When I heard Adam Buxton had written a book, I was really keen to read it. I still remember the night I discovered the anarchic joy that was The Adam and Joe Show, a comedy that still fills me with fond memories of my student days and early married life.
I find it a bit hard to get my head around the fact that Adam is now fifty years old, much as I struggle to get my head around the fact that I'm now forty-six, but hey, it happens to us all, I suppose. Writing a book seems a natural thing to do at the time Adam has reached in his life. He's now married with three kids, and the death of his father (the legendary BaaaaadDad) in 2015 provoked some reflection on his life. This book is the result, and it turned out to be a wonderful read.
Adam had a frequently difficult relationship with his dad, caused by many things, and he deals with them honestly and frankly here, which is pretty moving stuff. Our parents are never perfect, and it can be hard dealing with the legacies they leave behind, and there's much to reflect upon here. Adam's parents sent him to expensive boarding schools they could scarcely afford, and he realises it gave him a very privileged start in life. I've come to realise that, in a similar way, my mum and dad really wanted me to have a good education, and moved heaven and earth to get me into a grammar school considered excellent. I hated every second of it and have resented the hell out of the toxic dump ever since, but I have to admit it's probably done me a lot more good than I've ever wanted to accept...
There's plenty in here about the author's love of pop culture, and his path to becoming famous and able to do so much of what he's enjoyed over the years, and I really enjoyed all of that. He and I were into lots of similar things, and I can really relate to the way music and films made him feel growing up, especially when surrounded by a world that feels brutal and confusing. He's also reflected upon things that haven't gone so well, and have caused him pain, and it's interesting and informative to read about those. Life is full of highs and lows, I suppose, and there's full acceptance of that here, but however serious the book gets, it's full of humour and has plenty of moments that genuine made me laugh. Plenty more where I smiled, empathised, chuckled, and related.
Really, really good. Ploughed through quickly, and a great pleasure. I admit I haven't really consumed much of his output since The Adam and Joe Show concluded many moons ago, so I think it's high time I rectified that and started following his recent work. I doubt I'll regret it.