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157 pages, Paperback
First published May 10, 2012
Since the invention of writing more than five millennia ago, the world has been transformed by what the American sociologist Daniel Bell called "intellectual technologies": technologies that allow us to extend our minds in much the same way as weapons and clothing extend the power of our bodies.
Like almost everything else in an age of ubiquitous technology, digital sex isn't just about looking: it's about seeking, connecting, and finding that you're not alone -- or that aloneness need no longer be dull if you have an internet connection.
"We must, I believe, look to the nature of our experiences rather than the tools creating them if we hope to understand the present. We must cherish the best of these experiences but also carve out a space apart from technology in our lives, and take control of our attention, apportioning our time knowingly rather than allowing always-on devices to dictate the texture of every moment. This means finding a balance within our habits both of thought and of action - and believing that it is possible to assert different ways of thinking and being against the pressures of constant connection."
"We must, I believe, look to the nature of our experiences rather than the tools creating them if we hope to understand the present. We must cherish the best of these experiences but also carve out a space apart from technology in our lives, and take control of our attention, apportioning our time knowingly rather than allowing always-on devices to dictate the texture of every moment. This means finding a balance within our habits both of thought and of action - and believing that it is possible to assert different ways of thinking and being against the pressures of constant connection."