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Baxter's Requiem
Let me tell you a story, about a man I knew, and a man I know...
Mr Baxter is ninety-four years old when he falls down his staircase and grudgily finds himself resident at Melrose Gardens Retirement Home.
Baxter is many things - raconteur, retired music teacher, rabble-rouser, bon viveur - but 'good patient' he is not. He had every intention of living his twilight years with wine, music and revelry; not tea, telly and Tramadol. Indeed, Melrose Gardens is his worst nightmare - until he meets Gregory.
At only nineteen years of age, Greg has suffered a loss so heavy that he is in danger of giving up on life before he even gets going.
Determined to save the boy, Baxter decides to enlist his help on a mission to pay tribute to his long-lost love, Thomas: the man with whom he found true happiness; the man he waved off to fight in a senseless war; the man who never returned. The best man he ever knew.
With Gregory in tow Baxter sets out on a spirited escape from Melrose, bound for the war graves of Northern France. As Baxter shares his memories, the boy starts to see that life need not be a matter of mere endurance; that the world is huge and beautiful; that kindness is strength; and that the only way to honour the dead, is to live.
Baxter's Requiem is a glorious celebration of life, love and seizing every last second we have while we're here.
Mr Baxter is ninety-four years old when he falls down his staircase and grudgily finds himself resident at Melrose Gardens Retirement Home.
Baxter is many things - raconteur, retired music teacher, rabble-rouser, bon viveur - but 'good patient' he is not. He had every intention of living his twilight years with wine, music and revelry; not tea, telly and Tramadol. Indeed, Melrose Gardens is his worst nightmare - until he meets Gregory.
At only nineteen years of age, Greg has suffered a loss so heavy that he is in danger of giving up on life before he even gets going.
Determined to save the boy, Baxter decides to enlist his help on a mission to pay tribute to his long-lost love, Thomas: the man with whom he found true happiness; the man he waved off to fight in a senseless war; the man who never returned. The best man he ever knew.
With Gregory in tow Baxter sets out on a spirited escape from Melrose, bound for the war graves of Northern France. As Baxter shares his memories, the boy starts to see that life need not be a matter of mere endurance; that the world is huge and beautiful; that kindness is strength; and that the only way to honour the dead, is to live.
Baxter's Requiem is a glorious celebration of life, love and seizing every last second we have while we're here.
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248 pages, Paperback
First published September 6, 2018
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About the author
Matthew Crow
42 books32 followersMatthew was born and raised in Newcastle and began freelancing for newspapers and magazines whilst still at school, writing about the arts and pop culture.
He has written four novels, Ashes and My Dearest Jonah - the second of which was nominated for the Dylan Thomas Prize for Literature - and one book for young adults, In Bloom, which was nominated for the Carnegie Medal and the North East Teen Book Award, and listed in the Telegraph's Best YA of 2014 List.
His fourth book, Another Place, will also be for young adults and was published by Atom in August 2017.
He has written four novels, Ashes and My Dearest Jonah - the second of which was nominated for the Dylan Thomas Prize for Literature - and one book for young adults, In Bloom, which was nominated for the Carnegie Medal and the North East Teen Book Award, and listed in the Telegraph's Best YA of 2014 List.
His fourth book, Another Place, will also be for young adults and was published by Atom in August 2017.
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September 18, 2018
Be still, my beating heart!! I ADORED this beautiful and touching book from start to finish! It is one of those books that is such a simple story but full of so many important and emotional messages that you can't help but take these characters to heart and embrace the friendships made in the most unlikely of places.
Baxter is a grumpy old man! He doesn't want to be living in the care home but time has forced him to, and he'll let everyone know he's not happy about it while he's there! He's 94, a realist and he gets on with things, seeking solace in his vinyl.
Greg is 18 and starts working at the home for something to do. He's had a tragic past and doesn't find much in life that excites him anymore and wants to escape his life. Going home doesn't bring him much joy either so the banter he has with various residents, especially Baxter, starts to spark some life into him
The friendship that begins with Baxter and Greg is so touching! Baxter sees behind the tough exterior of Greg and wants to find out more about what has caused him so much anguish . And this bond between them allows them both to share some tough stories about what they've both been through - and it's fascinating to get these comparisons between someone almost at the end of their life, and someone just beginning theirs. It just shows that people have more in common than they think - age is no barrier!.
The care home staff become like family to one another and is another wonderful aspect of this story. There are some great characters introduced throughout, each playing such an important role in the main thread and just gives that extra depth to the storyline.
This book deals with grief in its' many forms - for people lost, for lives not being lived - and it does it in such a heartwarming way, without ever going OTT or feeling too sickly or sorry for itself. The characters and their pasts are so poignant, and how the act of being a friend can be so rewarding and such a strength to those who need someone to talk to or to believe in. It was heartwarming and heartbreaking to read and full of so much spirit and compassion that it just fills you with joy.
An absolute delight of a book!!
Baxter is a grumpy old man! He doesn't want to be living in the care home but time has forced him to, and he'll let everyone know he's not happy about it while he's there! He's 94, a realist and he gets on with things, seeking solace in his vinyl.
Greg is 18 and starts working at the home for something to do. He's had a tragic past and doesn't find much in life that excites him anymore and wants to escape his life. Going home doesn't bring him much joy either so the banter he has with various residents, especially Baxter, starts to spark some life into him
The friendship that begins with Baxter and Greg is so touching! Baxter sees behind the tough exterior of Greg and wants to find out more about what has caused him so much anguish . And this bond between them allows them both to share some tough stories about what they've both been through - and it's fascinating to get these comparisons between someone almost at the end of their life, and someone just beginning theirs. It just shows that people have more in common than they think - age is no barrier!.
The care home staff become like family to one another and is another wonderful aspect of this story. There are some great characters introduced throughout, each playing such an important role in the main thread and just gives that extra depth to the storyline.
This book deals with grief in its' many forms - for people lost, for lives not being lived - and it does it in such a heartwarming way, without ever going OTT or feeling too sickly or sorry for itself. The characters and their pasts are so poignant, and how the act of being a friend can be so rewarding and such a strength to those who need someone to talk to or to believe in. It was heartwarming and heartbreaking to read and full of so much spirit and compassion that it just fills you with joy.
An absolute delight of a book!!
August 27, 2018
Once again Matthew Crow has broke my heart into a million pieces.
September 21, 2018
I was delighted to hear that Crow had published Baxter's Requiem, it seems like a very long time since I've read him. I have not been disappointed. Yet again, this young talented author has stolen my heart, taken my breath away, and left me in tears. This is a truly exquisite story, and I've already cleared a space on my shelf, this one is not leaving the house!
Mr Baxter is ninety-four years old. He has all of his faculties intact, he's bright and funny, and dry witted. He's also fallen down the stairs, and until he's properly back on his feet, he's taken a place at Melrose Gardens Retirement Home.
Mr Baxter is not the best of patients. He's used to living his life just as he wants to. With music and wine and fine food and the company of his friends. He doesn't have a partner, or children and has plenty of money. Melrose Gardens has never had a patient quite like Baxter before.
Baxter doesn't give his affection away freely. He's sharp tongued and is nobody's fool, but when he meets nineteen-year old Greg, he sees something in him that he thinks that he can fix. Greg has given up on life. He lives with his father who spends his time either working, or drunk. Greg used to be the best at everything; he was a top sportsman, on course for a higher education; destined for great things. Greg has suffered a loss in life that is so huge and so painful that nothing else matters. Coming to work at Melrose Gardens; serving tea and shuffling paperwork is about all that he can manage.
Baxter knows that at the age of ninety-four, he hasn't realistically got lots of years ahead of him, and his one wish is to to travel to the war cemeteries in France to find the resting place of his one and only love Thomas.
Thomas was called up towards the end of the Second World War and didn't return; missing presumed dead and Baxter has mourned for him and thought of him every single day since.
By enlisting Greg's help to ensure that he gets to France, Baxter gives Greg a purpose, and what follows is a beautifully constructed tale of how one man helps another in such a wonderfully subtle and unassuming way.
Matthew Crow has structured his novel perfectly. The reader learns about Baxter's early life; how he became wealthy, and how he dealt with his sexuality in times that were so different to today. At it's heart; Baxter's Requiem is a heartwarming and incredibly insightful love story, with a difference.
As in his previous novels, the author excels at creating the most wonderful of characters. Not only the delight that is Baxter himself, but the supporting cast who stand equally alongside him. His lifelong friend Winnifred; crazy and spontaneous and an utter delight. Thomas: the man who showed him the perfection of true love and not forgetting the wickedly funny staff at Melrose Gardens. Each and every one of them are impeccably portrayed, I felt as though I knew all of them intimately.
Baxter's Requiem shows us the all-enduring power of relationships, both long-term and newly formed and is an absolute joy to read. I laughed and I shed tears. Stunning, and highly recommended.
Mr Baxter is ninety-four years old. He has all of his faculties intact, he's bright and funny, and dry witted. He's also fallen down the stairs, and until he's properly back on his feet, he's taken a place at Melrose Gardens Retirement Home.
Mr Baxter is not the best of patients. He's used to living his life just as he wants to. With music and wine and fine food and the company of his friends. He doesn't have a partner, or children and has plenty of money. Melrose Gardens has never had a patient quite like Baxter before.
Baxter doesn't give his affection away freely. He's sharp tongued and is nobody's fool, but when he meets nineteen-year old Greg, he sees something in him that he thinks that he can fix. Greg has given up on life. He lives with his father who spends his time either working, or drunk. Greg used to be the best at everything; he was a top sportsman, on course for a higher education; destined for great things. Greg has suffered a loss in life that is so huge and so painful that nothing else matters. Coming to work at Melrose Gardens; serving tea and shuffling paperwork is about all that he can manage.
Baxter knows that at the age of ninety-four, he hasn't realistically got lots of years ahead of him, and his one wish is to to travel to the war cemeteries in France to find the resting place of his one and only love Thomas.
Thomas was called up towards the end of the Second World War and didn't return; missing presumed dead and Baxter has mourned for him and thought of him every single day since.
By enlisting Greg's help to ensure that he gets to France, Baxter gives Greg a purpose, and what follows is a beautifully constructed tale of how one man helps another in such a wonderfully subtle and unassuming way.
Matthew Crow has structured his novel perfectly. The reader learns about Baxter's early life; how he became wealthy, and how he dealt with his sexuality in times that were so different to today. At it's heart; Baxter's Requiem is a heartwarming and incredibly insightful love story, with a difference.
As in his previous novels, the author excels at creating the most wonderful of characters. Not only the delight that is Baxter himself, but the supporting cast who stand equally alongside him. His lifelong friend Winnifred; crazy and spontaneous and an utter delight. Thomas: the man who showed him the perfection of true love and not forgetting the wickedly funny staff at Melrose Gardens. Each and every one of them are impeccably portrayed, I felt as though I knew all of them intimately.
Baxter's Requiem shows us the all-enduring power of relationships, both long-term and newly formed and is an absolute joy to read. I laughed and I shed tears. Stunning, and highly recommended.
August 27, 2018
This is a lovely feel-good story about an elderly gentleman, Baxter, nearing the end of his life, and a young lad, Greg, just embarking on his. Each has suffered the painful loss of a much loved person, who died well before their time. For Baxter, it was the love of his life, who died during WWII. For Greg it was his younger brother, who committed suicide.
They meet at the Melrose Gardens Retirement home, where Baxter is a rather unwilling inmate (‘It’s like practising being dead and paying for the privilege!’), and Greg is trying hard to cope with his first ever job, as a care assistant.
Right at the start, Baxter is informed by his doctor that he is unlikely to last another year. At 94 years of age, Baxter is unperturbed by impending death, but there are two missions he sets himself to accomplish before his demise: first is to go to France and finally say goodbye to his lover, to ensure that he is never forgotten; second is to save Greg from the overwhelming grief, that threatens to blight his young life forever.
Baxter’s romance was so beautifully captured, and it was plain to see what a traumatic effect the loss of his love had on Baxter’s subsequent life. Luckily, he had two very good friends to help him cope. Now, he wants to offer the same help to Greg – to show him that life can still be joyful, and not be just a dreary existence.
Greg’s pain is obvious, not only to Baxter, but to both of his co-workers, Suzanne and Ramila: “That Greg was troubled was self-evident. His body and his mind operated on two separate planes – as if he were trying to navigate his own avatar with a faulty joystick”. Greg gets no respite at home, where his father is incapable of dealing with either his own grief – or that of his son. Currently, work is the only solace for both Greg and his father.
Baxter’s plan to help Greg get off to a rocky start: “‘My ship’s sailed,’ Greg said flatly. ‘You’re eighteen years old,’ said Baxter with an exhausted smile. ‘Your ship hasn’t even been built yet’.” But with help from Suzanne’s friendly ear and Ramila’s flirting – not to mention the incorrigible Winnifred (one of Baxter’s dissolute elderly friends) – Greg slowly emerges from his shell.
I loved this book. All the main and secondary characters are well developed, each with their own back stories, so that they quickly become real people, with whom you can empathise, and most of whom you would like to meet. You become fully invested in all of them, and need to know how their lives turn out. I particularly liked Ramila, who is nowhere near as shallow as she likes to make out. I highly recommend this book.
I received this copy from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review
They meet at the Melrose Gardens Retirement home, where Baxter is a rather unwilling inmate (‘It’s like practising being dead and paying for the privilege!’), and Greg is trying hard to cope with his first ever job, as a care assistant.
Right at the start, Baxter is informed by his doctor that he is unlikely to last another year. At 94 years of age, Baxter is unperturbed by impending death, but there are two missions he sets himself to accomplish before his demise: first is to go to France and finally say goodbye to his lover, to ensure that he is never forgotten; second is to save Greg from the overwhelming grief, that threatens to blight his young life forever.
Baxter’s romance was so beautifully captured, and it was plain to see what a traumatic effect the loss of his love had on Baxter’s subsequent life. Luckily, he had two very good friends to help him cope. Now, he wants to offer the same help to Greg – to show him that life can still be joyful, and not be just a dreary existence.
Greg’s pain is obvious, not only to Baxter, but to both of his co-workers, Suzanne and Ramila: “That Greg was troubled was self-evident. His body and his mind operated on two separate planes – as if he were trying to navigate his own avatar with a faulty joystick”. Greg gets no respite at home, where his father is incapable of dealing with either his own grief – or that of his son. Currently, work is the only solace for both Greg and his father.
Baxter’s plan to help Greg get off to a rocky start: “‘My ship’s sailed,’ Greg said flatly. ‘You’re eighteen years old,’ said Baxter with an exhausted smile. ‘Your ship hasn’t even been built yet’.” But with help from Suzanne’s friendly ear and Ramila’s flirting – not to mention the incorrigible Winnifred (one of Baxter’s dissolute elderly friends) – Greg slowly emerges from his shell.
I loved this book. All the main and secondary characters are well developed, each with their own back stories, so that they quickly become real people, with whom you can empathise, and most of whom you would like to meet. You become fully invested in all of them, and need to know how their lives turn out. I particularly liked Ramila, who is nowhere near as shallow as she likes to make out. I highly recommend this book.
I received this copy from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review
December 9, 2020
Baxter is a man in his 90s. Greg is 19. Both are on a journey, literally and mental, and become great friends. Baxter wants to finally say goodbye to his old love Thomas and make sure his story is told. While doing this he helps young Greg to find a way back to a life that's worth living.
So far, so good. The story is easy enough to follow and interesting. Especially the historical parts and getting to know young Thomas & Baxter is great.
Greg's story is full of sadness and sorrow, but to be honest, it didn't quite get to me. I just didn't feel emotionally invested.
I would have loved to read more about the past, before the actual war started and how it was to live as a gay couple on those times. It really was so interesting, but it was just a small part of the book.
The actual story just didn't work for me. It wasn't enough to hold my attention. I didn't get warm with the side characters. They were okay, but their stories and scenes just didn't add to the plot.
Especially Winnie was a bit too exaggerated. I know what kind of character Crow had in mind but he tried too hard. It was too much. I just didn't thought the 'cool-old-woman-who-lived-an-independent-and-fullfilled-life-becoming-queen-of-twitter'-thing worked really well for this book. Of course she also has a cool ride and goes to a bar drinking with hip students and she loves the LGBT+ community and writes the story of her life in one night and and and. As I said, it felt like trying too hard to create cool and diverse characters.
The actual story that later on is mentioned and told via twitter also can't be that great because the author doesn't really know anything about Baxter's journey so the only things she could have written aren't as spectacular as the ending of the book wants us to believe. It just didn't fit and thus left me with a not so great impression of the book.
It didn't really work for me. It felt like trying too hard to get too much into less than 300 pages with a story that's not enough and thus it's just another novel that didn't really left a mark.
So far, so good. The story is easy enough to follow and interesting. Especially the historical parts and getting to know young Thomas & Baxter is great.
Greg's story is full of sadness and sorrow, but to be honest, it didn't quite get to me. I just didn't feel emotionally invested.
I would have loved to read more about the past, before the actual war started and how it was to live as a gay couple on those times. It really was so interesting, but it was just a small part of the book.
The actual story just didn't work for me. It wasn't enough to hold my attention. I didn't get warm with the side characters. They were okay, but their stories and scenes just didn't add to the plot.
Especially Winnie was a bit too exaggerated. I know what kind of character Crow had in mind but he tried too hard. It was too much. I just didn't thought the 'cool-old-woman-who-lived-an-independent-and-fullfilled-life-becoming-queen-of-twitter'-thing worked really well for this book. Of course she also has a cool ride and goes to a bar drinking with hip students and she loves the LGBT+ community and writes the story of her life in one night and and and. As I said, it felt like trying too hard to create cool and diverse characters.
The actual story that later on is mentioned and told via twitter also can't be that great because the author doesn't really know anything about Baxter's journey so the only things she could have written aren't as spectacular as the ending of the book wants us to believe. It just didn't fit and thus left me with a not so great impression of the book.
It didn't really work for me. It felt like trying too hard to get too much into less than 300 pages with a story that's not enough and thus it's just another novel that didn't really left a mark.
August 13, 2018
The story was appealing enough: the budding friendship between Baxter, a ninety-something man in residential care, and Greg, an eighteen year old who works at the home. Although the ‘odd friendship’ between an old man and a younger person is nothing new, it was an interesting enough premise to draw me to this book.
The friendship storyline is charming, and so is Baxter’s backstory, which set in the past; but these two strands get lost in a pointless present-days side story that doesn’t do anything to advance the plot or develop the characters. The side characters of Suzanne and Ramila are one dimensional and almost caricature-like, with dialogue that sounds lifted from some gritty ITV drama. I would have liked to read more about Baxter and Greg’s trip to France without the constant switching back and forth to a strand of the story that adds absolutely nothing of value. Indeed, I think “Baxter’s Requiem” would have been a better novel all round if the author had just focussed on weaving the present friendship between Baxter and Greg with the Baxter/Thomas storyline.
This is not a terrible book: there are moments of brilliance scattered here and there, with some stunning, vivid descriptions of the coastal location where much of the past section of the novel is set in. There are some interesting characters, who, however, seem barely sketched out, never quite reaching their full potential; I would have liked to know more about Thomas, and as for Greg - by the end of the novel, I am still unsure as to who he really is and what his personal quest is. The novel’s main strength is Baxter himself, but even that is not enough to carry a whole story for 240 pages.
Despite its interesting premise and some good characters, as a novel “Baxter’s Requiem” feels overall unbalanced, with none of its strands really going anywhere - almost as if an editor’s helpful suggestions were been ignored by a stubborn author. Sadly, this book feels like a missed opportunity that falls flat and leaves you frustrated.
The friendship storyline is charming, and so is Baxter’s backstory, which set in the past; but these two strands get lost in a pointless present-days side story that doesn’t do anything to advance the plot or develop the characters. The side characters of Suzanne and Ramila are one dimensional and almost caricature-like, with dialogue that sounds lifted from some gritty ITV drama. I would have liked to read more about Baxter and Greg’s trip to France without the constant switching back and forth to a strand of the story that adds absolutely nothing of value. Indeed, I think “Baxter’s Requiem” would have been a better novel all round if the author had just focussed on weaving the present friendship between Baxter and Greg with the Baxter/Thomas storyline.
This is not a terrible book: there are moments of brilliance scattered here and there, with some stunning, vivid descriptions of the coastal location where much of the past section of the novel is set in. There are some interesting characters, who, however, seem barely sketched out, never quite reaching their full potential; I would have liked to know more about Thomas, and as for Greg - by the end of the novel, I am still unsure as to who he really is and what his personal quest is. The novel’s main strength is Baxter himself, but even that is not enough to carry a whole story for 240 pages.
Despite its interesting premise and some good characters, as a novel “Baxter’s Requiem” feels overall unbalanced, with none of its strands really going anywhere - almost as if an editor’s helpful suggestions were been ignored by a stubborn author. Sadly, this book feels like a missed opportunity that falls flat and leaves you frustrated.
June 1, 2019
Gorgeous book, loved it
April 3, 2019
Time taken to read - 1 day
Pages - 248
Publisher - Corsair
Source - Review copy
Blurb from Goodreads
Let me tell you a story, about a man I knew, and a man I know...
Mr Baxter is ninety-four years old when he falls down his staircase and grudgily finds himself resident at Melrose Gardens Retirement Home.
Baxter is many things - raconteur, retired music teacher, rabble-rouser, bon viveur - but 'good patient' he is not. He had every intention of living his twilight years with wine, music and revelry; not tea, telly and Tramadol. Indeed, Melrose Gardens is his worst nightmare - until he meets Gregory.
At only nineteen years of age, Greg has suffered a loss so heavy that he is in danger of giving up on life before he even gets going.
Determined to save the boy, Baxter decides to enlist his help on a mission to pay tribute to his long-lost love, Thomas: the man with whom he found true happiness; the man he waved off to fight in a senseless war; the man who never returned. The best man he ever knew.
With Gregory in tow Baxter sets out on a spirited escape from Melrose, bound for the war graves of Northern France. As Baxter shares his memories, the boy starts to see that life need not be a matter of mere endurance; that the world is huge and beautiful; that kindness is strength; and that the only way to honour the dead, is to live.
Baxter's Requiem is a glorious celebration of life, love and seizing every last second we have while we're here.
My Review
At ninety four years old Baxter is set in his ways, grumpy, no time for nonsense and likes what he likes. When a fall down the stairs sees him in a retirement home until he is able enough to go back to his own home he is forced amongst people and routine. He meets young Gregory, a young chap who starts work in the home, quiet, shy and a tad withdrawn. Baxter makes it his mission to break down Gregory's barriers and enlist him to help deal with something from his own past.
Gregory is a sweet kid under the outward exterior, dealing with a loss and struggling to have a relationship with his father. His life is very limited and lonely, possibly what draws Baxter. Baxter is a great character, funny in a grumpy no nonsense way he has a plan and the retirement home rules nor his age will stop him. An unlikely friendship grows and both men help each other deal with things in their lives, Gregory's now and Baxter's from the past.
We flip to Baxter's past, how he obtained his fortune and his one true love he never got to say goodbye to, Thomas. Called to war he never returned home and Baxter, knowing he doesn't have time to waste, wants to say goodbye.
Funny, sad, poignant, friendship, past, present, overcoming barriers and a whole host of emotion for these two main characters. It is a nice read, flipping between past and present, I would have liked the book to be longer, learned more about Baxter and Gregory but they always say a good author will leave you wanting more. This was my first time reading Crow, it won't be my last, I will be looking up his other works, 3.5/5 for me this time.
Pages - 248
Publisher - Corsair
Source - Review copy
Blurb from Goodreads
Let me tell you a story, about a man I knew, and a man I know...
Mr Baxter is ninety-four years old when he falls down his staircase and grudgily finds himself resident at Melrose Gardens Retirement Home.
Baxter is many things - raconteur, retired music teacher, rabble-rouser, bon viveur - but 'good patient' he is not. He had every intention of living his twilight years with wine, music and revelry; not tea, telly and Tramadol. Indeed, Melrose Gardens is his worst nightmare - until he meets Gregory.
At only nineteen years of age, Greg has suffered a loss so heavy that he is in danger of giving up on life before he even gets going.
Determined to save the boy, Baxter decides to enlist his help on a mission to pay tribute to his long-lost love, Thomas: the man with whom he found true happiness; the man he waved off to fight in a senseless war; the man who never returned. The best man he ever knew.
With Gregory in tow Baxter sets out on a spirited escape from Melrose, bound for the war graves of Northern France. As Baxter shares his memories, the boy starts to see that life need not be a matter of mere endurance; that the world is huge and beautiful; that kindness is strength; and that the only way to honour the dead, is to live.
Baxter's Requiem is a glorious celebration of life, love and seizing every last second we have while we're here.
My Review
At ninety four years old Baxter is set in his ways, grumpy, no time for nonsense and likes what he likes. When a fall down the stairs sees him in a retirement home until he is able enough to go back to his own home he is forced amongst people and routine. He meets young Gregory, a young chap who starts work in the home, quiet, shy and a tad withdrawn. Baxter makes it his mission to break down Gregory's barriers and enlist him to help deal with something from his own past.
Gregory is a sweet kid under the outward exterior, dealing with a loss and struggling to have a relationship with his father. His life is very limited and lonely, possibly what draws Baxter. Baxter is a great character, funny in a grumpy no nonsense way he has a plan and the retirement home rules nor his age will stop him. An unlikely friendship grows and both men help each other deal with things in their lives, Gregory's now and Baxter's from the past.
We flip to Baxter's past, how he obtained his fortune and his one true love he never got to say goodbye to, Thomas. Called to war he never returned home and Baxter, knowing he doesn't have time to waste, wants to say goodbye.
Funny, sad, poignant, friendship, past, present, overcoming barriers and a whole host of emotion for these two main characters. It is a nice read, flipping between past and present, I would have liked the book to be longer, learned more about Baxter and Gregory but they always say a good author will leave you wanting more. This was my first time reading Crow, it won't be my last, I will be looking up his other works, 3.5/5 for me this time.
May 26, 2019
What a stunning book Baxter’s Requiem is! Meeting the character that is Baxter was memorable. A grumpy old man on the outside but with a wonderful wit and a huge heart on the inside! Greg is again another wonderful character, he is quiet and withdrawn in an almost moody way. With over 70 years separating these two there are bound to be differences but, actually not that many!
Both Greg and Baxter have personal stories in them. They are kept close and they almost protect them from the outside world. They are precious memories that they have built up and I can understand this almost secretive shield they have around them.
When Baxter and Greg meet it is at the care home that Baxter has been sent to recover from a fall. Baxter sees Greg as something more than quiet and withdrawn, he sees sorrow and pain. Baxter believes that he can help Greg somehow and so the process of building up a friendship and a bond begins.
It is not only Greg that needs help, Baxter does from a care point, but Baxter has something else in mind. He wants desperatley to go to France, it is something that means so much to him. So without realsining it Greg needs Baxter to help him to be able to live his life and break free of what holds him back. Baxcter needs Greg to break out and fulfil a heartbreaking promise to the man he loved.
I read this book 3 weeks ago and it is only now that I am coming back to my paper notes and what I thought. I have a lump in throat as I type this up, it reminds me how beautiful and poignant this story was. It shows that life can be so fragile and fleeting and also so full of love.
I loved the emotions that the author brought out of me with Baxter’s Requiem, smilrking at some of the one liners from Baxter only for the realisation that life has an expiry date. Care homes are often referred to as “Gods waiting room” but in Baxter’s case he sees them as “practising being dead and paying for the privalige”. This cracked me up and then the reality of what he said…
Sadness and a sort of melancholy was what I expected before I began this book. But then I found that it was heartwarming, moving, funny and yes there is sadness and heartbreak. but, this book wasn’t about that. This was a story that showed me a life lived, a life loved, a life apart and a life to come.
If you after a gorgeous, stunning, beautiful read then you seriously need to read this book. It get a Highly Recommended from Me!
Both Greg and Baxter have personal stories in them. They are kept close and they almost protect them from the outside world. They are precious memories that they have built up and I can understand this almost secretive shield they have around them.
When Baxter and Greg meet it is at the care home that Baxter has been sent to recover from a fall. Baxter sees Greg as something more than quiet and withdrawn, he sees sorrow and pain. Baxter believes that he can help Greg somehow and so the process of building up a friendship and a bond begins.
It is not only Greg that needs help, Baxter does from a care point, but Baxter has something else in mind. He wants desperatley to go to France, it is something that means so much to him. So without realsining it Greg needs Baxter to help him to be able to live his life and break free of what holds him back. Baxcter needs Greg to break out and fulfil a heartbreaking promise to the man he loved.
I read this book 3 weeks ago and it is only now that I am coming back to my paper notes and what I thought. I have a lump in throat as I type this up, it reminds me how beautiful and poignant this story was. It shows that life can be so fragile and fleeting and also so full of love.
I loved the emotions that the author brought out of me with Baxter’s Requiem, smilrking at some of the one liners from Baxter only for the realisation that life has an expiry date. Care homes are often referred to as “Gods waiting room” but in Baxter’s case he sees them as “practising being dead and paying for the privalige”. This cracked me up and then the reality of what he said…
Sadness and a sort of melancholy was what I expected before I began this book. But then I found that it was heartwarming, moving, funny and yes there is sadness and heartbreak. but, this book wasn’t about that. This was a story that showed me a life lived, a life loved, a life apart and a life to come.
If you after a gorgeous, stunning, beautiful read then you seriously need to read this book. It get a Highly Recommended from Me!
September 15, 2018
Thank you to publishers and NetGalley for providing me with access to this. A heartwarming tale of friendship, love and loss that had me laughing and crying in equal measure.
Baxter is a querulous 94 year old, argumentative on occasion but with a keen interest in those around him. Greg is 19 and beaten by his younger brother’s suicide. The two strike up an unlikely friendship, and so follows a charming story.
While Baxter is not immediately likeable, his heart is in the right place and as we come to know more of his story it’s easy to see his many positive qualities. Greg is uncomfortable with life and doesn’t know how to move on from the suicide of his brother as the bullying about him being gay became too much too take. Baxter’s story and the way it impacts on Greg was moving.
An author I’d not read before, and this was a story that appealed on a number of levels.
Baxter is a querulous 94 year old, argumentative on occasion but with a keen interest in those around him. Greg is 19 and beaten by his younger brother’s suicide. The two strike up an unlikely friendship, and so follows a charming story.
While Baxter is not immediately likeable, his heart is in the right place and as we come to know more of his story it’s easy to see his many positive qualities. Greg is uncomfortable with life and doesn’t know how to move on from the suicide of his brother as the bullying about him being gay became too much too take. Baxter’s story and the way it impacts on Greg was moving.
An author I’d not read before, and this was a story that appealed on a number of levels.
May 12, 2021
Have to thank the sublime choices in the Goldsboro Books Prem1er club, this is one I'd probably never have picked up normally, but what a delightfully well told tale it was.
The characters are so well rounded, the banter superb, the journey a delight. Baxter is a legend, would love to know someone like that, and his friendship with Winnie sounds a hoot, definitely needs a sequel.
Almost worthy of 5 stars but I'm docking it one for being a bit too brief, we needed more!
The characters are so well rounded, the banter superb, the journey a delight. Baxter is a legend, would love to know someone like that, and his friendship with Winnie sounds a hoot, definitely needs a sequel.
Almost worthy of 5 stars but I'm docking it one for being a bit too brief, we needed more!
September 12, 2018
I received a free copy via Netgalley in exchange for a honest review.
This is a nice mix of romance and general story.
Unfortunately it is very slow in places, but overall quite enjoyable.
This is a nice mix of romance and general story.
Unfortunately it is very slow in places, but overall quite enjoyable.
May 26, 2019
Mr Baxter is 94 years old and not happy to be a resident at Melrose Gardens Retirement Home. Greg is 19 and ends up working at the care home where he meets Baxter. Initially it doesn’t seem possible that a directionless young adult and forthright Baxter would get along but somehow they forge a connection.
I started reading this after lunch one day and I literally didn’t put it down until I’d turned the last page later on that afternoon. I was pulled into this story from the opening pages and I just had to keep reading.
I had a soft spot for Baxter from the start, he gives off a grumpy vibe but you can see very quickly that he has a great sense of humour. There is a moment very early on in the book when Baxter has a chat with his doctor about music and I properly laughed when I read it. My husband loves jazz and I can’t bear it so me and Baxter were like kindred spirits from the off!
‘”Are you fond of music?”
“I like jazz.”
“So that’s a no then […] If you can’t carry a tune then learn a f*cking trade”.
Baxter also has a real caring side for those who are struggling, he doesn’t show it all the time but you can sense it’s there. Greg made my heart ache; it’s so awful to read about a young person who is carrying so much on his shoulders. He has been through the most awful loss and he has no one in his life that he can talk to. His dad has shut down and won’t face up to things and so Greg is on his own with his grief. He ends up working at the retirement home and Baxter immediately realises that Greg isn’t just a sullen young man but is actually in such pain and torment.
‘[Greg] felt like there was a lifetime of conversation inside him, somewhere, and hoped that one day he’d find a companion who would encourage it to emerge.’
The friendship that grows between Greg and Baxter is heartwarming, I absolutely adored seeing them getting to know each other. It’s never mawkish despite the heartbreak that each of them has gone through – Matthew Crow hits the most perfect tone in the way these two men get to know more about each other. Baxter begins to bring Greg out of himself a bit more, and Greg seems to brighten Baxter’s days without even realising he’s doing it. Alongside this present day story we get to hear Baxter’s back story and I was enthralled. He found the great love of his life as quite a young man and for a while they lived in a cocoon in Baxter’s house. They were hopeful that one day they could go out as a couple but for that moment in time they were just so happy to have found each other. But then the war broke out and Thomas is called up. I shed tears when this happened, and again when he actually left. I can’t even begin to imagine what it must have been like to see your soul mate go off to war not knowing if you’ll ever get them back home with you again.
“When she passed […] it blew through me like a f*cking hurricane. Nobody understood, you see. Nobody had lost what I had lost. We’d all suffered, granted. But grief, it’s a different shape for everyone”.
“It’s a different size, too.”
Over the course of the novel we learn more about Greg’s story and, for me, it just began to feel like Greg and Baxter were destined to meet. Their paths crossed at a time when they both had a growing need for closure, for someone who would make time for them and they forged a beautiful friendship. I loved how Baxter helped Greg gain a bit more confidence to make friends with people around the home. It was wonderful to meet Winnifred – I want to be her when I grow up!
I almost didn’t sign up to read this book for the blog tour because I find it really upsetting to read about men lost in the war. My late Nan lost her first husband in the Second World War and finding the ‘missing presumed dead’ telegram about him after she died was one of the most heartbreaking moments in my life. It still makes me want to weep when I think about it all these years later. I’m so glad that I did pick Baxter’s Requiem up though because the tears I cried whilst reading it were cathartic and healing, and ultimately this book has a lot of joy radiating from its pages too.
I read this book a few weeks ago now and I still keep thinking about Baxter and Greg. They are two wonderful characters that I won’t ever forget! Baxter’s Requiem is one of those really special books that steal a piece of your heart, it’s now firmly on my favourites shelf and it will be a book that I re-read. It’s beautiful and moving, heartbreaking but also life-affirming… there just aren’t enough superlatives to do it justice, I just urge you to please go read it!
This review was originally posted on my blog https://rathertoofondofbooks.com
I started reading this after lunch one day and I literally didn’t put it down until I’d turned the last page later on that afternoon. I was pulled into this story from the opening pages and I just had to keep reading.
I had a soft spot for Baxter from the start, he gives off a grumpy vibe but you can see very quickly that he has a great sense of humour. There is a moment very early on in the book when Baxter has a chat with his doctor about music and I properly laughed when I read it. My husband loves jazz and I can’t bear it so me and Baxter were like kindred spirits from the off!
‘”Are you fond of music?”
“I like jazz.”
“So that’s a no then […] If you can’t carry a tune then learn a f*cking trade”.
Baxter also has a real caring side for those who are struggling, he doesn’t show it all the time but you can sense it’s there. Greg made my heart ache; it’s so awful to read about a young person who is carrying so much on his shoulders. He has been through the most awful loss and he has no one in his life that he can talk to. His dad has shut down and won’t face up to things and so Greg is on his own with his grief. He ends up working at the retirement home and Baxter immediately realises that Greg isn’t just a sullen young man but is actually in such pain and torment.
‘[Greg] felt like there was a lifetime of conversation inside him, somewhere, and hoped that one day he’d find a companion who would encourage it to emerge.’
The friendship that grows between Greg and Baxter is heartwarming, I absolutely adored seeing them getting to know each other. It’s never mawkish despite the heartbreak that each of them has gone through – Matthew Crow hits the most perfect tone in the way these two men get to know more about each other. Baxter begins to bring Greg out of himself a bit more, and Greg seems to brighten Baxter’s days without even realising he’s doing it. Alongside this present day story we get to hear Baxter’s back story and I was enthralled. He found the great love of his life as quite a young man and for a while they lived in a cocoon in Baxter’s house. They were hopeful that one day they could go out as a couple but for that moment in time they were just so happy to have found each other. But then the war broke out and Thomas is called up. I shed tears when this happened, and again when he actually left. I can’t even begin to imagine what it must have been like to see your soul mate go off to war not knowing if you’ll ever get them back home with you again.
“When she passed […] it blew through me like a f*cking hurricane. Nobody understood, you see. Nobody had lost what I had lost. We’d all suffered, granted. But grief, it’s a different shape for everyone”.
“It’s a different size, too.”
Over the course of the novel we learn more about Greg’s story and, for me, it just began to feel like Greg and Baxter were destined to meet. Their paths crossed at a time when they both had a growing need for closure, for someone who would make time for them and they forged a beautiful friendship. I loved how Baxter helped Greg gain a bit more confidence to make friends with people around the home. It was wonderful to meet Winnifred – I want to be her when I grow up!
I almost didn’t sign up to read this book for the blog tour because I find it really upsetting to read about men lost in the war. My late Nan lost her first husband in the Second World War and finding the ‘missing presumed dead’ telegram about him after she died was one of the most heartbreaking moments in my life. It still makes me want to weep when I think about it all these years later. I’m so glad that I did pick Baxter’s Requiem up though because the tears I cried whilst reading it were cathartic and healing, and ultimately this book has a lot of joy radiating from its pages too.
I read this book a few weeks ago now and I still keep thinking about Baxter and Greg. They are two wonderful characters that I won’t ever forget! Baxter’s Requiem is one of those really special books that steal a piece of your heart, it’s now firmly on my favourites shelf and it will be a book that I re-read. It’s beautiful and moving, heartbreaking but also life-affirming… there just aren’t enough superlatives to do it justice, I just urge you to please go read it!
This review was originally posted on my blog https://rathertoofondofbooks.com
January 30, 2020
This book had slipped down my TBR but once I rediscovered it I dived right in and loved it. I was laughing out loud in just a few pages and that carried on for most of the book. It takes a lot to make me actually vocalise my laughing rather than just a "ah that's funny" internal vocalisation.
The main character in the book is Mr Baxter, he's 94 and got the best sense of humour, although others in the book may not agree with that. To give you a little flavour - Mr Baxter asks "are you fond of music" and the reply is "I like Jazz". To which Mr Baxter replies "So that's a no then".
Apart from the wit of Mr Baxter and his exploits in the retirement home, the book has several other levels to it. Greg who works at the retirement home becomes a sidekick to Mr Baxter. At only 19 years old Greg has his own inner battles to fight but surprisingly finds an alliance with Mr Baxter.
The two of them take off to France and find out a lot more about each other and the loss they've both experienced gives them a bond. Whilst in France Mr Baxter opens up more about exactly why he wanted to visit the war graves and the story begins to be told from the perspective of the man he came to France to honour in a flashback to the second world war. At this point the book takes a very poignant turn, with no spoilers I will say no more about how that turns out.
All of the characters in the book are so vivid in their descriptions and actions that you begin to feel you've met all of them. It's a very amusing book, but with a deep message, it takes no effort to read. What appears on the surface to be a tale of every day life suddenly grabs you and makes you wish you could re write history.
The main character in the book is Mr Baxter, he's 94 and got the best sense of humour, although others in the book may not agree with that. To give you a little flavour - Mr Baxter asks "are you fond of music" and the reply is "I like Jazz". To which Mr Baxter replies "So that's a no then".
Apart from the wit of Mr Baxter and his exploits in the retirement home, the book has several other levels to it. Greg who works at the retirement home becomes a sidekick to Mr Baxter. At only 19 years old Greg has his own inner battles to fight but surprisingly finds an alliance with Mr Baxter.
The two of them take off to France and find out a lot more about each other and the loss they've both experienced gives them a bond. Whilst in France Mr Baxter opens up more about exactly why he wanted to visit the war graves and the story begins to be told from the perspective of the man he came to France to honour in a flashback to the second world war. At this point the book takes a very poignant turn, with no spoilers I will say no more about how that turns out.
All of the characters in the book are so vivid in their descriptions and actions that you begin to feel you've met all of them. It's a very amusing book, but with a deep message, it takes no effort to read. What appears on the surface to be a tale of every day life suddenly grabs you and makes you wish you could re write history.
April 30, 2019
A charming story about a gent in his 90s becoming friends with a boy of 19. Both are dealing with issues and the story is well written. Bit slow in places but an easy read. I just felt the ending was a bit abrupt and would have liked to know what became of the characters.
April 22, 2019
A few years ago I lost my brother suddenly, it was a cataclysmic shock and in the dark weeks and months that followed books became my lifeline, allowing me some respite from the raw grief tearing at my heart. How I wish Baxter's Requiem had been published at the time because this wonderful book touched my heart so deeply in the way only the very best stories can.
I could very readily empathise with Greg's loss and at just nineteen it's hardly surprising that he has been left floundering. His grief and guilt threatens to overwhelm him but then he grudgingly starts work at Melrose Gardens Retirement Home. The newest and rather reluctant resident there is ninety-four year old Mr Baxter who has come to stay temporarily following a fall in his own home. Baxter delights in being a troublemaker but for all his infuriating ways, he soon becomes a favourite among the staff. He sees the goodness in the diffident Greg and makes the decision to find out why he has been so hurt and to help him move on from that. Having experienced his own life-changing loss, he has an intense understanding of what it means to live without the person you were once closest to in the world.
Alongside the contemporary storyline, there are scenes set in the past which reveal how Baxter and Thomas found one another and it's clear that theirs was a once in a lifetime love. Back then, of course, they couldn't be open about their relationship but nevertheless they created their own perfect world for two until war cruelly infiltrated their happiness. Now in the twilight of his life, the still irrepressible Baxter wants to say goodbye to the best man he ever knew; his biggest fear is that when he is gone, Thomas will be forgotten. He never found out what happened to Thomas, who was declared missing, presumed dead but as he never returned, Baxter assumes he must be lying in an unmarked grave in France. The contrast between his devil-may-care attitude and his overwhelming need to make this journey is a touching demonstration of just what it means to him and it's not surprising that even those who are inconvenienced by his choices, can't help but will him to succeed. He enlists Greg's help and together they make a poignant pilgrimage to his lover's final resting place and in doing so, Greg begins to realise there is a world beyond the prison of his mournful self-condemnation.
The unlikely connection between the wily old rascal, Baxter who has seen and done it all and the stagnating Greg who still lives with his dad - a man unwilling or unable to be the supportive father his son so desperately needs - is a moving reminder that the unlikeliest of people can form meaningful bonds which transform their lives. I grew to love both men; Baxter reminded me of my Grandad, another man who never lost the twinkle in his eye or his ability to relate to others despite his own personal tragedies and Greg is revealed to be a thoughtful, compassionate young man, weighed down by his troubles but with a rare capacity for self-reflection. It's not just the two main characters who are so vividly created, the secondary characters also leap from the page to become real people. My firm favourite has to be Baxter's friend and fellow mischief-maker, Winnie who is a terrible influence on those around her and is a loving, warm and open-hearted woman always looking to see the good in people. I also loved Suzanne and Ramila; the former is manager of Melrose whose authoritative manner slips at times to reveal a woman who cares deeply about her residents and staff and is prepared to turn a blind eye to their misdemeanours, and the latter is arguably the world's worst receptionist - she begrudges having to do any work, flagrantly breaks the rules and has a terrible attitude towards authority and yet to see Greg's response to her genuine overtures of friendship and possibly more is heartwarming.
Despite the emotive subjects explored throughout the novel, it's actually often a very witty read and never becomes overly dispiriting or sentimental. Baxter's Requiem is an exquisitely beautiful story which has been crafted with love and an authentic, honest perceptiveness making it a life-affirming reminder of the importance of kindness, friendship and hope. I speak from experience when I say that books such as this will become a beacon of light to those who most need it. It acknowledges the shattering pain of loss but also accepts that such agony can only exist for those who have experienced the joys of a lasting love, whether romantic, familial or platonic. The best tribute to those who have gone is to, as Baxter says, " Live your life, live it bravely and beautifully." I cannot recommend this wise, emotional and unforgettable novel highly enough and feel immensely privileged to have read it, I urge you to do the same.
I could very readily empathise with Greg's loss and at just nineteen it's hardly surprising that he has been left floundering. His grief and guilt threatens to overwhelm him but then he grudgingly starts work at Melrose Gardens Retirement Home. The newest and rather reluctant resident there is ninety-four year old Mr Baxter who has come to stay temporarily following a fall in his own home. Baxter delights in being a troublemaker but for all his infuriating ways, he soon becomes a favourite among the staff. He sees the goodness in the diffident Greg and makes the decision to find out why he has been so hurt and to help him move on from that. Having experienced his own life-changing loss, he has an intense understanding of what it means to live without the person you were once closest to in the world.
Alongside the contemporary storyline, there are scenes set in the past which reveal how Baxter and Thomas found one another and it's clear that theirs was a once in a lifetime love. Back then, of course, they couldn't be open about their relationship but nevertheless they created their own perfect world for two until war cruelly infiltrated their happiness. Now in the twilight of his life, the still irrepressible Baxter wants to say goodbye to the best man he ever knew; his biggest fear is that when he is gone, Thomas will be forgotten. He never found out what happened to Thomas, who was declared missing, presumed dead but as he never returned, Baxter assumes he must be lying in an unmarked grave in France. The contrast between his devil-may-care attitude and his overwhelming need to make this journey is a touching demonstration of just what it means to him and it's not surprising that even those who are inconvenienced by his choices, can't help but will him to succeed. He enlists Greg's help and together they make a poignant pilgrimage to his lover's final resting place and in doing so, Greg begins to realise there is a world beyond the prison of his mournful self-condemnation.
The unlikely connection between the wily old rascal, Baxter who has seen and done it all and the stagnating Greg who still lives with his dad - a man unwilling or unable to be the supportive father his son so desperately needs - is a moving reminder that the unlikeliest of people can form meaningful bonds which transform their lives. I grew to love both men; Baxter reminded me of my Grandad, another man who never lost the twinkle in his eye or his ability to relate to others despite his own personal tragedies and Greg is revealed to be a thoughtful, compassionate young man, weighed down by his troubles but with a rare capacity for self-reflection. It's not just the two main characters who are so vividly created, the secondary characters also leap from the page to become real people. My firm favourite has to be Baxter's friend and fellow mischief-maker, Winnie who is a terrible influence on those around her and is a loving, warm and open-hearted woman always looking to see the good in people. I also loved Suzanne and Ramila; the former is manager of Melrose whose authoritative manner slips at times to reveal a woman who cares deeply about her residents and staff and is prepared to turn a blind eye to their misdemeanours, and the latter is arguably the world's worst receptionist - she begrudges having to do any work, flagrantly breaks the rules and has a terrible attitude towards authority and yet to see Greg's response to her genuine overtures of friendship and possibly more is heartwarming.
Despite the emotive subjects explored throughout the novel, it's actually often a very witty read and never becomes overly dispiriting or sentimental. Baxter's Requiem is an exquisitely beautiful story which has been crafted with love and an authentic, honest perceptiveness making it a life-affirming reminder of the importance of kindness, friendship and hope. I speak from experience when I say that books such as this will become a beacon of light to those who most need it. It acknowledges the shattering pain of loss but also accepts that such agony can only exist for those who have experienced the joys of a lasting love, whether romantic, familial or platonic. The best tribute to those who have gone is to, as Baxter says, " Live your life, live it bravely and beautifully." I cannot recommend this wise, emotional and unforgettable novel highly enough and feel immensely privileged to have read it, I urge you to do the same.
April 29, 2019
An old love, a recent tragedy, and such wonderful characters that I would love to meet, this is a book that made me laugh and cry. Baxter’s determination, his mischief and back story is a tremendous achievement in a relatively short read. The other characters; the distraught Greg, the cheeky Ramila, the sensible Suzanne all combine to give an alternative lifestyle for Baxter, but his memories and the wonderful Winnie keep his determination going. Baxter is an unstoppable force, yet there is such tenderness and love within this book for the lost and also the new, such a determination to give a new life to a young man who has shut down. I really revelled in this book, with such a powerful message of life and purpose. I was so pleased to have the opportunity to read and review this book with its life affirming message.
The book opens in Melrose Gardens Retirement Home, with Baxter receiving bad news from a doctor, which he takes with what is his evidently usual philosophical reactions. He tells the nervous young doctor “You don’t always have to take it so seriously. Ask me something normal.Treat me like a human being.There’s a roomful of clues and conversational prompts”. When he returns to his house, his old friend, with Greg and Ramila, he realises that he must act swiftly to say farewell to the person that he had found love with so long ago. He has also realised that Greg has shut down from all his former bright promise, for reasons that only gradually emerge. As he lays his plans, he meets up with old friends and the one person who can remember his great love, who herself is a memorable and very funny character. As memories flood in, the humour and love of a time past become vividly realised. Meanwhile Greg’s raw pain emerges as he tries to cope with a life that has hurt him so badly, as he tries desperately to connect with his father. Baxter’s resilience and dry humour punctuates and motivates this book, yet it conceals deep loves and a deep sense of what must be done.
In short, this is a tremendous book and I found it a real treat to read. It is a tremendously funny book, yet the underlying pain of loss is always present. I really enjoyed the humour, the characters, and the plot which resolves so much. It covers the mess of the First World War, with its lack of direction for many soldiers and its sharply defined prejudices. It also protests against the current pressure to conform to expectations for the young at school and the old in institutions; it requires two amazing women to overturn the rules at school and and in a home, with great and lasting effect. While I was saddened by the waste of life as a result of prejudice, I was enthused by its message, that life can be wonderful and needs to grasped. Hope, humour and love can overcome loss, which is the message of this novel. Just read this book, it is wonderful.
September 6, 2018
Baxter’s Requiem piqued my interest with its cross-generational friendship and an elderly hero unwilling to give up on life just yet. I’m quite partial to both of these in fiction as much as in real life.
I have to admit that it took me a little while to warm to Baxter, simply because while he is chafing away at being in the home, he is loud and rambunctious. I liked him a whole lot better, as I learned more of his backstory, which I found incredibly touching. I admired his attitude towards life and that he wanted to use what was left of his to help others. He is a remarkable character.
Greg is much easier to empathise with from the outset. He’s starting a new job, has a difficult home life with little hope of support or even sympathy there, and no friends to speak of since having left school. He’s withdrawn from the world but despite this, he’s funny, observant, resourceful, and clearly not stupid.
Among the supporting characters, special mentions go to Winnifred who is a wild and wonderful woman, especially on her mobility scooter; the home receptionist Ramila who chivvies Greg into a friendship before he realises it; and Susanne, the manager of the home, who has a bark worse than her bite but still sees her charges and staff as people first. She’s surprisingly good at reading people and allowing them the space or time they need. Even Teddy, Greg’s dad, has a late rally and leaves room for hope that there’s a more positive future in store for father and son.
Peggy, Michael and Thomas all exert a powerful influence over Baxter’s Requiem despite already being dead by the time the book opens. From the tenderness with which Matthew Crow tells their stories, I couldn’t help but also mourn their loss while starting to understand what they meant to those left behind. Reading was a bittersweet experience and Thomas’ story especially broke me. Which left me with nothing but anger and pure venom directed at two minor characters and what they represented at this time.
Greg and Mr Baxter’s friendship may be the one that’s at the heart of this story but, by the end of Matthew Crow’s book, there are others in evidence. And it's those different age groups socialising, interacting and even working together in Baxter’s Requiem that ultimately left me feeling optimistic. Hopeful that what was once hidden and feared, even persecuted, would now be openly celebrated and free.
Told with genuine warmth and humour, Baxter’s Requiem is a moving story of friendship, family (be it biological or nurtured), loss, love and, above all, kindness which packs a real emotional punch.
I have to admit that it took me a little while to warm to Baxter, simply because while he is chafing away at being in the home, he is loud and rambunctious. I liked him a whole lot better, as I learned more of his backstory, which I found incredibly touching. I admired his attitude towards life and that he wanted to use what was left of his to help others. He is a remarkable character.
Greg is much easier to empathise with from the outset. He’s starting a new job, has a difficult home life with little hope of support or even sympathy there, and no friends to speak of since having left school. He’s withdrawn from the world but despite this, he’s funny, observant, resourceful, and clearly not stupid.
Among the supporting characters, special mentions go to Winnifred who is a wild and wonderful woman, especially on her mobility scooter; the home receptionist Ramila who chivvies Greg into a friendship before he realises it; and Susanne, the manager of the home, who has a bark worse than her bite but still sees her charges and staff as people first. She’s surprisingly good at reading people and allowing them the space or time they need. Even Teddy, Greg’s dad, has a late rally and leaves room for hope that there’s a more positive future in store for father and son.
Peggy, Michael and Thomas all exert a powerful influence over Baxter’s Requiem despite already being dead by the time the book opens. From the tenderness with which Matthew Crow tells their stories, I couldn’t help but also mourn their loss while starting to understand what they meant to those left behind. Reading was a bittersweet experience and Thomas’ story especially broke me. Which left me with nothing but anger and pure venom directed at two minor characters and what they represented at this time.
Greg and Mr Baxter’s friendship may be the one that’s at the heart of this story but, by the end of Matthew Crow’s book, there are others in evidence. And it's those different age groups socialising, interacting and even working together in Baxter’s Requiem that ultimately left me feeling optimistic. Hopeful that what was once hidden and feared, even persecuted, would now be openly celebrated and free.
Told with genuine warmth and humour, Baxter’s Requiem is a moving story of friendship, family (be it biological or nurtured), loss, love and, above all, kindness which packs a real emotional punch.
September 24, 2018
Oh! What a pure delight. Perfect Read.
Mr Baxter is ninety-four-years old and has been forced to move into the Melrose Gardens Retirement Home. This is not to his liking. His independence curbed and rules and timetables to govern his day, can he survive in this environment?
Greg Cullock is eighteen-years old. Thrown out of school, after trying to defend his deceased brother’s character, he has reluctantly become a member of staff at the Retirement Home. He’s a broken soul. He has a lousy relationship with his father, more so now than ever before as his father seems incapable of acknowledging that his younger son Michael’s suicide was a result of being bullied for being gay.
Baxter realises that somehow Greg must be helped to once again find enjoyment in life and invites Greg to accompany him to France where his partner, Thomas, lies in an unmarked grave in a war cemetery.
This is truly one of the most beautifully written books that I’ve had the pleasure to bury myself in for a long time. Mr Baxter (we never do find out what his first name is) is a solid, wonderful man who has made the best of his life, regardless of the sadness at losing his soulmate during the war. He is exasperating, as he will not conform to how a ninety-four-year old man is supposed to “behave” but with all of this, still loved and admired by all.
Greg’s story is tragic, and even more disturbing is the fact that his brother suffered years of abuse and bullying because he was “different” to what society considers to be the “norm.”
There are others in this story who, too, are larger than life and yet never too overpowering.
This is a book that should be read with a cup of hot chocolate next to you. Maybe have a box of tissues at the ready (I don’t often get emotional while reading, but this book found me reaching for the tissues several times) and a sign on the door saying “Do not disturb” until you’ve reached the final page.
I want to add a paragraph that so perfectly sums up this book and the central character perfectly. Baxter’s reminiscence - “Life, it is safe to say, had been exhausting. The entire thing seemed just a messy cacophony; a song played once that could never be repeated. And yet given the chance, he’d do it again in a heartbeat, without changing one moment, whether or not he could survive it a second time over.”
Matthew Crow, this is one novel that I shall remember for a very long time.
Imbali
Breakaway Reviewers received a copy of the book to review.
Mr Baxter is ninety-four-years old and has been forced to move into the Melrose Gardens Retirement Home. This is not to his liking. His independence curbed and rules and timetables to govern his day, can he survive in this environment?
Greg Cullock is eighteen-years old. Thrown out of school, after trying to defend his deceased brother’s character, he has reluctantly become a member of staff at the Retirement Home. He’s a broken soul. He has a lousy relationship with his father, more so now than ever before as his father seems incapable of acknowledging that his younger son Michael’s suicide was a result of being bullied for being gay.
Baxter realises that somehow Greg must be helped to once again find enjoyment in life and invites Greg to accompany him to France where his partner, Thomas, lies in an unmarked grave in a war cemetery.
This is truly one of the most beautifully written books that I’ve had the pleasure to bury myself in for a long time. Mr Baxter (we never do find out what his first name is) is a solid, wonderful man who has made the best of his life, regardless of the sadness at losing his soulmate during the war. He is exasperating, as he will not conform to how a ninety-four-year old man is supposed to “behave” but with all of this, still loved and admired by all.
Greg’s story is tragic, and even more disturbing is the fact that his brother suffered years of abuse and bullying because he was “different” to what society considers to be the “norm.”
There are others in this story who, too, are larger than life and yet never too overpowering.
This is a book that should be read with a cup of hot chocolate next to you. Maybe have a box of tissues at the ready (I don’t often get emotional while reading, but this book found me reaching for the tissues several times) and a sign on the door saying “Do not disturb” until you’ve reached the final page.
I want to add a paragraph that so perfectly sums up this book and the central character perfectly. Baxter’s reminiscence - “Life, it is safe to say, had been exhausting. The entire thing seemed just a messy cacophony; a song played once that could never be repeated. And yet given the chance, he’d do it again in a heartbeat, without changing one moment, whether or not he could survive it a second time over.”
Matthew Crow, this is one novel that I shall remember for a very long time.
Imbali
Breakaway Reviewers received a copy of the book to review.
September 3, 2018
This is such a wonderful story. I remember whist reading it that I thought there really wasn't too much going on but, by the time I finished it and sat back and pondered on what I had just read, I realised that there was so much more to the story than on face value.
Baxter has been pretty much forced into moving into a home. He is not really happy with this decision and initially tries to push boundaries as he rocks the boat. But then he gets to know one of the employees, Greg, a young man who is floundering a bit in his own life. They realise that they have one key thing in common; the loss of a loved one and appear to bond over this. With Baxter not too much longer for the world, there is something he needs to do and needs Greg's help to do it, and hopefully, maybe, help Greg along the way.
I took to the two main characters right from the off. They both tugged at my heart-strings more and more as I got to know them better. Baxter's backstory was especially poignant for many reasons and had me smiling and crying in equal measure as more was revealed. Greg's story is only just beginning but, like us all, he needs a bit of guidance and as his friendship with Baxter grows, he appears to have found his source.
What really gripped me about this book, what impressed me the most is the way it was told. It was simply told as it was, with no agenda that I could see, just pure, beautiful storytelling. It was a very emotional read for me, probably for that reason. I also really gelled with the author's style from the off, the book pretty much reading itself to me with no effort really required.
Being a new author to me, obviously I went to see what else he has written and was delighted to find a whole back catalogue to check out further. The fact that they appear to be YA does not deter me as I have read some cracking YA books before. It also got me thinking that maybe one of the reasons I loved this book so much was that as I was reading it, it reminded me a little of Matthew Quick in characterisation and style. Quick is another author who writes cracking YA books and who also happens to be my favourite author.
All in all, a delightful read that held my attention nicely throughout and left me satisfied, albeit a bit emotionally spent, at the end. My thanks go to the Publisher and Netgalley for the chance to read this book
Baxter has been pretty much forced into moving into a home. He is not really happy with this decision and initially tries to push boundaries as he rocks the boat. But then he gets to know one of the employees, Greg, a young man who is floundering a bit in his own life. They realise that they have one key thing in common; the loss of a loved one and appear to bond over this. With Baxter not too much longer for the world, there is something he needs to do and needs Greg's help to do it, and hopefully, maybe, help Greg along the way.
I took to the two main characters right from the off. They both tugged at my heart-strings more and more as I got to know them better. Baxter's backstory was especially poignant for many reasons and had me smiling and crying in equal measure as more was revealed. Greg's story is only just beginning but, like us all, he needs a bit of guidance and as his friendship with Baxter grows, he appears to have found his source.
What really gripped me about this book, what impressed me the most is the way it was told. It was simply told as it was, with no agenda that I could see, just pure, beautiful storytelling. It was a very emotional read for me, probably for that reason. I also really gelled with the author's style from the off, the book pretty much reading itself to me with no effort really required.
Being a new author to me, obviously I went to see what else he has written and was delighted to find a whole back catalogue to check out further. The fact that they appear to be YA does not deter me as I have read some cracking YA books before. It also got me thinking that maybe one of the reasons I loved this book so much was that as I was reading it, it reminded me a little of Matthew Quick in characterisation and style. Quick is another author who writes cracking YA books and who also happens to be my favourite author.
All in all, a delightful read that held my attention nicely throughout and left me satisfied, albeit a bit emotionally spent, at the end. My thanks go to the Publisher and Netgalley for the chance to read this book
September 10, 2018
Firstly, I want to say thank you to the publishers who kindly gave me a copy of this novel to review.
This novel follows 94-years-young Mr. Baxter, who has been told he has a year to live and is move from his house into a Home. Whilst Baxter is there trying to keep living his life, he meets teenage Greg, who is merely surviving. Baxter takes it upon himself to ensure his last adventure is the first of many for Greg.
I adored Baxter and Greg, not only were they a great duo but they also worked well apart. Baxter is stubborn but lovable, who has so much knowledge, wisdom, and wit. It was easy to see why the nursing staff loved him so much, even if he did make their jobs more difficult. I really enjoyed seeing his interactions with other characters, especially his old friend Winnie.
The contrast between them and Greg was well written and they complemented each other well. Baxter was charming and charismatic, whereas Greg was more standoffish and reserved. It was great seeing Greg develop throughout the novel and seeing him begin to come to terms with his tragic loss.
Although it felt a little rushed at times towards the end, the plot was well explored and executed. I loved the way Crow slowly revealed more about the characters and their pasts. It’s through this you realise how similar Greg and Baxter are on a deeper level which makes them make sense as a duo. I also enjoyed the mix of having their stories told to us by themselves and other characters, and through the use of flashbacks.
Both of their stories were beautiful and tragic. I could have easily read an entire novel on Baxter and Thomas. Seeing them in the flashbacks was a lovely touch and I loved being able to experience Thomas himself and not just through Baxter’s words. I would have loved to have seen more of Greg after the trip to France for some closture, however, leaving it the way Crow did gives the end a sense of hope and made me feel warm reading it.
Overall, I really enjoyed this novel and getting to know both Baxter and Greg. After reading this I’m going to check out more of Crow’s work. This novel is released on Thursday 6 September 2018 and it’s definitely worth picking up!
This novel follows 94-years-young Mr. Baxter, who has been told he has a year to live and is move from his house into a Home. Whilst Baxter is there trying to keep living his life, he meets teenage Greg, who is merely surviving. Baxter takes it upon himself to ensure his last adventure is the first of many for Greg.
I adored Baxter and Greg, not only were they a great duo but they also worked well apart. Baxter is stubborn but lovable, who has so much knowledge, wisdom, and wit. It was easy to see why the nursing staff loved him so much, even if he did make their jobs more difficult. I really enjoyed seeing his interactions with other characters, especially his old friend Winnie.
The contrast between them and Greg was well written and they complemented each other well. Baxter was charming and charismatic, whereas Greg was more standoffish and reserved. It was great seeing Greg develop throughout the novel and seeing him begin to come to terms with his tragic loss.
Although it felt a little rushed at times towards the end, the plot was well explored and executed. I loved the way Crow slowly revealed more about the characters and their pasts. It’s through this you realise how similar Greg and Baxter are on a deeper level which makes them make sense as a duo. I also enjoyed the mix of having their stories told to us by themselves and other characters, and through the use of flashbacks.
Both of their stories were beautiful and tragic. I could have easily read an entire novel on Baxter and Thomas. Seeing them in the flashbacks was a lovely touch and I loved being able to experience Thomas himself and not just through Baxter’s words. I would have loved to have seen more of Greg after the trip to France for some closture, however, leaving it the way Crow did gives the end a sense of hope and made me feel warm reading it.
Overall, I really enjoyed this novel and getting to know both Baxter and Greg. After reading this I’m going to check out more of Crow’s work. This novel is released on Thursday 6 September 2018 and it’s definitely worth picking up!
April 22, 2019
Baxter's Requiem is a precious story, one that needed to be told and one that I won't forget in a long time. This is my first introduction to the work of Matthew Crow and I couldn't get enough of the story and I wanted to continue with the characters journeys.
I fell in love with Baxter, a cantankerous old man who had so much spark and spirit within him. Baxter had been given a stark warning by his Dr and Baxter knew that it was time to put his mission into action. A mission that he's planned for a long time. For Baxter was harbouring a deep loss within him and he wanted to make a momentous journey to pay his respects and say his farewells.
Greg is a sullen teenager that hasn't been working at the care home for long. Greg doesn't know what he's doing with his life, he turns up for work and goes home and that's all he feels capable of. Baxter has taken a shine to Greg, he sees a kinship in him and wishes to pass on some of the wisdom he has accrued to this young lad. The kinship they share is of a grief that has evoked many conflicting emotions of anger, despair, loss and sadness.
The author Matthew Crow has created a fabulous character in Baxter, he's very relatable but there's something unique and special about him. There were so many sharp-witted and warm-witted scenes with Baxter that had me hooting with laughter and filled me with joy. This is quite a talent for an author to talk about loss and sadness but evoke so much love and spirit within the storyline.
Baxter's Requiem is a remarkable beautiful story that is so tragic and poignant but there is an overwhelming uplifting feel throughout. I loved it!
I fell in love with Baxter, a cantankerous old man who had so much spark and spirit within him. Baxter had been given a stark warning by his Dr and Baxter knew that it was time to put his mission into action. A mission that he's planned for a long time. For Baxter was harbouring a deep loss within him and he wanted to make a momentous journey to pay his respects and say his farewells.
Greg is a sullen teenager that hasn't been working at the care home for long. Greg doesn't know what he's doing with his life, he turns up for work and goes home and that's all he feels capable of. Baxter has taken a shine to Greg, he sees a kinship in him and wishes to pass on some of the wisdom he has accrued to this young lad. The kinship they share is of a grief that has evoked many conflicting emotions of anger, despair, loss and sadness.
The author Matthew Crow has created a fabulous character in Baxter, he's very relatable but there's something unique and special about him. There were so many sharp-witted and warm-witted scenes with Baxter that had me hooting with laughter and filled me with joy. This is quite a talent for an author to talk about loss and sadness but evoke so much love and spirit within the storyline.
Baxter's Requiem is a remarkable beautiful story that is so tragic and poignant but there is an overwhelming uplifting feel throughout. I loved it!
April 11, 2023
Baxter's Requiem is a heart-wrenching and beautifully written novel that delves deep into the human psyche and explores themes of grief, loss, and redemption. The story follows Baxter, a terminally ill teenager who is struggling to come to terms with his imminent death. As he grapples with his own mortality, he meets an eccentric cast of characters who help him navigate his emotions and find a sense of purpose in his final days.
One of the things I loved about this book was the authenticity of the characters. Baxter, in particular, is a deeply flawed and relatable protagonist who you can't help but root for. His voice is raw and honest, and his inner monologues are a masterclass in introspection. The supporting characters, from his quirky neighbor to his estranged father, are also well-drawn and add depth to the story.
The writing in Baxter's Requiem is superb. Matthew Crow has a way with words that is both poetic and precise, and his prose flows effortlessly from page to page. He tackles heavy subjects with sensitivity and compassion, but he also injects moments of humor and levity that prevent the book from becoming too dark or maudlin.
Ultimately, Baxter's Requiem is a story about life, not death. It's a reminder to live each day to the fullest and to find beauty in even the most difficult of circumstances. This is a book that will stay with you long after you turn the last page. I highly recommend it to anyone looking for a poignant and uplifting read.
One of the things I loved about this book was the authenticity of the characters. Baxter, in particular, is a deeply flawed and relatable protagonist who you can't help but root for. His voice is raw and honest, and his inner monologues are a masterclass in introspection. The supporting characters, from his quirky neighbor to his estranged father, are also well-drawn and add depth to the story.
The writing in Baxter's Requiem is superb. Matthew Crow has a way with words that is both poetic and precise, and his prose flows effortlessly from page to page. He tackles heavy subjects with sensitivity and compassion, but he also injects moments of humor and levity that prevent the book from becoming too dark or maudlin.
Ultimately, Baxter's Requiem is a story about life, not death. It's a reminder to live each day to the fullest and to find beauty in even the most difficult of circumstances. This is a book that will stay with you long after you turn the last page. I highly recommend it to anyone looking for a poignant and uplifting read.
October 24, 2019
Beaucoup, beaucoup de mal à rentrer dedans. L'histoire de départ me faisait beaucoup penser à Grégoire et le vieux libraire, que j'ai lu il y a peu de temps et qui n'a clairement pas été un coup de cœur...
J'ai fait des pauses, repris ma lecture... et c'est finalement passé la moitié, voir le dernier tiers atteint que j'ai commencé à vraiment apprécier et à avoir envie de découvrir la suite. A ce stade, les personnages semblent plus intéressants, on en sait plus sur eux et leur histoire.
Je pense qu'en fait le mystère sur chacun d'eux est trop épais trop longtemps à mon goût. J'aime avoir quelques éléments sous la dent au bon moment pour avoir envie de continuer...
Alors, c'est peut être aussi parce que j'avais une version "épreuves non corrigées", mais j'ai trouvé qu'il y avait quelques passages pas très clairs, je pense du fait de la traduction. A voir si cette impression reste dans la version définitive.
Aussi, pas forcément convaincue par certains autres passages. Je pense ici aux scènes racontant la guerre et la vie de Thomas et des soldats pendant la guerre. Je ne suis pas une spécialiste, mais cela ne me semble pas précis historiquement. Je ne parle pas de la mort de Thomas, je n'ai aucune idée de comment ce genre de situation pouvait se passer à cette époque sur le front.
Dommage qu'il ait fallu attendre plus de la moitié pour trouver cette lecture prenante.
J'ai fait des pauses, repris ma lecture... et c'est finalement passé la moitié, voir le dernier tiers atteint que j'ai commencé à vraiment apprécier et à avoir envie de découvrir la suite. A ce stade, les personnages semblent plus intéressants, on en sait plus sur eux et leur histoire.
Je pense qu'en fait le mystère sur chacun d'eux est trop épais trop longtemps à mon goût. J'aime avoir quelques éléments sous la dent au bon moment pour avoir envie de continuer...
Alors, c'est peut être aussi parce que j'avais une version "épreuves non corrigées", mais j'ai trouvé qu'il y avait quelques passages pas très clairs, je pense du fait de la traduction. A voir si cette impression reste dans la version définitive.
Aussi, pas forcément convaincue par certains autres passages. Je pense ici aux scènes racontant la guerre et la vie de Thomas et des soldats pendant la guerre. Je ne suis pas une spécialiste, mais cela ne me semble pas précis historiquement. Je ne parle pas de la mort de Thomas, je n'ai aucune idée de comment ce genre de situation pouvait se passer à cette époque sur le front.
Dommage qu'il ait fallu attendre plus de la moitié pour trouver cette lecture prenante.
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September 5, 2018
A warm story about love, loss and finding your way back.
Greg's brother has committed suicide. He's given up on life now, ending up in a care home job, living with his subsisting father and grieving. One bright spark in his life is the nonagenarian Baxter, a former music teacher and distinctly sharp resident keen to both help the young man and put to rest a grieving from his own past.
We weave in and out of the present as Baxter's history is presented to us, and see its effect on Greg as he uses Baxter's narrative to help him understand his brother's actions. I enjoyed Greg's segments but found the wartime Baxter rather moving, and there is a good feel for the period and atmosphere. There are two rather determined women as well, not allowing Baxter to take all the best lines and humour.
I did find I wanted more of the Thomas storyline, to have some sort of resolution as to what happened to two other characters in this arc. It didn't feel complete.
Ultimately uplifting, it's a bittersweet story about living on.
With thanks to Netgalley for the advance e-reading copy.
Greg's brother has committed suicide. He's given up on life now, ending up in a care home job, living with his subsisting father and grieving. One bright spark in his life is the nonagenarian Baxter, a former music teacher and distinctly sharp resident keen to both help the young man and put to rest a grieving from his own past.
We weave in and out of the present as Baxter's history is presented to us, and see its effect on Greg as he uses Baxter's narrative to help him understand his brother's actions. I enjoyed Greg's segments but found the wartime Baxter rather moving, and there is a good feel for the period and atmosphere. There are two rather determined women as well, not allowing Baxter to take all the best lines and humour.
I did find I wanted more of the Thomas storyline, to have some sort of resolution as to what happened to two other characters in this arc. It didn't feel complete.
Ultimately uplifting, it's a bittersweet story about living on.
With thanks to Netgalley for the advance e-reading copy.
September 17, 2018
This is a heart warming story with wonderful characters. Baxter, a 94-year-old man, has to go and live in Melrose Gardens Retirement Home, after a fall down the stairs at his own home.
Despite his age, he is not willing to give up living just yet and comes somewhat of a maverick., pushing the boundaries. He befriends Greg, a young man with many troubles, who works at the home. They make an odd couple.
Long-lost love Thomas is at the forefront of Baxter's mind and he wants to take a trip to Northern France to find out what happened to him. One thing he and Greg have in common is that they have suffered loss. Because of Greg's age, Baxter is able to impart some of his wisdom to help him.
Both are striking characters and you can't but like and admire them. This is a story told frankly without embellishments but will have you laughing and crying before the end.
I chose to read this book and all opinions in this review are all my own and completely unbiased. My thanks to NetGalley for this opportunity.
Despite his age, he is not willing to give up living just yet and comes somewhat of a maverick., pushing the boundaries. He befriends Greg, a young man with many troubles, who works at the home. They make an odd couple.
Long-lost love Thomas is at the forefront of Baxter's mind and he wants to take a trip to Northern France to find out what happened to him. One thing he and Greg have in common is that they have suffered loss. Because of Greg's age, Baxter is able to impart some of his wisdom to help him.
Both are striking characters and you can't but like and admire them. This is a story told frankly without embellishments but will have you laughing and crying before the end.
I chose to read this book and all opinions in this review are all my own and completely unbiased. My thanks to NetGalley for this opportunity.
September 7, 2019
This book does something special - gives a voice to what seems just another crotchety old gent... we so often forget that generation were just as vital and vigorous as ourselves once. And their hearts ached and went through traumas many of us (hopefully) will never see in wars and separation from loved ones. And in these days of LBQT+ it’s timely to remember that we didn’t always have it so good and it took incredible bravery to live any sort of fulfilling gay life. So thats some of Baxter’s story and then there’s lost boy Greg who has suffered his own loss and is rather rudderless. I won’t spoil or opine much about the writing other than to say there’s some beautiful passages that deserve a second reading. And some entertaining less central female characters. In a nutshell I’d say it’s an optimistic book about remembrance of an enduring love and emotional healing. And get chatting to older folk... on the bus whatever you’ll run into some wonderful people with wonderful life stories to tell. Bravo to the author for making a fictitious one seem so real
July 19, 2022
3.5* rounded up
An enjoyable, easy-reading tale of love & grief: well, the two do go together, don't they?
Baxter is a very interesting character, intelligent, direct, with an abrupt manner hiding a wealth of love & compassion. I really wanted more of him. He is forced into a nursing home but needs to make a journey to farewell his lost love, Thomas. I loved the two of them playing music together.
Baxter befriends Gregory, a young man who has given up on life after the suicide of his younger brother, Michael. Baxter helps Greg to live again, or at least consider the possibility, whilst Greg helps Baxter attain his goal of travelling to France.
Suzanne, who runs the home, is a brilliant supporting character: I loved her chat with Greg about grief, that it doesn't go away but the hole left behind gets smaller & the happy memories outweigh the sad in time.
I can only hope that Jack Bletch & the General had painful, hideous, miserable, short lives thereafter.
It is contemporary fiction but I'm surprised it doesn't have more genre tags like LGBTQ+ or Romance.
An enjoyable, easy-reading tale of love & grief: well, the two do go together, don't they?
Baxter is a very interesting character, intelligent, direct, with an abrupt manner hiding a wealth of love & compassion. I really wanted more of him. He is forced into a nursing home but needs to make a journey to farewell his lost love, Thomas. I loved the two of them playing music together.
Baxter befriends Gregory, a young man who has given up on life after the suicide of his younger brother, Michael. Baxter helps Greg to live again, or at least consider the possibility, whilst Greg helps Baxter attain his goal of travelling to France.
Suzanne, who runs the home, is a brilliant supporting character: I loved her chat with Greg about grief, that it doesn't go away but the hole left behind gets smaller & the happy memories outweigh the sad in time.
I can only hope that Jack Bletch & the General had painful, hideous, miserable, short lives thereafter.
It is contemporary fiction but I'm surprised it doesn't have more genre tags like LGBTQ+ or Romance.
August 6, 2019
I really liked the lead character, Baxter who was quirky, grumpy, funny and yet caring and quite emotional too.
It kind of reminded me of "A Man called Ove" who was also grumpy but ended up being a really nice character.
Baxter was wealthy and had a lovely home but after a fall ended up in a Nursing home which was not at all how he wanted to spend his last few years. He had had a few really close friends and Thomas who he loved and lost.
Baxter befriends a young man, Greg who has a pretty miserable home life and works at the nursing home. He also befriends the rather belligerent lass who also works at the nursing home. Together, the three of them plan a number of escapes and adventures from the nursing home and then finally one rather huge adventure with just Greg aided by the young lass on the reception desk.
Both Greg and Baxter learn more about each other and themselves on the trip and this is "Baxter's Requiem.
It kind of reminded me of "A Man called Ove" who was also grumpy but ended up being a really nice character.
Baxter was wealthy and had a lovely home but after a fall ended up in a Nursing home which was not at all how he wanted to spend his last few years. He had had a few really close friends and Thomas who he loved and lost.
Baxter befriends a young man, Greg who has a pretty miserable home life and works at the nursing home. He also befriends the rather belligerent lass who also works at the nursing home. Together, the three of them plan a number of escapes and adventures from the nursing home and then finally one rather huge adventure with just Greg aided by the young lass on the reception desk.
Both Greg and Baxter learn more about each other and themselves on the trip and this is "Baxter's Requiem.
August 30, 2018
What a wonderful book this is, so much so that I read it in one sitting, and found myself with tears rolling down my cheeks at the end.
It is, on the surface, the story of an unlikely friendship between Baxter, 94 years old and in a nursing home as the result of a fall, and Greg, 18 years old, mired in grief, and one of Baxter's carers.
But it is so much more....it tells of finding love in unexpected places, of dealing with grief, of honouring the dead, of being "different", of choosing to live well, and, briefly, of the reach of social media.
The author deals with difficult subjects with the lightest of touches, and delicacy. There is no judgement, no proselytising, just a beautifully told story.
The characters are more than believable, they are people I'd love to meet.
I voluntarily reviewed a copy of this book via Netgalley.
It is, on the surface, the story of an unlikely friendship between Baxter, 94 years old and in a nursing home as the result of a fall, and Greg, 18 years old, mired in grief, and one of Baxter's carers.
But it is so much more....it tells of finding love in unexpected places, of dealing with grief, of honouring the dead, of being "different", of choosing to live well, and, briefly, of the reach of social media.
The author deals with difficult subjects with the lightest of touches, and delicacy. There is no judgement, no proselytising, just a beautifully told story.
The characters are more than believable, they are people I'd love to meet.
I voluntarily reviewed a copy of this book via Netgalley.
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