice on how to live it up in the golden years after working, this may not be the best choice.
Thurman has written a book on aging marketed as a book on retirement, probably because most people are more interested in the latter topic than the former. He argues that the key to real contentment in the final chapters of life is finding fulfillment through purpose, which probably means work. His case is strongest when he points out the expanded life expectancy of the average American now as opposed to when the Social Security Administration was established, which was about 58 years of age at that time. If we truly want to live longer, we have to remain active mentally and physically, and working is the best way to achieve that goal according to Thurman.
I don't think the author reveals any big secrets. Actually, most of his advice is basic common sense. He really doesn't provide readers with much in the way of activities for our years after full-time employment. He spends a great deal of time on how to find meaning in senior living, including a substantial section on religion and the "soul" (Thurman appears to hold strong Christian beliefs). Surprisingly, he also devotes considerable attention to dying and uses the death of his first wife as case in point of a "good death." Who in the hell would expect to read so much about the end of life (and even the afterlife) in a book on retirement?
Perhaps another alternate title for this book could be "Thrive Until You Die." How strange that the word retirement is in the title, but near the end of the book, the author openly admits he doesn't even like the word. The book is not poorly written by any means, and I admit there were parts of it that I found useful, but largely from a philosophical perspective than a practical one. For readers looking for a book giving advice on how to live it up in the golden years after working, this may not be the best choice.
February 7, 2019
Mind your Three P’s in retirement, and you’ll thrive. That’s the message from Eric Thurman, author of the new release Thrive in Retirement. The three P’s are Purpose, Pleasure, and Peace. Thurman gives us a book that is excellent in both content and style. This is not a stuffy book, weighted down with statistics, charts, and graphs. From first to last, it’s studded with high interest anecdotes and quotes. The research referenced in Thurman’s book is current and well matched to his claims.
Thrive in Retirement is agreeable to read even though the subject matter might be hard for some people to think about. We would all love to hold back time if we could, but no such luck. As Thurman points out, this third season of life is new territory. A stage that can last decades. There’s no reason the years after full-time employment need to be viewed as a time of “slow decline”. Thurman maps out a route to success that will help people maintain a positive outlook, discover a good sense of purpose, and find peace.
His writing on maintaining good mental health is stand out content. Thurman points out that despite changing work conditions, individuals should stay connected in communities to enjoy good mental health.
When people think of retirement, financial considerations first come to mind. Thurman addresses this aspect of retirement and then goes so much further. Money is just one part of retirement. He encourages people to consider their status in five vital categories. These categories are mind, body, relationships, soul, and finances. Proactive effort in these five areas will yield positive outcomes and increase well being.
Thurman’s book is a self-help book with many take-away messages. Ironically one of the most memorable has to do with avoiding selfish thoughts and putting others first. He writes, “When we think of others,and give of our time and talents, we receive more than we give.” Altruism spares a mature adult from a host of evils like as isolation and feelings of being irrelevant.
I received a complimentary ARC of this book from Waterbrook in exchange for my honest review.
Thrive in Retirement is agreeable to read even though the subject matter might be hard for some people to think about. We would all love to hold back time if we could, but no such luck. As Thurman points out, this third season of life is new territory. A stage that can last decades. There’s no reason the years after full-time employment need to be viewed as a time of “slow decline”. Thurman maps out a route to success that will help people maintain a positive outlook, discover a good sense of purpose, and find peace.
His writing on maintaining good mental health is stand out content. Thurman points out that despite changing work conditions, individuals should stay connected in communities to enjoy good mental health.
When people think of retirement, financial considerations first come to mind. Thurman addresses this aspect of retirement and then goes so much further. Money is just one part of retirement. He encourages people to consider their status in five vital categories. These categories are mind, body, relationships, soul, and finances. Proactive effort in these five areas will yield positive outcomes and increase well being.
Thurman’s book is a self-help book with many take-away messages. Ironically one of the most memorable has to do with avoiding selfish thoughts and putting others first. He writes, “When we think of others,and give of our time and talents, we receive more than we give.” Altruism spares a mature adult from a host of evils like as isolation and feelings of being irrelevant.
I received a complimentary ARC of this book from Waterbrook in exchange for my honest review.
January 18, 2019
Thrive in Retirement, Simple Secrets for Being Happy for the Rest of Your Life, by author Eric Thurman took me a while to read. I am more accustomed to Christian fiction. This 240 page non-fiction book was packed full of great information for everyone and I am very glad I continued reading it.
The author has put together information to help anyone going into retirement. A lot of the information is common knowledge, but a lot of it was also new to me. The author’s writing style was a bit of a mixture. He included charts, quizzes, and lists along with his thoughts and some personal experiences. Some chapters felt like a textbook while others were less strict and felt like he was talking one on one.
I gleaned a lot from this book. It was interesting to read the author’s insights and ideas on retirement and what one should do. Not only is retirement discussed but what the author calls “the third season of life” which include retirement, aging, and death. He has tips and suggestions as well as forms to help readers and their loved ones transition into this. Everything he has written is to help readers be prepared. It is easy to forget something important so author Thurman has placed all of the information needed in his book. Now readers have a retirement guide at their fingertips!
I would recommend this book to anyone. People that have retired or are preparing to retire, young adults with family retiring, people needing a retirement gift, and so many more would all benefit from this book. It comes out February 26, 2019. Get a copy and read it with a group so you can share your thoughts. I rated it a 4 out of 5 stars.
I received a copy of this book from WaterbrookMultnomah but was not required to write a review. These are my own, honest thoughts.
The author has put together information to help anyone going into retirement. A lot of the information is common knowledge, but a lot of it was also new to me. The author’s writing style was a bit of a mixture. He included charts, quizzes, and lists along with his thoughts and some personal experiences. Some chapters felt like a textbook while others were less strict and felt like he was talking one on one.
I gleaned a lot from this book. It was interesting to read the author’s insights and ideas on retirement and what one should do. Not only is retirement discussed but what the author calls “the third season of life” which include retirement, aging, and death. He has tips and suggestions as well as forms to help readers and their loved ones transition into this. Everything he has written is to help readers be prepared. It is easy to forget something important so author Thurman has placed all of the information needed in his book. Now readers have a retirement guide at their fingertips!
I would recommend this book to anyone. People that have retired or are preparing to retire, young adults with family retiring, people needing a retirement gift, and so many more would all benefit from this book. It comes out February 26, 2019. Get a copy and read it with a group so you can share your thoughts. I rated it a 4 out of 5 stars.
I received a copy of this book from WaterbrookMultnomah but was not required to write a review. These are my own, honest thoughts.
January 15, 2019
The cover indicated a light-hearted simple formula for retirement, but in reality the book is a thoroughly thought out book covering a multitude of areas of life preparing the reader for the third season of life. In a gentle guiding way the author addresses the areas of retirement to consider in light of how many years retirement encompasses today. This book helps you determine where you are, areas to improve, and how to strike the right balance between purpose, peace, and pleasure. By focusing on Purpose, Peace, and Pleasure as touch points, the author encourages the reader to examine and alter accordingly different facets of their lives in categories such as mind, body, relations, soul, and finances.
Intermixing personal antidotes, scientific date, quotes and others stories, the author nudges and engages the reader. The book hits the right cords in these areas as it develops a treasure trove of information and thought provoking exercises. Many tools are included to simplify the process without overwhelming the reader. One that was quite useful was the “compass of relationships”. The compass analogy is used to spark your imagination about different friendship opportunities to pursue in four different directions.
A quote by Dr. Elisabeth Kulber-Ross sums up why this book is worth reading, “It’s not the end of the physical body that should worry us. Rather, our concern must be to live while we’re alive”. This book will indeed guide you how to ‘live while we’re alive”.
I received this book as an advanced copy from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
Intermixing personal antidotes, scientific date, quotes and others stories, the author nudges and engages the reader. The book hits the right cords in these areas as it develops a treasure trove of information and thought provoking exercises. Many tools are included to simplify the process without overwhelming the reader. One that was quite useful was the “compass of relationships”. The compass analogy is used to spark your imagination about different friendship opportunities to pursue in four different directions.
A quote by Dr. Elisabeth Kulber-Ross sums up why this book is worth reading, “It’s not the end of the physical body that should worry us. Rather, our concern must be to live while we’re alive”. This book will indeed guide you how to ‘live while we’re alive”.
I received this book as an advanced copy from the publisher in exchange for an honest review.
December 31, 2018
Living Your Best Life in Retirement
I had the privilege to review, Thrive In Retirement. I am grateful for the many nuggets the book has given us. The author concisely detailed steps to having happiness for the rest of your life while in retirement. Its one thing to have a long life, but its another when you live a wonderful happy fulfilled life.
The nuggets the author shared is greatly appreciated. The points in this book that stood out to me was “The seasons of Life” (p.3) and how the third season in life to some may feel like it’s the final pit stop. But it doesn’t have to be, it can be your grand finale until the curtain close per se.
The author reminds us that we can still live out our best life even in retirement. The author even includes a self-assessment quiz for your leisure to take and assess where you are at in your journey. Another nugget from the book is “Spiritual vitality transcends all the other ups and downs of life” (p.111). Planning ahead takes the stress, worry, and doubt off of loved ones as well as eliminate the legal hassles. Freeing up time and energy to enjoy life. Thank You Eric Thurman for writing a well needed book!
I highly recommend this book to young adults, adults, seniors, etc.
I receive this book from the publisher through their book launch program. @WaterBrookMultnomah #Partner
I had the privilege to review, Thrive In Retirement. I am grateful for the many nuggets the book has given us. The author concisely detailed steps to having happiness for the rest of your life while in retirement. Its one thing to have a long life, but its another when you live a wonderful happy fulfilled life.
The nuggets the author shared is greatly appreciated. The points in this book that stood out to me was “The seasons of Life” (p.3) and how the third season in life to some may feel like it’s the final pit stop. But it doesn’t have to be, it can be your grand finale until the curtain close per se.
The author reminds us that we can still live out our best life even in retirement. The author even includes a self-assessment quiz for your leisure to take and assess where you are at in your journey. Another nugget from the book is “Spiritual vitality transcends all the other ups and downs of life” (p.111). Planning ahead takes the stress, worry, and doubt off of loved ones as well as eliminate the legal hassles. Freeing up time and energy to enjoy life. Thank You Eric Thurman for writing a well needed book!
I highly recommend this book to young adults, adults, seniors, etc.
I receive this book from the publisher through their book launch program. @WaterBrookMultnomah #Partner
March 6, 2019
I have a hard time getting through a non-fiction book most of the time, usually I have good intentions, extreme interest, but somewhere along the line I fade. This wasn't the case with this book. I am in my 50's headed to the retirement era at some point fairly soon, so I want to do it right, any and all advice is welcome. That's not the reason this book held my interest, it was because it was fun, interesting, well written, and not just a list of chapters with lists of to-do's and advice.
What this book pointed out to me was the idea I had for retirement was that I had none! Retirement to me has always been only from the financial perspective, did I save enough, will I have enough, etc., but there is much more to retirement! What am I going to do with all the time, how to use it wisely, what do I like to do when I'm not told what to do!
He starts off with the 5 core categories of a happy, fulfilled existence!
Mind, Body, Relationships, Finances, and Soul.
Each chapter from there focuses on a particular area. I realized that there are many things I hadn't even thought about! What a great read - definitely worth the read, and something I have already referenced a few times since reading!
Thank you so much to the publisher for the complimentary uncorrected proof. I received this in order to read, share and submit this review. My review is my own.
What this book pointed out to me was the idea I had for retirement was that I had none! Retirement to me has always been only from the financial perspective, did I save enough, will I have enough, etc., but there is much more to retirement! What am I going to do with all the time, how to use it wisely, what do I like to do when I'm not told what to do!
He starts off with the 5 core categories of a happy, fulfilled existence!
Mind, Body, Relationships, Finances, and Soul.
Each chapter from there focuses on a particular area. I realized that there are many things I hadn't even thought about! What a great read - definitely worth the read, and something I have already referenced a few times since reading!
Thank you so much to the publisher for the complimentary uncorrected proof. I received this in order to read, share and submit this review. My review is my own.
January 19, 2019
This is such a great book for anyone looking toward retirement. Eric Thurman does a wonderful job helping us think about some important things BEFORE making this life change. I love that it’s interactive with the thrive survey available on line that helps show areas that might need a little work BEFORE we retire. He delves into the aspect of our souls with such integrity. He purports that that we cannot fully thrive if the central part of us – our soul—is not healthy and energized.
I especially liked the part of the book about ‘BEFORE I Die’ because there are many people who don’t want to think of these things – but need to. This part of the book helps walk you through that – Think about how your story will end, “There are people who slowly sink as their life moves down river. Others merely stay afloat. Happy people sail forward with purpose.” It’s never too early to start thinking about how you want to live your life with purpose. Planning is key. “Until you steer and paddle, your life will be adrift.”
I especially liked the part of the book about ‘BEFORE I Die’ because there are many people who don’t want to think of these things – but need to. This part of the book helps walk you through that – Think about how your story will end, “There are people who slowly sink as their life moves down river. Others merely stay afloat. Happy people sail forward with purpose.” It’s never too early to start thinking about how you want to live your life with purpose. Planning is key. “Until you steer and paddle, your life will be adrift.”
January 29, 2019
Thrive in Retirement: Simple Secrets for Being Happy for the Rest of Your Life
By Eric Thurman
I jumped at the chance to review this book published by WaterbrookMultnomah, because I am in the target audience. It was written in a very folksy, conversational style that makes you feel like you are getting advice from a slightly-older friend over coffee.
Eric does offer good advice centering around 3 key words: purpose, pleasure and peace. He ties those into the main aspects of life including mind, body, soul, relationships, and finances. He encourages readers to do some important soul-searching and decide what actions they should take in order to make the most of their golden years.
I found this book to be practical with sections in the appendix to help readers plan well for their death. Although this sounds morbid, having a plan alleviates much stress for the individual and his or her family. I highly recommend this book. I received a free copy from the publisher and this is my honest opinion.
#PRHpartner@WaterBrookMultnomah
By Eric Thurman
I jumped at the chance to review this book published by WaterbrookMultnomah, because I am in the target audience. It was written in a very folksy, conversational style that makes you feel like you are getting advice from a slightly-older friend over coffee.
Eric does offer good advice centering around 3 key words: purpose, pleasure and peace. He ties those into the main aspects of life including mind, body, soul, relationships, and finances. He encourages readers to do some important soul-searching and decide what actions they should take in order to make the most of their golden years.
I found this book to be practical with sections in the appendix to help readers plan well for their death. Although this sounds morbid, having a plan alleviates much stress for the individual and his or her family. I highly recommend this book. I received a free copy from the publisher and this is my honest opinion.
#PRHpartner@WaterBrookMultnomah
January 13, 2019
So you THOUGHT you had it all planned out in your head for retirement. Guess what- you are WAY wrong, and it will cost you- not only in money, but in life expectancy AND in retirement happiness! Eric made me totally reevaluate the plans I had for retirement! Even though I had already made some changes, that went with this formula, there was so much more to rethink! It's not JUST money- it's what you will DO, and how old you will BE. If you want a fulfilled retirement, you need to start now, making changes, so that everything can be in place for you. And if you can't, then you need to start making the changes as soon as you DO retire. It's not too late- follow the formula in the book, and YOUR retirement can be amazing too!
Even if you aren't close to retirement yet, you NEED to read this book, to set yourself up for 15 years from now!
Even if you aren't close to retirement yet, you NEED to read this book, to set yourself up for 15 years from now!
April 20, 2019
Thank you NetGalley and the publisher for the opportunity to read and review this book.
The author, Eric Thurman, focuses his book on the final third of life. He looks
at those things that make retirement healthy and happy. He frames the positives of retirement around three principles:
Purpose, Pleasure, and Peace.
He explores issues of relationships, work or volunteering, finances, healthy lifestyle, and faith. Keeping a balance in all aspects makes for a positive retirement experience. The appendix at the end
of the book contains useful information for organizing end of life issues and things like where documents and possessions are and who inherits what.
This book can be a significant resource for a retired person or one nearing retirement.
The author, Eric Thurman, focuses his book on the final third of life. He looks
at those things that make retirement healthy and happy. He frames the positives of retirement around three principles:
Purpose, Pleasure, and Peace.
He explores issues of relationships, work or volunteering, finances, healthy lifestyle, and faith. Keeping a balance in all aspects makes for a positive retirement experience. The appendix at the end
of the book contains useful information for organizing end of life issues and things like where documents and possessions are and who inherits what.
This book can be a significant resource for a retired person or one nearing retirement.
January 13, 2019
The theme of this book is preparation. It is about the third season of life; which used to be popularly called retirement. That label isn't as popular anymore. This book is about living a fulfilling life as an older adult. "The ideal is to have long life and for those years to be rich and full." This is a quote from the author, and I can definitely agree with it! The book is filled with practical advice. There are several online quizzes available and forms at the back to be used for end-of-life information. It is written in a easy reading, encouraging format. I received a copy for review purposes.
August 3, 2019
Easy read, practical advice in regards to the simple fact that we are living longer yet most of us are failing to prepare well for retirement. And by "retirement" the author does not simply mean "no longer working"... he proceeds to provide advice for the ultimate retirement, as in end of life. It is not a how-to book in the typical sense with advice regarding investments, budgeting, and so forth. Rather he sets out to provide perspectives that cause the reader to stop, think, recognize and thereby hopefully cultivate his three principles of happiness: Purpose, Pleasure and Peace. His mission is to help people find meaning and enjoyment during the last third of their life.
January 7, 2019
“Thrive in Retirement” by Eric Thurman is a practical how-to guide. While it doesn’t share ways to retire early with lots of money (haha), the book contains information about a wide variety of topics on ways one can live best in his or her retirement years. Mr. Thurman utilizes many studies and directs readers to different sources to make his point. While I can’t say I learned anything profound, if you find yourself unhappy and disillusioned about retirement, this book can help guide you to greater fulfillment.
I received an advance reader copy of this book from the publisher.
I received an advance reader copy of this book from the publisher.
November 29, 2019
If you have had any experience with the self help movement you've already read most of this book. It is also not for the non-Xtians, including those who say they are spiritual but not religious. Not good enough. That said, there are some interesting little factoids and nuggets sprinkled here and there. By and large regurgitated wisdom and quotes from others. Some really painful allegory attempts. So all in all, it depends on how widely read you are and how much you expect. I'm sure for some people it would be really helpful.
January 22, 2022
The bulk of this book summarized well known tenets for retirement, including caring for the mind, body, relationships, the soul, and finances - with a focus on meeting basic needs for purpose, pleasure, and peace in retirement. The surprise was that he didn’t stop with retirement but also discussed and provided thorough resource information on planning for one’s eventual death and the aftermath for the surviving family. I would rate the book 3 overall but 4 for the ease of reading and the added sections on death.
March 4, 2022
There were some good things abotu this book and some not so good. "Retirement" is a huge change and people need to plan financially, socially and intellectually. What will you do to stay engaged and grow? The part of this book that I had the biggest problem with was the insinuation that you cannot be a complete person or a happy person if you are not spiritual. According to the author 20% of my happiness is having a soul. Well, guess I am out of luck then! So, read it and use the parts that benefit you.
December 11, 2018
I received a complimentary ARC.
I feel like the author shares his thoughts more than actual facts, but in a growing amount of stories. It seems more like it is a life experience filled with added pushes of thought into the ways of retirement. Of course my heart was sad for the loss that Eric has had and I understand the want to create a book maybe even just to help cope with it. At some chapters it just felt pushed and strict instead of more connecting to everyone who would be reading.
I feel like the author shares his thoughts more than actual facts, but in a growing amount of stories. It seems more like it is a life experience filled with added pushes of thought into the ways of retirement. Of course my heart was sad for the loss that Eric has had and I understand the want to create a book maybe even just to help cope with it. At some chapters it just felt pushed and strict instead of more connecting to everyone who would be reading.
December 21, 2018
Very interesting and informative book. I have often heard retired people say that they are busier in retirement than when they were working at a job. There are many ways to enjoy retired life and one of those ways is to keep busy. Activities, family, learning a new craft, reading and more. Being involved in our retirement years can bless us and bless others. I received a complimentary copy of this book. This is my honest opinion. No review was required.
February 13, 2019
Thrive in Retirement is exactly what my husband and I needed. This is a great resource, filled with lots of helpful knowledge and told in a very candid way. There are many practical applications scattered throughout as well. Highly recommend this book to people in all age groups who are working toward living well in retirement. I received a copy of this book from the author in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are mine.
February 7, 2023
This took a steep sharp jump into Christianity, which I was not at all interested in. I don’t mind the connection to spiritual health and longevity, but none of the studies note a specific religion, and in fact, the longer living and more vibrant populations are not majority Christian.
If I wanted a book on Christianity, I would not pickup a book on retirement and vice versa.
If I wanted a book on Christianity, I would not pickup a book on retirement and vice versa.
November 5, 2023
This is a good book that hits a lot of the bullet points regarding retirement. It reads a little like a PowerPoint presentation and some of his advice feels analogous to reading the “how to be popular in high school” book which surely will make you less popular. His spiritual take is biased, but he appears genuine in his journey and wants to share the wealth.
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