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Why Not?: Thoughts About Crossdressing and Male Feminization

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Male feminization for fun and growth? Why not? It’s a question that critical thinkers ask about many subjects. Everyday there’s someone who sees something and instead of saying no they ask, why not? What if the Wright brothers agreed with everyone that man can’t fly? What if Henry Ford believed like everyone else that there could be no mass production? What if Galileo gave up on the idea that the world is round and not flat like the Church wanted him to? If something can be beneficial for you or others, but the accepted societal view says it’s wrong, does that really make it wrong?

Male-to-female cross-dressing is one of those things. Cross-dressing is when a male who identifies as a male, dresses as a female, To genetically born males that identify as females, it isn't cross-dressing at all. It's part of their gender identity. What we speak of here is a genetic male that identifies as a male, cross-dressing as a female. Sometimes viewed as an unmanly due to societal paradigms and beliefs and called a deviant behavior, it’s carried a stigma with it. Does that mean it shouldn’t be done? Women are allowed to cross-dress; it has become commonplace for women to wear men’s styles of clothing, yet men are forced to stay in men’s clothes. Dresses, skirts, stockings and all the feminine accoutrements have fallen to the wayside for most women today, and it’s perfectly acceptable for them to wear flannel shirts with jeans, or sweatpants with sneakers or flat shoes. Why not?

Why shouldn’t a male be offered the same flexibility? Until the time comes when open-mindedness is more prevalent, and paradigms and beliefs are changed, it’s still possible to do in secret or with likeminded people and groups, and the benefits are just as great. To balance the individual’s masculine and feminine energies and activate the rise on Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is not a trivial thing, and that is just one of many benefits it brings.

If you, a person close to you, a spouse or partner, or a friend of yours is involved in male-to-female cross-dressing, has an interest in it, or is bored and wants to try something new and exciting, then drop the veil of illusions by creating a new feminine illusion and thrive. Read on and see what benefits can follow in this thoughtful short read that just might improve your or someone else’s life—or at least help you understand it better. Look inside this short-read now.

29 pages, Kindle Edition

Published September 11, 2018

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1 review
April 6, 2019
A very rational approach- however she seems to ignore the fact that any behavior which breaks a

taboo society SEVERELY censures, and it is the perceived societal reaction which keeps most is the

closets. When rationally evaluated, an the author does a good job of, one is left with the question,

"why not ?"
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Author 6 books6 followers
November 14, 2019
Basically for those with an interest in crossdressing, whether for yourself ot someone you know, it's a short read. It's an argument for trying it and even if adopting it if only on Halloween.
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February 23, 2019
A motivational book.
Part of her argument is valid not only for cross-dressing, but for any kind of fetishism of (sexual) craving that is from outside the box of well-established social principles. What I found interesting was the wife testimonial encouraging her husband to be true to himself and encouraging readers to do the same in their own life. It is very positive talk to find happiness within one’s passion without being crushed from social rules.
She heavily promotes cross-dressing as a hobby to enhance one’s life; no doubt that it can be great motivation for couples or men interested in cross-dressing but still her reasoning is still valid for the most part if you choose as a hobby to establish a d/s relationship for example. A short but very positive book.
4 reviews
March 24, 2022
oh my gosh this book is great

I’ve been intoCrossdressing on & off for 26 yrs.
Then meet this wonderful great woman.
She asked if you like it why are you not still doing it?
I said because most women don’t understand it and if they can’t except because most say they can. I get an easy let down.
She told me I’ll support you.
So i started again.
8 days after getting married she pasted away from a heart attack.
Now instead of leaving this live. I have come out and am going to transition into a female but not fully.
This book is so right on
It really should be taught to everyone
It’s so awaking and enlightening
Thank you so much
Anna( richard)
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August 9, 2023
Would Be Better With More References

Interesting book which looks to explain benefits and break down some of the cultural barriers. It would be a better book if it had more references to some of the aspects it tries to explain. While there are some references on major topics, they try to explain some aspects with discussion of neural networks. Unfortunately not all of that is backed up with documented references.

But it’s still an important discussion to help brake down barriers.
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5 reviews
March 15, 2020
Good read

This is a great book for someone interested in getting started in cross dressing. Maybe if you have a wife or girlfriend that you are worried about what they are going to think. Let them read this first, before you talk to them about. It will help open up their minds to this idea.
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May 13, 2020
I think this is a great book that maybe the closet crossdresser should read before he springs it on his partner that he is doing so. This may help him with understanding that it will not be all roses when he does so. An exceptional read.
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March 14, 2024
baddogdaddy

I’ve never, efore this book,ever read such a positive and uplifting ,description of cross dressing. I’ve cross dressed my entire life a truly appreciate such positivity, Thank you.
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19 reviews3 followers
February 9, 2020
A good read that deals not only with the psychological reasons why also the benefits of crossdressing highly recommended.
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March 10, 2021
Useful

Useful insights into the benefits of crossdressing " yes as the book says you will not be bored "reccomend this read.
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