I have never read a book that so clearly spoke words into my life that I have struggled to find on my own. As a white, Christian, female, in this world, I could choose, quite easily, to not engage in conversations about race and social justice. However, that would mean, as a foster mama to three brown boys, I would be setting our family up for failure. Cara Meredith, while she embarked on her own journey in conversations of racial reconciliation through falling in love with a man that did not share her skin tone or her history, shares honestly and passionately, how this difficult but immensely important conversation developed.
One of the most refreshing things about this writing is that Cara acknowledges that the conversation is never-ending. She does not hop on her high horse and tell the world how she has figured it all out. Rather, she shares one mistake, one experience, one bias, and one challenge after another. She not only shares each individual moment, but she shares her process of reflection and growth in the before, during, and after - validating that this process is not easy, but rather, necessary, as a wife, and a mother, in a mixed-race family.
I can't think of anyone that likely wouldn't get SOMETHING from reading Cara's work. However, I will be focusing on sharing it with my white family, because the amount of love and respect Cara holds in her writing, allow it to spark conversation without laying blame or engaging in defensiveness. This truly is a work of art!!