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Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships A Collection of Al-Anon Personal Stories

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Over 1,300 Al-Anon members willingly shared their stories. They tell how their views and practices of intimacy, including sexual intimacy, were affected by alcoholism, and how Al-Anon’s tools and spiritual principles helped them change these views and practices. Courageous members share their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. “Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships”, is the hope that many other members can find hope and inspiration in expanding their recovery.

144 pages, Paperback

Published January 1, 2018

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484 reviews5 followers
December 6, 2020
This is a very short read, part of the conference approved literature in Al Anon/AA. I found it helpful in navigating a very difficult problem, but helped me understand some of the dysfunction I was experiencing. Trust is the foundation of any relationship, and is incredibly important for some of our most intimate relationships - but addiction will be the constant mistress chipping away at the trust later. Ultimately, everyone’s journey is their own and there isn’t a magic fix or a decision that works for everyone. This book helped me get perspective on my situation and make the decision I needed to for serenity and happiness in my life.
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September 18, 2022
I appreciate the diversity in stories. Great, quick read.
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1,281 reviews6 followers
January 11, 2019
Intimacy is about being able to share one's real, true self, with another person, whoever that might be. Many types and levels of intimacy and relationships are covered in this collection of personal stories from members of Al-Anon. Truly, any person could read, and benefit, from these sharings and perspectives.
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254 reviews
February 19, 2023
Read it. Amazing books on how relationships struggle when there are alcoholics on your life and how people have overcome their challenges.
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118 reviews3 followers
February 24, 2020
Full of hetero, homosexual, poly, monogamous stories.

A reminder in many stories that intimacy is not a euphemism for sex, but a journey of connection, gratitude, communication and so much more.

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October 17, 2025
Intimacy in Alcoholic Relationships by Al-Anon is a valuable guide for those navigating the complexities of relationships affected by alcoholism. Still, it also speaks to anyone on a journey of self-discovery or spiritual growth.

The book is divided into six parts,
Part One: Alcoholism and Intimacy
Part Two: Building and Rebuilding Trust
Part Three: Communicating Openly
Part Four: Negotiating Boundaries
Part Five: Spiritual Solutions
Part Six: Expressing Gratitude
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February 28, 2021
A powerful book that benefits anyone looking to improve their relationships.
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415 reviews43 followers
November 5, 2023
this book was extremely helpful, beneficial. it was relatable and made me emotional. this would help everyone to read.
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