Best Family Ever by Karen Kingsbury and Tyler Russell
Baxter Family Children #1
277-page Hardback
Genre: Christian Fiction, Children's > Middle Grade; Juvenile > Young Adult; Family, Realistic Fiction
Featuring: Mother-Son Duo, Author's Letter, Ann Arbor, Michigan; Multiple POVs, Large Family, Siblings, Graphics, 💝Valentine's Day, Wholesome Characters, Vocabulary, School Setting, Hilton Head, South Carolina; Bloomington, Indiana; Traveling, God's Plan, Drama, Moving, Hallmark Moments, Prayers, 🎨Art, ⚽️Soccer
Rating as a movie: PG
Songs for the soundtrack: "You Are My Sunshine"
My rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️¾
My thoughts: 📖 Page 49 of 277 Ch. 4 The Perfect Party • Ashley - I don't know what I was thinking. I now remember the Baxter books being so sweet they'd make sugar taste like salt, but I got the entire collection. I was thinking I could finish this series since it's not 40 books deep. I'm going to stick with it, but this is what I imagine kids are like on The Sims.
📖 221 Ch. 20 Soup Kitchen - I can't do it. I'm a few chapters away from the end, but I need out of this world. Once you suppress petty drama and impractical vocabulary, it's very good, but I can't take much more of Ashley. I just need a few chapters with adults.
My issues with this book are that the children aren't written well, and the parents have weird lessons. The character that got on my nerves the most was Ashley. She's 10 and in 4th grade and uses vocabulary words like effervescent and pervasive but also uses The Awful Tower [Eiffel] multiple times and thinks you can keep a horse in the mud room. I know it's difficult for authors to write children especially since not all children are going to be the same in each age group but there is a general idea and I get annoyed when they cannot tell if the character they are writing is supposed to be 3 or 16. There's a lot of that here. The issues in these books are petty, and the advice the parents give is often not good or Christian-like. The oldest girl is upset because she is worried about getting Valentine's Day cards from boys, but then when she gets none from the boys, she's upset about it. The 11-year-old 5th grader is worried about a boy who had a crush on her last year embarrassing her again by giving her a large Valentine this year. He gives her a teddy bear, which he says she can give to her little brother, and he crosses out Valentine to say "Would You Be My Friend" and declares he only wants to be friends. She's then upset that he is talking to other girls at lunchtime after she agreed to be his friend, how dare he makes friends with other girls. The mom does not check either of these girls for mixed signals or jealousy; she gives all of them the same advice: when people hurt you, you have to give them grace. How about not being jealous because this is not your boyfriend, and he doesn't owe you anything you didn't even want his friendship? The one that really annoyed me was when Ashley, who's the troublemaker, lies to her parents and her parents chant a motto: "You don't love people you lie to, you don't lie to people you love." Are you kidding me? Where does it say that in the Bible? People lie all the time; you fall short every day; that's why you need grace and mercy. So if I lie to my mom about doing my homework, it means I don't love her? Got it! Because of that stuff, I couldn't give this book 5 stars and pondered if it deserved 4 stars. In the end, the family life and good times outweighed the hackneyed immature jokes and you'll-need-therapy-later advice. I will be continuing the kid series, but I can't read the original series after reading this one, knowing the tragedies of the future.
Recommend to others?: Sure, but I would read it with your kids in case there are any points you want to discuss.