Stop Trying So F*cking Hard: Live Authentically, Design a Life You Love, and Be Happy

by Honoree Corder, Dino Marino (Illustrator)

“You can’t do the wrong thing with the right person. And, you can’t do the right thing with the wrong person.”If you struggle with self-doubt, anxiety, discouragement, indecision, comparison-itis, exhaustion, promising too much, copious amounts of stress, worry, even profound sadness—or any other number of hard-as-fuck internal challenges, the time has come for you to stop. Forever. Always remember, you are enough. Right now. Just as you are. So, stop. Breathe. You’re about to discover a more natural, less stressful, and more effective way of living. Imagine a world where you’re validated, you make decisions based on what you want, what brings you joy; a space where you’ll become more successful—authentically successful—and ultimately happier than you’ve ever been. After all, you only get one ride, one at-bat, one whirl on this rock. I hardly think it’s worth your time to be the least bit miserable. It’s time you enjoy life while you continue to grow, discover your best self, and love (almost) every minute. Grab your copy today!

Genres: Nonfiction

176 pages, Kindle Edition

Published September 18, 2018

About the author

Honorée Corder is the author of dozens of books, including Write Your First Nonfiction Book, You Must Write a Book, The Prosperous Writer book series, Vision to Reality, Business Dating, The Successful Single Mom book series, If Divorce is a Game, These are the Rules, and The Divorced Phoenix. She is also the co-creator of The Miracle Morning book series. Honorée coaches business professionals, writers, and aspiring non-fiction authors who want to publish their books to bestseller status, create a platform, and develop multiple streams of income. She also does all sorts of other magical things, and her badassery is legendary. You can find out more at HonoreeCorder.com.

Reviews

[Klinta · Rating 4 out of 5]

I really liked this book. It sort of tells you things that you already know, but at the same time are not conscious of and just tend to forget. And sometimes those are just things that make so much sense, but you have been blind to them or haven't realised them yet.

This book is spot on about how you should value yourself more than others and just be happy. How you should be yourself and care about yourself and what you love and want. And not only care but also take care and be proactive in making yourself happy.

It basically talks about putting yourself first and not giving a crap about other people. Which is a brilliant message because there are so many things that people "have" to care about starting from news, ending with what light bulb is the best for their room, environment and house elves. Being yourself and making yourself happy should be the main goal in your life and I totally agree with Honoree there.

[Lynn Foreman · Rating 5 out of 5]

I discovered Honoree's work after reading The Miracle Morning, which she is an instrumental part of. From there I gobbled up her work in You Must Write A Book. Now, in this, her latest release, I find her same direct yet entertaining style ready to help me focus on what needs to be done AND providing the map to get there. If you are ready for a dose of reality in an easy to digest format, grab a copy of this book! It should he in every personal growth oriented person's library.

[Kate M. Colby · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is the fourth book I've read by Honorée Corder, and I really enjoyed it. In all of her writing, I've found her narrative voice to be authentic, as well as informative and funny, so I was excited to read her thoughts on living a more authentic life.

Stop Trying So F*cking Hard has three main phases: exploring why people try too hard and where you are on your path to authenticity, explaining the benefits of living authentically and being true to yourself, and providing practical steps for being more authentic and designing a life that's perfect for you.

I happen to be in a transition period in my own life. As I enter my late 20s, I have felt more empowered and able to be my authentic self than ever before. But I still have areas to improve, such as letting go of people that don't fully support me and caring less about what others think of me. Honorée helped me find the areas I can still improve and celebrate the strides I've made. I'm looking forward to applying her wisdom in the next phase of my life.

Highly recommended for anyone who feels exhausted by all things they "have" to do. I'd also recommend this for aspiring entrepreneurs like myself and those who might have less traditional goals for their career or life.

[Carsten Hansen · Rating 5 out of 5]

I absolutely loved this book and its message. There are entirely too many things we do in life, thinking that we are doing the right things for the right reasons, but as it turns out, many are done because we think that it's the right thing to do rather than taking a firm look at the thing, the situation, the person looking back at you in the mirror and then making a decision. The book will help you look at your life and your priorities and focus on doing the things that matter for you and for those you truly appreciate and thereby help you accomplish the things will mean most for a long time to come. I took a lot of the advice in this book to heart and it has helped me reprioritize and reevaluate how I do things and live my life.

[Prudence Day · Rating 5 out of 5]

Stop Trying So Fucking Hard is a nice little kick in the pants. There is some cursing but it's not crude or filled to the brim with a lot of harsh language. Honorée though but honest. She encourages you to take full responsibility for your situation without shaming the reader. The book also has a nice handy section of practical tips to help you change your situation. I'm a big fan of mindset changes to help people move forward and Honorée does a good job of helping you get there. This is the most empowering book I've read in a long time.

[Tracey Pedersen · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is a fun book with lots of sayings that made me chuckle. Honoree Corder writes in a direct manner that makes you think. If you spend too much time worrying about what other people think of you, get this book today!

[Doug Branscombe · Rating 5 out of 5]

Honoree breaks down the ABC's of learning how to stop living the life you think others want you to live, and start living the life you want to live into actionable strategies and steps.

[Merri · Rating 5 out of 5]

This one is a game changer

My ebook is a rainbow from all the highlights. That is how many “I can do this” moments were in this book. I used to avoid phone calls, meetings, and any situation where I suspected someone was going to ask me to do something I wanted. With each application the avoidance strategies shifted to a win-win mindset. I also myself procrastinating less and getting more accomplished. This is one of those books that belongs on every person’s bookshelf.

[D. Eugene · Rating 4 out of 5]

Straight and to the point

A no nonsense guide with perfect steps to make a better you that not only others will like better but you’ll get a kick out of yourself too. I’ve read several of Honoree’s books and this one falls in line with the others. Stopping wasting time not being happy or procrastinating and just do it! I’m using her philosophy of writing a book 15 minutes a day to hopefully accomplish my own story. Thanks for the continued encouragement in your books!
Eugene

[Jill Wolfe · Rating 5 out of 5]

Get Your Head (& Heart) On Straight

This is the first book I’ve read of Corder’s, and I’m really curious to read more. She’s got a great “voice,” and the small details of her writing pulled me in. Seems like we’d have a lot to talk about over tea (since neither of us drinks alcohol) — relationships, affirmations, second marriages & more. *smile

[April Wood · Rating 5 out of 5]

Cheerleader-in-a-Kindle

There she goes again... layin’ it down & keepin’ it real! Thanks for another dependable, delightful kick in the pants, Honorée! Excellent, fast & bolstering read! 🙌🏽

[Julie Schooler · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a short book that states a lot of the same old self-help stuff but says it in a refreshing, albeit potty-mouth kind of way. It was the pep talk I needed to hear in these crazy times. Recommended.

[Louis Lamoureux · Rating 4 out of 5]

The book is profound but easy to read. I've read some of her books previously, and I had the good fortune to speak with her once. She is indeed authentic and uplifting. The book helps you consider your situation and assess if it can be better.

[Sharon Medina · Rating 2 out of 5]

Funny, witty, non nonsense writer. enjoyed the quick read. Good for those who simply care too much about others' opinions. The book gives you the "permission" to stop trying for f'ing hard :-)