Những bài học đáng giá về xây dựng mỗi quan hệ

The Millionaire's Philosophy ​for a Happy Life #3

by Ken Honda

Cuốn sách này được viết ra sau trận động đất lớn ở quê hương Kobe của tác giả vào năm 1995 và trận “đại địa chấn” ở Tohoku năm 2011. Ken Honda đã lồng vào đó sự quan sát cách con người đấu tranh để giữ lại cuộc sống trong tình trạng rối ren và sợ hãi.
Là cuốn cuối cùng trong bộ sách Happy Life, Những bài học đáng giá về xây dựng mối quan hệ mang đến cho độc giả cách hàn gắn vết thương từ các mối quan hệ trong quá khứ cũng như sự khôn ngoan trong trong cách ứng xử hòa hợp với mọi người.
Trong hành trình học hỏi các nguyên tắc sống hạnh phúc này, các bạn sẽ thấy, sẽ cảm nhận không chỉ có niềm vui, nụ cười mà còn có nước mắt và những nỗi đau.
Điều có thể gây ảnh hưởng và thay đổi cuộc đời chính là cảm xúc. Cảm xúc có sức mạnh ghê gớm, có thể cải thiện hoặc tàn phá cuộc đời con người. Nhưng hầu hết chúng ta đều không biết điều đó mà xem thường hoặc bỏ qua cảm xúc của bản thân. Cảm xúc là nguồn năng lượng to lớn mà con người có được. Cảm xúc tiêu cực, cảm xúc tích cực đều như nhau. Con người không thể sống như mình mong muốn là do không biết cách sử dụng nguồn năng lượng này. Phần lớn, con người chúng ta thường sống trong tình trạng “thiếu lửa”, nói cách khác là sống vật vờ, vô định như những người mộng du. Chúng ta không kịp suy nghĩ gì mà luôn bận rộn thực hiện biết bao nhiêu là nghĩa vụ như việc nhà, việc công ty, việc kinh doanh... Chỉ toàn là những người không biết mình đến từ đâu, mình đang ở đâu và không biết sẽ đi về đâu.

Unknown Binding

First published April 10, 2013

About the author

Ken Honda is a bestselling author of self-development books in Japan, where he has sold more than seven million books since 2001. While his financial expertise comes from owning and managing several businesses, his writings bridge the topics of finance and self-help, focusing on creating and generating personal wealth and happiness through deeper self-honesty. He is the first person from Japan to be voted into the Transformational Leadership Council. Fluent in Japanese and English, he has lived in Boston and currently resides in Tokyo

Reviews

[Turk Warut · Rating 4 out of 5]

เข้าใจตัวเอง เข้าใจผู้อื่นมากขึ้น๙

[My Nguyễn · Rating 3 out of 5]

3.5

[vivi · Rating 5 out of 5]

Miracle happens when human takes action.

[Peak Sai · Rating 4 out of 5]

หนังสือเล่มนี้ บ่งบอกลักษณะนิสัยของคน ว่าอยู่บนเมทริกซ์ความสัมพันธ์ทั้ง 4 แบบ ประเด็นสำคัญคือเราไม่ควรจะอยู่ด้านใดด้านนึงมากเกินไป เพราะมันจะไม่สมดุล เราควรจะอยู่ตรงกลางของเมทริกซ์นี้จึงจะเป็นคนที่มีคุณภาพมากที่สุด

[Winai Nadee · Rating 5 out of 5]

Quite like the matrix from the book which shows how 4 types of people interacting with each other. It will be useful as a tool to measure situations in organisations.

[Krisada Visoodsak · Rating 3 out of 5]

อ่านไม่ไหลลื่นเหมือนเล่มหนึ่ง ทำความเข้าใจ เมตริก การพึ่งพาตนเองและพึ่งพาผู้อื่น มองโลกแง่ บวกและลบ เข้าหาศูนย์กลาง

[BossKunG1122 · Rating 3 out of 5]

การนำเสนอน่าเบื่อมากก ไม่รู้สึกอินเท่าเล่มแรกเลย กว่าจะอ่านจบทำเอาเหนื่อย คะแนน 3 ดาวคือเนื้อหาล้วนๆ พอจบแล้วก็น่าลองเอาเนื้อหามาประยุกต์ใช้ดี

[Pongsatit Isarankura Na Ayuthaya · Rating 4 out of 5]

เป็นเมทริกซ์ที่ดีมาก ทำให้เข้าใจตัวตนของเรา ได้รู้ที่มาที่ไป ว่าทำไมพฤติกรรมของเราถึงเป็นแบบนี้ ตัดสินใจแบบนี้ ทำไมถึงรู้สึกหงุดหงิดกับคนอื่น ทำไมถึงรู้สึกดาร์ก

โดยรวมเข้าใจตัวเองมากขึ้น

[Ron Siriwat · Rating 1 out of 5]

ออกเล่มแรกมึงดัง เล่มสองมึงเลยก็แต่งเรื่องตอแหล เล่มสามนี่ไม่ต้องพูดถึง ขยะดี ๆ นี่เอง อยากเขียนห่าอะไรก็เขียน ไม่ต้องรับผิดชอบต่อคนอ่านอีกต่อไป