Are Those the Words You Meant to Use? provides practical, biblical suggestions for words and actions you should always avoid when in conflict -- particularly marital conflict. Conflict can enhanced relationships, but that's true only if you avoid using hurtful, destructive behaviors when in conflict. This book will help you identify your current fighting tactics and help you remove harmful, reflexive words and actions, for the sake of your spouse and your marriage. Chapter titles Conflict only for improvement, Don't Bargain with the Devil, Just Because You Can Win, Doesn't Mean You Should, Punishment is out of Bounds, One Issue at a Time, Never Judge Motives, and Leave the Past in the Past.