Kristin Knight Pace is my new superhero. She's a remarkable person and her memoir is inspiring and uplifting. There ought to be a line of KNP action-hero figures; I'd have one on my desk now. She's a true heroine, not one out of a Disney film, a real person who girls and boys and everyone older can look up to, admire and learn from, as she has spent her life learning everything she can from anyone she can. She is not a saint. She is a revelation.
So many memoirs by "regular" people focus on depressing things whether they end up in triumph or tragedy. KNP's does not. One reason is she's had a pretty great life. The other, which is one of her superpowers, is that when bad things happen, no matter how terrible or frightening, at first she reacts like anyone would: crying, swearing, railing at the universe...
...and then she quickly shifts gears and alchemizes adversity into opportunity. She faces even the most extreme challenges with confidence and calm that allow her superior problem-solving skills (another superpower) to take over. And so setbacks and adversities are overcome and become learning opportunities, bad experiences morph into life lessons and she literally rescues herself over and over. She's still young and her life so far has been jam-packed with adventure, challenge and joy.
The memoir gives much credit to her mother, whose second husband died suddenly and young, leaving her with a teenager from her first marriage, two toddlers (one of whom was Kristin), and pregnant with twins. KNP writes her mother is "a superwoman who finished 10ks in first place, pushing the twins in a stroller, while raising five children alone...She told me to make sure that whatever I chose to do in life, I could do it by myself." Her mom mourned but never stopped living and before long married a wonderful man who adopted the children. The story of the day they went to court for the adoption is beautiful.
"This Much Country" is packed with so much life and living. While in high school she met a man on the internet and after graduation she skipped out on a full college scholarship to be with him. In time they married. He broke her heart. Her parents, who only met him once, let her go with him to the backcountry of Montana. They had fear and misgivings but they gave her the freedom to set her own course. And when she was crushed they were there with pure loving support. In a world full of nonfiction and novels about bad parenting, these two are so refreshing.
KNP was a dog lover with two pet dogs and after mourning the end of her relationship, she picked herself up as she always does, accepting a job taking care of sled dogs in Alaska. She would fall in love with the dogs and the sleds and Alaska and another man, her soulmate Andy, and this reader fell in love with them alongside her.
She went from knowing nothing about sled dogs and having never been on a sled to opening up a kennel with Andy and running races culminating in the Iditarod. Along the way she used another superpower, the desire and ability to learn from everybody she could whether friends, the finest experts or random people. Everyone and everything presents a learning opportunity for Kristin. In time she would use the years of accumulated knowledge and practice to run the big one, the Iditarod. She wasn't the first woman but women weren't common, and she finished in an especially challenging year when a lot of other racers scratched.
Throughout, she found herself in seemingly impossible situations which are amazing and often harrowing to read about. And always KNP would collect herself, shove away fear, doubt and blame and think her way out of every new problem and peril.
It's fascinating to read about the life of a sled dog handler and musher, all the challenges. Like everyone else, she would go hours without seeing another human, responsible for the welfare of the sled and the dogs whose lives depended on her competence. There was no one to pull her out of a frozen river, get her team of dogs back when they took off without her, fix whatever part of the sled broke during her many wipeouts, handle it when the dogs attacked one of their own or any of the many other perilous things that come with the territory. Over and over one reads how Kristin made mistakes or ran into bad ice and trees, all kinds of things and always she rescued herself and you know reading her memoir she always will.
I am a cat person and I fell in love with the sled dogs as well as their three pet dogs. She brings the reader into a sled dog's house when new future mushers are born and to the vet when they're injured, along every inch of trail, up vertical mountains and down steep hills. And always she faces life with fortitude and infectious exuberance. The way it's written the reader celebrates with her, cries with her, is witness to the love and joy, the beauty and the harrowing danger.
There is what some people consider foul language but I would encourage parents of children who can read at that level to let them. Or read it with them and explain some things as you go along. She's so unusual and such an inspiration it would be a shame to let some well-earned effs keep anyone away from her. Young girls can always use real people as well as characters to admire in books, and young boys need female heroines even more.
This is a very special book written by an extraordinary woman who gets back on that sled when her boots are too frozen to get into because she left them in the wrong place, who when she has to, eats with dog poop under her fingernails and who also writes beautiful passages describing the landscape of Alaska, the trees, Northern Lights, breathtaking frozen landscapes, alpenglow and backcountry beauty everywhere. Her life with Andy is wonderful. The photographs are beautiful. Throughout the book I was captivated and full of awe and think you will be too.
Now, Kristin, having finished reading your memoir I know you can do anything you put your mind to so may I please have my Kristin Knight Pace superhero figurine? Because adults need more heroes too. I know I do.