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The Great Unexpected
A curmudgeon and his eccentric new roommate join together to plan an epic escape in this charming, poignant tale.
Joel lives in a nursing home, and he’s not one bit happy about it. He hates being told when to eat, when to sleep, when to take his pills. He’s fed up with life and begins to plan a way out when his new roommate, a retired soap opera actor named Frank, moves in and turns the nursing-home community upside down.
Though the two men couldn’t be more opposite, a fast friendship is formed when Frank is the only one who listens to and stands up for Joel. When he tells Frank about his burgeoning plan, they embark together on a mission to find the perfect escape, and along the way will discover that it’s never too late for new beginnings.
Filled with colorful characters, sparkling humor and deep emotion, The Great Unexpected is the story of friendship, finding oneself later in life and experiencing newfound joy in the most unexpected places.
Joel lives in a nursing home, and he’s not one bit happy about it. He hates being told when to eat, when to sleep, when to take his pills. He’s fed up with life and begins to plan a way out when his new roommate, a retired soap opera actor named Frank, moves in and turns the nursing-home community upside down.
Though the two men couldn’t be more opposite, a fast friendship is formed when Frank is the only one who listens to and stands up for Joel. When he tells Frank about his burgeoning plan, they embark together on a mission to find the perfect escape, and along the way will discover that it’s never too late for new beginnings.
Filled with colorful characters, sparkling humor and deep emotion, The Great Unexpected is the story of friendship, finding oneself later in life and experiencing newfound joy in the most unexpected places.
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First published August 15, 2018
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July 16, 2019
While there are some very funny scenes in this book, it is not really a light read. It’s sad and thoughtful and thought provoking. It’s about grief and aging, and the desire to live one’s life with dignity, with pride. Joel Monroe is a lonely, seventy six year old man who lives a nursing home after losing his wife. Feeling alone, stifled, not in control of his life and not on the best of terms with his daughter, he loses the desire to live and begins to plan what he’ll do about it. Frank Adams, stage name of Frank de Selby, a soap opera actor who never quite made it to the big screen, is Joel’s new roommate. Self assured and full of energy, the quick witted Frank brings to Joel something he’s been missing since his wife died - friendship and he agrees to help Joel on his mission. Their developing camaraderie is one that brings hope and joy to Joel, someone to confide in, someone to laugh your head off with. Their escapades will make you laugh as they “escape “ to go out for a pint or to Joel’s old house so he can look at his garage. Their heart to heart conversations will make you cry. Joel isn’t the only one in need of a friend. Frank confides in Joel about the man he is and his estrangement from his family. For some reason I thought this was going to be a sentimental, sweet story of an aging man. I wasn’t expecting this lovely, touching story, which was so much more.
I received an advanced copy of this book from Park Row through NetGalley.
June 19, 2019
3.5 Stars
Thank you to HARLEQUIN- Trade Publishing / Park Row for providing an advance reader copy via NetGalley.
This is a story about a resident of Hilltop Nursing Home, Joel Monroe. His wife Lucey used to share the room with him, until she suddenly died one morning after asking for a cup of tea. Eventually, they put a man named Mr. Miller in Joel's room, who was essentially comatose. Even though Mr. Miller was just a body in the room, Joel still found his presence very comforting. Then one day Mr. Miller coded and the medical staff mightily attempted resusitation, to no avail. Joel was forever traumatized by the violent CPR manipulation on Mr. Miller, imagining his pathetically frail rib bones being crushed during the process. Joel's depressive state was already hitting critical mass, but after the death of Mr. Miller, Joel wanted to kill himself more than ever.
Then one day a new inmate could be heard laughing and cajoling with the other nursing home residents. To Joel's utter surprise (and dismay), it was his new roommate Frank Adams ...aka de Selby. Frank de Selby was his stage name, as he was an actor in the theater as well as on a popular soap opera. With his dapper, colorful scarves and rogue-ish humor, Frank could diffuse almost any stressful situation.
Joel is still grieving his wife and Mr. Miller and is grumpier than ever. He's cursing at staff, refusing to take his pills, and admits to Frank that he wishes to kill himself. While Joel initially rebuffed Frank's invitation at friendship, his defenses gradually wear down to possibly welcome in the best friend he's ever had. I don't want to include any spoilers, but lets say these two gentleman conspire to "jailbreak" on more than one occasion to feel alive again.
There were some tearjerker moments and an ending that left me utterly gobsmacked. This 368 page book could have been edited down more, but this was a pleasant and poignant read.
Thank you to HARLEQUIN- Trade Publishing / Park Row for providing an advance reader copy via NetGalley.
This is a story about a resident of Hilltop Nursing Home, Joel Monroe. His wife Lucey used to share the room with him, until she suddenly died one morning after asking for a cup of tea. Eventually, they put a man named Mr. Miller in Joel's room, who was essentially comatose. Even though Mr. Miller was just a body in the room, Joel still found his presence very comforting. Then one day Mr. Miller coded and the medical staff mightily attempted resusitation, to no avail. Joel was forever traumatized by the violent CPR manipulation on Mr. Miller, imagining his pathetically frail rib bones being crushed during the process. Joel's depressive state was already hitting critical mass, but after the death of Mr. Miller, Joel wanted to kill himself more than ever.
Then one day a new inmate could be heard laughing and cajoling with the other nursing home residents. To Joel's utter surprise (and dismay), it was his new roommate Frank Adams ...aka de Selby. Frank de Selby was his stage name, as he was an actor in the theater as well as on a popular soap opera. With his dapper, colorful scarves and rogue-ish humor, Frank could diffuse almost any stressful situation.
Joel is still grieving his wife and Mr. Miller and is grumpier than ever. He's cursing at staff, refusing to take his pills, and admits to Frank that he wishes to kill himself. While Joel initially rebuffed Frank's invitation at friendship, his defenses gradually wear down to possibly welcome in the best friend he's ever had. I don't want to include any spoilers, but lets say these two gentleman conspire to "jailbreak" on more than one occasion to feel alive again.
There were some tearjerker moments and an ending that left me utterly gobsmacked. This 368 page book could have been edited down more, but this was a pleasant and poignant read.
May 31, 2019
4.5 stars, rounded up
Joel has been living in a nursing home for five years. “God’s waiting room” as my parents call it. It wasn’t too bad when his wife Lucey was still alive. But she’s been gone three years now.
The book starts on a depressing note. Joel is lonely and scared and has lost the will to live. As someone dealing with two aged parents, I can totally get the whole quality over quantity issue at stake here.
Things begin to change when Joel gets a new roommate, Frank. Frank was an actor in his prime and has the social skills Joel seems to lack. That’s not to say he doesn’t have his issues, too. But he shows us that it’s perception as much as reality that counts.
A very moving book with bits of both humor and pathos. And yes, I knew exactly how this would end and it didn’t diminish the book’s appeal for me. It’s also a strong reminder for those dealing with the elderly to remember they deserve a say in their own lives.
My thanks to netgalley and Harlequin for an advance copy of this book.
Joel has been living in a nursing home for five years. “God’s waiting room” as my parents call it. It wasn’t too bad when his wife Lucey was still alive. But she’s been gone three years now.
The book starts on a depressing note. Joel is lonely and scared and has lost the will to live. As someone dealing with two aged parents, I can totally get the whole quality over quantity issue at stake here.
Things begin to change when Joel gets a new roommate, Frank. Frank was an actor in his prime and has the social skills Joel seems to lack. That’s not to say he doesn’t have his issues, too. But he shows us that it’s perception as much as reality that counts.
A very moving book with bits of both humor and pathos. And yes, I knew exactly how this would end and it didn’t diminish the book’s appeal for me. It’s also a strong reminder for those dealing with the elderly to remember they deserve a say in their own lives.
My thanks to netgalley and Harlequin for an advance copy of this book.
March 7, 2020
Library overdrive: ebook/Audiobook narrated by Aiden Kelly
This review turned out longer than I had thought it would be....
FOR JUICY DETAILS AND PERSONAL ENJOYMENT....just read the book ....
My lengthy review ( sorry), doesn’t spill the beans on the nitty gritty details — only a contextual overview.
Aiden Kelly was a very engaging- very delightful - very enjoyable kick-ass wonderful book-reader!
“For he’s a jolly good fellow...[sing along].....🎶🎤
Two elderly gents: Joel Monroe and Frank Adams de Selby, roommates at Hilltop Nursing Home, two very different types of men, develop a unique friendship. We’re able to examine how vitally important close bonds are to mental health.
Heck....I don’t mean to intellectualize friendship - what a waste that would be ( if that’s all we did)....
.....FRIENDSHIPS FEEL GOOD! They make life worth living - through happiness, sorrows, sickness, and health ....our friendships matter at EVERY AGE. They are the heartbeat of life!
This is an extraordinary story with outstanding character development....
primarily focused on Joel, an aging straight man - Frank, an aging gay man - including family members, resident staff at Hilltop nursing home, and a look at society’s ignorance.(people who generally forget to contemplate elderly needs).
We learn early that Joel wanted to die. ( this is not a spoiler)...
His wife died 3 years ago. He was estranged from his daughter, Eva - and his a comatose roommate suddenly died.
Joel either withdrew into quiet hopelessness, or he snapped angrily at the nurses. (alternating behaviors).:
He was 75 years old...still grieving the loss of his wife, Lucey.
Joel was tired, cranky, and ‘sick-to-death’ of being treated like a child.
He didn’t seem to have a passion for books, art, music, gardening, nothing that might help comfort him.
Lonely and depressed, Joel began to fantasize suicide.
The staff were great caring people - but Joel’s freedom was jeopardized....and he hated it.
Joel knew some residents were happy at Hilltop....but he wasn’t one of them.
Then Frank moved into his room: Joel’s new roommate.
Everything about Frank was different than Joel....(personalities, physical statue, outlook about life).
In Frank’s prime, he was a theater and film actor. He was most known for being a soap opera star on a long running show.
When Joel confided to Frank that he wanted to kill himself -Frank practically screams “marvelous”. ( not exactly the response Joel had expected).
But....Frank listened to Joel. Really listened. Frank was going to help Joel plan his suicide....but told him he must do it ‘grand’!
A GRAND DEATH FOR A GREAT MAN!
So begins the inquiry into the best method >>for that ‘grand’ exit from life, ie....suicide.
Frank was secretly postponing Joel’s death. Frank was so darn entertaining- Joel went along with Frank’s plans.
An adventure begins - away from the nursing home and into the city.....( very funny heartfelt adventures).
The two old geezers escape the nursing home - not once, not twice, not three times, but four different times.
I was laughing hysterically over a bus ride. Seniors can ride free- but they must show I.D.
What to do if you’ve not got any I.D. on you?
Ha....ACT OLD.... pretend senility...drool a little...act confused. FAKE BEING INCOHERENT! ( just enough to get a bus ride)....
Then go drink some beers...chitchat with strangers...have some fun!
The despondent feelings begin to drop away for Joel. He began to forget about his suicide plans.
Later there is a very moving scene with Joel and his daughter.
Later, again, there was heartbreaking reveals about Frank...
There are tearjerker scenes...
There are hilarious scenes...
Relationships improve...( with a granddaughter, Lily too)...
Vitality for life emerges...
Frank and Joel’s soulful friendship was not only vital to each of them....
but they opened our eyes - big time - for the needs of good quality support-care for the elderly.
Too many elders feel isolated - lonely - sad - depressed - tossed away like wrinkly ugly ducklings.
A poignant- powerful ending!
Tender, grouchy-sweet, funny, sad, heartwarming, heartbreaking....
Well written....with colorful-textured characters!
Although reminiscent of “A Man Called Ove”, ....it’s ‘not’ that book.
Both great, books...but both with their own unique spin.
Dan Mooney never once came off preachy - instead he created a thought provoking utterly beautiful novel about the value of friendship and old age!
This was a buddy read with Stacy.
Stacy picked the book for us!
Many thanks Stacy!!! I cherish ‘our’ friendship! 💕
This review turned out longer than I had thought it would be....
FOR JUICY DETAILS AND PERSONAL ENJOYMENT....just read the book ....
My lengthy review ( sorry), doesn’t spill the beans on the nitty gritty details — only a contextual overview.
Aiden Kelly was a very engaging- very delightful - very enjoyable kick-ass wonderful book-reader!
“For he’s a jolly good fellow...[sing along].....🎶🎤
Two elderly gents: Joel Monroe and Frank Adams de Selby, roommates at Hilltop Nursing Home, two very different types of men, develop a unique friendship. We’re able to examine how vitally important close bonds are to mental health.
Heck....I don’t mean to intellectualize friendship - what a waste that would be ( if that’s all we did)....
.....FRIENDSHIPS FEEL GOOD! They make life worth living - through happiness, sorrows, sickness, and health ....our friendships matter at EVERY AGE. They are the heartbeat of life!
This is an extraordinary story with outstanding character development....
primarily focused on Joel, an aging straight man - Frank, an aging gay man - including family members, resident staff at Hilltop nursing home, and a look at society’s ignorance.(people who generally forget to contemplate elderly needs).
We learn early that Joel wanted to die. ( this is not a spoiler)...
His wife died 3 years ago. He was estranged from his daughter, Eva - and his a comatose roommate suddenly died.
Joel either withdrew into quiet hopelessness, or he snapped angrily at the nurses. (alternating behaviors).:
He was 75 years old...still grieving the loss of his wife, Lucey.
Joel was tired, cranky, and ‘sick-to-death’ of being treated like a child.
He didn’t seem to have a passion for books, art, music, gardening, nothing that might help comfort him.
Lonely and depressed, Joel began to fantasize suicide.
The staff were great caring people - but Joel’s freedom was jeopardized....and he hated it.
Joel knew some residents were happy at Hilltop....but he wasn’t one of them.
Then Frank moved into his room: Joel’s new roommate.
Everything about Frank was different than Joel....(personalities, physical statue, outlook about life).
In Frank’s prime, he was a theater and film actor. He was most known for being a soap opera star on a long running show.
When Joel confided to Frank that he wanted to kill himself -Frank practically screams “marvelous”. ( not exactly the response Joel had expected).
But....Frank listened to Joel. Really listened. Frank was going to help Joel plan his suicide....but told him he must do it ‘grand’!
A GRAND DEATH FOR A GREAT MAN!
So begins the inquiry into the best method >>for that ‘grand’ exit from life, ie....suicide.
Frank was secretly postponing Joel’s death. Frank was so darn entertaining- Joel went along with Frank’s plans.
An adventure begins - away from the nursing home and into the city.....( very funny heartfelt adventures).
The two old geezers escape the nursing home - not once, not twice, not three times, but four different times.
I was laughing hysterically over a bus ride. Seniors can ride free- but they must show I.D.
What to do if you’ve not got any I.D. on you?
Ha....ACT OLD.... pretend senility...drool a little...act confused. FAKE BEING INCOHERENT! ( just enough to get a bus ride)....
Then go drink some beers...chitchat with strangers...have some fun!
The despondent feelings begin to drop away for Joel. He began to forget about his suicide plans.
Later there is a very moving scene with Joel and his daughter.
Later, again, there was heartbreaking reveals about Frank...
There are tearjerker scenes...
There are hilarious scenes...
Relationships improve...( with a granddaughter, Lily too)...
Vitality for life emerges...
Frank and Joel’s soulful friendship was not only vital to each of them....
but they opened our eyes - big time - for the needs of good quality support-care for the elderly.
Too many elders feel isolated - lonely - sad - depressed - tossed away like wrinkly ugly ducklings.
A poignant- powerful ending!
Tender, grouchy-sweet, funny, sad, heartwarming, heartbreaking....
Well written....with colorful-textured characters!
Although reminiscent of “A Man Called Ove”, ....it’s ‘not’ that book.
Both great, books...but both with their own unique spin.
Dan Mooney never once came off preachy - instead he created a thought provoking utterly beautiful novel about the value of friendship and old age!
This was a buddy read with Stacy.
Stacy picked the book for us!
Many thanks Stacy!!! I cherish ‘our’ friendship! 💕
June 23, 2019
Awesome portrayal of a man, Joel, living in a nursing home and he wants to commit suicide because he feels he has nothing left to live for. The story is told with much humor as well as sensitivity and I loved it! The characters are well developed and they were a great cast of people in Joel's life. I really loved the way Joel described the nursing home as a prison, the residents as inmates and the nurses their jailers.
This story will really make you think about how the elderly are treated in today's society. We need to find ways to make sure they don't feel isolated and useless. How they need to have the right to live their lives and come and go as they please and not be treated as children. Kudos to Dan Mooney for a wonderful read!
Thanks to Dan Mooney and HARLEQUIN - Trad Publishing through Netgalley for an advance copy.
This story will really make you think about how the elderly are treated in today's society. We need to find ways to make sure they don't feel isolated and useless. How they need to have the right to live their lives and come and go as they please and not be treated as children. Kudos to Dan Mooney for a wonderful read!
Thanks to Dan Mooney and HARLEQUIN - Trad Publishing through Netgalley for an advance copy.
June 15, 2019
Joel Monroe has been living in Hilltop Nursing Home for five years. At first his wife Lucey was with him and things were ok. But then Lucey died....and the sunshine just faded from Joel's life. He dislikes the nurses, hates his life, often wants to kill himself.....he's just sad, alone and lost. But then a new roommate is moved into his room....a former soap opera actor....and Joel forms a fast, strong friendship. Perspectives can change.....life can improve.....adventures explored....even for an old curmudgeon.
Although the thought of old age, nursing homes and failing health is a bit depressing....this story brought out the sunshine that can beam into the final stages of life. Sometimes we are gifted friendships that have lasting, joyful effects on life. Joel is lucky enough to experience this very gift. It makes for a bittersweet tale. A bit of redemption, a splash of humor and a lot of joy and emotion. Great read!
This is the first book by Joel Monroe that I've read. I'm impressed. This book is well-written and heartfelt. He has two other books that I've added to my TBR list -- Me, Myself and Them, and A Rock and a High Place.
**I voluntarily read an advance readers copy of this book from Harlequin via NetGalley. All opinions expressed are entirely my own.**
Although the thought of old age, nursing homes and failing health is a bit depressing....this story brought out the sunshine that can beam into the final stages of life. Sometimes we are gifted friendships that have lasting, joyful effects on life. Joel is lucky enough to experience this very gift. It makes for a bittersweet tale. A bit of redemption, a splash of humor and a lot of joy and emotion. Great read!
This is the first book by Joel Monroe that I've read. I'm impressed. This book is well-written and heartfelt. He has two other books that I've added to my TBR list -- Me, Myself and Them, and A Rock and a High Place.
**I voluntarily read an advance readers copy of this book from Harlequin via NetGalley. All opinions expressed are entirely my own.**
April 21, 2019
Genre: General Fiction
Publisher: Trade Publishing
Pub. Date: June 25, 2019
This tenderly written novel is both depressing and hilarious. The plot revolves around two old men living in a nursing home. Think “A Man Called Ove” meets “The Odd Couple.” One is an introverted curmudgeon who has been there for years and considers his place of residency a prison. He walks around all day in his pajamas. In younger years he was a working-class mechanic who owned the shop. Nowadays, he desperately misses being the boss. He has given up on life and has suicidal thoughts. The other old dude is a sweetheart who has just moved in. He once worked as a soap opera actor. He is flamboyant, extraverted and just happens to be gay. This man dresses meticulously and always wears an accent scarf. He makes the best out of the living in the home, though he too misses his working life. The author has them sharing a room opening up all sorts of humor. Mooney does a great job nailing their differences and incompatibility. In the “outside world” they would never have been friends, but “locked up” together they create an unbreakable ying-yang friendship.
The real meat on the bones of the story is how the elderly are often thrown aside and made to feel isolated and useless. Mooney shows this best when the two old men sneak out to visit the mechanic’s old shop. The reader will feel the weight of depression when the mechanic realizes that now he is just an intruder and is asked to leave the premises. The author skillfully handles the sensitive subject of suicide. And somehow manages to make humor work so it doesn’t read all doom and gloom. He does this without minimizing the seriousness of suicidal ideation. Not an easy task. At times the writing gets sweetly/schmaltzy with a family reconnecting. Nor is the plot always believable. If you have ever been in a nursing home you know that sneaking out is unlikely. Still, two old man enjoying high school antics is fun to read. If you are in the mood for a story that will make you cry and laugh at the same time this one is for you.
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Publisher: Trade Publishing
Pub. Date: June 25, 2019
This tenderly written novel is both depressing and hilarious. The plot revolves around two old men living in a nursing home. Think “A Man Called Ove” meets “The Odd Couple.” One is an introverted curmudgeon who has been there for years and considers his place of residency a prison. He walks around all day in his pajamas. In younger years he was a working-class mechanic who owned the shop. Nowadays, he desperately misses being the boss. He has given up on life and has suicidal thoughts. The other old dude is a sweetheart who has just moved in. He once worked as a soap opera actor. He is flamboyant, extraverted and just happens to be gay. This man dresses meticulously and always wears an accent scarf. He makes the best out of the living in the home, though he too misses his working life. The author has them sharing a room opening up all sorts of humor. Mooney does a great job nailing their differences and incompatibility. In the “outside world” they would never have been friends, but “locked up” together they create an unbreakable ying-yang friendship.
The real meat on the bones of the story is how the elderly are often thrown aside and made to feel isolated and useless. Mooney shows this best when the two old men sneak out to visit the mechanic’s old shop. The reader will feel the weight of depression when the mechanic realizes that now he is just an intruder and is asked to leave the premises. The author skillfully handles the sensitive subject of suicide. And somehow manages to make humor work so it doesn’t read all doom and gloom. He does this without minimizing the seriousness of suicidal ideation. Not an easy task. At times the writing gets sweetly/schmaltzy with a family reconnecting. Nor is the plot always believable. If you have ever been in a nursing home you know that sneaking out is unlikely. Still, two old man enjoying high school antics is fun to read. If you are in the mood for a story that will make you cry and laugh at the same time this one is for you.
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August 26, 2018
Well this book was an unexpected surprise; it really is unexpected by name and unexpected by nature as I laughed, smiled and cried my way through this beautiful story of growing old disgracefully.
Joel isn't exactly everyone's favourite Grandad; he's miserable, argumentative and disruptive and just wants to die to put an end to his misery. Joel is imprisoned in a nursing home and he's clearly still grieving for his wife Lucey, whose bed is now occupied by another resident. The only positive for Joel is that his roommate, Mr Miller, is unconscious so Joel is left in peace to wallow in his misery...until the day that Mr Miller checks out and a new roommate moves in.
Frank De Selby or Frank Adams, depending on which persona he adopts, is like Joel's personal antidepressant and we know Joel doesn't like taking his pills. Frank is so virile, flamboyant and outgoing that it isn't long before Joel is swept along on an adventure that he will never forget. Frank is a very clever chap as rather than talk Joel out of his suicide mission, he vows to help him come up with the perfect suicide. I think he knew fine well from the start that he would show Joel that life is worth living after all. I was in kinks of laughter as the pair hatched an escape plan that enabled them to escape from the nursing home and gallivant around town. What a night on the town they had...it sounded better than any nights out that I have ever had.
My heart swelled with emotion as I saw Joel's fractured relationships with his daughter and grandchildren gradually being repaired. Joel had been so caught up in his own grief that he couldn't see that his family were grieving too, but together they could help each other through this difficult time. It's amazing yet sad to think that if Lucey hadn't died, Joel would never have met Frank and he would never have unearthed the love that his family have for him. Fate is a cruel mistress sometimes but dying is unfortunately a part of life.
As disgruntledly charming as Ove, The Great Unexpected's Joel Monroe is my new favourite grumpy old man. I laughed and cried at Joel and Frank's escapades but more than anything, they taught me a very valuable lesson: you only get one shot at life, so you have to make the most of it.
The Great Unexpected is one of those ageless books that appeal to both young and old and I would absolutely love to see this made into a film. To see Frank and Joel strutting their stuff on the dancefloor would be absolute comedy gold. I'm definitely going to read this book again and I can see it becoming one of my go-to books when I'm in need of a pick-me-up. I am completely astounded at how uplifted I felt by this book; evoking such surprising emotions, it really is perfectly named as The Great Unexpected.
I chose to read an ARC and this is my honest and unbiased opinion.
Joel isn't exactly everyone's favourite Grandad; he's miserable, argumentative and disruptive and just wants to die to put an end to his misery. Joel is imprisoned in a nursing home and he's clearly still grieving for his wife Lucey, whose bed is now occupied by another resident. The only positive for Joel is that his roommate, Mr Miller, is unconscious so Joel is left in peace to wallow in his misery...until the day that Mr Miller checks out and a new roommate moves in.
Frank De Selby or Frank Adams, depending on which persona he adopts, is like Joel's personal antidepressant and we know Joel doesn't like taking his pills. Frank is so virile, flamboyant and outgoing that it isn't long before Joel is swept along on an adventure that he will never forget. Frank is a very clever chap as rather than talk Joel out of his suicide mission, he vows to help him come up with the perfect suicide. I think he knew fine well from the start that he would show Joel that life is worth living after all. I was in kinks of laughter as the pair hatched an escape plan that enabled them to escape from the nursing home and gallivant around town. What a night on the town they had...it sounded better than any nights out that I have ever had.
My heart swelled with emotion as I saw Joel's fractured relationships with his daughter and grandchildren gradually being repaired. Joel had been so caught up in his own grief that he couldn't see that his family were grieving too, but together they could help each other through this difficult time. It's amazing yet sad to think that if Lucey hadn't died, Joel would never have met Frank and he would never have unearthed the love that his family have for him. Fate is a cruel mistress sometimes but dying is unfortunately a part of life.
As disgruntledly charming as Ove, The Great Unexpected's Joel Monroe is my new favourite grumpy old man. I laughed and cried at Joel and Frank's escapades but more than anything, they taught me a very valuable lesson: you only get one shot at life, so you have to make the most of it.
The Great Unexpected is one of those ageless books that appeal to both young and old and I would absolutely love to see this made into a film. To see Frank and Joel strutting their stuff on the dancefloor would be absolute comedy gold. I'm definitely going to read this book again and I can see it becoming one of my go-to books when I'm in need of a pick-me-up. I am completely astounded at how uplifted I felt by this book; evoking such surprising emotions, it really is perfectly named as The Great Unexpected.
I chose to read an ARC and this is my honest and unbiased opinion.
November 25, 2024
La premisa es muy interesante, pero el desarrollo es muy rígido, no conmueve, y algún detalle homófobo. Decepcionante.
November 11, 2018
Thanks to NetGalley and Harlequin Publishing for an advance copy of this wonderful, heartwarming book. It addresses the stigma of old age and the accompanying boredom and loneliness. It shows how the elderly may have their wishes and opinions ignored and are often addressed as if they were children. It touches on themes of family estrangement, unconditional love, friendship, forgiveness, death and loss, and the importance of living each day to its fullest. The charming story may at times bring tears to one’s’ eyes but will also bring a smile to your face.
Joel is considered an unhappy, grumpy old man. When he retired he moved into a nursing home with his pleasant wife where they shared a room together. It has been three years since her sudden death. He has become despondent and increasingly withdrawn. When it is necessary to talk to the staff he is complaining or argumentative. A comatose patient was moved into his deceased wife’s bed and Joel’s longest dialogues are with this man who can neither hear him and answer back. When this comatose man died, Joel went into a depression and is contemplating suicide. He hates being told when to eat, sleep and take medications. He is estranged from his daughter and grandchildren. Because of a medical condition he cannot leave the nursing home grounds on his daughter’s orders.
His next roommate is a flamboyant, gay, former soap opera actor. The extroverted Frank Adams also goes by his stage name, Frank De Selby. Frank is outwardly optimistic, likes entertaining with his stories and jokes. He is very popular with the other residents. The two men, this ‘curmudgeon’ and the ‘popinjay’ strike up an unlikely friendship. Joel confides his plans to commit suicide. Frank does not dissuade him but criticizes the methods which Joel is contemplating. He says he needs to find the perfect method to end his life and he will help him plan. While causing Joel to postpone the act, the two men sneak out of the nursing home on four occasions and embark in a series of life-affirming adventures while enjoying the nightlife in the city.
Joel is now enjoying life when away from the nursing home. Suicide is receding from his mind. He reconciles with his family and does not want to die and leave Frank, his daughter and grandchildren, and a lady friend in the nursing home.
I could see this story as a movie or TV series. It contains a mixture of hilarity and sadness. Reading it was a pleasure.
Joel is considered an unhappy, grumpy old man. When he retired he moved into a nursing home with his pleasant wife where they shared a room together. It has been three years since her sudden death. He has become despondent and increasingly withdrawn. When it is necessary to talk to the staff he is complaining or argumentative. A comatose patient was moved into his deceased wife’s bed and Joel’s longest dialogues are with this man who can neither hear him and answer back. When this comatose man died, Joel went into a depression and is contemplating suicide. He hates being told when to eat, sleep and take medications. He is estranged from his daughter and grandchildren. Because of a medical condition he cannot leave the nursing home grounds on his daughter’s orders.
His next roommate is a flamboyant, gay, former soap opera actor. The extroverted Frank Adams also goes by his stage name, Frank De Selby. Frank is outwardly optimistic, likes entertaining with his stories and jokes. He is very popular with the other residents. The two men, this ‘curmudgeon’ and the ‘popinjay’ strike up an unlikely friendship. Joel confides his plans to commit suicide. Frank does not dissuade him but criticizes the methods which Joel is contemplating. He says he needs to find the perfect method to end his life and he will help him plan. While causing Joel to postpone the act, the two men sneak out of the nursing home on four occasions and embark in a series of life-affirming adventures while enjoying the nightlife in the city.
Joel is now enjoying life when away from the nursing home. Suicide is receding from his mind. He reconciles with his family and does not want to die and leave Frank, his daughter and grandchildren, and a lady friend in the nursing home.
I could see this story as a movie or TV series. It contains a mixture of hilarity and sadness. Reading it was a pleasure.
June 25, 2019
We meet Joel, who upon the death of his roommate experiences an existential crisis. Hilltop, where he has been living for some years, seems very nice for an assisted living establishment, a place where the staff is caring and the residents are afforded a certain amount of luxury. There appears not to be too much in the way of stimulation, however, which encourages Joel to become morosely introspective. Enter Frank, a new roommate.
I was strongly reminded of A Man Called Ove, in which the central person having lost his focus and will to live, is granted a second wind so to speak from an unlikely source. Also of The Secret Diary of Henrik Groen in its depiction of making the best out of life in assisted living. Through Joel we are reminded of the theory that you're never too old to learn something that will change your world view.
I was strongly reminded of A Man Called Ove, in which the central person having lost his focus and will to live, is granted a second wind so to speak from an unlikely source. Also of The Secret Diary of Henrik Groen in its depiction of making the best out of life in assisted living. Through Joel we are reminded of the theory that you're never too old to learn something that will change your world view.
April 20, 2019
Genre: General Fiction
Publisher: Trade Publishing
Pub. Date: June 25, 2019
This tenderly written novel is both depressing and hilarious. The plot revolves around two old men living in a nursing home. Think “A Man Called Ove” meets “The Odd Couple.” One is an introverted curmudgeon who has been there for years and considers his place of residency a prison. He walks around all day in his pajamas. In younger years he was a working-class mechanic who owned the shop. Nowadays, he desperately misses being the boss. He has given up on life and has suicidal thoughts. The other old dude is a sweetheart who has just moved in. He once worked as a soap opera actor. He is flamboyant, extraverted and just happens to be gay. This man dresses meticulously and always wears an accent scarf. He makes the best out of the living in the home, though he too misses his working life. The author has them sharing a room opening up all sorts of humor. Mooney does a great job nailing their differences and incompatibility. In the “outside world” they would never have been friends, but “locked up” together they create an unbreakable ying-yang friendship.
The real meat on the bones of the story is how the elderly are often thrown aside and made to feel isolated and useless. Mooney shows this best when the two old men sneak out to visit the mechanic’s old shop. The reader will feel the weight of depression when the mechanic realizes that now he is just an intruder and is asked to leave the premises. The author skillfully handles the sensitive subject of suicide. And somehow manages to make humor work so it doesn’t read all doom and gloom. He does this without minimizing the seriousness of suicidal ideation. Not an easy task. At times the writing gets sweetly/schmaltzy with a family reconnecting. Nor is the plot always believable. If you have ever been in a nursing home you know that sneaking out is unlikely. Still, reading about two old man enjoying high school antics is fun to read. If you are in the mood for a story that will make you cry and laugh at the same time this one is for you.
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Publisher: Trade Publishing
Pub. Date: June 25, 2019
This tenderly written novel is both depressing and hilarious. The plot revolves around two old men living in a nursing home. Think “A Man Called Ove” meets “The Odd Couple.” One is an introverted curmudgeon who has been there for years and considers his place of residency a prison. He walks around all day in his pajamas. In younger years he was a working-class mechanic who owned the shop. Nowadays, he desperately misses being the boss. He has given up on life and has suicidal thoughts. The other old dude is a sweetheart who has just moved in. He once worked as a soap opera actor. He is flamboyant, extraverted and just happens to be gay. This man dresses meticulously and always wears an accent scarf. He makes the best out of the living in the home, though he too misses his working life. The author has them sharing a room opening up all sorts of humor. Mooney does a great job nailing their differences and incompatibility. In the “outside world” they would never have been friends, but “locked up” together they create an unbreakable ying-yang friendship.
The real meat on the bones of the story is how the elderly are often thrown aside and made to feel isolated and useless. Mooney shows this best when the two old men sneak out to visit the mechanic’s old shop. The reader will feel the weight of depression when the mechanic realizes that now he is just an intruder and is asked to leave the premises. The author skillfully handles the sensitive subject of suicide. And somehow manages to make humor work so it doesn’t read all doom and gloom. He does this without minimizing the seriousness of suicidal ideation. Not an easy task. At times the writing gets sweetly/schmaltzy with a family reconnecting. Nor is the plot always believable. If you have ever been in a nursing home you know that sneaking out is unlikely. Still, reading about two old man enjoying high school antics is fun to read. If you are in the mood for a story that will make you cry and laugh at the same time this one is for you.
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April 2, 2019
I received a complimentary copy of this e-book ARC from the author, publisher, and Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
Joel Monroe is tired of the nursing home prison he lives in and wants to end it all. When he meets the flamboyant retired Soap Opera star Frank De Selby, they can't stand each other. Can this odd couple become friends and enjoy life to the fullest or will Joel eventually end it all? Read on and find out for yourself.
This was a pretty good and heart-warming novel. The two main characters reminded me of the Odd couple and grumpy old men. If you like those films and heart-warming novels, be sure to check this book out when it officially releases in bookstores and wherever you buy books at on June 25, 2019.
Joel Monroe is tired of the nursing home prison he lives in and wants to end it all. When he meets the flamboyant retired Soap Opera star Frank De Selby, they can't stand each other. Can this odd couple become friends and enjoy life to the fullest or will Joel eventually end it all? Read on and find out for yourself.
This was a pretty good and heart-warming novel. The two main characters reminded me of the Odd couple and grumpy old men. If you like those films and heart-warming novels, be sure to check this book out when it officially releases in bookstores and wherever you buy books at on June 25, 2019.
August 2, 2018
An utterly charming, thought provoking and heartfelt tale, this book moved me to tears, from sadness and hilarity, and I just could not put it down until I'd finished.
Joel lives in a nice nursing home, but following the death of his wife a few years previously, he has shut himself off from everyone and decided to end his life. Then Frank arrives to take the other bed in his room. Debonair, retired soap actor and life and soul of the party, Frank is a breath of fresh air in the home, and eventually coaxes Joel out of his shell. When Joel confides in him that he wants to end his life, Frank decides that no ordinary suicide is acceptable, and they set out together to find the perfect way for Joel to die.
Depressing? Not in the least, as Dan Mooney has created such excellent characters in Frank and Joel that you become completely wrapped up in their escapades, which are frankly hilarious at times. I had such a vivid picture of them when they were 'escaping' the nursing home I was chuckling like crazy. I also blubbed though, for the characters, and how our elderly citizens are looked on by society in general. It is a very thought provoking read. If I could give this more than 5 stars I would and I'm putting it out there now that this needs to be made into a film or adapted for television, it would be perfect for it!
*I received a copy of the book from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
Joel lives in a nice nursing home, but following the death of his wife a few years previously, he has shut himself off from everyone and decided to end his life. Then Frank arrives to take the other bed in his room. Debonair, retired soap actor and life and soul of the party, Frank is a breath of fresh air in the home, and eventually coaxes Joel out of his shell. When Joel confides in him that he wants to end his life, Frank decides that no ordinary suicide is acceptable, and they set out together to find the perfect way for Joel to die.
Depressing? Not in the least, as Dan Mooney has created such excellent characters in Frank and Joel that you become completely wrapped up in their escapades, which are frankly hilarious at times. I had such a vivid picture of them when they were 'escaping' the nursing home I was chuckling like crazy. I also blubbed though, for the characters, and how our elderly citizens are looked on by society in general. It is a very thought provoking read. If I could give this more than 5 stars I would and I'm putting it out there now that this needs to be made into a film or adapted for television, it would be perfect for it!
*I received a copy of the book from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
June 23, 2019
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The Great Unexpected by Dan Mooney is a clever novel about the escapades of two elderly men in a nursing home.
Joel is grumpy. He lives in a nursing home, but that’s the last place he wants to be. He feels like a prisoner, always being told what to do, when to eat, when to sleep. He misses his freedom, and dreams of the days he spent with his late wife.
Enter Frank, Joe’s newest roommate, an eccentric retired soap opera actor who could charm the stripes off of a tiger. Frank is bubbly. He’s lively. And he thoroughly enjoys goading Joel.
When Joel tells Frank that he wants to break out of the nursing home and end his life, Frank is all in. Sort of. Frank convinces Joel that he needs to make a statement. His death has to be a big deal, something people talk about. Joel agrees.
So the two unlikely friends get up to enough mischief that even a wayward teenager would be proud. Roof escapes, alcohol, and a dance club are definitely involved!
I wasn’t sure what to expect when I started to read The Great Unexpected by Dan Mooney, but I was pleasantly surprised by the creative story and the delightful characters.
While The Great Unexpected was humorous, it was also dark in a way that I hadn’t anticipated. Joel wants to end his life, because he feels like he has nothing left. Joel believes the nursing home’s only purpose is to tend to him before he dies. It’s a dumping grounds for the feeble and elderly. There’s no hope in a nursing home: everyone is just waiting to die.
I’ve always found nursing homes depressing. I worked at one for four years when I was in high school, and while the employees always did their best to keep things lively and positive, it was hard to overshadow the fact that death was ever-present. In the four years I worked there, I saw people come and go. It was never easy, so I understand Joel’s point of view.
Frank was exactly what Joel needed. Frank is steadfast and optimistic. His glass is always half full. He made Joel’s life a little bit better just by being in it.
The ending was surprising and yet not. I had a sneaking suspicion that the book was going to end the way it did. While it was sad, it also had a hopeful note. Even though life changes and circumstances change, you can always find something that makes life worth living.
If you enjoy literary fiction and appreciate the antics in the movie Grumpy Old Men, check out The Great Unexpected by Dan Mooney!
Thank you to TLC Tours and the publisher for providing a finished copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
The Great Unexpected by Dan Mooney is a clever novel about the escapades of two elderly men in a nursing home.
Joel is grumpy. He lives in a nursing home, but that’s the last place he wants to be. He feels like a prisoner, always being told what to do, when to eat, when to sleep. He misses his freedom, and dreams of the days he spent with his late wife.
Enter Frank, Joe’s newest roommate, an eccentric retired soap opera actor who could charm the stripes off of a tiger. Frank is bubbly. He’s lively. And he thoroughly enjoys goading Joel.
When Joel tells Frank that he wants to break out of the nursing home and end his life, Frank is all in. Sort of. Frank convinces Joel that he needs to make a statement. His death has to be a big deal, something people talk about. Joel agrees.
So the two unlikely friends get up to enough mischief that even a wayward teenager would be proud. Roof escapes, alcohol, and a dance club are definitely involved!
I wasn’t sure what to expect when I started to read The Great Unexpected by Dan Mooney, but I was pleasantly surprised by the creative story and the delightful characters.
While The Great Unexpected was humorous, it was also dark in a way that I hadn’t anticipated. Joel wants to end his life, because he feels like he has nothing left. Joel believes the nursing home’s only purpose is to tend to him before he dies. It’s a dumping grounds for the feeble and elderly. There’s no hope in a nursing home: everyone is just waiting to die.
I’ve always found nursing homes depressing. I worked at one for four years when I was in high school, and while the employees always did their best to keep things lively and positive, it was hard to overshadow the fact that death was ever-present. In the four years I worked there, I saw people come and go. It was never easy, so I understand Joel’s point of view.
Frank was exactly what Joel needed. Frank is steadfast and optimistic. His glass is always half full. He made Joel’s life a little bit better just by being in it.
The ending was surprising and yet not. I had a sneaking suspicion that the book was going to end the way it did. While it was sad, it also had a hopeful note. Even though life changes and circumstances change, you can always find something that makes life worth living.
If you enjoy literary fiction and appreciate the antics in the movie Grumpy Old Men, check out The Great Unexpected by Dan Mooney!
Thank you to TLC Tours and the publisher for providing a finished copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
December 18, 2018
There is something heart warming and sweet about an old curmudgeon. But don't you dare say that to Joel Monroe. He will threaten to punch you right in the kisser. And it is sort of an enduring quality about him. He has fiest and spirit, but he doesn't see it in himself anymore. The world basically views him as a child forcing him to follow their rules. All he wants is a choice. And taking his life is a decision he can make all on his own. One day Frank enters Joel's world. Frank is an old soap star with a scarf for all of his moods. Together Frank and Joel turn the nursing home upside down. But is it enough to change Joel's mind?
What can I say about The Great Unexpected? It is was hilarious! And I absolutely loved this story. It was a bit reminiscent of A Man Called Ove in various ways. But instead of a youthful family mucking up the works, it's Frank a man older than Joel. Together Joel and Frank are a pretty damn great duo of mischief. Their banter and back and forth comments will have you laughing out loud. Not just a smirk, a laugh loud enough for your dog to look over at you with a mean mug because you disrupted their slumber. Their antics and teenage ways will have you hoping to be half as cool at their age. And lastly, their willingness to have open minds to accept things considered taboo during their youth will having you feeling a certain sort of way. This team is deviously wonderful, an unforgettable couple of dudes.
I also really appreciated the new perspective. Often times, I consider getting older meaning losing your youthful looks. I haven't put much thought into the changes you experience. How life can happen and alter your circumstances putting your children in charge of your life. You might experience losing a spouse who you've spent a better part of your life with. Or losing the ability to make decisions on your own about your health and well being. Getting older can mean losing someone you've known your whole life, yourself. This getting old thing can be hard and unbearable. Not that I know yet, but I now have a better idea of some of thoughts running through a grandparents mind.
Overall, this story was really fun. It has such a spark of life to it which is ironic given the suicide subject matter. You really do root for Joel to change his mind. But life isn't always sweet and books don't always end how we want. Just know, you should add The Great Unexpected to your bucket list.
Thank you NetGalley and HARLEQUIN - Trade Publishing for approving my request. This will be a 2019 hit.
What can I say about The Great Unexpected? It is was hilarious! And I absolutely loved this story. It was a bit reminiscent of A Man Called Ove in various ways. But instead of a youthful family mucking up the works, it's Frank a man older than Joel. Together Joel and Frank are a pretty damn great duo of mischief. Their banter and back and forth comments will have you laughing out loud. Not just a smirk, a laugh loud enough for your dog to look over at you with a mean mug because you disrupted their slumber. Their antics and teenage ways will have you hoping to be half as cool at their age. And lastly, their willingness to have open minds to accept things considered taboo during their youth will having you feeling a certain sort of way. This team is deviously wonderful, an unforgettable couple of dudes.
I also really appreciated the new perspective. Often times, I consider getting older meaning losing your youthful looks. I haven't put much thought into the changes you experience. How life can happen and alter your circumstances putting your children in charge of your life. You might experience losing a spouse who you've spent a better part of your life with. Or losing the ability to make decisions on your own about your health and well being. Getting older can mean losing someone you've known your whole life, yourself. This getting old thing can be hard and unbearable. Not that I know yet, but I now have a better idea of some of thoughts running through a grandparents mind.
Overall, this story was really fun. It has such a spark of life to it which is ironic given the suicide subject matter. You really do root for Joel to change his mind. But life isn't always sweet and books don't always end how we want. Just know, you should add The Great Unexpected to your bucket list.
Thank you NetGalley and HARLEQUIN - Trade Publishing for approving my request. This will be a 2019 hit.
August 26, 2020
I loved this book. The story takes place in Hilltop Nursing home and is about an unlikely friendship between two of the residents, Joel and Frank. I am always a sucker for stories with more mature characters (like Harold Fry and Arthur Truluv, etc) and this was no exception. I adored these two men and happily followed along in their adventures and their ups and downs. I giggled and I cried and my heart was brimming with love for these endearing characters. Along with them, were several other residents and staff of the nursing home, all very unique and lovable in their own way.
November 18, 2018
The Great Unexpected tells the story of 75 year old Joel Monroe, who has been forced to retire to a nursing home. He has survived his beloved wife and his comatose room mate. He is a cranky curmudgeon and one day he decides that it is time to end things and join his deceased wife. He gives the nursing staff at the nursing home a terrible time, but his new room mate, Frank, a former soap opera star, teaches Joel that he has been looking at everything in a negative light: that the nurses and his daughter do in fact care for him, and are his family. Joel Monroe may feel that his life is not worth living, that he has lost his independence and a reason to live, but his friend Frank teaches Joel that life will not always stay the same, and that we must make the best of every day we have left. There are some humorous antics which will amuse most readers. (Thanks to the publisher and to NetGalley for providing me with an advance copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.)
May 30, 2025
English version below
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Wenn man sich am Klappentext orientiert, erwartet man eine berührende Geschichte mit vielen witzigen Dialogen und Situationen über einen alten Mann, der an seinem Leben im Altenheim verzweifelt aber dann, hauptsächlich wegen seines neuen Zimmernachbarn, die Freude am Leben zurückgewinnt.
Diese Erwartungen haben sich für mich nicht so recht erfüllt. Nach 150 Seiten fand ich noch keine Szene witzig, sondern nur bestenfalls peinlich (und über sowas kann ich nicht lachen) und anrührend kann ich nur eine Geschichte finden, in der ich einen Bezug zu den Charakteren herstellen kann. In diesem Buch fand ich den Protagonisten leider vorwiegend unsympathisch und unausstehlich (ja, ich weiß er ist letztlich ein armes Schwein, aber trotzdem) und sein neuer Zimmernachbar Frank, der eigentlich der funny sidekick sein soll, ist unter seiner jovialen und kontaktfreudigen Oberfläche auch nur ein vom Leben gebeutelter armer Kerl.
Mir fehlte also zum einen das Interesse, wie es mit den Charakteren weitergeht, zum anderen ist auch alles recht vorhersehbar.
Das Buch ist nicht furchtbar schlecht, aber für mich nicht interessant genug, um weitere Lesezeit darauf zu verwenden.
DNF nach 40 %. 2,5 Sterne, abgerundet.
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If you read the blurb, you would expect a touching story with lots of funny dialogue and situations about an old man who despairs of his life in an old people's home but then, mainly because of his new roommate, regains the joy of life.
These expectations didn't really materialise for me. After 150 pages, I still didn't find any scene funny, just embarrassing at best (and I can't laugh at that sort of thing) and I can only find a story touching if I can relate to the characters. In this book, unfortunately, I found the protagonist mostly unlikeable and obnoxious (yes, I know he's ultimately a poor bastard, but still) and his new roommate Frank, who is supposed to be the funny sidekick, is also just a poor guy who's been battered by life underneath his jovial and outgoing surface.
So on the one hand, I lacked interest in what happens next with the characters, and on the other, everything is quite predictable.
The book is not terribly bad, but not interesting enough for me to spend any more time reading it.
DNF after 40%. 2.5 stars, rounded down.
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Wenn man sich am Klappentext orientiert, erwartet man eine berührende Geschichte mit vielen witzigen Dialogen und Situationen über einen alten Mann, der an seinem Leben im Altenheim verzweifelt aber dann, hauptsächlich wegen seines neuen Zimmernachbarn, die Freude am Leben zurückgewinnt.
Diese Erwartungen haben sich für mich nicht so recht erfüllt. Nach 150 Seiten fand ich noch keine Szene witzig, sondern nur bestenfalls peinlich (und über sowas kann ich nicht lachen) und anrührend kann ich nur eine Geschichte finden, in der ich einen Bezug zu den Charakteren herstellen kann. In diesem Buch fand ich den Protagonisten leider vorwiegend unsympathisch und unausstehlich (ja, ich weiß er ist letztlich ein armes Schwein, aber trotzdem) und sein neuer Zimmernachbar Frank, der eigentlich der funny sidekick sein soll, ist unter seiner jovialen und kontaktfreudigen Oberfläche auch nur ein vom Leben gebeutelter armer Kerl.
Mir fehlte also zum einen das Interesse, wie es mit den Charakteren weitergeht, zum anderen ist auch alles recht vorhersehbar.
Das Buch ist nicht furchtbar schlecht, aber für mich nicht interessant genug, um weitere Lesezeit darauf zu verwenden.
DNF nach 40 %. 2,5 Sterne, abgerundet.
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If you read the blurb, you would expect a touching story with lots of funny dialogue and situations about an old man who despairs of his life in an old people's home but then, mainly because of his new roommate, regains the joy of life.
These expectations didn't really materialise for me. After 150 pages, I still didn't find any scene funny, just embarrassing at best (and I can't laugh at that sort of thing) and I can only find a story touching if I can relate to the characters. In this book, unfortunately, I found the protagonist mostly unlikeable and obnoxious (yes, I know he's ultimately a poor bastard, but still) and his new roommate Frank, who is supposed to be the funny sidekick, is also just a poor guy who's been battered by life underneath his jovial and outgoing surface.
So on the one hand, I lacked interest in what happens next with the characters, and on the other, everything is quite predictable.
The book is not terribly bad, but not interesting enough for me to spend any more time reading it.
DNF after 40%. 2.5 stars, rounded down.
September 6, 2023
It’s bringing to mind a senior Randle Patrick McMurphy, as Joel Monroe is stuck in a nursing home, plotting his escape. Only the escape is suicide. Abetting this plot is his counter ego in the form of Frank de Selby, retired actor of minimal renown, but great character. The two share a room and soon shenanigans that render Joel set for psychiatric evaluation as he bucks the rules and “prison-like” control over his life. It’s a bro-com screaming the big screen.
August 17, 2021
This book reminded me of A Man Call Ove – a cantankerous old man who is lonely since his wife died is contemplating suicide. Also, just like in that book, new neighbors move in to insert themselves into his life and he notices that he isn’t lonely anymore. In this case, Joel is in a nursing home and is not allow to leave unsupervised due to a mini-stroke he had off the property the previous year. He is lonely since his wife died and spends his time playing chess with a man who cannot carry on a conversation, watching soap operas and taking walks, all just to pass the time until he can go to sleep and put another day behind him. Then he gets a new roommate, Frank, who sweeps in and changes Joel’s routine. Frank is lonely in his own way. A former actor who is gay, he misses performing and often spends his days putting on a front to amuse his fellow residents. Joel sees through his mask and tries to get him to open up. Soon Joel is sharing his secret with Frank, that he wants to commit suicide, and they agree to work on it together. They plot ways to escape the home to discuss their plan and these are the best parts of the story. The escapades of old men climbing over large rocks and scaling walls is just too funny. One night of Joel & Frank’s freedom from the home was spent in the club frequented by Joel’s grandchildren and the older men became the life of the party, mascots for the younger generation to cheer on. Hilarious! But inevitably they have to go back to the home and each time they do they are caught and scolded by the head nurse and by Joel’s daughter, Eva. She is concerned about his wellbeing but also refuses to listen to Joel’s concerns of feeling imprisoned. This relationship was the most frustrating part of the story. While Joel comes to terms with his behavior as a father and apologies to Eva for his inattentiveness she never acknowledges his need to be treated like an adult who is still in control of his own faculties. I thought that Joel’s request to be included in the conversations regarding his care were completely reasonable, even if his ways of expressing his needs may have been a bit immature. But if no one is listening you have to make yourself heard somehow. Anyway, Joel agrees to talk to a therapist and he & Frank plan one last night out. It turns out to be their last hurrah is more ways than one because Frank passes away while they sit talking. Just slips away in the way that Joel longs to do. But Joel’s relationship with Frank has pulled him out of his loneliness, pushed him to repair his relationship with his daughter and nudged him to establish a kinship with his grandchildren. He begins dating a fellow resident who has had a crush on him for years and vows to live the rest of his life, whatever time her has left. This was equally funny and sad, touching and endearing. For some reason I thought that this was the first book of a series but apparently not. I wish we had more time with Joel & Frank – they were a hoot!
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
November 21, 2018
Maybe 4.5 stars. Thanks to Net Galley for the opportunity to preview this book. Heartwarming. Worthwhile and recommended.
December 4, 2018
“The world, he concluded, was moving on without his generation. It had always been that way, he guessed, but harder to accept when you’re on the receiving end of it.”
The Great Unexpected is a journey of regret and isolation. It’s the last stand of our connections to others while discovering the little things that give us a purpose, to be loved and sometimes to just feel alive again.
But it’s not all doom and gloom, frequent chinks of light shine through the dark from the antics of ‘lifers’, Joel and Frank. These ‘great escapers’ find ways to break out of their care home in an attempt to push aside the futility of their days and reassert their withering independence.
This playful rebellion allows them to embrace their little victories, the effect of which is utterly liberating. They make a great double-act as their feed off each other’s differences; Joel’s melancholic obstinacy Frank’s cloak of flamboyant confidence.
Although most of the action centres round the roommates, a wider network of residents, staff and dwindling family contribute to Joel’s fluctuating mental state. But for me it was the characters with the fewest lines that made the biggest impression. Miller, a man in a coma, didn’t utter one word of dialogue, yet the author somehow conveyed more than words. Joel’s one-sided banter was a simple but powerful action that made loneliness retreat, if only for a little while.
By the end I believe a fair few of these fictional folks had begun to regard others in a different light, and the transitions that take place are mercifully uplifting. It walks a very similar path to “A Man Called Ove” where a man has formulated strong opinions about his fate. But before anyone can be found they must realise they are lost.
December 15, 2018
I’m torn between 3 and 4 stars. It’s a big accident that I read this, since I stopped reading books by men. I went to a lot of trouble getting this book for someone here in America, where it’s not released. Well, the long story is that I got the book and then never got the address to send it to. It wasn’t just myself involved in getting the book here, but my father-in-law. He’s coming for Christmas and it was old-fashioned guilt that made me pick it up to read. I’m afraid he’s going to ask me about it and I have to have an opinion or it will be like, “Then why did you make me go get this book at the Post office and then mail it to you?” I’m so glad I did read it, though! It’s a really fun read. It ends just how I thought it would, but I still cried. And I laughed a lot. I feel like I read this at a time when I needed a long reminder about what matters and how to live. So this may be a 3 star book (good, entertaining, and worth reading), but to me it’s probably a 4 star book (3 star plus slightly life changing.) (5 stars are reserved for books like The Idiot and Moby Dick. I may not have been consistent in the past, because sometimes the genre matters, but I’m trying to be now.) Anyway, it’s hard to rate a book you just read when you don’t know how it’s going to settle. You won’t regret reading this book, though. You’ll enjoy it, if you like novels. Even though a man wrote this, I wasn’t offended by dumbass portrayals of women. Here is a guy who knows something about people. You’d think this would be a prerequisite for writing about people, but it totally isn’t. (And it’s why I generally don’t give an eff what a man has to say in a book.) Even though this is an incredibly sappy and sentimental kind of book, it seems honest. You know what? It’s good. This is a good book. I’m going to give it to my father-in-law to read when he comes next week.
October 31, 2018
I absolutely loved Dan Mooney's first book "Me, Myself and Them" that I bought at the launch and was looking forward to his next one "The Great Unexpected", of which I missed the launch. When I met Dan in Limerick, not too long ago, I told him that I had bought the book and he told me that it was quite a different book than his first and maybe a bit darker. Ah well, I said, I read a lot of more serious, dark literature so I don't mind that at all.
I didn't read any of the goodreads reviews but just quickly scanned them for ratings and I saw that they were very positive and I can say, after reading, that I totally agree with that trend.
It all start with an old age pensioner who moved into a nursing home with his wife and feels completely lost after she dies. He feels trapped inside the home, can't find any meaning to his life, doesn't have a great relationship with his daughter and grandchildren and thinks of ending his life, which sounds like a very sad story but when Frank, a retired actor, becomes his roommate, things change.
It is a book about old age, the way older people often feel towards society and are often treated by society, but it is also a book about friendship, loss, regret, family, perception of people and places. It is sad, funny, uplifting and emotional. (Certainly towards the end I needed a box of tissues but I'm a soppy git when it comes to these things). It is one of these books you want to read in one session because it is such a nice story and it is well-told even though things are a little over-explained here and there but that doesn't take from the story.
This is a book that so fits the winter season because it is heartwarming and engaging and should really be turned into an alternative Christmas film. (It would be a lot better than all the crap that's already out there). It has the right mix of sadness, high spirits, sentimentality and dark humour. Highly recommended. Buy it. Read it. Treasure it.
And Dan Mooney, please write another book soon. I'm a fan.
I didn't read any of the goodreads reviews but just quickly scanned them for ratings and I saw that they were very positive and I can say, after reading, that I totally agree with that trend.
It all start with an old age pensioner who moved into a nursing home with his wife and feels completely lost after she dies. He feels trapped inside the home, can't find any meaning to his life, doesn't have a great relationship with his daughter and grandchildren and thinks of ending his life, which sounds like a very sad story but when Frank, a retired actor, becomes his roommate, things change.
It is a book about old age, the way older people often feel towards society and are often treated by society, but it is also a book about friendship, loss, regret, family, perception of people and places. It is sad, funny, uplifting and emotional. (Certainly towards the end I needed a box of tissues but I'm a soppy git when it comes to these things). It is one of these books you want to read in one session because it is such a nice story and it is well-told even though things are a little over-explained here and there but that doesn't take from the story.
This is a book that so fits the winter season because it is heartwarming and engaging and should really be turned into an alternative Christmas film. (It would be a lot better than all the crap that's already out there). It has the right mix of sadness, high spirits, sentimentality and dark humour. Highly recommended. Buy it. Read it. Treasure it.
And Dan Mooney, please write another book soon. I'm a fan.
December 23, 2021
Rating: 2.8 / 5
I went into this expecting something like The 100-Year-Old Man Who Climbed Out the Window and Disappeared.
That's not what I got.
Sure, it had its comedic moments, but ultimately the tone and the humor is much darker than one would expect. I had a few giggles, but no laughs. Also, I did not appreciate the teary-intended moments, and therefore skipped over them.
Wish it could've been otherwise, never mind the whole "life lessons" thing.
I went into this expecting something like The 100-Year-Old Man Who Climbed Out the Window and Disappeared.
That's not what I got.
Sure, it had its comedic moments, but ultimately the tone and the humor is much darker than one would expect. I had a few giggles, but no laughs. Also, I did not appreciate the teary-intended moments, and therefore skipped over them.
Wish it could've been otherwise, never mind the whole "life lessons" thing.
November 9, 2018
As contrived a situation as Mooney creates his story did have an impact on me. If it’s only a story about an old man who has lost his will to live, and him rediscovering a purpose, then it works.
But.. in telling the tale Mooney takes many liberties (are there shared rooms in homes for the aged?), not least through the image of the old persons’ home that he paints.
The writing is good, it’s about friendship and the good and bad in humanity. It makes me wonder if it was necessary to sensationalise his plot in such ways. If this becomes a bestseller though his plan maybe justified, so who am I to turn my nose up...
But.. in telling the tale Mooney takes many liberties (are there shared rooms in homes for the aged?), not least through the image of the old persons’ home that he paints.
The writing is good, it’s about friendship and the good and bad in humanity. It makes me wonder if it was necessary to sensationalise his plot in such ways. If this becomes a bestseller though his plan maybe justified, so who am I to turn my nose up...
May 22, 2024
Hi, selected this book on a recommendation. I am really grateful of this recommendation because the book was spectacular.
In fact, I’m not really remembering if I ever read a book about a nursing home before. As my age creeps up on me, it made a lot more sense than if I read it a younger time I love the way, the roommates healed, and the affection that they had
The best thing was the author explored the feelings of people who were trapped inside the nursing home.
I really enjoy this book and recommend it to everyone.
In fact, I’m not really remembering if I ever read a book about a nursing home before. As my age creeps up on me, it made a lot more sense than if I read it a younger time I love the way, the roommates healed, and the affection that they had
The best thing was the author explored the feelings of people who were trapped inside the nursing home.
I really enjoy this book and recommend it to everyone.
November 13, 2019
I really loved this book. Following two men who escape a nursing home together, this story is an adventure from the start. I loved our two leading men, Joel and Frank, and they made me smile throughout my entire reading experience. Really hard topics were handled with such grace and compassion, and I just left this book feeling really glad that I read it. I want to read many more books like this one!
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