In our world, we are often faced with the failure of things, situations, relationships, or life itself and we need to restore or rebuild from where we are. As the author points out, it is often better to fix than to cut off what we had. His example is a shoestring that gets tangled in a knot. It is better to go through the effort to undo the tangled knot than cut off the knot and have a part of a shoestring that no longer functions as intended. Nehemiah fron the Bible is a great model of how to restore what has been broken in a systematic stepwise fashion. Chapters 1-6 in the Bible describe how he went about restoring the broken down wall of Jerusalem against great odds. To do so required, as one of our pastors pointed out in a recent sermon on the Fruit of the Spirit, great self-control in order not to get sidetracked or stopped cold by opposition.
The author uses the book of Nehemiah directly to show how to rebuild - whether it be a wall, a relationship, a career, or a life. Nehemiah models how to get started right with an honest evaluation, determining the need, taking responsibility, and getting out of the comfort zone. Then, he shows how to build a team and get it going on the right track. Then he demonstrates delegating and persevering through opposition to completion.
A lot of the opposition comes from conflict, often internal. He itemized four steps of conflict resolution Nehemiah used that can be helpful. They are as follows: (1) back off; (2) stand up; (3) give in; and (4) reach out. Read the book to get descriptions and details.
Overall, this is a very good read. Even if it does not immediately have application in your life, at some point it can for you or someone you know. I recommend it.