100 maneras de criar hijos felices: Una guía para padres ocupados

by Timothy J. Sharp

Con 100 consejos prácticos, el psicólogo y padre de familia Timothy J. Sharp nos enseña a transmitirles a nuestros niños las mejores herramientas para construir vidas felices. Este libro fue escrito pensando en nosotros, los padres ocupados.

Como padres sabemos que nada es más importante que la felicidad de nuestros hijos. Pero ¿cómo enseñarles a ser felices cuando incluso para nosotros es un reto?

Con base en las investigaciones más recientes de «la ciencia de la felicidad», Sharp nos ayuda a lidiar con situaciones cotidianas como: 

• Establecer límites positivos y aceptar las emociones negativas
• Construir su carácter 
• Reconocer cuándo ya ha sido suficiente 
• Convertirnos en buenos modelos a seguir y reorganizar nuestras prioridades 

Repleta de anécdotas, ésta es la guía perfecta para quienes desean repensar su travesía por la montaña rusa de criar a los niños, el trabajo más importante del mundo.

Genres: Self Help, Nonfiction, Psychology, Personal Development

221 pages, Kindle Edition

First published August 4, 2008

About the author

Dr Tim Sharp is a highly-respected clinical psychologist at the forefront of Positive Psychology. He is a much sought after conference speaker and has a niche position in the media as the people's resource for happiness and wellbeing, going by the moniker 'Dr Happy'. Tim's broad appeal has seen him publish several books, including the best-seller 'The Good Sleep Guide', he writes a weekly column for the Sunday Telegraph (Body and Soul) and appears on ABC radio regularly. Note from the editor: Not only is positive psychology the most productive and far-reaching arm of clinical research, but Tim makes the most recent discoveries incredibly accessible for the busy person who simply wants proven techniques to improve their life today.

Reviews

[Andrei Cioată · Rating 2 out of 5]

Uităm să fim fericiți, iar ăsta e un adevăr deopotrivă foarte trist. În căutarea unui loc de muncă, în căutarea unei case mai mari, a unor mașini mai luxoase, a unor vacanțe mai exotice, părinți își doresc din ce în ce mai mult ca ai lor copii să aibă performanțe deosebite et cetera. Am devenit prea ocupați, prea absenți, pentru a da importanță componentei care le face pe cele de mai sus să merite osteneala: fericirea. Uităm, fraților, să fim fericiți. Și nu că ar fi un lucru greu să fim fericiți - dimpotrivă -, dar mereu lăsăm acest aspect deoparte că, deh, „am timp mai târziu să fiu fericit, acum am de făcut treburi care, la o adică, să mă facă fericit.” Și, totuși, cât să mai răbdăm până să atingem acea fericire la care, prin ceea ce facem, râvnim? O lună? Un an? O viață?

Recenzia aici: http://falled.blogspot.ro/2015/07/100...

[Niki Rowland · Rating 3 out of 5]

“Change what you can change. Accept what you can’t change. And learn to be wise enough to know the difference.”

[Princess Zainoo · Rating 3 out of 5]

كتاب خفيف ، كأغلب كتب التنمية محتوى الكتاب ليس جديد.

قرأت النسخة المترجمة من الكتاب

‘إذا كنت تقوم بتغييرات إيجابية صغيرة على نحو منتظم، فسوف تحصد في النهاية ثمار التغيير الحياتي الكبير. إن ترسيخ عادات جديدة يستغرق أربعة أسابيع على الأقل، ويتطلب من جانبك التكرار والالتزام’

‘ إن الشعور بالسعادة يمكن أن يتراكم بداخلك شيئاً فشيئاً ، إن المجهود القليل الذي تبذله اليوم سوف يمكنك من قطع شوط كبير غداً ’

‘ أكبر مساحة متاحة لك في العالم هي مساحة تحسين ذاتك ’

‘ المستقبل ليس مسألة حظ، وإنما مسألة اختيار،إنه ليس شيء ننتظره، ولكن شيء نحققه ’

[L7xm · Rating 2 out of 5]

رغم أني لا اقرأ في كتب التنمية البشرية كثيراً إلا أني وجدت أغلب ما إحتواه الكتاب مكرر في كتب أخرى من نفس تصنيفه..

الكتاب يحتوي على 100 طريقة او نصيحه للسعادة قسمها إلى خمسة أقسام :

1- 20 طريقة لترسيخ عادات السعادة
2- 20 طريق للحصول على جسد سعيد
3-20 طريقة لتكوين علاقات افضل
4-20 طريقة لعقل أكثر إيجابية
5-20 طريقه للتخطيط لحياة سعيدة

أسلوب الكتابة كان ممل جدا لكنه يعد السلبية الثانيه بعد التكرار و الأخيرة فالكاتب وضع للقارئ قصص و اقتباسات ملهمه لابد من شكره عليها، قراءة ما يهمك هي القراءة التي اتخذتها في هذا الكتاب، قرأته رغم إيماني الجازم بأن الطرق المئة لن تجلب السعادة مالم نعلق الإيمان بالله و نسير على ذلك الإيمان ، كتاب انصح الجميع بالاطلاع عليه

التقييم :2.5

[Dana Cristiana · Rating 4 out of 5]

I really liked this book! There are 100 pieces of advice for being happy, for having a better life, and so on.
Not all advice work for me, and that's why I gave it 4 stars, but there are a lot of good advice and I learned a lot of things. I will read it again, but this time I will take it step by step.
I recommend it to everyone!

[Elena Cata · Rating 3 out of 5]

I am referring at this book as a kindly reminder of the things we are supposed to do in order to be happy. Most of them we are already doing them, but there are some tricky ones too.. It was a nice book however

[Lori Song · Rating 2 out of 5]

Just common sense really

[Danita · Rating 2 out of 5]

Pretty basic stuff. Got some ideas that I will try. Written in small chapters so easy to read, lean and implement

[Yvette Bennett-Wright · Rating 5 out of 5]

Loved it!! Everyone should have this book. I am going to buy some and randomly send them to friends.

[Jolanta · Rating 5 out of 5]

Real, practical jewel. Every sentence is worth memorizing. I keep it at my bedside and read it over and over. Recommend for every reader 100%!

[Mike Lloyd · Rating 5 out of 5]

This little book is a great introduction to the concept of practicing happiness. I went 55 years before I stumbled upon the realization that our happiness is almost entirely dependent on how we think about ourselves and the world. You can cultivate greater happiness by practicing mindfulness and by training yourself to think positively. But be warned, changing how you think requires work and discipline.

I highly recommend that you begin to build these habits by daily reading one or two pages from a nice and simple book like Timothy's. This can take less than two minutes each day. Certainly, you can invest two minutes each day in an effort to be happier? Then as you find yourself becoming hopeful about the change that is occurring within you you will seek out more information on how mindfulness can make you happier.

[Yes, I want to grow · Rating 2 out of 5]

قرأته قبل ثلاثة أعوام ، استمتعت بقراءته حينها إلا اني حين أعدت قراءته من جديد وجدت أن أغلب المعلومات التي تحتويه مكررة في كثير من كتب تطوير الذات و أسلوب الكاتب جدًا ممل إلا انه سهل و بسيط و حجمه محدود و مناسب للمبتدئين بالقراءة و الذين سرعان ما يشعرون بالملل و الضجر ، هذا الكتاب مناسب لهم لأنه يحتوي على معلومات أساسية ! و لست ملزمًا بقراءته كاملًا حتى تصل المعلومات التي يريد الكاتب إصالها .
- الغلاف : النسخة المترجمة للعربية- غلافها جدًا سيء للأسف!

[Suxu · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book reminds me the simple and helpful things for happiness living. Good to read sometime when you want to have the reminder for happy life.
Actually, I'm not a big fan of this, but good to read.

[Zina Selmani · Rating 4 out of 5]

Such a good book I highly recommend it :Easy to understand and presenting many practical exemples. Everone should read about personal development before moving to serious things !

[Mihai-Andrei · Rating 3 out of 5]

2.8/3

[ghada MarȜe · Rating 2 out of 5]

الكلام المعتاد

[Alexandra Maria Steblea · Rating 4 out of 5]

o carte draguta cu multe solutii la toate problemele intampinate zi de zi.
o recomand si o sa o recitesc

[Dana · Rating 3 out of 5]

Easy commute lecture, with lots of small to dos and tiny ideas on how to invite happiness into your life. Takes an hour, useful for trains or planes.

[Ana Fantini Hoggett · Rating 2 out of 5]

I started this in 2017 and started to reread it in the last 2-3 weeks. Some useful tips that I can use.

[George Araman · Rating 3 out of 5]

Straight to the point guide

[Sabina-Nicoleta Furtună (Sally) · Rating 3 out of 5]

Advice for breeding a softie.

[Fluturiinlivada · Rating 5 out of 5]

Foarte buna si foarte rational conceputa, fara prea multe "floricele" de actualitate. Recomand cu mult drag!!!!

[مروان العقــّــــــــاد · Rating 4 out of 5]

كتاب رائع ظللت أأجل قراءته لأني كنت مشغول

[Brenda · Rating 4 out of 5]

A little book packed with 100 ideas to live your best life. Tips for everyday tasks, goals, affirmations and reaffirmations, positivity and happiness. Easy reading, thoughtful guide.

[Arroma Assada · Rating 5 out of 5]

كتاب رائع جدا
يحتوي على العديد من النصائح و الاستراتيجيات المفيده

[Qurrota A'yunin · Rating 3 out of 5]

Judul Buku : I’m Happy
Pengarang : Dr. Timothy J. Sharp
Penerbit : RaihAsaSukses (RAS)
Tahun Terbit : 2010
Kota Terbit : Jakarta
Jumlah Halaman : 218 halaman
I’m Happy

Kamu sibuk? kekurangan waktu untuk bahagia? Jangan sedih! Solusi terbaru ada di I’m Happy, dalam buku karangan Dr. Timothy J. Sharp ini terdapat kurang lebih 100 cara bahagia bagi orang sibuk. Jangan mengira ini bakal membosankan, justru kita akan dikagetkan dengan cara-cara simple yang selama ini tidak kita sadari. Cara-cara yang jika dioptimalkan akan membawa kebahagiaan dalam diri kita. Bukan hanya bagi orang sibuk, tapi bagi siapapun yang merasa hidupnya kurang bahagia. Tak perlu mengeluarkan biaya ataupun materi.
Bersyukur atas apa yang kita terima adalah anugrah paling berharga yang bisa kita rasakan. Mengapa kita terlalu berpikir bagaimana cara untuk bahagia? Sedangkan apa yang menjadi bagian diri kita adalah hal yang paling luar biasa yang pasti tidak dimiliki orang lain. Tetap optimis dalam menjalani hidup dan berpikir positif untuk hal-hal yang belum terjadi. Jangan terlalu mengkhawatirkan hal-hal yang belum tentu akan kita alami.
Hal yang diunggulkan dalam buku ini adalah penulis mencantumkan kata-kata motivasi yang bersumber dari tokoh-tokoh ternama yang patut kita jadikan motivasi dan akan lebih mudah kita memahaminya, juga gaya bahasa penulis sangat komunikatif. Namun, buku ini memiliki kekurangan, akan mudah bosan jika tidak focus dalam membaca. Juga dilihat dari cover mungkin orang tak akan tertarik.
Ingin merasakan manfaatnya? Jangan hanya lihat dari cover! Baca dan buktikan!
Timothy J. Sharp

[Bozga Paula · Rating 3 out of 5]

*Creierul eliberează endorfine - aceiași neuroemițători care ne fac să ne simțim în al nouălea cer când ne îndrăgostim.
* A fost demonstrat clinic că râsul relaxează corpul, îmbunătățește funcționalitatea mentală, îți crește imunitatea, te aproprie de ceilalți și, bineînțeles, îți susține moralul.
* Cele trei lucruri după care tânjim cel mai mult în viață - fericirea, libertatea și liniștea sufletească - sunt întotdeauna atinse dacă le oferim altcuiva. Oferă și fără îndoială că vei primi.
* Fericirea nu este o rază de lumină ce strălucește peste noi din ceruri, încălzindu-ne viețile în licărirea blândă a întâmplărilor norocoase.
* Navighează departe de portul siguranței. Prinde alizeele în pânzele tale. Explorează. Visează. Descoperă. - Mark Twain
* Consumul de alcool este un factor deprimant și, desigur, nu e bun pentru fericirea ta.
* Dacă refuzi să ierți, perpetuezi condiția ta de victimă: pentru că în fiecare minut în care ești trist sau supărat pierzi un minut în care ai putea fi fericit. Iertarea nu înseamnă pur și simplu să uiți ce a făcut cineva, să ierți sau să scuzi acțiunile lui, având încrederea irațional în judecata lui, renunțând la drepturile tale legale sau împăcându-te cu cineva, în cazul în care acel om pune în pericol siguranța sau sănătatea cuiva. Cu alte cuvinte, iertarea este condiționată de menținerea drepturilor și sentimentelor tale.

[♡ India ♡ · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a self-help book with 100 ways to be happy. And did it live up to its justice? Well, yes.

There is nothing in this book that will get you going like 'WOW!'. Most of these tips are reminders, things you probably had already known, just forgot about, which the exception of a few really good tips.

I bookmark pages when I read these types of books, so I'm going to tell you some tips that I think are great, without any spoilers :D :
tip #24 tip #67
tip #35 tip #95
tip #62 tip #100
These are just my personal favourites and might be different from yours.

Overall, if you need some reminding that you can still be happy when you're in a depressing situation, then I do recommend this book. It also won't take long to read, for those who don't particularly like reading :)

[Ran Max · Rating 5 out of 5]

i learned many things

[Anggitbanu · Rating 3 out of 5]

buku dengan ulasan2 ringan dan bermanfaat bagi orang yang sibuk :)