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When #FML Means Family #1
Absolutely Smashing It
***Unmissable, hilarious and kind, this is the first novel from Kathryn Wallace, who blogs as I Know, I Need to Stop Talking***"SAM! AVA! Get downstairs, NOW. Have you done your TEETH? HAIR? SHOES? Come on, come on, come on, we're going to be bastarding late again. No, I haven't seen Lego Optimus Prime, and nor do I give a shit about his whereabouts. Sam, will you stop winding your sister up and take this model of the Shard that I painstakingly sat up and created for you last night so that I wouldn't be in trouble with your teacher. I mean, so that you wouldn't be in trouble with your teacher. No, it doesn't smell of 'dirty wine'. Well, maybe it does a little bit. Look, Sam, I haven't got time to argue. Just hold your nose and get in the car, okay? AVA! TEETH! HAIR! SHOES!" Gemma is only just holding it together - she's a single parent, she's turning 40 and her seven-year-old daughter has drawn a cruelly accurate picture which locates Gemma's boobs somewhere around her knees. So when her new next-door neighbour, Becky, suggests that Gemma should start dating again, it takes a lot of self-control not to laugh in her face. But Becky is very persuasive and before long Gemma finds herself juggling a full-time job, the increasingly insane demands of the school mums' Facebook group and the tricky etiquette of a new dating world. Not only that, but Gemma has to manage her attraction to her daughter's teacher, Tom, who has swapped his life in the City for teaching thirty six to seven year olds spelling, grammar, basic fractions - and why it's not ok to call your classmate a stinky poo-bum...It's going to be a long year - and one in which Gemma and Becky will learn a really crucial that in the end, being a good parent is just about being good enough.Readers love this hilarious, fast paced slice of family ***** Utterly hysterical - NetGalley Reader***** Brilliant... Funny, touching and modern... just amazing - NetGalley Reader***** I have been a mum at the school gates and the observations in this book are spot on. I shall be recommending it to all the school mums I know - NetGalley Reader**** A perfect read to snort with laughter over whilst lying in a bath with a glass of bubbles (if you can get the kids to stay out of the bathroom for long enough)! - NetGalley Reader**** Kathryn Wallace has Absolutely Smashed It with this novel. I loved it and couldn't put it down... had me properly laughing out loud several times - NetGalley Reader**** This will make you giggle about life as a parent where we are all spinning plates of different sizes and at different speeds. I would recommend wholeheartedly to fellow friends who are also spinning their own plates! - NetGalley Reader***** A hilariously, honest, open, recognisable and highly relatable story - NetGalley Reader***** A light hearted but honest look at mummies, yummy mummies and can't quite manage everything mummies - NetGalley Reader
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Published March 7, 2019
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May 15, 2019
It’s hot pink, shiny, packed with swear words and made me laugh LOUDLY. What’s not to like?! Great holiday read or cure for feeling mopey. It’s not going to win literary awards and it’s definitely got a touch of Rom Com but it’s great fun. An ice cream sundae type of book. With a side of Prosecco. So grab a spoon and enjoy the giggles!
March 18, 2019
Gemma is a single parent, after her husband (Nick the Dick) decided to go on an adventure of his life (with his secretary), juggling a full - time job and all the usual things you have to juggle in your everyday life. She's turning forty soon, her boobs are somewhere around her knees on her daughter's picture and of course she didn't know she should read at least one hour with her children during the Christmas break... Then Becky moves next - door and they hit it off immediately. She tries to persuade Gemma to start dating again and she's very persuasive - and so they make a pact that before Gemma turns 40 she will finally have sex and for Becky to land a perfect job.
It's going to be a long, long year for both Gemma and Becky, what with disastrous dates, job interviews, school, homework and dogs...
I loved Gemma from the very beginning, she was just my kind of girl. Honest, genuine, without beating around the bush, telling things how they really are. She didn't always manage to make all the things right, she often forgot things and this is why I wanted to high - five her, as she so reminded me of myself. I am also not perfect. I liked her friendship with Becky, who was like a breath of fresh air, albeit very quick and loud breath, also telling the truth direct into your face, no matter if you wanted to hear it or not.
I absolutely, totally loved Gemma's dates and I am really, really sad that there were only a few of them put in the story. They were hilarious and I could probably read a whole new book only about Gemma's adventurous meetings.
I also liked that the author didn't only concentrate on Gemma but also took Becky under scrutiny as well and her struggles to find a job. You could think, Becky, so privileged, with nothing to worry about, successful husband at her side, a total liability of a dog as well, and I really, really applauded her desire to find herself a job. There comes a moment when you simply can't stand sitting at home and you need to feel like a competent human being again. Becky's adventures with finding the right place were not only hilarious but also - let's admit it - sad and awfully relatable, but they only made the book more valuable and real. And I can of course remember taking my daughter to two interviews - however both times I've got the job so perhaps she's brought me luck, but also both of those jobs were to work with children so maybe she was like a bonus point?
I really liked the writing style. It was so light and relatable, and the author has such a great way with words, and her writing is absolutely addictive. It has made me laugh out loud, nodding my head with understanding, roll my eyes and shake my head with disbelief. I must admit, my daughter was thanks god a very brave toddler and small child in comparison to so many others, nevertheless so many situations just rang a bell and it felt so personal. Though I must say that it's getting serious now as she's just started school and the whole school runs start to resemble those described by the author - cliques and ignoring each other is just normal. Hallelujah for ma daughter going to school by bus, really - I'm done, those few times that I had to go to school and meet some other parents.
The end of this story was, however, just too fairy tale - ish for me, to be honest. I like a happy end, but this one just too happy in my eyes, and I know, the characters have been struggling through the whole book and sure, they all deserved their own piece of happiness eventually but I'm just saying. As the whole story was so down to earth and so scarily relatable, the end seemed simply too soppy.
It was a hilarious, brutally honest and relatable story that I absolutely and whole - heartedly enjoyed. Personally I can read those funny stories about the challenges of parenthood and #FML moments over and over again, simply because they show me that I. Am. Not. Alone in all this parenthood malarkey, that there are others going through exactly the same things. Brilliantly funny but not too overdone, it was a perfect read for me. Highly recommended!
Copy provided by the publisher in return for an honest review.
March 26, 2019
Rebecca needs to read this 😁
August 31, 2024
Boring. Maybe people who live that life find it funny.
March 21, 2019
What a great read! This is one of those brilliant ‘easy to read/can’t put it down’ books and I really enjoyed it.
If you’ve ever been a parent at the school gate there is much in this book that you’ll relate to- beware when reading in public as it will have you laughing out loud!
The main character Gemma is so likeable and just the right side of chaotic to arouse sympathy rather than ridicule. Some of the characters and situations may seem far fetched but if you’ve ever read the author’s real life blog: facebook.com/Iknowineedtostoptalking (and if you haven’t, I strongly recommend that you do as it’s absolutely fantastic in its humour and honesty!) you’ll know that such things do happen!!
This really is a very enjoyable book especially for those who can relate to the playground politics of the mums on the school gate (this book actually reminded me of Big Little Lies for those kind of insights) or if you’re a parent who struggles with the delicate balance of home and work lives.
Fantastic debut novel from Kathryn Wallace and can’t wait to see what she has in store for us next....
If you’ve ever been a parent at the school gate there is much in this book that you’ll relate to- beware when reading in public as it will have you laughing out loud!
The main character Gemma is so likeable and just the right side of chaotic to arouse sympathy rather than ridicule. Some of the characters and situations may seem far fetched but if you’ve ever read the author’s real life blog: facebook.com/Iknowineedtostoptalking (and if you haven’t, I strongly recommend that you do as it’s absolutely fantastic in its humour and honesty!) you’ll know that such things do happen!!
This really is a very enjoyable book especially for those who can relate to the playground politics of the mums on the school gate (this book actually reminded me of Big Little Lies for those kind of insights) or if you’re a parent who struggles with the delicate balance of home and work lives.
Fantastic debut novel from Kathryn Wallace and can’t wait to see what she has in store for us next....
December 3, 2019
This book was fun and cute. I listened to it on audio, warning lots of language so be careful if you listen around kids.
November 16, 2018
A hilariously, honest, open, recognisable and highly relateable story. That will have you roaring with laughter until your sides are sore and shaking your head with disbelief that absolutely everybody goes through exactly the same things and the same scenarios just like you every single day and you will realise that you are not alone.
"SAM! AVA! Get downstairs, NOW. Have you done your TEETH? HAIR? SHOES? Come on, come on, come on, we're going to be bastarding late again. No, I haven't seen Lego Optimus Prime, and nor do I give a shit about his whereabouts. Sam, will you stop winding your sister up and take this model of the Shard that I painstakingly sat up and created for you last night so that I wouldn't be in trouble with your teacher. I mean, so that you wouldn't be in trouble with your teacher. No, it doesn't smell of 'dirty wine'. Well, maybe it does a little bit. Look, Sam, I haven't got time to argue. Just hold your nose and get in the car, okay? AVA! TEETH! HAIR! SHOES!"
Gemma is only just holding it together - she's a single parent, she's turning 40 and her seven-year-old daughter has drawn a cruelly accurate picture which locates Gemma's boobs somewhere around her knees. So when her new next-door neighbour, Becky, suggests that Gemma should start dating again, it takes a lot of self-control not to laugh in her face.
But Becky is very persuasive and before long Gemma finds herself juggling a full-time job, the increasingly insane demands of the school mums' Facebook group and the tricky etiquette of a new dating world. Not only that, but Gemma has to manage her attraction to her daughter's teacher, Tom, who has swapped his life in the City for teaching thirty six to seven year olds spelling, grammar, basic fractions - and why it's not ok to call your classmate a stinky poo-bum...
It's going to be a long year - and one in which Gemma and Becky will learn a really crucial lesson: that in the end, being a good parent is just about being good enough.
"SAM! AVA! Get downstairs, NOW. Have you done your TEETH? HAIR? SHOES? Come on, come on, come on, we're going to be bastarding late again. No, I haven't seen Lego Optimus Prime, and nor do I give a shit about his whereabouts. Sam, will you stop winding your sister up and take this model of the Shard that I painstakingly sat up and created for you last night so that I wouldn't be in trouble with your teacher. I mean, so that you wouldn't be in trouble with your teacher. No, it doesn't smell of 'dirty wine'. Well, maybe it does a little bit. Look, Sam, I haven't got time to argue. Just hold your nose and get in the car, okay? AVA! TEETH! HAIR! SHOES!"
Gemma is only just holding it together - she's a single parent, she's turning 40 and her seven-year-old daughter has drawn a cruelly accurate picture which locates Gemma's boobs somewhere around her knees. So when her new next-door neighbour, Becky, suggests that Gemma should start dating again, it takes a lot of self-control not to laugh in her face.
But Becky is very persuasive and before long Gemma finds herself juggling a full-time job, the increasingly insane demands of the school mums' Facebook group and the tricky etiquette of a new dating world. Not only that, but Gemma has to manage her attraction to her daughter's teacher, Tom, who has swapped his life in the City for teaching thirty six to seven year olds spelling, grammar, basic fractions - and why it's not ok to call your classmate a stinky poo-bum...
It's going to be a long year - and one in which Gemma and Becky will learn a really crucial lesson: that in the end, being a good parent is just about being good enough.
September 13, 2020
This book had me screaming and cackling with laughter by page 6, and then it just got better and better. I don’t know how this book hasn’t become massively popular and turned into a movie or a Netflix series yet, it’s that good. Kathryn Wallace really speaks to me on a whole new level. I have already ordered the sequel! And once I finish that I’m not sure what I will do with my life. Outstanding book, I say. Such an easy read and took my mind off the insanity that is 2020.
November 7, 2019
F*#!ing Hilarious
Best book I’ve read in a long time. Couldn’t read it when feeding the baby as laughed so much it woke him. Then cause an ashstma attack. Must read for mums everywhere. Brilliant
Best book I’ve read in a long time. Couldn’t read it when feeding the baby as laughed so much it woke him. Then cause an ashstma attack. Must read for mums everywhere. Brilliant
July 29, 2019
Rate me: 3.5/5. A perfect poolside read, a book that will undoubtedly make you smile and is on I would recommend to my friends who like to read books that aren’t too serious or too ‘literary’.
What’s good about it?
First of all, this book is funny, funny as in laugh out loud, read the paragraph to your partner funny. Reading it felt like sitting in a bar on a girls night out or being on your friends couch with a bottle of wine between the two of you, chatting away about your day. The warmth and humour in this book made it really special and for me it is the biggest selling point of it.
As someone who doesn’t have children, I didn’t feel like I was alienated from one of the main parts of this narrative – Gemma and Becky’s relationship with their children. A lot of the storyline focuses on their role as mother’s and finding an identity away from this role, but the humour and writing style made it so I could still go on their journey with them, even though it was one I haven’t personally experienced myself. As a reader, I enjoyed watching the characters grow beyond their role as a mum and found myself cheering them on from start to end.
Gemma and Becky’s friendship is also a really lovely part of the story. Every woman can recognise a time in their life when they have met someone and just ‘clicked’. This book was a real celebration of women’s friendships, the highs and the lows, and a real testament to what can be achieved when women support each other.
For such a lighthearted book, I really liked that it touched on some serious issues like mental health, redundancy and work life balance. Including serious topics in mainstream, popular books like this is a good way of normalising them and opening them up to discussion. I like that Kathryn Wallace didn’t make her book so light hearted that it veered away from reality and became a roll your eyes, impossibly happy bubble read.
As a blogger, I think Kathryn Wallace has done really well breaking away from blogging and into novel writing. It’s her first novel and it is a strong debut, keeping the lighthearted, relatable tone of her blogs and pushing them further into an interesting narrative.
What’s not so good about it?
First of all, as someone who taught in an inner city school and knows the education system, if some of the children in my class had been talking like that the children in this book did in school then there would have been a fair few talks to the safeguarding team and meetings with parents! I understand that they were written for comedic effect and sometimes made it so situations seemed more painfully embarrassing for Gemma to help the reader feel for her, but for me the children’s constant talk of penises, profanity and sexual terms was just a little bit unbelievable.
I also found that the book drifted into predictability in the second half, with the end of the book almost tying up too neatly. Don’t get me wrong, the ending was satisfying and made sense, but it was almost too perfect to seem realistic. Plus Gemma’s ex seemed to come from nowhere and her U-Turn about him in the spare of ten minutes was a little bit hard to understand, but again I understand that this served to throw the storyline in a new direction to then have the happy ending the characters deserved. These criticisms didn’t take away from my enjoyment of reading the book, though, and I still closed it feeling satisfied.
What’s good about it?
First of all, this book is funny, funny as in laugh out loud, read the paragraph to your partner funny. Reading it felt like sitting in a bar on a girls night out or being on your friends couch with a bottle of wine between the two of you, chatting away about your day. The warmth and humour in this book made it really special and for me it is the biggest selling point of it.
As someone who doesn’t have children, I didn’t feel like I was alienated from one of the main parts of this narrative – Gemma and Becky’s relationship with their children. A lot of the storyline focuses on their role as mother’s and finding an identity away from this role, but the humour and writing style made it so I could still go on their journey with them, even though it was one I haven’t personally experienced myself. As a reader, I enjoyed watching the characters grow beyond their role as a mum and found myself cheering them on from start to end.
Gemma and Becky’s friendship is also a really lovely part of the story. Every woman can recognise a time in their life when they have met someone and just ‘clicked’. This book was a real celebration of women’s friendships, the highs and the lows, and a real testament to what can be achieved when women support each other.
For such a lighthearted book, I really liked that it touched on some serious issues like mental health, redundancy and work life balance. Including serious topics in mainstream, popular books like this is a good way of normalising them and opening them up to discussion. I like that Kathryn Wallace didn’t make her book so light hearted that it veered away from reality and became a roll your eyes, impossibly happy bubble read.
As a blogger, I think Kathryn Wallace has done really well breaking away from blogging and into novel writing. It’s her first novel and it is a strong debut, keeping the lighthearted, relatable tone of her blogs and pushing them further into an interesting narrative.
What’s not so good about it?
First of all, as someone who taught in an inner city school and knows the education system, if some of the children in my class had been talking like that the children in this book did in school then there would have been a fair few talks to the safeguarding team and meetings with parents! I understand that they were written for comedic effect and sometimes made it so situations seemed more painfully embarrassing for Gemma to help the reader feel for her, but for me the children’s constant talk of penises, profanity and sexual terms was just a little bit unbelievable.
I also found that the book drifted into predictability in the second half, with the end of the book almost tying up too neatly. Don’t get me wrong, the ending was satisfying and made sense, but it was almost too perfect to seem realistic. Plus Gemma’s ex seemed to come from nowhere and her U-Turn about him in the spare of ten minutes was a little bit hard to understand, but again I understand that this served to throw the storyline in a new direction to then have the happy ending the characters deserved. These criticisms didn’t take away from my enjoyment of reading the book, though, and I still closed it feeling satisfied.
September 26, 2019
*I received a free ARC of this book, with thanks to the author and Amazon’s Vine Programme. The decision to review and my opinions are my own.*
Absolutely Smashing It is a classic rom-com for mum-blogger fans.
Kathryn Wallace is better known to many as I Know I Need To Stop Talking – blogging hilariously and relateably on Facebook about parenting, womaning, body positivity, school woes and burning minty flaps (don’t ask!), among other things. One of her most popular posts is the spoof updated from the world of Biff, Chip, Kipper, Floppy the f’ing liability, and Mrs May, with her passion for school plays.
Fans of her page will be glad to know that this book is written in exactly the same warmly chaotic, humorous, direct, no-holds-barred style that has made Wallace’s blog a joy to read from day one.
The plot is fictional and original, so you won’t find Beth and Jamie here, or Mrs May and Floppy… or will you?! In fact, the author draws upon the known-and-loved characteristics of these familiar faces in creating her new characters (single-mum Gemma with her two young children, friends and family), making the new characters feel fresh, but also instantly recognisable.
Gemma struggles through the course of the book to balance work and parenting, find and maintain friendships and relationships, and just generally survive each day without losing her cool / sanity / all of the above. So, an accurate representation of parent-life!
There is also more than one romance plot, as Gemma’s new neighbour and new best friend Becky suspects that her once-beloved husband is keeping secrets from her. Their original pact has Becky helping Gemma find love, while Gemma helps Becky find work, but sometimes the things we think are going well may also need a bit of attention, as both friends may discover.
This is a perfect light read for those who love irreverent, real humour, and stories about love, friendship, and being a modern-day mum. Fans of Gill Sims, Sarah Turner and Rachaele Hambleton will probably already be following Kathryn Wallace too!
Gemma thought for a moment about her own Christmas break. If you believed everything you read in the media, Christmas with children was just magical. All Gemma could say to that was magical, my arse. Christmas as a single parent had been less about #blessed moments gathered around the Christmas tree unwrapping gifts, and more about a three a.m. Christmas Day wakeup call, both kids descending into meltdown by mid-morning, and covert swigs from the gin bottle she’d secreted in the cereal cupboard while the turkey (that no one would eat anyway) dried out in the oven and she wondered, if she wished hard enough, whether the magic of Christmas might bring Prince Charming to her (old, slightly peeling) front door.
– Kathryn Wallace, Absolutely Smashing It
Review by Steph Warren of Bookshine and Readbows blog
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Absolutely Smashing It is a classic rom-com for mum-blogger fans.
Kathryn Wallace is better known to many as I Know I Need To Stop Talking – blogging hilariously and relateably on Facebook about parenting, womaning, body positivity, school woes and burning minty flaps (don’t ask!), among other things. One of her most popular posts is the spoof updated from the world of Biff, Chip, Kipper, Floppy the f’ing liability, and Mrs May, with her passion for school plays.
Fans of her page will be glad to know that this book is written in exactly the same warmly chaotic, humorous, direct, no-holds-barred style that has made Wallace’s blog a joy to read from day one.
The plot is fictional and original, so you won’t find Beth and Jamie here, or Mrs May and Floppy… or will you?! In fact, the author draws upon the known-and-loved characteristics of these familiar faces in creating her new characters (single-mum Gemma with her two young children, friends and family), making the new characters feel fresh, but also instantly recognisable.
Gemma struggles through the course of the book to balance work and parenting, find and maintain friendships and relationships, and just generally survive each day without losing her cool / sanity / all of the above. So, an accurate representation of parent-life!
There is also more than one romance plot, as Gemma’s new neighbour and new best friend Becky suspects that her once-beloved husband is keeping secrets from her. Their original pact has Becky helping Gemma find love, while Gemma helps Becky find work, but sometimes the things we think are going well may also need a bit of attention, as both friends may discover.
This is a perfect light read for those who love irreverent, real humour, and stories about love, friendship, and being a modern-day mum. Fans of Gill Sims, Sarah Turner and Rachaele Hambleton will probably already be following Kathryn Wallace too!
Gemma thought for a moment about her own Christmas break. If you believed everything you read in the media, Christmas with children was just magical. All Gemma could say to that was magical, my arse. Christmas as a single parent had been less about #blessed moments gathered around the Christmas tree unwrapping gifts, and more about a three a.m. Christmas Day wakeup call, both kids descending into meltdown by mid-morning, and covert swigs from the gin bottle she’d secreted in the cereal cupboard while the turkey (that no one would eat anyway) dried out in the oven and she wondered, if she wished hard enough, whether the magic of Christmas might bring Prince Charming to her (old, slightly peeling) front door.
– Kathryn Wallace, Absolutely Smashing It
Review by Steph Warren of Bookshine and Readbows blog
https://bookshineandreadbows.wordpres...
March 13, 2019
Gemma has been a single parent since her Ex ‘Nick the dick’ decided to trot into the sunset with his secretary. Left alone she has spent the last two years attempting to keep all the balls in the air whilst juggling a full-time career and her two somewhat spirited children. Not always managing to do everything successfully or remembering to complete those tricky school projects on time Gemma is doing her best under the circumstances.
Becky is married to lovely Jon and to the outside world seems to have the perfect life with 2.4 children and a doting husband, but she has lost herself after spending her days at home being a Mum. With Jon working late most evenings, Becky wishes she could get out and work too, but with childcare an issue her goal looks impossible. However when she moves in next door to Gemma the pair soon become firm friends. Making a pact they agree to make sure that before Gemma turns 40 she will end her sex drought and get laid whilst Becky will have found flexible employment. Cue disastrous internet dating and job interviews all mixed together with the everyday trials and tribulations of parenthood and what you have is a laugh out loud read.
I loved every second of this book with it’s honest, relateable glimpse of parenting that is sure to resonate with Mum’s & Dad’s everywhere! I wasn’t aware of author Kathryn Wallace before I read this book, but have since liked her Facebook page which offers an honest insight into her own family’s life – a great way to realise your not alone in this game of parenthood.! Absolutely Smashing It is a fantastic fictional extension of Kathryn’s popular Facebook page and I would personally love to see a follow up book to see what happens next – I don’t want to give away too many spoilers!
This book has a bit everything, family, friendship and romance with far too many hilarious moments in this book to mention- I found myself nodding whilst chuckling like a mad woman as my family gave me strange looks! The premise of the story may be a little predictable at times, but that’s exactly what I love about this genre of books as they offer some light-hearted, easy reading after a long day of dealing with my own munchkins! I read Absolutely Smashing It in two days- really quick for me considering my other commitments – I just couldn’t put it down! Highly recommended by me and I am keeping everything crossed for another instalment.
Becky is married to lovely Jon and to the outside world seems to have the perfect life with 2.4 children and a doting husband, but she has lost herself after spending her days at home being a Mum. With Jon working late most evenings, Becky wishes she could get out and work too, but with childcare an issue her goal looks impossible. However when she moves in next door to Gemma the pair soon become firm friends. Making a pact they agree to make sure that before Gemma turns 40 she will end her sex drought and get laid whilst Becky will have found flexible employment. Cue disastrous internet dating and job interviews all mixed together with the everyday trials and tribulations of parenthood and what you have is a laugh out loud read.
I loved every second of this book with it’s honest, relateable glimpse of parenting that is sure to resonate with Mum’s & Dad’s everywhere! I wasn’t aware of author Kathryn Wallace before I read this book, but have since liked her Facebook page which offers an honest insight into her own family’s life – a great way to realise your not alone in this game of parenthood.! Absolutely Smashing It is a fantastic fictional extension of Kathryn’s popular Facebook page and I would personally love to see a follow up book to see what happens next – I don’t want to give away too many spoilers!
This book has a bit everything, family, friendship and romance with far too many hilarious moments in this book to mention- I found myself nodding whilst chuckling like a mad woman as my family gave me strange looks! The premise of the story may be a little predictable at times, but that’s exactly what I love about this genre of books as they offer some light-hearted, easy reading after a long day of dealing with my own munchkins! I read Absolutely Smashing It in two days- really quick for me considering my other commitments – I just couldn’t put it down! Highly recommended by me and I am keeping everything crossed for another instalment.
September 23, 2019
A Fun Take on Single-Parenting
Gemma is struggling not so much with a work-life balance as with a work-life-school-children-everything balance. Then when Becky moves in next door and there is the most amazingly gorgeous hunk of a teacher taking over her daughter's class, things morph from chaotic to sensationally chaotic.
This book is many things. It is a hilarious paeon of praise to the single-parent who tries to get it all perfect, and any single-parent who has been there or is there at the moment will relate. It is also an insight into the social tensions which surround parents experience of their children's schools explored in a delightfully humorous way. It is also a romantic comedy, a glimpse into the modern work-place and its issues and a lot more.
What I enjoyed:
The reassurance factor. This is a book that any single parent can relate to and it is a welcome reminder that the task is overwhelming and those who undertake it are heroic.
The humour. It is drawn from everyday situations that anyone can relate to and the reality adds to the hilarity.
The characters and situations. These people are people every parent knows. We have all felt the humiliatingly withering glare of our own Vivienne. We have all known those moments when life seems to be coming apart at the seams. We have all had our children say the most excruciatingly embarrassing things at the least appropriate moment. Even having an ex-turn up at the worst moment is something many will relate to.
What I struggled with:
The writing style. Whilst it flowed well in general, the sudden shifts from character to character were a bit disorienting and repeating phrases became a bit jarring.
The way the school is shown. I think most teachers would be frowning a bit at this.
Language. Kids swear and use sex words and it is often funny when they do. But what got to me a bit was the acceptance of the extreme sexual language used by the children. Instead of telling them it was completely inappropriate every time Gemma seemed happy to let it roll.
Overall thoughts:
A fun, easy to read and feel-good book for any single parent who is in the thick of it - or anyone who has ever been there. I enjoyed it.
Gemma is struggling not so much with a work-life balance as with a work-life-school-children-everything balance. Then when Becky moves in next door and there is the most amazingly gorgeous hunk of a teacher taking over her daughter's class, things morph from chaotic to sensationally chaotic.
This book is many things. It is a hilarious paeon of praise to the single-parent who tries to get it all perfect, and any single-parent who has been there or is there at the moment will relate. It is also an insight into the social tensions which surround parents experience of their children's schools explored in a delightfully humorous way. It is also a romantic comedy, a glimpse into the modern work-place and its issues and a lot more.
What I enjoyed:
The reassurance factor. This is a book that any single parent can relate to and it is a welcome reminder that the task is overwhelming and those who undertake it are heroic.
The humour. It is drawn from everyday situations that anyone can relate to and the reality adds to the hilarity.
The characters and situations. These people are people every parent knows. We have all felt the humiliatingly withering glare of our own Vivienne. We have all known those moments when life seems to be coming apart at the seams. We have all had our children say the most excruciatingly embarrassing things at the least appropriate moment. Even having an ex-turn up at the worst moment is something many will relate to.
What I struggled with:
The writing style. Whilst it flowed well in general, the sudden shifts from character to character were a bit disorienting and repeating phrases became a bit jarring.
The way the school is shown. I think most teachers would be frowning a bit at this.
Language. Kids swear and use sex words and it is often funny when they do. But what got to me a bit was the acceptance of the extreme sexual language used by the children. Instead of telling them it was completely inappropriate every time Gemma seemed happy to let it roll.
Overall thoughts:
A fun, easy to read and feel-good book for any single parent who is in the thick of it - or anyone who has ever been there. I enjoyed it.
May 26, 2019
You all know by now rom coms/ chick lit/ mom lit are totally my bag, and so I jumped for this, the story of Gemma who is very much trying to juggle work life with parenting, aghast that she is floundering at the latter, only finding out about projects and school trips the night before and having to deal with inappropriate words coming out of her kids’ mouths.
I suppose I’ll jump straight in. Gemma, and her new neighbour Becky, whose child has just started the same school, are in a world of privilege, and one where they need to be keeping up with everyone or else they’ll be talked about by a group of mum’s that are always ready to talk! I really enjoyed all the day to day interactions, Gemma realising at the end of Christmas holidays that her and her child were supposed to be reading every day, finding out the night before a school tour that a) it was on and b) that waterproof trousers were necessary.
I liked all of this aspect to it, the one place it headed a bit south for me was the language. Basically every single word for every part of the anatomy out there being used by the kids or them suddenly mentioning sexual things, which is fine and even funny at times but it was very regular and got a bit old. Bad language was a given and I don’t mind that either but it was practically on every single page, a child saying something or Becky’s constant cursing … and I found myself sighing and willing the book to speed up.
The story was a nice idea, Gemma’s workplace having issues while Becky searched for a job that would fit in around her daughter and also a point of view from a new male teacher who was trying to cope with pushy mums. I wanted to see how they all got on, and didn’t consider not finishing, but at the same time this wasn’t for me. Thanks to Little Brown and Netgalley for the book in return for an honest review.
Rating: 3/5
I suppose I’ll jump straight in. Gemma, and her new neighbour Becky, whose child has just started the same school, are in a world of privilege, and one where they need to be keeping up with everyone or else they’ll be talked about by a group of mum’s that are always ready to talk! I really enjoyed all the day to day interactions, Gemma realising at the end of Christmas holidays that her and her child were supposed to be reading every day, finding out the night before a school tour that a) it was on and b) that waterproof trousers were necessary.
I liked all of this aspect to it, the one place it headed a bit south for me was the language. Basically every single word for every part of the anatomy out there being used by the kids or them suddenly mentioning sexual things, which is fine and even funny at times but it was very regular and got a bit old. Bad language was a given and I don’t mind that either but it was practically on every single page, a child saying something or Becky’s constant cursing … and I found myself sighing and willing the book to speed up.
The story was a nice idea, Gemma’s workplace having issues while Becky searched for a job that would fit in around her daughter and also a point of view from a new male teacher who was trying to cope with pushy mums. I wanted to see how they all got on, and didn’t consider not finishing, but at the same time this wasn’t for me. Thanks to Little Brown and Netgalley for the book in return for an honest review.
Rating: 3/5
March 7, 2019
I have to say a massive thank you to Kirsteen Astor at Little Brown UK for sending me a copy of ‘Absolutely Smashing It’ (with some goodies!) and to Kathryn for writing such an amazing book.
I was in absolute stitches of laughter throughout this book and I haven’t belly laughed whilst reading a book for a good while. I related to some of the situations Gemma found herself in as I’m a mother of a four year old which made this book so much more personal and relatable. Kathryn’s writing is heart stopping and witty. I was captivated from beginning to end, not that I wanted it to end! I wasn’t used to seeing so much swearing in a book but personally that didn’t really bother me.
Gemma’s character is so amusing and to be honest quite realistic. I loved how she made such a special friend in Becky (we all need a friend like this in our lives!) I was most amused at Gemma’s daughter Ava, you will see why when you read the book for yourself. She comes out with the funniest sayings but Gemma loves her all the more for that. Sam, Gemma’s son is a typical boy and he of course has a love hate relationship with his sister.
I feel like Kathryn could write a sequel to ‘Absolutely Smashing It’ I would love to know what’s in store for Gemma and Tom especially. This book is about family, friendship, determination to achieve what makes you happy and to know that the way you parent your children is never wrong. We all have our ways and that’s totally fine! We are all ‘Absolutely Smashing It’ in some way or another 😊
I can see this book being a massive hit. I really didn’t want it to end, now I feel like I have a book hangover. I give ‘Absolutely Smashing It’ a massive 5*/5* 😊
I was in absolute stitches of laughter throughout this book and I haven’t belly laughed whilst reading a book for a good while. I related to some of the situations Gemma found herself in as I’m a mother of a four year old which made this book so much more personal and relatable. Kathryn’s writing is heart stopping and witty. I was captivated from beginning to end, not that I wanted it to end! I wasn’t used to seeing so much swearing in a book but personally that didn’t really bother me.
Gemma’s character is so amusing and to be honest quite realistic. I loved how she made such a special friend in Becky (we all need a friend like this in our lives!) I was most amused at Gemma’s daughter Ava, you will see why when you read the book for yourself. She comes out with the funniest sayings but Gemma loves her all the more for that. Sam, Gemma’s son is a typical boy and he of course has a love hate relationship with his sister.
I feel like Kathryn could write a sequel to ‘Absolutely Smashing It’ I would love to know what’s in store for Gemma and Tom especially. This book is about family, friendship, determination to achieve what makes you happy and to know that the way you parent your children is never wrong. We all have our ways and that’s totally fine! We are all ‘Absolutely Smashing It’ in some way or another 😊
I can see this book being a massive hit. I really didn’t want it to end, now I feel like I have a book hangover. I give ‘Absolutely Smashing It’ a massive 5*/5* 😊
September 29, 2019
*I received a free copy of this book, with thanks to the author and Amazon’s Vine Programme. The opinions expressed here are my own.*
I have followed Kathryn Wallace on Facebook for quite a while now - her page and blog is called I Know I Need to Stop Talking - and knew that she was writing a book, so when the opportunity came to read Absolutely Smashing It, I jumped at the chance.
Kathryn writes about the everyday life on her blog, parenting, how to cope with trying to be everything to everyone, school, children and life in general. If you haven’t read her Facebook page or blog, then I would recommend it. It’s very good and very funny…. and very true!
I think that she has managed to transfer her blog very well into a novel. She has kept her same sense of humour and her observations about life but has given them life in the forms of her characters Gemma and Becky. Gemma is struggling with her life as a single parent to two fantastically written children. This book looks at relationships in the modern world, parenting, work, friendships and how we try to achieve it all.
I really enjoyed this book, it is laugh out loud in places, and although I do not have children myself, I could relate to the two main characters. Would recommend and I do hope that Kathryn writes another book
I have followed Kathryn Wallace on Facebook for quite a while now - her page and blog is called I Know I Need to Stop Talking - and knew that she was writing a book, so when the opportunity came to read Absolutely Smashing It, I jumped at the chance.
Kathryn writes about the everyday life on her blog, parenting, how to cope with trying to be everything to everyone, school, children and life in general. If you haven’t read her Facebook page or blog, then I would recommend it. It’s very good and very funny…. and very true!
I think that she has managed to transfer her blog very well into a novel. She has kept her same sense of humour and her observations about life but has given them life in the forms of her characters Gemma and Becky. Gemma is struggling with her life as a single parent to two fantastically written children. This book looks at relationships in the modern world, parenting, work, friendships and how we try to achieve it all.
I really enjoyed this book, it is laugh out loud in places, and although I do not have children myself, I could relate to the two main characters. Would recommend and I do hope that Kathryn writes another book
January 27, 2022
Look, it wasn't awful, but I really didn't like this book. I wanted to like it. The premise of the book seemed interesting, and the characters were likeable. However, the characters had no depth, and their relationships had no depth. The sentences were overly long and wordy, and I found it hard to believe someone would actually speak like that. Despite being so verbose, the language in the book was very simple and the writing style seemed almost too dumbed down for an adult. The book was meant to be funny, but I don't think I cracked a smile once, let alone laughed. I like that it was light-hearted, like it was intended to be, but really it was just over the top a lot of the time. The children are written like absolute menaces, and I have never met a 7 or 9 year old that acts in the way that these children are written. Most children are socially aware, and the constant singing about genitals and the inappropriate commentary provided by the kids on every second page of the book seems more like a 4 year old's behaviour. I found myself skim reading and skipping through the repetitive cringe, in order to hurry up and get to the predictable ending.
November 19, 2018
I very much enjoyed this book, it is very fast paced so you are fully ingrained in the everyday life in Gemma's & Becky's households very quickly. Both of which I would feel very at home in being a mum myself. I did giggle quite a bit on some of the observations of school life at the gates. We've all been there with the PTA mums!
If you are after a light, quick read that will make you giggle about life as a parent where we are all spinning plates of different sizes and at different speeds. I am certain you will enjoy this book. I am now keen to read more by the author who also has a blog. I do like the fact that the author has written a fiction book rather than just writing longer blogs for a book which I feel doesn't always work. A book I would recommend wholeheartedly to fellow friends who are also spinning their own plates!
Thank you to NetGalley & publisher for the opportunity to read this book in exchange for a honest review.
If you are after a light, quick read that will make you giggle about life as a parent where we are all spinning plates of different sizes and at different speeds. I am certain you will enjoy this book. I am now keen to read more by the author who also has a blog. I do like the fact that the author has written a fiction book rather than just writing longer blogs for a book which I feel doesn't always work. A book I would recommend wholeheartedly to fellow friends who are also spinning their own plates!
Thank you to NetGalley & publisher for the opportunity to read this book in exchange for a honest review.
December 14, 2020
This was a solid read. Nothing extra special, nor extremely memorible, but just a light and fun and quick read.
And sometimes all we need is a lighthearted and fast read (especially this year).
I had a few issues wih the book, and I got frustrated a bit by the MC's, however, I enjoyed it more than it frustrated me, so that is a good thing.
As far as my 'issues' go with this book, I mainly didn't like 'AVA'. I will not delve into this, I just really didn't like her (personal opinion and probably a very unpopular one). I also don't care for how easily the women in this book forgive the scumbag dudes.
But this are minor things and I overcame them.
It is a funny book (I didn't laugh out loud as I did with the 'Why mummy'-series bij Gil Sims, but it did make me smile and snigger) and I do enjoy the friendship between the two MCs.
In the end I recommend this book for anyone who isn't offended by 'strongish' language and who can use a light-hearted happy read.
And sometimes all we need is a lighthearted and fast read (especially this year).
I had a few issues wih the book, and I got frustrated a bit by the MC's, however, I enjoyed it more than it frustrated me, so that is a good thing.
As far as my 'issues' go with this book, I mainly didn't like 'AVA'. I will not delve into this, I just really didn't like her (personal opinion and probably a very unpopular one). I also don't care for how easily the women in this book forgive the scumbag dudes.
But this are minor things and I overcame them.
It is a funny book (I didn't laugh out loud as I did with the 'Why mummy'-series bij Gil Sims, but it did make me smile and snigger) and I do enjoy the friendship between the two MCs.
In the end I recommend this book for anyone who isn't offended by 'strongish' language and who can use a light-hearted happy read.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
September 2, 2019
Absolutely Smashing It by Kathryn Wallace 📚
Now, don’t take my low-ish rating of this book as a bad sign because this isn’t a bad book. There are so many bits in this book that made me laugh and so many bits that as a mother I could relate with. However, this kind of book just isn’t my cup of tea. But every now and then I like to dabble in case I stumble over some treasure.
Describing the life of single mum Gemma and her struggles with embarrassingly open children, a full time job and a failing love life, this book really will warm the hearts of many people.
If you enjoy books of this nature then I urge you to get your hands on this one for some easy reading, light hearted laughter. If like me, you prefer something a bit ‘heavier’ (even when wanting something light!) then maybe look elsewhere.
I’m giving this 2.5 stars as it was enjoyable, just not my cup of tea.
⭐️⭐️💫
Now, don’t take my low-ish rating of this book as a bad sign because this isn’t a bad book. There are so many bits in this book that made me laugh and so many bits that as a mother I could relate with. However, this kind of book just isn’t my cup of tea. But every now and then I like to dabble in case I stumble over some treasure.
Describing the life of single mum Gemma and her struggles with embarrassingly open children, a full time job and a failing love life, this book really will warm the hearts of many people.
If you enjoy books of this nature then I urge you to get your hands on this one for some easy reading, light hearted laughter. If like me, you prefer something a bit ‘heavier’ (even when wanting something light!) then maybe look elsewhere.
I’m giving this 2.5 stars as it was enjoyable, just not my cup of tea.
⭐️⭐️💫
August 22, 2021
4/5 stars
If I need to describe this book in a short sentence, I'd say hilarious and entertaining!
The story is about Gemma who is a single parent and her daily lives with her 2 little human Ava and Sam Gemma is struggling with her friendship, job, and sex life I mean relationship.
The story is not that deep and literary, on the contrary it's light and very fast paced and that's what I like about this book.
I love almost all the characters (except Vivienne ofc) and seeing how they established their friendship is so wholesome!
If you want a quick and funny read or maybe a poolside read, this book is a perfect way to keep you entertained and maybe will make you smile by yourself and makes everyone think you're not quite right in the head 😆
If I need to describe this book in a short sentence, I'd say hilarious and entertaining!
The story is about Gemma who is a single parent and her daily lives with her 2 little human Ava and Sam Gemma is struggling with her friendship, job, and sex life I mean relationship.
The story is not that deep and literary, on the contrary it's light and very fast paced and that's what I like about this book.
I love almost all the characters (except Vivienne ofc) and seeing how they established their friendship is so wholesome!
If you want a quick and funny read or maybe a poolside read, this book is a perfect way to keep you entertained and maybe will make you smile by yourself and makes everyone think you're not quite right in the head 😆
March 13, 2019
This is about Gemma and Becky two next door neighbors trying to juggle life, children and work as well as juggle the antics which happen in the playground. This was very funny and I'm so pleased I read it. I loved Gemma and Beckys friendship and the bond they have with each other almost instantly. I loved Tom as well he really cares about the kids he teaches and has a good heart. I'd love to see a follow up. This is a book that will have you laughing out loud and saying did they just say that? I can't wait for more from Kathryn Wallace.
Thanks goes to net galley and the publishers for providing me with a copy in exchange for an honest review.
Thanks goes to net galley and the publishers for providing me with a copy in exchange for an honest review.
November 12, 2020
Absolutely loved it
Kathryn Wallace writes likes she speaks, I would encourage everyone to check out he podcast and facebook"I know I should stop talking ". I would say anyone who has ever had children and braved the horror that is the school run will fine episodes in this book to both make them laugh and cringe in equal measure. People without children should read it and then decide do they still want them? And teachers should read it just for the episode about sports day. A delightful book from a delightful person, may she write many more
Kathryn Wallace writes likes she speaks, I would encourage everyone to check out he podcast and facebook"I know I should stop talking ". I would say anyone who has ever had children and braved the horror that is the school run will fine episodes in this book to both make them laugh and cringe in equal measure. People without children should read it and then decide do they still want them? And teachers should read it just for the episode about sports day. A delightful book from a delightful person, may she write many more
December 4, 2020
Absolutely hilarious, I've been following the author's blog on Facebook for a while and I can tell that Ava and Sam are based on her children and their real life exploits. The teacher Mrs Thompson and Boris the dog are based on her comedy retellings of the Biff, Chip & Kipper books that feature on the blog. Also calling the golden Labrador that's a f***ing liability after Boris Johnson (our pm) is inspired.
I don't think I've laughed out loud on public transport as much for years when reading this book, not since discovering Terry Pratchett a long time ago
I don't think I've laughed out loud on public transport as much for years when reading this book, not since discovering Terry Pratchett a long time ago
March 16, 2019
Absolutely brilliant
I haven't read a book yet that I can bow my head and hold my hand up at the same time. It's funny, sad in places and everyone I'm sure knows a Nick or Vivienne.
I haven't laughed hard reading for a long time so would recommend this book to anyone who wants a down to earth, fml, entertaining book to read which is a bit hard to find.
Well done, you have done it and should be so proud of yourself. Just have a small drop of the homemade sloe gin lol
I haven't read a book yet that I can bow my head and hold my hand up at the same time. It's funny, sad in places and everyone I'm sure knows a Nick or Vivienne.
I haven't laughed hard reading for a long time so would recommend this book to anyone who wants a down to earth, fml, entertaining book to read which is a bit hard to find.
Well done, you have done it and should be so proud of yourself. Just have a small drop of the homemade sloe gin lol
April 2, 2019
I really, really enjoyed this book. It was lighthearted but oh so realistic, reminding me that every family has, mostly, the same struggles! What it did brilliantly was remind me that no one is perfect and no one has the perfect life but, happily, it will do.
There’s are lots of laugh out loud moments and very cringe worthy moments... loved them.
I would recommend this book if you want a giggle and to realise that #FML means family!
#kathrynwallace I salute you
There’s are lots of laugh out loud moments and very cringe worthy moments... loved them.
I would recommend this book if you want a giggle and to realise that #FML means family!
#kathrynwallace I salute you
June 13, 2019
I had never heard of Kathryn Wallace or her blog or Facebook page, but this did not stop me from really enjoying her book. It is a lighthearted read with many laugh out loud moments.
Gemma and Becky are next door neighbours. They both have two children, and their friendship develops when they decide they will find Gemma a new man and Becky a job. Will they be successful in their plan?
A really good read.
Thanks to NetGalley for a Kindle copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
Gemma and Becky are next door neighbours. They both have two children, and their friendship develops when they decide they will find Gemma a new man and Becky a job. Will they be successful in their plan?
A really good read.
Thanks to NetGalley for a Kindle copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
December 28, 2020
What a cure this was for that post Christmas week where you don’t know what day it is and are moping about. I laughed out loud on many occasions. A real treat of a read. The kids were hilarious, and so natural and confident. Gemma’s love life was a rollercoaster- especially the date with Andy. I loved the friendship with Becky, and the serious themes within of racism, sexism, discrimination in the workplace. And I want to work at Zero!! I am off to order Winning at Life!
March 5, 2022
I thought I might enjoy this as the author’s blog can be quite funny but I’m sorry to say I thought it was awful. Ridiculous, unrealistic, predictable and unfunny with totally over the top scenarios and too much unnecessary swearing. It’s the sort of book I’d normally read in 24 hours but it dragged so much it took me nearly a week to finish it and if I was the sort of person to ditch a book part way through I would’ve done.
May 31, 2019
She absolutely smashed it!
I totally loved this book. It is everything Kathryn's IKINTST blog is - and so much more. Very engaging characters, who often mirror the blog and then some, but in such a brilliant way that it just makes you want to read more. Incontinence pants on and tissues at the ready, people - this one will make you laugh and cry in equal measure. Fabulous!
I totally loved this book. It is everything Kathryn's IKINTST blog is - and so much more. Very engaging characters, who often mirror the blog and then some, but in such a brilliant way that it just makes you want to read more. Incontinence pants on and tissues at the ready, people - this one will make you laugh and cry in equal measure. Fabulous!
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