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Truly see yourself

How to See is about our misperceptions, how we can gain insight and how mindfulness practices can help us see our real selves. Thich Nhat Hanh brings his signature clarity, compassion and humour in showing us how to achieve an awakened, more relaxed state of self-awareness so we cn understand ourselves and the world around us.

This is a perfect pocket-sized guide to life by the most renowned Zen master in the world, who was nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize.

125 pages, Paperback

Published April 4, 2019

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Thich Nhat Hanh

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Thích Nhất Hạnh was a Vietnamese Buddhist monk, teacher, author, poet and peace activist who then lived in southwest France where he was in exile for many years. Born Nguyễn Xuân Bảo, Thích Nhất Hạnh joined a Zen (Vietnamese: Thiền) monastery at the age of 16, and studied Buddhism as a novitiate. Upon his ordination as a monk in 1949, he assumed the Dharma name Thích Nhất Hạnh. Thích is an honorary family name used by all Vietnamese monks and nuns, meaning that they are part of the Shakya (Shakyamuni Buddha) clan. He was often considered the most influential living figure in the lineage of Lâm Tế (Vietnamese Rinzai) Thiền, and perhaps also in Zen Buddhism as a whole.

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1,381 reviews3,650 followers
September 4, 2023
The author helps us to understand more about ourselves by helping us gain more insight. He will allow us to build a solid self-awareness to make us better human beings. Various meditation practices for the same are discussed in this book.


My favorite three lines from this book.
“Whether we are happy or whether we suffer depends largely on our perceptions. It is important to look deeply into our perceptions and recognize their source.”

“It is often our very idea of happiness that prevents us from being happy.”

“All the wonders of life are available in the present moment—the sunshine, the fresh air, the trees, the multitude of colors and forms all around us. The essential thing is to be aware. If we open our eyes, we will see.”


If you think that you are not giving much time to yourself, you should try reading this book.


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4,925 reviews636 followers
June 13, 2024
Dieses Buch hat wieder gutgetan! Die einfachen Weisheiten erscheinen logisch; man muss sich nur immer wieder daran erinnern und sie leben! Es geht um Achtsamkeit und die Wichtigkeit der Wahrnehmung. Wenn man sich ein bisschen darauf einlassen kann, ist dieses kleine Büchlein sehr hilfreich und wohltuend.
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170 reviews38 followers
August 26, 2025
For those looking for a break from social media and a distraction from our political climate, find a quiet space and fold back the cover of How To See, by the world renowned Zen teacher, Thich Nhat Hanh.

Written in eloquent prose, his insight and unique perspective will transport you into the world of mindfulness.

After finishing the short book 120 pages, I am left with appreciation and gratitude for his important work.
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384 reviews37 followers
February 9, 2020
Until we look deeply into reality and discover its true nature of impermanence and interconnectedness, we will continue to be fooled by signs. When we transcend signs, notions, and ideas, we are in touch with the ultimate reality. We need to see through the outer form to be in touch with the substance. When we’re no longer deceived by signs, our perceptions become insight.
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309 reviews
August 29, 2019
"When you drink your tea mindfully, you know you are drinking a cloud."
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2,436 reviews923 followers
February 4, 2025
A good, healthy reminder to stop and pay attention to physical signs and clues in our world and relationships. Listening is extremely important, but sight can tend to be underrated. These books are such wonderful tips on improving yourself and your relationships while not being overly wordy or overwhelming.
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43 reviews45 followers
October 30, 2021
I loved How to Fight and How to Love, and there was some really good and helpful stuff in this one as well. Love, compassion, attention and awareness all the way.

There was, however, one big thing that bothered me: the recurring assertion that we can “see reality as it is” – freed from all the prejudices and background assumptions that cloud our perception. I think this is false: the idea of unmediated access to an objective reality is a myth, and a harmful one at that. You, as a knowing/perceiving subject, necessarily structure your access to reality, and as such you are not and cannot be a ‘mirror’, simply reflecting what is. (If philosophy has taught me one thing, it’s that.)

To make matters worse, at other times he writes, “Objects of mind are created by the mind itself. The way we perceive the world around us depends entirely on our way of looking at it.” I'm probably not reading too charitably but this seems like a conceptual 180: suddenly our seeing the world is created by the mind itself and not at all a pure, unmediated reflection. It’s the other extreme.

I would say both views are dogmatic: realism and idealism (although awkwardly worded here). The thing is you can’t have your cake and eat it too. Kant did, but Kant’s point was exactly that these two extremes, the “we can know the world as it is, the things in themselves” and “the world depends entirely on my mind”, must be given up in order to build a bridge between the two. And if you’re not willing to give them both up, you have to pick a lane. Pick a lane, Thich Nhat Hanh!

I know this little book is a practical mindfulness guide (and as such, it's very good! Hence 4 stars) and not an academic paper, but it still bothered me, especially because it’s about seeing clearly and letting go of wrong perceptions. These dogmatic positions (“I see reality *as it is*, and you don’t” / “Everything is simply all in our heads”) are exactly the dangerous ones. Don't fall for them.
6 reviews
January 13, 2020
I think anyone could benefit from reading this book. I always thought that “mindfulness” was a kind of hokey idea and I didn’t want to do it because my own mind seemed to be mostly fear, anxiety, and doubt. It seemed to me that really focusing on these feelings made them stronger and me weaker. This book encourages us to “look deeper” so that we can understand the true nature of what makes us fearful, so that we may let go of that fear. There’s also a lot of insight into love, communication, perception, peace, relationships, and so many other things and it is amazing that so much loveliness was crammed into such a small book.
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1,430 reviews502 followers
December 8, 2024
estoy adicta a esta colección de libritos
en inglés y en español
la edición es tan deliciosa que dan ganas de comértela
las palabras, para saborearlas, digerirlas, pensarlas
bello, bello, pura Torah sin mencionarla
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701 reviews148 followers
May 24, 2020
Everytime I read one of his books, I get yet a new way to grasp reality and get closer to mindfulness.

Doing one thing at a time and focusing on it has helped me untangle my worries and anxieties. No matter how many books you read about the Now, the Present, الصوفي ابن الوقت, I think that having a minimalist guide like this one is very helpful indeed.

Just like his other two books : How to Love and How to Fight, mindfulness in this one is more about our perceptions, and how it affects our reality...

One key concept that is recurring in the book is choice... We are free to choose how we see the world and how we want to perceive it. The second concept was compassion aka empathy in EI terms: the willingness to accept things, people, circumstances as they are, beyond the illusion we have built for ourselves in the first place.

My favourite part had to do with eternity, and how it can be felt through anything really if we take the time to stop, sit still and enjoy its existence as it is...

Here's to another meditative reading!

#EidRead

"If we live mindfully in everyday life, walk mindfully, are full of love and caring, then we create a miracle and transform the world into a wonderful place. "
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1,674 reviews40 followers
September 24, 2019
I enjoy this series because they are short yet powerful reads.
A few of my favorite quotes:
"When our mind is not calm, we do not see clearly."

"When you drink your tea mindfully, you know you are drinking a cloud—"

"We cannot force people to practice mindfulness, but if we practice mindfulness ourselves and become happier people, we can inspire others to practice."

"If you know how to sit stably and follow your in- and out- breath, then after some time you become peaceful and clear,"

"Breathing in, I calm my body. Breathing out, I calm my mind."
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396 reviews75 followers
March 22, 2023
My favorite line from this book.

“All the wonders of life are available in the present moment—the sunshine, the fresh air, the trees, the multitude of colors and forms all around us. The essential thing is to be aware. If we open our eyes, we will see.”

These days, every morning waking up, I always ponder if I cannot see today, what is the last image that I would keep or remember. I would desperately remember the blue sky, the sunshine, the green garden, the colors, and the smile of the people I love. At that moment, I am grateful for being aware and for being able to see.
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30 reviews61 followers
January 28, 2021
Another notable addition to my bedside collection!
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489 reviews94 followers
July 17, 2019
It is a great and lucid book, a series of short meditations on various topics related to awareness, mindfulness, and meditation.
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427 reviews42 followers
September 19, 2019
This is a deceptively quick read that bears rereading and reflection. Passages and chapters that at first blush sound platitudinous resonate more deeply with each repeat encounter.
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108 reviews4 followers
July 2, 2022
Este libro escrito por el fallecido "Thay" (maestro en vietnamita) es muy breve pero da cuenta de lo esencial y simple de la doctrina zen: ver las cosas con claridad.

Thay admite que nunca vamos a poder abandonar los conceptos y los signos como medio para relacionarnos con el mundo pero al menos podemos dar cuenta de algunos de esos conceptos, de algunas de las reacciones emocionales y mentales que conllevan, e ignorarlos.

Hace poco charlaba con un amigo que me indulje con este tipo de charlas sobre qué efecto tiene meditar y comentábamos que todos vivimos en nuestros castillos de conceptos donde nos protegemos, nos refugiamos. Si aquel que esta perdido dentro de una mente rota por la enfermedad, la tragedia y el sufrimiento, se refugia en la torre más recóndita, donde ni el mundo ni los demás pueden llegar. El "sentarse y nada más" en qué consiste de alguna forma la meditación zazen es una forma de mirar el mundo desde las almenas de ese castillo. Aún si no podes desmantelar todos los conceptos que no nos permiten estar presentes sin mediaciones, al menos, podemos ir más ligeros y ver más allá del signo, más allá de la dualidad, aunque sea un puro atisbo, ya es un montón.

Thay me ayuda a recordar porque me siento en el zafu: para ver a los demás, para entenderlos y poder sentir compasión por ellos y por mí porque en el budismo la primer noble verdad es que la vida es sufrimiento pero también que hay un camino para ayudar a los demás y a uno a vivir sin producir ni sufrir tanto.
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91 reviews9 followers
December 12, 2022
a bit basic and i disagreed with the oppressor collusion. that all felt a bit gaslighty. managed to pick some of the lines between my teeth for concepts but nothing left a meaningfully deep impression. felt very neolib.
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214 reviews4 followers
April 25, 2023
Erstes und letztes Drittel für mich besonders hilfreich, in der Mitte etwas redundant, aber Wiederholung schadet ja nie.
Durch die ruhige und präsente Stimme von Herbert Schäfer wird im Hörbuch in Kombination mit musikalischer Untermalung eine sehr entspannte Atmosphäre geschaffen.
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154 reviews65 followers
January 3, 2024
giving this one 4 stars bc I really needed to hear this stuff again regarding PERCEPTION rn. & yeah, our perceptions are like 98.9% of the time FALSE. & I've been stuck, trapped in this awful cycle of negative perceptions, so yeah... def need to work on that. I AM TRYING!!!!!
3 reviews
July 13, 2024
Un libro precioso e imprescindible en la actualidad. Nos habla de como aprender a apreciar y a presenciar todo lo que nos rodea, a observar y valorar las casualidades y la complejidad de todo lo que nos envuelve.
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17 reviews1 follower
April 7, 2022
I enjoyed the style of this book. It changed my way to see people and things around the world. It is my first non-fiction that I appreciated !!! Totally recommend !!!
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90 reviews3 followers
August 3, 2022
This book has such powers truths and prose to ponder and investigate. I will keep referring back to it for support and beautiful reminders. ✨
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88 reviews10 followers
November 16, 2020
People should be held responsible for their actions, off course we areaffected by variant factors but ultimatly we ,almost, always can choose to do the right thing.. so what i am trying to say is that i am not really a big fan of the "ultimate" understanding-accepting-foregiving concept
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364 reviews
September 17, 2021
Wise meditations to peruse and digest. Nourishing.
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