In this wise and profound book, a noted social psychologist draws on the latest research and theory on human development and, illustrating with arresting real life examplesfrom love and marriage, the workplace and careers, sports and games, and moreshows how we deal with winning and losing in our personal lives.
This book has given me an interesting new lens through which to view people and their actions and underlying motivations, and in fact, is most interesting when turned inward towards myself.
I immediately disliked this book when I started the prologue, because without having read the rest of the book first, it is really depressing. It would be better to read those in the opposite order.
I just began reading this. In the prologue, the author describes his father's later years of productivity as a retired professor who maintained his rural homestead through his death at the age of 103. The author says that his father's interests and objectives adapted to his diminished physical capabilities as he aged, but that he found, until the very end, ways of adapting. I like the author's tone -- it is patient and gentle, and I'm looking forward to reading more.
The book deeply explains the human nature of ambition and seeking goals. In our little world, we want to conquer the small and big hills that we encounter in life. Every human being has the drive for growth and mastery. The best part is that it is not prescriptive of what we must or must not do. The author has laid out things the way he has seen it.
What a great book- please read it- it has something for everyone. We as a species have to mange success and failure and how we do this is so important to our mental health. Great book
Clear, simple structure and writing. Most of what he says makes intuitive sense. More descriptive than prescriptive. Makes me think harder about what my goals are, why I've chosen them, and what I expect when and if I achieve them.